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Old 11-24-2006, 10:30 PM   #1
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I'm meeting my birth brother for the first time tomorrow... *gasp

Talked on the phone once 9 years ago and once today. He found me a few days ago to tell me that my birth mother died... killed herself actually... ON my birthday even... nice eh? She suffered her whole life long with drug addiction.. heroine, mostly.. meth at the end. 7 kids total. This one is 32, very stable regardless of being in 52 foster homes.. similar situations for all of them actually... and he lives like 40 minutes away.

I'm NERVOUS... We clicked very well when we spoke years ago on the phone and again today same thing so I'm sure it will go good. Blah anyway... Crazy week that's for sure. Wish me luck!
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Old 11-24-2006, 10:33 PM   #2
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Wow..I actually met my twin brother for the first time about 10 years ago.Mom gave him up for adoption 35 years ago when the old man left her with 3 kids..back then the child support laws were non existant and they didn't support.I'm sure you'll have plenty to talk about
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Old 11-24-2006, 10:42 PM   #4
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So did you grow up in foster homes or were you adopted fairly quickly?
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Old 11-24-2006, 10:48 PM   #5
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Old 11-24-2006, 10:54 PM   #6
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Old 11-24-2006, 10:56 PM   #7
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So did you grow up in foster homes or were you adopted fairly quickly?
I spent 10 days in the hosp while they tapered me off the methadone. Her and my birth father had met in the methadone clinic... lol I dunno why that makes me chuckle. Then I went to a foster home for 5 months.. then my parents got the "call they'd been waiting for for two years" and the rest is history.
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I spent 10 days in the hosp while they tapered me off the methadone. Her and my birth father had met in the methadone clinic... lol I dunno why that makes me chuckle. Then I went to a foster home for 5 months.. then my parents got the "call they'd been waiting for for two years" and the rest is history.
Oh so they took you right after you were born. Thats good.
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Old 11-24-2006, 10:59 PM   #9
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sorry to hear about your birth mother and best of luck meeting with your brother
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Old 11-24-2006, 11:03 PM   #10
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Wow hope it goes well for you, I'm adopted as well

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Old 11-25-2006, 12:16 AM   #13
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That's heavy.

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Old 11-25-2006, 12:18 AM   #14
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Whoa, good luck Rrred. Hope it's everything you are expecting and more.
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Old 11-25-2006, 12:23 AM   #15
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Very Interesting. Your life would probably make a good documentary. I'm not saying that in a condesceding way either. I always find myself watching that type of stuff on TV.

I never met my father until i was 19. I'm 40 now. When I turned 40 I thought to myself this is the age he was when we first met. That was weird.
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Old 11-25-2006, 12:37 AM   #17
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Old 11-25-2006, 12:30 PM   #18
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Blah... now my ex won't call me back to watch my girl for a little while. Might not happen now.. God! He's an idiot!
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Old 11-25-2006, 01:01 PM   #19
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Old 11-25-2006, 01:01 PM   #20
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That's a very sad story.

My father died when I was nine months old. My grandmother - my father's mother - calls me one day to tell me my sister is looking for me. "But Grandma, I don't have a sister". Turns out I did but this information was just the start. I quickly flew home to NJ to meet her, only to discover I had a brother as well, both born by differnet mothers. Surprise.
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Old 11-25-2006, 02:31 PM   #21
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Old 11-25-2006, 02:35 PM   #22
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Old 11-25-2006, 02:37 PM   #23
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Old 11-25-2006, 02:40 PM   #24
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I wish you the best when meeting your brother..I'm sure it will be a bit strange but you will do fine. Let us know how it goes
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WOW hope everything goes ok and you get to meet him. GOOD LUCK
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Best of luck with the reunion,

I have a biological brother and sister or 2 out there I would love to get in touch with some day.

Not to mention the deadbeat dad who walked out on all of us I'd love to share a few "words" with.
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Wow..I actually met my twin brother for the first time about 10 years ago.Mom gave him up for adoption 35 years ago when the old man left her with 3 kids..back then the child support laws were non existant and they didn't support.I'm sure you'll have plenty to talk about
I thought you were in your 50's?
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I hope this meeting went well...I did send you an ICQ ma'am
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sorry to hear about your moms

hope all goes well with you and your brother and you 2 never lose contact again.

wish I was meeting my peeps

I was in foster care for about 2 years myself right out the hospital from birth and then adopted twice

maybe 1 day I'll get to meet my folks .

kick your ex ass for picking such a bad time not to call back
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you'll have fun i'm sure; i did something very similar with my stepdad that i knew as "dad" before & it was a great reconnection after 20 years apart.

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just remember, he's going to be very nervous too so take comfort in that (have a shot of Vodka before you go if it'll help calm your nerves). I think it's very exciting!!! I hope you two have fun and connect with each other and vibe on the same level

on another note: sorry to hear about you mom...and on your birthday? Lawd have mercy *HUGS*
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I hope everything works out well, and you keep in touch.

I just found out I have a brother in Boise. I have yet to meet him.
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What a story! Sorry to hear about your mom, but I'm sure you'll be more than happy to connect with your brother and vice versa.

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