If you will be doing it with every girl you meat, you will never have a girl. Trust me.
You broke the rule of privacy and tactfulness.

tactfulness is not getting caught. :2 cents:

bitches gotta make phone calls 2

Psychology 101. People who chronically cheat on their significant others assume everyone does the same. This post speaks volumes about you.

:(

Heh...she has Lorena Bobbit on speed dial. Should I be concerned?

My gf go through my cell phone every night seems like even though she never finds anything.

I'm glad she's never found the one I keep in my trunk in the emergency kit :pimp

I dont know why she don't trust me. She says she can just feel I'm up to no good some how
even though she can't prove it.

That´s what I thought about it.

I love how girls will say shit in text messages that they would never say on the phone or in person. Their such sluts, especialy at 2am. Not that there is anything wrong with sluts.

I accessed ones voice mail once, she used her birthdate for the password lol. Nothing in it though worth listening too.

Wow

What kind of girls are you guys dating?

I don't care if the guys I date go through my cell phone, address book, day planner, etc. I have nothing to hide.

The only rule I have is to stay out of my documents and files on my hard drive and my filing cabinet.

1. I'm a graduate student. I have papers I've written/am writing. Uni documents and forms. And lots of research. I don't want anybody mucking about in there. I've worked too hard to have some dude accidently delete or move a file.

2. Financial and personal information. THAT is nobody's business but my own. A boyfriend doesn't need to know my SS#, how much $$ I have or don't have, what I own, etc.

If I'm going out with a guy, then I'm going out with him. Just him.



Fuck, I hardly have time for one guy, let alone more.

After you get older, you will find that you honestly don't give a fuck anymore. :1orglaugh

Once upon a time, I used to do shit like that. Now, you could leave your cell phone, PDA, little black book, and wallet at my house for a week and I probably wouldn't even glance at it. Not because I'm a good and ethical person, but because I just honestly don't give a shit. :1orglaugh

I'm not sure if that makes me old... or jaded. :pimp

I don't cheat at all. Actually I am anti-social to the point where I don't even ASSOCIATE and have any friends with members of the opposite sex other than my significant other.

I have never EVER cheated, but I do read a lot of hooker message boards on-line, I see SO many men talking giving tips how they get away fucking around on their wives with hookers and prostitutes.

I am extremely disillusioned. I think most people in the world are cheaters.
I don't believe in good in the world.

I know it's not only men who cheat but women too. Most people in the world are evil.

I am paranoid because it is my worst nightmare to be cheated on, and sometimes I honestly feel I would rather be alone and single and be completely abstinent and have no sex at all, and never get married then take the chance and get cheated on. I would actually rather be alone. It's a phobia of mine to be cheated on.

Also I have to be extra vigilant because my signifcant other had a bad past. I really believe that past behaviour is indicative of future behavior.
They were promiscupus in the past. I think either way you can't win because someone who was promiscuous already knows what's "out there" so they might want the same thrill again. And someone without a lot of partners might wonder "what else is out there" or what their missing out on. So you're basically fucked period.

So you have to be vigilant no matter what. I read somewhere that a very high percentage of people cheat,so you have to be extra careful. People always think that bad things don't happen to them, but they do, to people just like you and me.

Do you want to live in a lie or do you want to live knowing the truth? I would never want to live in a lie. I have to know the full truth. I have nothing to hide. I would let my partner view my emails and phone messages and vm passwords.

I would rather know the truth and be miserable for the rest of my life than be happy and live in a lie not knowing.

So very true. :)

No, it is almost the same as listening on the phone her conversation.

Nothing wrong with it. She can look through mine and I can look through hers. If there's nothing to hide, then neither party should even care.

Don't be insecure and date some other insecure person who may ruin your insecurities.

It's that simple, yet so very difficult.

Like when you've lubed up and "accidentally" put it in the wrong hole... saying "Sorry, wrong hole" is such a simple answer, but doesn't cut it, sometimes.

*shrug*

Shit, between this and your post about camping outside people's houses, you scare me.

i don't follow you.

nice tricks, heh :thumbsup

been there, done that only twice.

Recent occurrence:

My gut instinct told me she was hiding something BIG. Talking on phone for a long time in the bathroom, on the back deck when its freezing out .. hanging up phone whenever i came in room.

I finally had enough and checked her call logs, text messages, recovered her deleted MSN chat history and confirmed everything

She had 3 other guys on the go. Fucking all 3.

Previous occurrence:

Girl moved in.. borrowed my cell a lot. Noticed weird text messages about a dude in love with her and her in love with him. Went on my computer and checked her IRC logs... yep. confirmed. Kicked her out.

I'd only ever do that if I suspected someone was up to something and they were unable to talk about it or got super defensive about certain questionable actions.

Yeah, gut feelings never failed for me too...