Sweatheart...I love you but you are NOT that naive! LOL

You know very well that this guy is after a lil sumptin sumptin

DONT GO!

No.
Or Yes, but tell him you want to meet his wife, so invite her along as well.

Get over yourself. Only three percent of observed mammals are monogamous. Just three percent. The other ninety-seven percent fuck when they wanna fuck, no partner for life bullshit. Guess which percentage humans are in =)

"lets get together for a drink" lol :1orglaugh

He definitely wants a piece of you.

G

I agree with you 100% nicely said. If he is fishing for trouble then it is his own doing but yes i think you should either ask him to bring his wife or watch the # of drinks you have :)

Get over myself, huh? Because you know everything and have first hand experience in the matter.

Boy, if every person that has had to deal with an affair only had your statistical information they would feel a whole better about themselves. My life was turned upside down. People who go through this lose homes and families are broken up. Tell the kids that have to be a part of this that statistic.

congratulations, you have no clue. :thumbsup

if it was your hubby...would you want him there?


:)

Homewrecking is awesome! Especially when he's got a wife and a kid on the way...

:mad:

bullshit dickhead - :321GFY

Tell him you would love to have sex with him and his wife, when can they get a baby-sitter?

As seriously as possible tell him you only have sex with married people if both spouses are involved. How soon can he visit with the wife.

This will drive the fucker crazy.

:thumbsup

go fuck him if you want too


you really think you going "OMG THATS WRONG, HOW WILL SHE FEEL?!!" is gonna stop him, you're about retarded and a half... if hes thinking of cheating, the relationship is already doomed and over... if you don't give it to him, someone else will... think about it...

Yeah, I have had experience in this matter, so go fuck yourself chump and GET OVER IT. Cry more bitch. :thumbsup Humans are ANIMALS and we clearly fall into the 97% that fuck whenever they want. Divorce rates clearly support this lmao.

Dude, you are out of control. And I seriously doubt you have any experienced infidelity.

Before I call you names, here is an analogy. You taking part in a discussion about infidelity would be like you trying to teach me a foreign language that you do not speak, however, I do speak it.

Ok, name calling time. You =
asshole, pussy, chump, fool, liberal, democrat, earthy crunchy, granola bar, republican, foreigner, cry baby, bitch, almighty, blah blah blah

Again, congratulations, you have no clue. Have a nice day. :winkwink:

Look fuckbag, do you need some tissues or something? GET. OVER. IT. It was JUST PUSSY, nothing more. Any other emotional attachments you put on it is your fucking fault. Earlier you said something about the kids being affected from divorce.... I?ve known plenty of kids who have been from single parent homes and none are worse for worse. My cousin just recently went through a divorce ? he and his wife were BOTH cheating on each other. They had been keeping the marriage going mainly for the financial benefits and ?for the kids? as you put it. After the divorce, the kids were fine. Ya wanna know why? Because both parents sat down with the children and told them that mommy and daddy didn?t get along too well anymore, that it wasn?t their fault at all and that they would still see both mommy and daddy regularly. The kids grades haven?t dropped in school, their extra-curricular activities haven?t ceased either.

As long as the parents do their JOB as parents and explain to the kids that nothing is their fault why do the kids have to suffer? You?re a piss poor parent otherwise. Some kids are more emotional than others, and those need working with the most. Anyways, more than half of America divorce, and many more than that are cheating on their spouses right now. There is no shame in it either? we are biologically designed to FUCK FUCK FUCK. If we were meant to be monogamous why is there such a hard coded biological urge to spread our genes to as many people as possible? Oh that?s right fucktard, WE WEREN?T. If you enjoy having sex then do it, don?t let the idea of monogamy rule your life. IT DOESN?T WORK for mammals. Enjoy your life people, don?t just live life to die? live life to LIVE.

Whore bag.

You calling me a fuckbag doesn't do much to help you further your half ass attempt at making a point. Like I thought, you have not experienced infidelity first hand, only indirectly. Therefore, you do not have a clue how it feels.

What you are saying is rediculous. Everybody does it so it is ok to do it?

You seem to be extremely passionate about condoning infidelity, are you a divorce lawyer?

I'll tell you what, here :2 cents: , here's 2 cents, go buy yourself a clue...fuckle bagle :D

I see a long lasting marriage for him.

What the FUCK do you mean it?s ridiculous you stupid fuckbag? It?s a BIOLOGICAL FACT you FUCKING ASSCLOWN. 97% of ALL OBSERVED MAMMALS do NOT mate for life. They have MULTIPLE partners. They FUCK whenever they want to FUCK. We OBVIOUSLY fall into that 97%. I DO have experience with infidelity, and like I said it?s nothing to go through unless you are a fucking pussy. If it was truly a big issue then don?t you think we?d be seeing some kind of MASS CHAOS? Considering that half of marriages end in divorce, and probably half if not more of the ?stable? marriages have one or both partners cheating on each other? Oh what?s that? Cock got your mouth asswipe?

You can not fight your biological nature to want to propagate. No amount of bitching by you or the other morality police out there are going to change that. It is not in human nature to be monogamous, all statistics out there prove this a hundred times over. Marriage has some benefits, all of which are dictated by society. I just want human beings to be happy and to STOP DENYING their nature. It?s the same reason why so many closet homosexuals are out there; they are absolutely afraid to admit their sexuality because of society?s flaws, because of YOU and other morality police out there.

On a lesser point, bagles give me gas.

I would have to say "Tell him to bring the wife" too, he won't and you won't have to worry about the guy bothering you again.

As far as the references to slut and home wreaker...umm the guy is obviously the one wreaking his home.

There are some hostile men on this board.....and Mr. "It's only pussy", my goodness what a complete utter fool you are.

I would have to say "Tell him to bring the wife" too, he won't and you won't have to worry about the guy bothering you again.

As far as the references to slut and home wreaker...umm the guy is obviously the one wreaking his home.

There are some hostile men on this board.....and Mr. "It's only pussy", my goodness what a complete utter fool you are.

If the shoe was on the other foot how would you feel about it?

Haha ok here's how I see it. You're obviously reflecting on the past a bit and you have some curiosity issues there. When you met for lunch, it was already inappropriate. Anything that his wife would disapprove of if she was sitting there watching is inappropriate. If you were exchanging giggles, little inside jokes, fond memories and even the slightest of flirtation, you already crossed the line.

So what to do next? If you keep the upper hand, I say go for it. Have some drinks. Get him in the sack if you wish. Maybe just go make out. But whatever you do walk away afterwards! Fill your little need and hit the road. And don't believe for one second that he hasn't done this before or that he won't do it in the future. If someone has the balls to fuck around on their pregnant wife, they are a piece of shit, plain and simple.

It's not your problem. In fact, maybe you'll get caught and she'll sue his ass off and leave him. You're doing her a favor. She'll just be able to find someone else and have a happy life with a man who adores her that much sooner.

Save the neglected, unloved women in the world. Screw their husbands and set them free!

Haha... I'm somewhat kidding but not totally.

You're a smart woman Lori. Just keep your self respect and do whatever you want. Make sure you walk away with some sort of understanding, insight, and most importanly your self respect.

Good luck! :winkwink:

I'd lay money he wants to fuck you.

If you don't, someone will, but hey, at least you won't be the one that the pissed off ex wife runs down in her SUV at three in the morning when you come out of motel 6 with him!:2 cents:

someone once told me
people cheat - fact of life. :winkwink:

it' s appealing to know it's a walk away. My thoughts would be to ensure he's on board with that frame of mind. Not sure how you would feel about breaking up a family if he wants more than just sex...that would be my only concern

I'm with RRRED on this one... though I would say be very careful if you decide to go for a roll in the hay with him since he obviously has issues playing in other playgrounds and you don't want that kind of dirt ;)

Or you could simply not talk to him again. Ever.

Have drinks with him but keep asking to see pics of his kids. LOL

wow - reading this thread and it always amazes me just how many people in this biz have severe sexual hangups

It is not appropriate unless you two have actually business together. If it is social, then you should not be going or be going with him AND his wife

hmmm ok, lots of interesting answers here. And alot of insight,

honestly, I never had any intentions of meeting him for more than a drink. He was great to hang out with again, until I got those text's.

I would be uncomfortable to go for a drink with him now after what he wrote.

I was asking if I am being naive to think he would be just meeting again for a drink or would be expecting more.

But lots of powerful insights ...though I don't appreciate being called a slut. maybe I didn't articulate properly-I only went to lunch.

Whore bag? Who the fuck you calling awhore bag you asswipe! You obviously don`t know shit about this business or else you would never call her a whore! You are a fucking idiot and you best watch what you fucking say and who you say it about, Mr. Dickhead!
Must make you feel like a real man to call girls namea. You pussy ass keyboard warrior! Grow up!

I think getting SOMETHING sucked is definitely on his mind.

You are both adults.
If you wanna fuck, fuck. If not, tell him to go take care of his wife. You can say that anyway when you are done with him, just to give him some headache :)

fuck!! me too!!!

ignorant

Thief....

OMG. who ever said anything about fucking this guy?

all I asked is that I thought it was inappropriate to meet him for a drink now that he texted me what he did.

Next thing I know I'm a whore, slut and fucking a guy?

I just re read what I originally posted and I don't see anywhere there where I said my intentions where to fuck a guy.

He is a dog from what I see, and from these posts, lots of the guys on here are too if they think it is ok for a fling, fuck or whatever.

My bad for opening a conversation up to anyone other than those that 'get it' like NakedHolly and the like.

all I asked basically was do you agree with me he was inappropriate and if my decision was right to not meet him again.

The lunch was just to catch up with someone from a million years ago.

Maybe I am that naive, that stupid to think it was only lunch. My bad, fine, but I'm not a whore for being naive.

chill out with him, but don't go too far

Ignore this woman hater. He just hates women because he's a 40 year old virgin.

come out with him but without his wife, remember the golden age :)