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auscguy · 12-28-2006, 07:07 AM

Its 1am here in Australia and I feel like shit. I just dropped my gf of 18 months, I havent been happy for ages and it was always gonna happen, I just didnt want to hurt her.
I've never dumped anyone before really and didnt know how hard it would be, she didnt stop crying.
What made it worse, she hasnt got her licence yet so her parents had to come pick her up, and they live 2 hours away. I feel like the biggest asshole, I know that in the long run it was the right thing to do for both of us but doesnt make it any easier.....

Klen · 12-28-2006, 07:08 AM

Nop no need for that yet.

bausch · 12-28-2006, 07:10 AM

No, I'm too clingy and needy, I don't think I could dump someone. They would have to dump me first. Unless they cheated on me.

Cyndalie · 12-28-2006, 07:15 AM

Usually i just ignore them until they go away.

cardinalvices · 12-28-2006, 07:15 AM

well not everything in life is about fun and joy.
Some things may hurt like scars. But scars heal in time, so will your soul..
If you are not happy and she is, then this is not love. You shouldn't be thinking that you dumped her, you released her. You want her to be happy, but not with you.. I'd say you made a smart move man.

4Man · 12-28-2006, 07:16 AM

I did not.

Spunky · 12-28-2006, 07:17 AM

It's tough but if you aren't happy,why continue to be miserable

auscguy · 12-28-2006, 07:20 AM

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Originally Posted by cardinalvices

well not everything in life is about fun and joy.
Some things may hurt like scars. But scars heal in time, so will your soul..
If you are not happy and she is, then this is not love. You shouldn't be thinking that you dumped her, you released her. You want her to be happy, but not with you.. I'd say you made a smart move man.

Thanks, you are spot on when you say I want her to be happy, I want her to find a guy who loves her for her and makes her happy, just didnt think it'd hurt this much to do it.

reynold · 12-28-2006, 07:26 PM

I've been there several times, mate. She'll get through with that, for sure..

nAtuRaLbEautY · 12-28-2006, 08:06 PM

yeah, must have been several times. it's better to dump someone than to go on with the relationship even though you know that it's not gonna work out...

12-28-2006, 08:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Cyndalie

Usually i just ignore them until they go away.

LOL. That's my technique as well. Eventually they stop calling.

Martha_WildCash · 12-28-2006, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by evildick

LOL. That's my technique as well. Eventually they stop calling.

i guess im gonna have to try that one

E$_manager · 12-28-2006, 08:17 PM

May be you should first start to ignore her, make her hate you, so that it would be easier for her to apart from you?

shekinah · 12-28-2006, 08:22 PM

dumping someone really hurts and will consume more time to accept it

corvette · 12-28-2006, 08:22 PM

you did what you had to do

did the same think 1.5 years ago, it was rough

CaptainHowdy · 12-28-2006, 08:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Cyndalie

Usually i just ignore them until they go away.

Brilliant...

Rochard · 12-28-2006, 09:01 PM

Sometimes doing the right thing hurts.

Yeah, I've dumped many people. But to this day the biggest surprise was my ex-wife. She was stunning, beautiful, and no one I've dated since has been as much fun. I couldn't have been happier but there was one thing.... I couldn't accept. I drew a line and she was unwilling to meet me half way. Instead two weeks later I packed my stuff and asked her to drive me to the airport. Talk about a long ride.....

It happens. Not sure if I made the right choice or not, but I have to live with it.

en21 · 12-28-2006, 09:15 PM

only time will heal

rodney25 · 12-28-2006, 09:50 PM

If you think it's not working anymore, then she has to let go of you..

GAMEFINEST · 12-28-2006, 10:05 PM

dnt be a weak link......be a JEdi

12-28-2006, 07:07 AM	#1
auscguy Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: downunder Posts: 111	Have you ever dumped someone? Its 1am here in Australia and I feel like shit. I just dropped my gf of 18 months, I havent been happy for ages and it was always gonna happen, I just didnt want to hurt her. I've never dumped anyone before really and didnt know how hard it would be, she didnt stop crying. What made it worse, she hasnt got her licence yet so her parents had to come pick her up, and they live 2 hours away. I feel like the biggest asshole, I know that in the long run it was the right thing to do for both of us but doesnt make it any easier.....

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12-28-2006, 07:15 AM	#5
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12-28-2006, 07:08 AM	#2
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12-28-2006, 07:16 AM	#6
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Rochard Jägermeister Test Pilot Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: NORCAL Posts: 75,073	Sometimes doing the right thing hurts. Yeah, I've dumped many people. But to this day the biggest surprise was my ex-wife. She was stunning, beautiful, and no one I've dated since has been as much fun. I couldn't have been happier but there was one thing.... I couldn't accept. I drew a line and she was unwilling to meet me half way. Instead two weeks later I packed my stuff and asked her to drive me to the airport. Talk about a long ride..... It happens. Not sure if I made the right choice or not, but I have to live with it. __________________ “The choice is no longer between right or left. The choice is between normal and crazy.” - Sarah Huckabee Sanders

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