i never have, but i will be 1st to admit that i would cheat under the right circumstances

i think we ALL have it in us to cheat under the perfect circumstances

never....

Great post...I agree 100% with it.

I've never cheated and wouldn't think of cheating, but yeah...if you do, you should respect the person you're with and let her know that its over.

I have, I liked it, and would do so again.

It's not about love, I do love my partner.
It's not about the pain, I was cheated many times, and I know how it hurts.
It's simply about the oppotunity and the biological necessity sometimes.

People can fool themselves all they want but the truth is, biologically we r not monogamous. And I rather cheat and be happy, than to "cheat" on myself and be miserable.

Of course there r exceptions, some partners simply live up to all your needs there r few of those, but if it happens to u, enjoy. Cheat only if u fell the urge for it, not for anger or some crap like that.

Yes I have... all was awesome, but never on my current partner cause she is all there should be for me :)
And now I'm married, I couldn't care less about all the other girls...

Sure is. That's why I don't cheat.

That is an awesome question because I have a problem here. My lover flow home 3 months ago to renew his visa. INS reinstated him, The Embassy said with a new i-20 no problem and they turned him down. "As long as he has his new I-20 then we can process the new visa." What a lie! I've called and faxed almost ever since government agency, but no one will listen or knows what to do. I've faxed the white house 10 times, US state department 15 times, Sectary Rice 5 times, The DOJ's office twice. Hilary Clintons office 5 times, peter kings office I went to three times. The embassy 3 times, Bureau of counsel affairs twice.

So it's going on three months now. The dog is looking good, no just kidding. I'm trying real hard to be good, but it's so really hard! Oh we have been together 4 1/2 years.

I started a blog in hopes that someone in the government could see all the double talk and triple talk that we have gone throw. I parked it on myspace because I know there is a lot of law enforcement watching the site.

yes I had.... damn.. that was bad experience

Ask me no questions and I'll tell you no lies. Wonder how many will lie or stretch the truth a bit in this thread?

I never have and even if the one I would cheat with came along it still would not happen......do unto others....

lol, Same for me but I cant say that I do other peoples work so I guess I dont cheat.

It's easy to say "I won't cheat even if Angelina Jolie sits on my lap" But believe u me, YOU WILL Cheat, hell Brad Pit did, and he had Jeniffer Aniston, wich is totally hot.

Believe me if the opportunity presents itself, it's TOUGH as hell to say no. So the only real way not to cheat is being lucky(or unlucky) and never ghet the opportunity OR be very aware of your surroundings and don't let the opportunity come to near. And let's face it, we all like to play with fire a little bit.

Blah, that's bullshit.

If u think so, obviously u'v never been in a sittuation like that my friend.

no i dont

No what, 'Best nick ever'?

If you can't control yourself, you're weak.

i've never cheated. temptations are out there but i don't go looking trouble when i'm in a relationship. whenever i really wanted to cheat it was usually because my relationship needed some work or was done. i make no judgements. relationships can be complex. i'm with hal on this one. have an agreement that its an open relationship or breakup if its not, before you cheat.

Yes I have..and I would again!

Not weak, Human. As r you.
We should not look for trouble, that's for sure, but sometimes it finds u, and sometimes, u can't escape it.

Yes you can escape it. If you can't keep your cock in your pants you're weak.

Do you also steal if the opportunity is there?

never have, never will :)

Really...do u have a cock? or r u a girl?

I have a cock, and I have no urge to stick it where it doesn't belong.

R u 18 yet?

I stand by the statement
If you don't feel comfortable/happy with your partner, why would you keep the relationships?
I prefer to break it up before I fell the need to cheat. Wish my ex' was that strong to do that to me :Oh crap

Dude, chill I am not trying to offend u in anyway.
I am 26. But I am also true with myself. SCIENCE says human beings DO NOT mate for life. To say so is a LIE, that is a fact.

About stealing, stealing is WRONG and cheating really ain't, we may not like it, but it ain't wrong. Why? because it does nothing bad to anyone, now stealing does.

In many countries man can marry with more than one women and be happy.

Now if your woman satisfies u COMPLETELLY and u NEVER wish to fuck someone else, good for u, really. U r one in a Million, hell one in a BILLION.

But the FACT is, we DO have to fight our most primal urges not to fuck women we find atractive, that's just the way it is, and nothing anyone says is gonna change this fact.

You're pathetic. I don't believe you're 26. You sound like a 13 years old who has never even seen a pussy. It does nothing bad to anyone?:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

I see a lonely life in your future.

It sounds like Finland is in as much of a state as Britain !

Everything you have described is the same here, and I feel exactly the same as you do. The system DISGUSTS me !

Back to the thread, no I've never cheated

This is an interesting thread because I think it also speaks volumes for your business ethics, because when i read this thread and I looked at the people who said they have cheated it made me wonder in what other parts of their life they cheat and imo it speaks volumes about the personality of the person.

Obviously those who cheat are gonna defend their actions but thats my opinion on the subject :)

You see nothing. Cause I am happy just the way I am, and do not lie about it.

Really dude, U should be the one to grow up, what BAD does it do? really? Because u r so jealous and possesivbe u can't stand the tought that your partner is YOURS, believe me SHE IS NOT YOURS, and it goes the other way around. Can u explain to me how come people that does swinging and stuff like that r happy? And they r.
We r just to possesive to accept the fact that SEX is just sex, love is something else entirelly, carnal desire is nothing compared to love. And if I do stick my dick somewhere else just because I am horny does that make me Evil? Really? I don't think so. As I said, no one gets hurt ...oh I am sorry, U do.

Nope, I probably never

So TGF where have you decided to move ? I've read than if your a British citizen and live outside the UK for more than 6 months a year, your not lieable to pay British tax. Keeping that extra 40% of my income sounds good to me !

Well, somewhere closer to north-america timezones.. but not the US. :)

Well...she IS mine, and I AM hers.

If you don't believe in monogomy and find a swinging partner, all the power to you. You apparently think that EVERYONE thinks like you.. that's simply not true, the great majority of people don't swing. However, I agree with you to a point.. the percentage of marriages that end, and the amount of cheating that goes around is sickening. Swinging is good, as it is NOT cheating.

Cheating is something completely different, and if you don't see why cheating is wrong, you're a fucking retard. As for 'no one gets hurt' comment, it's probably THE MOST hurtful thing you can do to your partner. :2 cents:

Used to when drunk, fucking regret, hope no more!

I did it once with my ex's best friend... let's say it didn't feel too good. I didn't go out with the girl for too long either lol.

No, I do not. Made that mistake when I was younger and learned from it the hard way. :Oh crap


Not to mention, karma can be a motherfucker. Remember the Golden Rule.

Well, u got the right to have your oppinion. And I am not saying that everyone thinks like me, all I am saying is that Biologicaly we r made to breed as many children as possible. Of course that as humans and intelligent beings we have enough strengh to stop urges like that. And we do most of the time.
I was only trying to make understand the way I think, wich u obviously don't. I do understand the way u think, and I am really happy it works for u, just don't judge people because they do it, people r different and flawed ina many, many ways.
In a perfect world, no one would have that problem cause there would be no possessions, but unfortunatelly there is. And I am possessive too, as most people are, as I said, Flawed.

I am not a man who likes to chet in everycorner, or that have 2 girlfriends, nothing like that. But I have cheated just for the Sex, no strings attached whatsoever. And it is not as bad as having a Romance with 2 ppl, now that is what I really call cheating.

But cheers for u and your partner, I am glad u r happy like that, and apreciated that discussion, not everyone has strong and intelligent points of view as u have, and I respect that.

And now, all I can do is agree to disagree, and let's live it at that.:pimp

thats the best reply i've seen :)

nope never have, and never will..