She's got 4 kids and you want a relationship with her? Then you complain when there are problems?

Are you fucking stupid or what?

1 - Start using a condom.
2 - Quit babysitting. You want to be the boyfriend or the babysitter?
3 - Start up with a new girl. No need to dump this one as you have pretty much nothing going.

:2 cents:

she doesn't sound evil. just desperate.

still, if you can, run don't walk.

this thread is why abortions exist

Why are people so desperate? she sounds like a dum slut so treat her like a dum slut.

i never understand how guys can fall in love with sluts?

buuuuuuuhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

this girl sounds like she is BAD. If you stay with her, you will get hurt even more, or maybe get some STDs... i say get out before its too late.

we have a winner. abortion is a good thing in some cases.

Dont let what you think is love get in the way of reality.

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHA

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

I think I made it to the 3rd paragraph.

If you start a relationship with this chick, you deserve whatever happens to you.

That was a rhetorical question, right?

you are her new babysitter since her other one moved across the country.

hey i need a free babysitter too can i get your number?

Coles Notes?

If you have to fight for someone then they're obviously not fighting for you :(

You should stop worring about that bitch and think about your "little man" getting stuck in some other guys cum...GROSSO! Have your dick checked and dropkick that bitch to the curb!!!

Just starting and ending there would have saved lots & lots of typing..

You don't fall in love after 2 months. You get infatuated. There's a HUGE difference.

Dude, its totally understandable to be excited about an exciting new girl, but you fall in love way too easily. Think about this from an outside perspective and you'll see what I mean.

No true relationship should have "players". This girl is a player. Don't be played.

DONT HOOKUP WITH WOMEN WITH KIDS.

In no other situation would a guy (who isnt a loser) allow a man who used fucked his girlfriend to come over the house, call her, email her. But when theres kids, theres no way around it!

You cant stop it, a man who fucked your girl before you did will ALWAYS be in her life, FOREVER - fuck that.

This other guy isnt an "oops" kind of one-night-stand, they have 4 kids man, obviously the sex couldnt have been that bad to have 4 fucking kids.

iwantchixxx - first, if I were you, I'd try to figure out 'why' you fall 'in love' (and I agree with Sly - this is 'New Emotional Infatuation' - after six months of being together as a couple, you can start asking 'is this really love')

Second - the girl is not meant to be a wife, she's meant to get together with someone, try to get pregnant, keep him while he's emotionally & physically bamboozled - when he sees her game, she moves onto the next one and the pattern continues.

If she has the baby, seek a paternity test. If it's your child, do what you have to do but I'm thinking she's been playing you and a few buddies at the same time & waiting to see which one she'll hook.

Good luck with that.

She is what gives good women a bad name. Why do women have to be like that?!?! It disgusts me. I think you need to sever all ties with her and tell the father everything she's been doing. She's a selfish user who cares for no one but herself. She will tell you anything she thinks you want to hear just to keep you on the leash. She already confessed to you about doing that to the kids' father - now that he's gone, you are the replacement. So sad women like this exist... Get out now before you get in any deeper....

http://www.bigtitsilike.com/tmp/girls%20are%20evil.jpg

run for your life......

Wtf is coles notes, is that a canadian version of cliff notes?

love can make you justify putting up with a lot of shit but if you would just look at the situation with a clear head you'd see that its way too much bullshit to put up with and as much as you might love her, i don't see how you could ever really trust her or believe anything that comes out of her mouth. she has an explaination for everything, who knows what the real truth really is.

I remember when I was going through some problems with my ex-wife and you tried to clown me like it was my fault and I was some sort of woman beating scumbag..

Well guess what? YOU GET WHAT YOU DESERVE...You're literally FUCKED and I hope she rapes you for Child Support while she bangs another Johnny Come Lately..

**let me think to make sure you're the nick I'm thinking about***






Yep, it's you..

Pardon me for passing judgement but You're a desperate loser to stick with this whore. Dump her ass to the curb, she's a user and a manipulator. Fuck you should've bolted at the first hint of trouble.
Moron. You deserve the shit you're in.

one word.

karma :1orglaugh

Run.. seriously.

This girl is going to cheat on you and walk all over you the rest of your life.
She's not going to change.. what you see is what you get.

Paternity test=100% MUST DO

Do it ASAP. If you wait and in the meantime provide child support , you can make it difficult to get out of paying child support if later on you decide to do the test and its determined that the child is not yours. You have the right to request Paternity determination, do not waive that right.

You should definitly keep your kids away from her... she definitly has issues.

and you should definitly stay away from her yourself.

bingo. i think one of the possibilities she stopped being so close with you is because you're too clingy. when you first meet a girl and you spend every waking moment around each other one of you is bound to get sick of each other. when i first start dating a girl i limit hanging out with her to once or twice a week.

this is good advice right here, everyone always has that feeling of WOW i just met a new great girl i want to be around them as much as possible, but at the begining it is always best to keep a little space. girls will run you the fuck over if you do not keep a strong head.

I did the same thing. The last person i did that with is now my fiancee. After we made it official she joked about how i would only see her on Sundays. Things like this make them want you more. Women want what they cant have. They get bored after a while if there is no challenge.

I repeat.. THEY GET BORED AFTER A WHILE IF THERE IS NO CHALLENGE. You should know...

A challenge doesn't mean being a dick but it means saying no sometimes and not being available sometimes. Not telling her she's pretty sometimes and making her wonder what you are thinking. You must keep a woman on her toes.

man, I really hope you're wearing a rubber on that shit.

Dude she is a Narcissist and if you think your life is bad now just keep giving her the benefit of the doubt, she will never change and will only get worse. She is beyond any type of help through therapy. You mentioned the first 3 weeks or so were perfect, this is exactly how narcissists operate. They are incapable of keeping up their phony facade up for much longer than that. Its all a game to her and she is incapable of feeling anything at all for you, to her you and everyone else is nothing but an object.

Read this, I bet it fits her to a T.
http://www.drirene.com/female_nar.htm

1) its your fault...you caught her lieing many times and blindfolded yourself that she wasn't cheating...
2) if she cheated on you once she will do it again...cu-NT
3) if a girl cheats on you and lies to you and you forget that and act like nothing happened you are a loser....
4) forget this bitch and move on man...she's NOT worth it.

The best advice I can give you is to never speak to or see this chick again and when and if a baby arrives get a DNA test, because my bet is that it wont be your kid.

If you keep things going with this chick then you're an idiot.

Just find another girl with no commitments..

This has got to be a joke.


Why would you date a girl who has 4 kids from 3 different fathers?
why would you stay with a girl who has cheated on you multiple times?
you're in love after dating a girl for 2 months?

what the fuck is wrong with you?

I fucking second that take your shit and goooooooooo and dont look back:thumbsup

Shittttt, i read all that crap.

I dont understand guys like you. How much of a loser are you? Still taking to a girl after she cheated on you. If i even get a hint that a girl is cheating on me i would just never talk to her ever again... And 4 kids, fuck, i wouldn't even look at a girl who has 1 kid! ROFLLLLLLLL :1orglaugh

No way !! You write that ?

And everyone automatically sides with him here. We have only heard one side of the story. How do we know he is telling the whole truth?

You come across to me as desperate, needy, possessive (checking her computer without her permeation? common man) and an "yes man". You also seem to base your whole life around her, thats a lot of pressure for the girl.

So what you need to do is, dump her and find another girl (which you probably wont) and don't replete the same shit you did with her. Just relax and don't base your happiness around one person. Go out with a girl, but have your own thing going on the side, find some guy friends go cheat, bring your ego up. This way you will be able to say dump a girl and not the other way around. You wont feel like a little bitch when a relationship ends either...

Well, lol, thats what i have to say, do w/e the fuck you want.

Dude you really messed up here.

Problem #1
You fell in love with her before finding out what she is like. Its not love when you fall for someone instantly, thats either lust or desperation from being lonely.

Problem #2
She doesnt love you the way you love her. She is using you. Women need a provider (takes care of her and the kids) and a lover (fucks the shit out of her). You demonstrated to her that you are the provider not the lover. Maybe at first you were the lover but you changed that. She is not pregnant.

Problem #3
You cant see whats going on because you have one-itis. You love this girl so much but she is not really special. You wont be able to see this right now until you get over her. She is a cheater and has been all her life. Nothing you can do will change that.

In the future, slow down, dont get so emotionally attached so soon. Just fuck them and have fun, and you need to train these girls on what is acceptable and what is not. That is not something you have been doing a good job of.

Tough love, but you let this get out of hand because of what you did. If you continue this one more moment you are just digging your own grave.