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StuartD 07-28-2006 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by rants
I compete by looking at other people, how much money they make, what car they drive, how good looking they are and what they wear.

It's all about keeping up with the Jones'.

Not very wise. :2 cents:

rants 07-28-2006 06:00 PM

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Originally Posted by StuartD
Not very wise. :2 cents:

To be honest, most people do compete and are competitive. I feel most people will deny it because it's very vain and superficial to do so, but most people do compete like this. It's innate human nature. Most people would not admit to it publically but they do compete or keep mental notes in their mind. I don't see how you can't. Most people I know are competitive. Most of my friends are competitive. Most people are just competitive by nature.

I think there's nothing wrong with it, if it drives you to work harder.

Most people do look at other people and see how they measure up. I don't see how you can't. Most people I know are like this.

he-fox 07-28-2006 06:52 PM

I try to fulfill all my dreams. I guess I compete against them. I also try to improve myself all the time, not only from a materialistic prospective.

MaddCaz 07-28-2006 06:53 PM

a mix of both

gecko 07-28-2006 07:16 PM

a mix of both

Meloman 07-28-2006 07:25 PM

I do a bit a both. But I think it's human nature to try and compete against others.

I think it's good to look up at others and try to compete and better yourself...but the trick is to understand that there will always be someone bigger and better than you...always. So u need to find peace with yourself and be happy with what you have accomplished without comparing it to others achievements.

Reach for the stars and even when u miss you're still quite up there above and beyong the norm.

CamsLord 07-28-2006 11:05 PM

improve daily

psili 07-28-2006 11:21 PM

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Originally Posted by jayeff
The pyschology of message boards is interesting. Ask a certain question and most people who respond will choose the "right" answer that was implicit in the question or first post.

In this context, a couple of weeks ago someone asked who had cheated (at school, college, etc) and the majority said yes, even if most said only a little. Cheating makes no sense if you are your own judge, so you get one picture from that thread and another from this.

Despite the overwhelming number of people here saying they compete with themselves or "both", in reality the vast majority of people do not judge themselves by their own standards. It's contrary to human nature and you only need look around to see people constantly seeking peer approval in everything they do.

You could take it a stage further. Fewer people exceed the expectations you could reasonably have of them according to their economic circumstances at birth, than fail to reach those expectations. You could therefore argue that most people do not, in any wide sense, compete at all: certainly not very successfully. That again is human nature, a consequence of our being communal animals and as such, relatively few are genetically coded to be leaders. Most are coded to be followers.

Though I take enjoyment seeing '01 folk messages, I take even greater enjoyment seeing '01 folk post quality messages.

Blah blah blah. ;)

With that:

I compete with all those who have done what I wish to do before me. Currently, that vague statement means that I emulate and try and make better that which I respect in regard to web development. No money. No glory. Just knowledge.

The only reason I do the above is because I dig dissecting stuff and I like rebuilding stuff with a new twist / better implementation. Nothing special. My goal, however, is to "happen" upon the point of innovation that no other saw / realized. Albeit, most likely, an unattainable goal, I'll be savage at what I do regardless.

All the above and I truly snap when I under perform my own hopes. However, a "hope" unattained is still a "hope", so I'll always have that going for me.

tony286 07-28-2006 11:38 PM

to myself and my goals

baddog 07-29-2006 12:55 AM

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Originally Posted by rants
I compete by looking at other people, how much money they make, what car they drive, how good looking they are and what they wear.

It's all about keeping up with the Jones'.

I honestly have to admit that for me it's all driven by other people.

Just even thinking about that ex and how they used to put you down cause you weren't rich enough. It would be an orgasmic experience to drive by in your new luxury car in spit in their fucken ugly zitty face to show them how far you've come. And to show them what they've lost. And to show them what they can never have. And how you have more than they ever will. And to spit in their ugly face. And spit again. And again.

And fucken spit in his fucken ugly face again so he can see how fucken far I've come and what a fucken loser he still is.

I think of all the people that underestimated me and all the exes that have wronged me in the past.


No surprises there . . . never dealt with anyone as superficial as you in all my years

ProducerCashDave 07-29-2006 12:55 AM

Fitty........

baddog 07-29-2006 12:58 AM

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Originally Posted by rants
Most people I know are like this.


birds of a feather and all that . . . of course, I don't think you have much interaction with real people, your friends are most likely faces you see in People magazine.

Mr. Marks 07-29-2006 05:05 AM

It's uncomfortable to admit, but it's true--most people compete (or measure themselves) based on what they see others do/what others take value in. Sure, some measure their success based on their own personal past performance, but for the most part success is defined by others outside of yourself. From our parents to our neighbor to our girlfriend/wife/boyfriend/whatever, a major part of our identity and worldview is influenced by and colored by those around us.

Vitasoy 07-29-2006 05:58 AM

a mix of both for me too.


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