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Old 08-31-2006, 02:24 PM   #1
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7 Habits Of Spectaculary Unsuccessful People

Hope you guys like this.

And think about this industry when you read this...


WARNING! If you want to have a fantastic life, never engage yourself in these 7 deadly habits that incompetent people do.

NUMBER 1 - They Think, Say, & Do Negative Things.

Yes. They see problems in EVERY opportunity.

They complain that the sun is too hot. They cursed the rain for ruining their plans for the day. They blame the wind for ruining their hair.

They think that everyone is against them. They see the problems but never the solutions.

Every little bit of difficulty is exaggerated to the point of tragedy. They regard failures as catastrophes.

They become discouraged easily instead of learning from their mistakes.

They never seem to move forward because they're always afraid to come out of their comfort zones.

NUMBER 2 - They Act Before They Think.

They move based on instinct or impulse. If they see something they like, they buy at once without any second thought.

Then they see something better. They regret & curse for not able to take advantage of the bargain.

Then they spend & spend again until nothing's left. They don't think about the future. What they're after is the pleasure they will experience at present.

They don't think about the consequences. Those who engage in unsafe sex, criminality, and the like are included in this group.

NUMBER 3 - They Talk Much More Than They Listen

They want to be the star of the show. So they always engage in talks that would make them heroes, even to the point of lying.

Oftentimes they are not aware that what they're saying is not sensible anymore.

When other people advise them, they close their ears because they're too proud to admit their mistakes.

In their mind they're always correct. They reject suggestions because that will make them feel inferior.

NUMBER 4 - They Give Up Easily

Successful people treat failures as stepping stones to success.

Incompetent ones call it quits upon recognizing the first signs of failure.

At first, they may be excited to start an endeavor. But then they lose interest fairly quickly, especially when they encounter errors.

Then they go & search for a new one. Same story & same results. Incompetent people don't have the persistence to go on and fulfill their dreams.

NUMBER 5 - They Try to Bring Others Down To Their Level

Incompetent people envy other successful individuals. Instead of working hard to be like them, these incompetent ones spread rumors and try every dirty trick to bring them down.

They could've asked these successful ones nicely. But no, they're too proud. They don't want to ask advise. Moreover, they're too negative to accomplish anything.

NUMBER 6 - They Waste Their Time

They don't know what to do next. They may just be contented on eating, getting drunk, watching TV, or worse, staring at the blank wall with no thoughts whatsoever to improve their lives.

It's perfectly fine to enjoy once in a while. But time should be managed efficiently in order to succeed. There should be a proper balance between work & pleasure.

NUMBER 7 - They Take the Easy Way Out

If there are two roads to choose from, incompetent people would choose the wider road with less rewards than the narrower road with much better rewards at the end.

They don't want any suffering or hardship. They want a good life.

What these people don't know is that what you reap is what you sow. Efforts & action will not go unnoticed.

If only they would be willing to sacrifice a little, they would be much better off.

Successful people made it through trials & error. They never give up. They are willing to do everything necessary to achieve what they aspire for in life.

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Old 08-31-2006, 02:34 PM   #2
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Old 08-31-2006, 02:36 PM   #3
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NUMBER 3 - They Talk Much More Than They Listen

They want to be the star of the show. So they always engage in talks that would make them heroes, even to the point of lying.

Oftentimes they are not aware that what they're saying is not sensible anymore.

When other people advise them, they close their ears because they're too proud to admit their mistakes.

In their mind they're always correct. They reject suggestions because that will make them feel inferior.

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Old 08-31-2006, 02:39 PM   #4
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I thought that the 7 habits would have been


1. Posting on GFY
2. Posting on GFY
3. Posting on GFY
4. Posting on GFY
5. Posting on GFY
6. Posting on GFY
7. Bitchslapping your GF
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Old 08-31-2006, 02:40 PM   #5
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Nice piece of advice Thank you for sharing...
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Old 08-31-2006, 10:55 PM   #6
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I wish I could overcome more than half of those.
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Old 09-01-2006, 12:00 AM   #7
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I will add another one:

8. They will blindly follow crappy "words of wisdom" like the ones above.
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Old 09-01-2006, 12:05 AM   #8
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Im actually depressed after reading that.....
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Old 09-01-2006, 12:16 AM   #9
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That's very eloquent.
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Old 09-01-2006, 01:41 AM   #10
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Old 09-01-2006, 03:49 AM   #11
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Looks like I have alot of work to do.
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Old 09-01-2006, 03:52 AM   #12
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Old 09-01-2006, 04:01 AM   #13
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thx max, now i feel like killing myself.
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Old 09-01-2006, 04:11 AM   #14
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thx max, now i feel like killing myself.
you just broke rule #1
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Old 09-01-2006, 04:11 AM   #15
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thx max, now i feel like killing myself.
Due it then I can feel better about myself!
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Old 09-01-2006, 05:14 AM   #16
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Good advice, imma save the list for when I feel like crap
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Old 09-01-2006, 06:28 AM   #17
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I can identify with wayyyy too many of those

Thanks Max you asshole
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Old 09-01-2006, 06:33 AM   #18
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They don't think about the consequences. Those who engage in unsafe sex, criminality, and the like are included in this group.
I know two people with fantastic lives and more money than most who are included in these two groups....


but great post anyway .....
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Old 09-01-2006, 07:46 AM   #19
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Old 09-01-2006, 09:48 AM   #20
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lol! true!
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Old 09-01-2006, 09:52 AM   #21
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WOW... that list applies to so many people in this biz. Good stuff.

Another one to add would be "don't act like you have what you don't"
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Old 09-01-2006, 10:49 AM   #22
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Hope you guys like this.

And think about this industry when you read this...


WARNING! If you want to have a fantastic life, never engage yourself in these 7 deadly habits that incompetent people do.

NUMBER 1 - They Think, Say, & Do Negative Things.

Yes. They see problems in EVERY opportunity.

They complain that the sun is too hot. They cursed the rain for ruining their plans for the day. They blame the wind for ruining their hair.

They think that everyone is against them. They see the problems but never the solutions.

Every little bit of difficulty is exaggerated to the point of tragedy. They regard failures as catastrophes.

They become discouraged easily instead of learning from their mistakes.

They never seem to move forward because they're always afraid to come out of their comfort zones.

NUMBER 2 - They Act Before They Think.

They move based on instinct or impulse. If they see something they like, they buy at once without any second thought.

Then they see something better. They regret & curse for not able to take advantage of the bargain.

Then they spend & spend again until nothing's left. They don't think about the future. What they're after is the pleasure they will experience at present.

They don't think about the consequences. Those who engage in unsafe sex, criminality, and the like are included in this group.

NUMBER 3 - They Talk Much More Than They Listen

They want to be the star of the show. So they always engage in talks that would make them heroes, even to the point of lying.

Oftentimes they are not aware that what they're saying is not sensible anymore.

When other people advise them, they close their ears because they're too proud to admit their mistakes.

In their mind they're always correct. They reject suggestions because that will make them feel inferior.

NUMBER 4 - They Give Up Easily

Successful people treat failures as stepping stones to success.

Incompetent ones call it quits upon recognizing the first signs of failure.

At first, they may be excited to start an endeavor. But then they lose interest fairly quickly, especially when they encounter errors.

Then they go & search for a new one. Same story & same results. Incompetent people don't have the persistence to go on and fulfill their dreams.

NUMBER 5 - They Try to Bring Others Down To Their Level

Incompetent people envy other successful individuals. Instead of working hard to be like them, these incompetent ones spread rumors and try every dirty trick to bring them down.

They could've asked these successful ones nicely. But no, they're too proud. They don't want to ask advise. Moreover, they're too negative to accomplish anything.

NUMBER 6 - They Waste Their Time

They don't know what to do next. They may just be contented on eating, getting drunk, watching TV, or worse, staring at the blank wall with no thoughts whatsoever to improve their lives.

It's perfectly fine to enjoy once in a while. But time should be managed efficiently in order to succeed. There should be a proper balance between work & pleasure.

NUMBER 7 - They Take the Easy Way Out

If there are two roads to choose from, incompetent people would choose the wider road with less rewards than the narrower road with much better rewards at the end.

They don't want any suffering or hardship. They want a good life.

What these people don't know is that what you reap is what you sow. Efforts & action will not go unnoticed.

If only they would be willing to sacrifice a little, they would be much better off.

Successful people made it through trials & error. They never give up. They are willing to do everything necessary to achieve what they aspire for in life.

About the Author:

Do you believe that you can attain anything your heart desires? I'm telling you, you can! Rene Graeber uses and teaches will power and mind control for more than 10 years. Visit his website and learn how to unleash your full potential of your mind - just visit http://www.will-power-mind-control.com

I couldn't of said it better myself, your right on the money with all your points. I cant stand people that bring succesffull people down instead of trying to learn from them.
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Old 09-01-2006, 12:58 PM   #23
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Old 09-01-2006, 01:26 PM   #24
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good reading, thank you.
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Old 09-01-2006, 01:31 PM   #25
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Guilty of #2, #4, #7
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I thought that the 7 habits would have been


1. Posting on GFY
2. Posting on GFY
3. Posting on GFY
4. Posting on GFY
5. Posting on GFY
6. Posting on GFY
7. Bitchslapping your GF






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Old 09-01-2006, 02:11 PM   #28
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I do all those things and im rich bitch
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Old 09-01-2006, 06:01 PM   #29
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Old 09-03-2006, 01:39 AM   #30
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Old 09-03-2006, 01:41 AM   #31
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Old 09-03-2006, 07:24 PM   #32
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very interesting thread...
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Old 09-03-2006, 07:43 PM   #33
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this is true but difficult to live not like that.
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Old 09-03-2006, 07:47 PM   #34
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Old 09-03-2006, 08:12 PM   #35
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Old 09-03-2006, 08:28 PM   #36
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THe thread is really good. Not so many there are.
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