i've had a girlfriend throughout my entire 7 years in this biz. i broke up with my last girlfriend (also by far my most serious) about 4 months ago, after almost 5 years. the first significant length of time where i haven't been seeing someone while working in adult.
I have been married for 35 years. I just do mainstream now, but when I was in the business (3 1/2 years) she hated it, as did all of my adult children.
My better half knows everything as well.
she loves is just as much as i do...in fact i have NEVER met anyone "especialy" girls that dident think it soounded exciting, but then again thats only my luck i guess
Hell even one of my friends girlfriend asked if i could teach her the biz the first time i met her.
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She knows exactly what I do and knew what I did before we even started dating and she also works within the adult industry.
Think the hardest part is finding a new GF which doesn't mind what I do for living. You get tired of explaining what the business involves, how legal it is and being looked down upon because they simply have no grasp of the adult industry and thinks it's something seedy before you even explain it to them.
I don't think the younger generation bothers too much about what you do but the slightly older group of 35-45 have serious problems with it.... well that's what I've found up to now anyway.
A couple of years ago, my girlfriend looked at a few of the adult sites I liked to look at... We joked that we should make a site like those. A few months later, she was really interested (even more than I was) and before long we launched our first site, her amateur site.
So, yes, I have a girlfriend. And yes, she knows... since it was her idea, and she works with me on the business and models for both of our sites. :D
Let me say, and I'm pretty serious about this: There isn't much hope for a relationship with such a big secret. Also, I think not telling indicates a degree of shame. Perhaps someone ashamed of what he does should find a line of work he can talk about.
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My girlfriend of 6 1/2 years has been doing this with me since day one... both fulltime since the tail side of 1996 (she manages our pay sites and works on a lot of the new projects - I run the tech side of things). And yeah, she hates the business (lol), but only when stuff gets slow.
Both our families know what we do and none have a problem with it... and as was said - business is business...
Hmmm... I haven't had a girlfriend for a long time, but I do have a husband. The only problem he has with what I do is how much time I put into it... and I can't put up nudes of myself. As far as other family, they support what I do.
Hahaha.....Ok I'm the wife here, and about 3 years ago I came home to a proud hubby who had just submitted his first gallery -- this was his surprise for me -- big smile on his face. I blew a friggen fuse. Luckily he was persistant and eventually, I got into the business myself. The families know and they approve.
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I could get along well with my parents in law , until I told them what kinda work I did, they told their daughter to get rid of me.She did. But I wouldn't want any other job though!
Most of the time I get funny faces when I tell them what my job is.
I got a Gf who works in a dentist office, because i threw her out of my house when the bitch refused to work and fucking complained about me working with porn.
We still date since the sex is good but we dont live together anymore ;)
I've got a gf who's in highschool and is constantly asking me to make a paysite called "mosteroticasians.com" and give her a free membership. I actually almost did it for her birthday...
(if anyone steals the idea, please, give her a free membership )
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