Please explain the advantages to me of getting marriedand having kids. - GoFuckYourself.com

BJ · 07-26-2006, 08:14 PM

This is a serious post, as I almost got married. Sometimes I regret not following through. But, more and more I am happy I don't have a wife or kids as it has allowed me to pursue things that otherwise I would have not been able to.

Am I missing out on something? I have heard from many people that having a kid changed their lives for the better. At the same time, these people are sometimes unable to do things due to unexpected family commitments. I find myself thinking " If you didn't have the wife and kids we wouldn't have this problem."

Please enlighten me.

Spunky · 07-26-2006, 08:16 PM

Everybody is different.I was almost married and a father 3 times..freaked the hell out of me.I guess I'm selfish and will never have the settle down syndrome

Lycanthrope · 07-26-2006, 08:29 PM

Everyone is obviously different and there are of course positives and negatives with either situation. I can say this though - the joy my children have brought me outweighs any other feeling in the world. No, it isn't always easy, yes you miss out on some things, but you get so much more in return.

But it isn't for everyone...

betabomb · 07-26-2006, 09:13 PM

no way to predict the feeling i think

BJ · 07-26-2006, 09:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lycanthrope

Everyone is obviously different and there are of course positives and negatives with either situation. I can say this though - the joy my children have brought me outweighs any other feeling in the world. No, it isn't always easy, yes you miss out on some things, but you get so much more in return.

But it isn't for everyone...

I can't even begin to fathom the joy it would bring to see my child to suceed at their interest. Being proud of what I taught them.

baddog · 07-26-2006, 09:15 PM

Hey, I love my kids, but there is no way that the marriage was a good thing.

stickyfingerz · 07-26-2006, 09:17 PM

Joy, Happiness, content, Love, goes on and on. Every kid you have you think later how you lived without them before they were born. We have 2 now, and 3 is the limit. 2 little girls, and hoping for a boy. If not 3 girls it will be, then someone is getting snipped. Maybe me maybe her. Might flip a coin lol.

Doctor Dre · 07-26-2006, 09:19 PM

Watch the 11 seasons of the show :"Married with children" and you'll finally understand the hapiness of beeing a father.

MaddCaz · 07-26-2006, 09:20 PM

its all a give-and-take. You wont be alone but you'll never fuck again NOOOO!!!!!

pussyluver · 07-26-2006, 09:20 PM

Well the human race should continue. Someone has to take care of all of us as we get old. Maybe we could have some sort of camp or something that raises the children. Then we all continue the party and fuck our brains out etc. That way the government could program them to think corectly. geee, you could even watch your kid on webcam when you feel like it.

For those that think marriage is wonderful and raising a family is rewarding, let 'em have at it. While we're at it we should give the same rights to the gay/lesbian community.

BJ · 07-26-2006, 10:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doctor Dre

Watch the 11 seasons of the show :"Married with children" and you'll finally understand the hapiness of beeing a father.

I'm not sure that's accuarate

Kimo · 07-27-2006, 12:07 AM

its a matter of personal opinion

nAtuRaLbEautY · 07-27-2006, 12:11 AM

Married life is really different from single life. It requires responsibilities. It is advisable to settle and have a family if you are really ready emotionally and financially.

Enema · 07-27-2006, 10:18 AM

My fiance and I got engaged to keep her parents quiet. (strict asian family on her side).

I have no interest in marriage or children. She wants to get married but shares my feelings on children.

I have said, "Hey, you want to spend thousands of dollars on a pointless ceremony that changes nothing, go ahead... but i'm not paying for it".

Took a little while but long story short, I'm not paying for anything except the booze ;)

wdsguy · 07-27-2006, 10:23 AM

kids - taken care of yer old ass when yer walkin with a cane.
wife - if you find the right person, its a good to have someone to fight thru life with ya.

MrIzzz · 07-27-2006, 10:26 AM

marriage is the best thing i have ever done. my wife is my best friend and i have always been a family man. we cant wait to have kids as well.

i have attained a harmony in life that i never thought possible before

MyNameIsNobody · 07-27-2006, 10:33 AM

I wanna have a couple of shittlings runnin around screaming and giving my wife hell.. I'd just sit on the couch with a beer in my hand cheering them on and laughing.. now that's love for ya!!

but seriously, don't you wanna have a little fucker runnin around looking just like you?! yeah you do..

Syl · 07-27-2006, 10:36 AM

With marriage comes hard times and fighting no doubt, but if with the right person also comes a deep bond and friendship with someone who will stand by your side through all the hard times that will come. Kids are cute and fun, and tons of hard work. But I look forward to all the exciting moments they will bring. Like their first words, first steps, prom, graduation, etc. I can't wait to do all the things with them that I didn't get to do as a kid.

Gina · 07-27-2006, 10:40 AM

Marriage is so great that I can't seem to get enough of it! I've already done it twice, and I plan to do it at least two or three more times in the future.

07-26-2006, 08:14 PM	#1
BJ Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: asia Posts: 5,590	Please explain the advantages to me of getting married and having kids. This is a serious post, as I almost got married. Sometimes I regret not following through. But, more and more I am happy I don't have a wife or kids as it has allowed me to pursue things that otherwise I would have not been able to. Am I missing out on something? I have heard from many people that having a kid changed their lives for the better. At the same time, these people are sometimes unable to do things due to unexpected family commitments. I find myself thinking " If you didn't have the wife and kids we wouldn't have this problem." Please enlighten me. Last edited by BJ; 07-26-2006 at 08:15 PM..

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Lycanthrope Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 4,517	Everyone is obviously different and there are of course positives and negatives with either situation. I can say this though - the joy my children have brought me outweighs any other feeling in the world. No, it isn't always easy, yes you miss out on some things, but you get so much more in return. But it isn't for everyone... __________________

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baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,089	Hey, I love my kids, but there is no way that the marriage was a good thing.

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stickyfingerz Doin fine Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 24,984	Joy, Happiness, content, Love, goes on and on. Every kid you have you think later how you lived without them before they were born. We have 2 now, and 3 is the limit. 2 little girls, and hoping for a boy. If not 3 girls it will be, then someone is getting snipped. Maybe me maybe her. Might flip a coin lol.

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pussyluver Clueless OleMan Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: ICQ - 169903487 Posts: 11,009	Well the human race should continue. Someone has to take care of all of us as we get old. Maybe we could have some sort of camp or something that raises the children. Then we all continue the party and fuck our brains out etc. That way the government could program them to think corectly. geee, you could even watch your kid on webcam when you feel like it. For those that think marriage is wonderful and raising a family is rewarding, let 'em have at it. While we're at it we should give the same rights to the gay/lesbian community.

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Kimo ... Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Maryland ICQ:87038677 Posts: 11,542	its a matter of personal opinion __________________ ...

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07-27-2006, 10:18 AM	#14
Enema Confirmed User Join Date: May 2004 Location: Australia Posts: 599	My fiance and I got engaged to keep her parents quiet. (strict asian family on her side). I have no interest in marriage or children. She wants to get married but shares my feelings on children. I have said, "Hey, you want to spend thousands of dollars on a pointless ceremony that changes nothing, go ahead... but i'm not paying for it". Took a little while but long story short, I'm not paying for anything except the booze ;)

07-27-2006, 10:23 AM	#15
wdsguy Ryde or Die Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: California-Shanghai Posts: 19,568	kids - taken care of yer old ass when yer walkin with a cane. wife - if you find the right person, its a good to have someone to fight thru life with ya.

07-27-2006, 10:26 AM	#16
MrIzzz If u touch it, I will cum Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: long island Posts: 22,923	marriage is the best thing i have ever done. my wife is my best friend and i have always been a family man. we cant wait to have kids as well. i have attained a harmony in life that i never thought possible before __________________ WHO WANTS TO PLAY GRAB-ASS?

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MyNameIsNobody Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Swedän Posts: 2,947	I wanna have a couple of shittlings runnin around screaming and giving my wife hell.. I'd just sit on the couch with a beer in my hand cheering them on and laughing.. now that's love for ya!! but seriously, don't you wanna have a little fucker runnin around looking just like you?! yeah you do..

07-27-2006, 10:36 AM	#18
Syl Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: AZ Posts: 1,953	With marriage comes hard times and fighting no doubt, but if with the right person also comes a deep bond and friendship with someone who will stand by your side through all the hard times that will come. Kids are cute and fun, and tons of hard work. But I look forward to all the exciting moments they will bring. Like their first words, first steps, prom, graduation, etc. I can't wait to do all the things with them that I didn't get to do as a kid. __________________ Syl ICQ 304 908 973 [email protected]

07-27-2006, 10:40 AM	#19
Gina Confirmed User Join Date: May 2005 Location: In the heart of Porn Valley Posts: 106	Marriage is so great that I can't seem to get enough of it! I've already done it twice, and I plan to do it at least two or three more times in the future.