Why do people settle to be with someone who totally do not fit them?

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  • MetaMan
    I AM WEB 2.0
    • Jan 2003
    • 28682

    #1

    Why do people settle to be with someone who totally do not fit them?

    Isnt it great when you meet a chick that gives you a deepthroat whenever you feel like it, will get up at 3:30 am to make you something to eat after a long night of sex, then after she makes you food roll you a blunt to smoke for when you are done eating?

    This is the current girl i am with, i love when a woman takes care of their man, i never date these "i dont give blowjobs" bitches and i have no idea why anyone does.

    I also have no idea why people settle to be with someone that are complete losers. I have a buddy who announced yesterday that he is going to propose this year to his girlfriend. They have been together for 5-6 years since high school and she has gained probably 40 pounds since then, has the personality of a cashew and constantly complains. He on the other hand is fit, outgoing, and relatively good looking.

    I have no idea why people settle for these kinds of women, are people really THAT desperate? i guess so.
  • MetaMan
    I AM WEB 2.0
    • Jan 2003
    • 28682

    #2
    Take a good look at your woman, does she cook for you? does she fuck you the way you want to be fucked?

    if the answer is no to either of these questions then why the fuck are you with them?

    "LOVE"? love is pure bullshit when you are blinded by a fat bitchy girlfriend.

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    • reynold
      Too lazy to set a custom title
      • Oct 2002
      • 51271

      #3
      Those are lost souls that need to be saved by us..

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      • Rui
        web
        • Dec 2001
        • 9533

        #4
        The same reason people settle with a job they hate...

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        • ForteCash
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          • Feb 2006
          • 3278

          #5
          Afraid to be alone. A lot of people are very needy and codependent

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          • rodney25
            Confirmed User
            • Jun 2005
            • 7090

            #6
            Exactly where the word "LOSERS" came from.


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            • AdultHardcore
              Confirmed User
              • Apr 2006
              • 338

              #7
              People settle because things are almost always great in the beginning and think things will go back to the way there were but they never do.
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              • CaptainHowdy
                Too lazy to set a custom title
                • Dec 2004
                • 94733

                #8
                I gotta get me one of those Russian girlfriends!

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                • lelahosting
                  Confirmed User
                  • Aug 2004
                  • 484

                  #9
                  Originally posted by AdultHardcore
                  People settle because things are almost always great in the beginning and think things will go back to the way there were but they never do.

                  and they dont want change now

                  or if married..to pay her off

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                  • alexg
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                    • Aug 2003
                    • 11287

                    #10
                    that's a good question...

                    some people don't have great expectations from life

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                    • Kevsh
                      Confirmed User
                      • Dec 2004
                      • 8619

                      #11
                      So you base the viability of a relationship on how willing she is to give head? Okay, there's nothing wrong with that for a girlfriend .. but when it comes time to getting serious, I hope you raise the bar a little

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                      • _Richard_
                        Too lazy to set a custom title
                        • Oct 2006
                        • 30991

                        #12
                        Originally posted by Kevsh
                        So you base the viability of a relationship on how willing she is to give head? Okay, there's nothing wrong with that for a girlfriend .. but when it comes time to getting serious, I hope you raise the bar a little
                        jesus.. so do i..

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                        • BlackCrayon
                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                          • Jun 2003
                          • 19634

                          #13
                          theres much more to a relationship than a servant.
                          you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

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                          • Ramos2
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                            • Dec 2004
                            • 11927

                            #14
                            Originally posted by MetaMan
                            then after she makes you food roll you a blunt to smoke for when you are done eating..
                            Had the perfect girl while I was in college...japanese, she cooked her ass off and rolled the fattest blunts, her favorite were royal blunt raps....especially chocalate....

                            thanks for the memories
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                            • L-Pink
                              working on my tan
                              • Mar 2005
                              • 39151

                              #15
                              Originally posted by BlackCrayon
                              theres much more to a relationship than a servant.
                              No way ...

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                              • RogerV
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                                • Jul 2002
                                • 12591

                                #16
                                I totally agree

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                                • pimplink
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                                  • Jun 2001
                                  • 9535

                                  #17
                                  I guess because people are afraid of exploring the unknown.

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                                  • Peaches
                                    Old broad
                                    • Oct 2002
                                    • 13933

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by MetaMan
                                    I have a buddy who announced yesterday that he is going to propose this year to his girlfriend. They have been together for 5-6 years since high school and she has gained probably 40 pounds since then, has the personality of a cashew and constantly complains. He on the other hand is fit, outgoing, and relatively good looking.

                                    I have no idea why people settle for these kinds of women, are people really THAT desperate? i guess so.
                                    Maybe what you're looking for in a woman isn't what your friend is looking for in a woman. Different strokes for different strokes. He loves her, he wants to spend the rest of his life with her. Can you say the same about who you're with? He might end up on the better end of the deal

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                                    • MetaMan
                                      I AM WEB 2.0
                                      • Jan 2003
                                      • 28682

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by Peaches
                                      Maybe what you're looking for in a woman isn't what your friend is looking for in a woman. Different strokes for different strokes. He loves her, he wants to spend the rest of his life with her. Can you say the same about who you're with? He might end up on the better end of the deal
                                      Love is blind, and sometimes pure bullshit, this is why the divorce rate is so high, it is because people base their entire lives around someone then oneday finally realise that they are not happy.

                                      You are supposed to marry someone who compliments who you are and someone you can be yourself around, not with someone because you dont know any better.

                                      I do not even think this girl knows who he really is, he changed his entire personality just to suite her, which is a main reason why they will not last.

                                      I have been in love but never wanted to get married, i dont need marriage for me to tell i love someone, maybe one day i will, after the fact i have expierienced more of life. I would never want that feeling when i am old of "what did i miss" and i think getting married can do this to alot of people.

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                                      • MetaMan
                                        I AM WEB 2.0
                                        • Jan 2003
                                        • 28682

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by Kevsh
                                        So you base the viability of a relationship on how willing she is to give head? Okay, there's nothing wrong with that for a girlfriend .. but when it comes time to getting serious, I hope you raise the bar a little
                                        i am very very picky about my women someones willingness to go out of their way to make me happy is a major factor in dating.

                                        I always take good care and treat my girlfriends well so it is only normal that i expect the same in return.

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                                        • MetaMan
                                          I AM WEB 2.0
                                          • Jan 2003
                                          • 28682

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by Ramos
                                          Had the perfect girl while I was in college...japanese, she cooked her ass off and rolled the fattest blunts, her favorite were royal blunt raps....especially chocalate....

                                          thanks for the memories
                                          it is a great feeling when you have a woman that can take care of you.

                                          We tapped for a couple of hours and my stomach was hungry, i was just gonna grab something out of the fridge but she offered to make me something.

                                          she serves up my grill cheese and starts rolling me a blunt, what a woman.

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                                          • HomeFry
                                            Confirmed User
                                            • Jun 2006
                                            • 1062

                                            #22
                                            Love is a commitment. Pure and simple.
                                            Those who cannot commit to the challenge of spending a lifetime with somone... should never get married.
                                            Those who think they can commit to the challenge... Should never get married.
                                            Those who KNOW they can and are confident that their partner can as well, should consider marriage if it suits them.

                                            It really doesn't matter, fat, ugly, stupid... if love is there and the commitment is there... it is well worth the effort.

                                            Otherwise, people need to stop kidding themselves. Sure, you can "love" someone and not have a commitment, but it's almost doomed from the start. If what you seek is "love", but you can't commit to the person... Be very sure that they are in the same place, otherwise you risk really hurting the person you supposedly "love". You might be better off, persuing something with no emotional attachment... maybe a blowup doll.
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                                            • bu((aneer
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                                              • Nov 2004
                                              • 651

                                              #23
                                              simmer down steve...

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                                              • E$_manager
                                                Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                • Apr 2006
                                                • 13557

                                                #24
                                                You talk like a young boy.
                                                I guess there is no scense in explaining to you anything.
                                                You just answere me: Would you care about your gf the way you want her to care about you??
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                                                • Pipecrew
                                                  Master of Gfy.com
                                                  • Feb 2002
                                                  • 14888

                                                  #25
                                                  You are going to take it very hard when you guys break up! she will be doing all that for some other guy!

                                                  However to answer your questions, a lot of people just settle and dont like change.

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                                                  • Sly
                                                    Let's do some business!
                                                    • Sep 2004
                                                    • 31376

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by MetaMan
                                                    i am very very picky about my women someones willingness to go out of their way to make me happy is a major factor in dating.
                                                    I think thats a major factor in any "real" good relationships, going both ways of course.

                                                    I think about my family and there isn't any one of them that I wouldn't go the extra distance for if they asked. The same goes for any close friends of mine.
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                                                    • E$_manager
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                                                      • Apr 2006
                                                      • 13557

                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by Sly
                                                      I... going both ways of course.
                                                      Agree, what i meant
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                                                      • shannmarie
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                                                        • Nov 2006
                                                        • 120

                                                        #28
                                                        at least he doesn't have to worry about other guys trying to bang her... or at least he thinks... if not Love, then maybe security?
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