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phil_in_oz · 07-17-2006, 10:33 PM

Wierdest thing just happened at the Chinese massage place I've been going to for over 4 years regularly. Massage nearing an end and the girl giving me the massage (fairly new) starts going right up to the nether regions, and then whispers in my ear if I wanted a handjob. Don't know if she was just turned on or asks everyone - probably the latter of course.

If the wife hadn't climbed off a few hours earlier I might have gone for it.

Would you have or not? Imagine all those other cocks she's probably wanked off this week already

(guess she would be well practiced though

)

pornguy · 07-17-2006, 10:35 PM

If you are right handed, and you used your left, you cheated.

SomeCreep · 07-17-2006, 10:41 PM

Cheating is any kind of intimate contact with another that betrays the trust of your partner.

AnnaSucks · 07-17-2006, 10:50 PM

Cheating. But you did the right thing, and you can even earn a few extra points by telling your wife about this incident and that you were outraged and you're never going there again

Heidiland · 07-17-2006, 10:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SomeCreep

Cheating is any kind of intimate contact with another that betrays the trust of your partner.

phil_in_oz · 07-17-2006, 10:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SomeCreep

Cheating is any kind of intimate contact with another that betrays the trust of your partner.

Yeah, I wouldn't have gone there regardless. The whole thing was just embarrassing and wierd

Paul Markham · 07-17-2006, 10:52 PM

Hate to shatter your dream but 99 out of 100 if you had said yes she would of told you how much.

A hand job is cheating if you're thinking of anyone but your partner.

Unless she's seducing your partner.

Elle Sommers · 07-17-2006, 10:58 PM

Would you be pissed if your wife was getting a massage from a tall dark and handsome italian fellow and he asked if she wanted him to give her pussy a little massage too? My guess is yes, you'd be pretty mad about it!

If your wife will be proud of you for doing the right thing, score some brownie points and tell her. If theres a chance she'll march down to the massage place and strangle the girl, you might want to keep quiet about the incident!

CaptainHowdy · 07-17-2006, 11:02 PM

Of course it is !!

RRRED · 07-17-2006, 11:03 PM

Anything that you couldn't get away with while your significant other is right there, present, or watching.. is cheating.

Funny thing.. some guys won't even let their girlfriends have a massage at all unless it's done by a girl.

L0rdJuni0r · 07-17-2006, 11:03 PM

i would say it is. Would you get mad if you girl had someone finger her??

MetaMan · 07-17-2006, 11:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Elle Sommers

Would you be pissed if your wife was getting a massage from a tall dark and handsome italian fellow and he asked if she wanted him to give her pussy a little massage too? My guess is yes, you'd be pretty mad about it!

i have been told by women there is no such as a handsome italian, so it is not cheating.

Bro Media - BANNED FOR LIFE · 07-17-2006, 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by RRRED

Funny thing.. some guys won't even let their girlfriends have a massage at all unless it's done by a girl.

im that way... but not for the cheating/jealousy thing, but because i like hot girl on girl action

phil_in_oz · 07-17-2006, 11:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Elle Sommers

Would you be pissed if your wife was getting a massage from a tall dark and handsome italian fellow and he asked if she wanted him to give her pussy a little massage too? My guess is yes, you'd be pretty mad about it!

If your wife will be proud of you for doing the right thing, score some brownie points and tell her. If theres a chance she'll march down to the massage place and strangle the girl, you might want to keep quiet about the incident!

Good point. I'd divorce her for being such a slapper lol.

Can't possibly tell her, she'd fricken go nuts and I'd never have a massage again!

sharp · 07-17-2006, 11:09 PM

of course it is.

funny story, though :P

fantabulous · 07-17-2006, 11:11 PM

of coz cheatin'

bdld · 07-17-2006, 11:12 PM

it's not cheating, especially if you don't get caught.

lelahosting · 07-17-2006, 11:22 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnaSucks

Cheating. But you did the right thing, and you can even earn a few extra points by telling your wife about this incident and that you were outraged and you're never going there again

LOL

like you expect him to do that...he will be going back one way or another...lol

Socks · 07-17-2006, 11:27 PM

Cheat on her repeatedly. With the extra pussy you can make a better judgement on whether this whole "relationship" thing is for you. Otherwise you'll never know! KNOW YOURSELF!

bucketoffuck · 07-17-2006, 11:37 PM

Only if you're the one giving it.

scottybuzz · 07-18-2006, 12:21 AM

course its cheating!!!

DomP_nl · 07-18-2006, 12:29 AM

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Originally Posted by bdld

it's not cheating, especially if you don't get caught.

BusterBunny · 07-18-2006, 12:30 AM

fuck that shit regardless of it being cheating or not....mabye if she offered head i'd take it up, but never pay for something you can do yourself............

cranki · 07-18-2006, 12:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MetaMan

i have been told by women there is no such as a handsome italian, so it is not cheating.

CaptainWolfy · 07-18-2006, 12:37 AM

yes it is!!!!

babalapoulos · 07-18-2006, 12:38 AM

I would have never gone for that, if you want 2 cheat i go 2 the bar give a girl a drink and I'll be riding her all night.

And offcourse I'll lay my porsche key next 2 her on the bar

Amysworld · 07-18-2006, 12:42 AM

My dad always had a valid point. He would say:

"If I wouldnt do it when my wife was there next to me, I wouldnt do it."

phil_in_oz · 07-18-2006, 12:46 AM

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Originally Posted by BusterBunny

fuck that shit regardless of it being cheating or not....mabye if she offered head i'd take it up, but never pay for something you can do yourself............

Damn BusterBunny, you must do a lot of yoga if you can give yourself head

reynold · 07-18-2006, 12:48 AM

It's cheating. I suggest you should cut that sinful hand now.

LiveDose · 07-18-2006, 12:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by phil_in_oz

Wierdest thing just happened at the Chinese massage place I've been going to for over 4 years regularly. Massage nearing an end and the girl giving me the massage (fairly new) starts going right up to the nether regions, and then whispers in my ear if I wanted a handjob. Don't know if she was just turned on or asks everyone - probably the latter of course.

If the wife hadn't climbed off a few hours earlier I might have gone for it.

Would you have or not? Imagine all those other cocks she's probably wanked off this week already

(guess she would be well practiced though

)

4 years? Damn man you're at the wrong parlor!

Vitasoy · 07-18-2006, 01:19 AM

Yes your girl will consider it cheating

ContentSHOOTER · 07-18-2006, 02:20 AM

Yeah, what else would you call it

gooddomains · 07-18-2006, 02:22 AM

ask Bill Clinton

madawgz · 07-18-2006, 02:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pornguy

If you are right handed, and you used your left, you cheated.

obviously

PornoHedgehog · 07-18-2006, 02:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pornguy

If you are right handed, and you used your left, you cheated.

$5 submissions · 07-18-2006, 02:26 AM

In criminal law, INTENT + ACTION is a crime. Unfortunately, in relationships, there IS such a thing as thought crime... If thinking something wrong is cause for drama relationship, how much worse for actual contact?

just my opinion. I just try to avoid relationship drama as much as I can.

MyNameIsNobody · 07-18-2006, 03:13 AM

cheating is for fuckheads..

pie is for real men!

God I love pie..

martinsc · 07-18-2006, 03:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gooddomains

ask Bill Clinton

mOrrI · 07-18-2006, 03:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gooddomains

ask Bill Clinton

LOLL

Drake · 07-18-2006, 06:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pornguy

If you are right handed, and you used your left, you cheated.

WalkerTR · 07-18-2006, 06:30 AM

Cheating.

MFXumeroth · 07-18-2006, 06:38 AM

I would do it. But people already said I am evil, so...

But in the wisest words Al Bundy ever said ... "It's only cheating if you get caught"

ProducerCashDave · 07-18-2006, 06:41 AM

Yep its cheating

GatorB · 07-18-2006, 06:41 AM

"Happy Endings" are cheating.

CDSmith · 07-18-2006, 06:43 AM

Can't believe 14 cheating fuckers said "no it's not cheating"

Then again, it's GFY.... so yes I can believe it. :D

mr.hyde · 07-18-2006, 06:50 AM

I wouldnt have accepted either and I voted a handjob to be cheating but it almost seems like there could be a loop hole with that story.

just fucking around

Madame0120 · 07-18-2006, 06:55 AM

Not in our Home. Handjob, or hummer .. roy has a standing letter of Permission to git him a lil strange.

Dirty Dane · 07-18-2006, 06:57 AM

Sex is pleasure. Love is feelings. Now think about this; what is the difference between you masturbate or some other girl masturbate you? The difference is the girl, not feelings, right? So, the question is; the girlfriend and you, is it partnership or ownership?

tranza · 07-18-2006, 06:59 AM

We have discussed this before on GFY, most people agree that if you're the guy it's not cheating, but if you're the girl than it's definetly cheating.

MFXumeroth · 07-18-2006, 07:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dirty Dane

Sex is pleasure. Love is feelings. Now think about this; what is the difference between you masturbate or some other girl masturbate you? The difference is the girl, not feelings, right? So, the question is; the girlfriend and you, is it partnership or ownership?

I don't know if u r a girl... but I love u, I really do. If u r a guy I still love u, but not in a gay way.

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07-17-2006, 10:33 PM	#1
phil_in_oz Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 145	Is a handjob cheating? Wierdest thing just happened at the Chinese massage place I've been going to for over 4 years regularly. Massage nearing an end and the girl giving me the massage (fairly new) starts going right up to the nether regions, and then whispers in my ear if I wanted a handjob. Don't know if she was just turned on or asks everyone - probably the latter of course. If the wife hadn't climbed off a few hours earlier I might have gone for it. Would you have or not? Imagine all those other cocks she's probably wanked off this week already (guess she would be well practiced though ) __________________ Go ahead, make my day.

07-17-2006, 10:35 PM	#2
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07-17-2006, 10:41 PM	#3
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07-17-2006, 10:52 PM	#7
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07-17-2006, 10:58 PM	#8
Elle Sommers Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Florida Posts: 660	Would you be pissed if your wife was getting a massage from a tall dark and handsome italian fellow and he asked if she wanted him to give her pussy a little massage too? My guess is yes, you'd be pretty mad about it! If your wife will be proud of you for doing the right thing, score some brownie points and tell her. If theres a chance she'll march down to the massage place and strangle the girl, you might want to keep quiet about the incident! __________________ Check Out My OFFICIAL Site, www.ElleSommers.com AND don't forget to join my affiliate program, www.PornMonkeyCash.com!!!! ICQ: 235-755-827

07-17-2006, 11:02 PM	#9
CaptainHowdy Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Happy in the dark. Posts: 93,574	Of course it is !!

07-17-2006, 11:03 PM	#10
RRRED Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: WA Posts: 6,754	Anything that you couldn't get away with while your significant other is right there, present, or watching.. is cheating. Funny thing.. some guys won't even let their girlfriends have a massage at all unless it's done by a girl.

07-17-2006, 11:03 PM	#11
L0rdJuni0r Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Cancun, Mexico Posts: 5,883	i would say it is. Would you get mad if you girl had someone finger her?? __________________ Affordable video and picture editing. junior[at]jampackproductions[DOT]com ICQ: 605429331

07-17-2006, 11:09 PM	#15
sharp Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 7,006	of course it is. funny story, though :P

07-17-2006, 11:11 PM	#16
fantabulous Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Somewhere Posts: 485	of coz cheatin'

07-17-2006, 11:12 PM	#17
bdld $100,000 Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 11,452	it's not cheating, especially if you don't get caught.

07-17-2006, 11:27 PM	#19
Socks Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2002 Location: Toronto Posts: 8,475	Cheat on her repeatedly. With the extra pussy you can make a better judgement on whether this whole "relationship" thing is for you. Otherwise you'll never know! KNOW YOURSELF!

07-17-2006, 11:37 PM	#20
bucketoffuck Registered User Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 58	Only if you're the one giving it. __________________ http://www.bucketoffuck.com ICQ:195-143-964

07-18-2006, 12:21 AM	#21
scottybuzz Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: May 2006 Location: NY Posts: 14,800	course its cheating!!! __________________ $$$$$ MAKE HUGE MONEY IN CAMS - CLICK HERE $$$$$

07-18-2006, 12:30 AM	#23
BusterBunny perverted justice decoy Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: unborn still in the womb connected via blackberry Posts: 19,291	fuck that shit regardless of it being cheating or not....mabye if she offered head i'd take it up, but never pay for something you can do yourself............ __________________ my sig caught gonoherpasyphilaids and died

07-18-2006, 12:37 AM	#25
CaptainWolfy Playa Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Somewhere on the Earth Posts: 8,439	yes it is!!!!

07-18-2006, 12:38 AM	#26
babalapoulos Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 475	I would have never gone for that, if you want 2 cheat i go 2 the bar give a girl a drink and I'll be riding her all night. And offcourse I'll lay my porsche key next 2 her on the bar __________________ BEST ADULT PROGRAMS: MOOCASH - Adult Webmaster Empire - Bangbros NETWORK - TrafficCashGold - PussyCash.com - CAMS.com

07-18-2006, 12:42 AM	#27
Amysworld Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,578	My dad always had a valid point. He would say: "If I wouldnt do it when my wife was there next to me, I wouldnt do it."

07-18-2006, 12:48 AM	#29
reynold Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Global Traveler Posts: 51,271	It's cheating. I suggest you should cut that sinful hand now.

07-18-2006, 01:19 AM	#31
Vitasoy GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!! Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 58,202	Yes your girl will consider it cheating __________________ [email protected]

07-18-2006, 02:20 AM	#32
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07-18-2006, 02:22 AM	#33
gooddomains Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Netherlands Posts: 10,127	ask Bill Clinton

07-18-2006, 02:26 AM	#36
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07-18-2006, 03:13 AM	#37
MyNameIsNobody Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Swedän Posts: 2,947	cheating is for fuckheads.. pie is for real men! God I love pie..

07-18-2006, 06:30 AM	#41
WalkerTR Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,646	Cheating.

07-18-2006, 06:38 AM	#42
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07-18-2006, 06:41 AM	#43
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07-18-2006, 06:41 AM	#44
GatorB The Demon & 12clicks Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: SallyRand is a FAGGOT Posts: 18,208	"Happy Endings" are cheating.

07-18-2006, 06:43 AM	#45
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07-18-2006, 06:50 AM	#46
mr.hyde Registered User Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: San Diego Posts: 53	I wouldnt have accepted either and I voted a handjob to be cheating but it almost seems like there could be a loop hole with that story. just fucking around

07-18-2006, 06:55 AM	#47
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07-18-2006, 06:57 AM	#48
Dirty Dane Sick Fuck Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: www Posts: 9,491	Sex is pleasure. Love is feelings. Now think about this; what is the difference between you masturbate or some other girl masturbate you? The difference is the girl, not feelings, right? So, the question is; the girlfriend and you, is it partnership or ownership?

07-18-2006, 06:59 AM	#49
tranza ICQ: 197-556-237 Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: BRASIL !!! Posts: 57,559	We have discussed this before on GFY, most people agree that if you're the guy it's not cheating, but if you're the girl than it's definetly cheating. __________________ I'm just a newbie.