I donate to a lot of places that many would consider better or worse than donating to a "porno woman". Who cares? It's my money. It goes where I want it to go and doesn't go where I don't want it to go.

And remember, she asked for this ON HER WEBSITE. She hasn't gone public begging.

sorry to interrupt, was she trying to take donations via paypal? i bet they wouldn't like that much seeing as how they don't take porn star dollars. :helpme

I'm sure Jessica Steinhauser will find a new schmuck to take care of her kids and pay her bills.

I dont think that can be considered adult just giving money even if she is a pornstar they arent getting anything adult in return for that.

I must agree.

I haven't been paying attention. Have no idea what happened. Any loss is unfortunate of course. Is she the one asking for donations? If my spouse just died I think the last thing on my mind would be money, much less a donation run. Hell, if somebody in my family just died period the last thing on my mind would be money and I would have to be absolutely crazy to expect other random people (strangers) to give up their money.

Either way, if somebody wants to donate, so what?

Clearly the concept of benevolence is lost on some people, please spare us all the self-righteous rant.

I dont think what she needs is to be taught 'a lesson'. Im sure raising her two children with no husband and father will provide all the pain that is necessary.

I can't even comment on the absurdity of this post.

if I am not mistaken though, Asia Carerra has not made a movie or been in the adult industry in years...she was a stay at home mom

so, whlie I can see what you are saying, she really has nothing now....and kids to support. I think she just kept her little free site open because she had a lot of fans and friends that loved hearing from her...kind of like a blog

she really hasn't had the "lifestyle" that you think she did in a long time, and even when she was in the industry she wasn't your typical industry girl....she didn't work a whole hell of a lot and was very wise with her money

If I had any money, this topic would make me want to give some to Asia even more.

50 million

this thread is on crack...

Exactly.

I'm not going to talk about how much money I donate but rest assured Africa and aids related charities are my top priority. Those are the biggest injustices on the planet right now by far.

The sad truth is, is wealth in America is mostly a facade. They probablly have financed everything in the name of their dreams and potential in life they felt. Now that she can no longer work doing porn, she feels helpless. Facing a mortgage, car payment, payments on everything - people more often live outside their means. For her she may have to downsize fast. Losing the love of your life, facing 10k to have a baby (insurance doesn't cover it all!), having to pay 10k to bury her husband, and that is within the next month, not including all the other bills... God, this is why i don't believe in credit. God knows what kind of debt to income they have built up. Just makes a bad situation worse.

Seeing a dead end future financially, my guess is she is more concerned about taking care of her kids than keeping the expensive cars or house or tv. Without her husband, nothing else matters. Feel horrible for her sudden loss. Our opinions about her lifestyle doesn't change the fact that if any of us croaked tomorrow someone we love will have to foot the bills we left behind. It can take a long time to settle estates and get your insurance check. She'll be forced out of her home way before then I'm sure, without help from people who can afford to help her out.

Others disagree. Like myself. But I'm certainly not going to chastise you for doing your part to help another being. You shouldn't either.

The first message she posted on her bulletin board was to ask for money.

If someone wants to donate because they know her or whatever fine, I just started this thread to hopefully make a couple people who would have donated because this pulls on their heartstrings think it through. You're a sap if you don't know this girl and you give her money.

Personally this upsets me a lot more than an ex-pornstar having to sell her fancy house and SUV and having to get a real job once the kids are infants.

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To me she's heartless for trying to guilt people into giving her money the second she tells people that her husband died. She didn't even give him one post before throwing out the paypal addresses.

Not to mention that she's going to marry some rich guy in four years. I wonder if she'll return the donations when that happens.

We all do.





Every responsible parent has made arrangements for their family to be taken care of in case of a sudden tragedy. I know I have, and I did way before I had any disposable income.

Well I don't know you so I won't question your donations - if you say you do, fine. And I applaud your humanitarian side for helping out.

But what is odd is you feeling so strongly about NOT helping Asia that you not only posted once, you started another thread about it. I think most people who want to donate have the ability to decide for themselves and no one, including you, should be judgemental about other's charity ... at least not to the point of this thread, trying to convince people not to!

It's one thing to silently protest.
It's another to state your opinion, you're entitled.
But it's quite the thing to start a whole thread targeting someone who helped make this industry and put money in a lot of our pockets, directly or indirectly.

At the very least, certainly you could have chosen a more deserving target for your rant. There are 1000s of charities out there asking for money for just about everything. I trust you are just as adamant about telling people not to donate to them either (when, as you said, there are starving people in Africa)?

Are you really "sick and tired" of porn stars looking for help?
Or is it something more personal?

I was shocked at the similar rants directed at Nikki Nova after her accident - to the point I began to believe a lot more people in this industry than I expected must really practice what others say they preach: That pornography is degrading to women and objectifies them. Because your attitude and a few others clearly shows NO RESPECT for these women.

To be blunt, it's pretty fucking disgraceful.

Hey I'm not chastising anybody bro, just offering my advice for what it's worth. If you want to donate go ahead. I just think it's a bad use of money.

I can't argue with you. Not having any kids but being married under 30, I'm slacking on that myself. but then again, I dont live on credit, but either way in a shocked and desperate state, you can't help but ask for help, in any shape or size. She probablly has no idea what, if anything, he has setup.

anyone know how long they've been married?

You're certainly intitled to your opinion, but I don't think that a parent who spends money on themselves before protecting their kids deserves respect or charity. Nikki Nova was a different case, she didn't have kids, you're allowed to be stupid when you don't have kids.

yeah and as i can see this is going to be MAJOR Drama here. but for my 2 cents, its up to that person to donate if they want. but your right they should have insurance. and thats as far as im going with this

Why does it show no respect for someone that didnt plan for the future?

All this thread proves is who is a selfish asshole and who isn't

Some people just don't get it. It's simple. Call bluecross or statefarm etc etc etc. Set up insurance. Approval within days.

Excuses excuses and now she's fucked. No sympathy here.

Why ? Just because one doesnt run to a porn stars aid doesnt make them a selfish asshole.

Who the fuck do you think you are, telling people what to do with their money and who to donate to?

I'd give money to my brother if he blew his life savings in a Casino, before I gave it to kids in Africa. Whoever comes first in your book is up to you.

And don't tell me that you'd give money to kids in Africa before family and freinds, regardless of how they ended up in the situation

Opinions are like assholes, that's for sure.

Starting this thread shows the correlation in your case.

As others mentioned, if you don't want to help her out, don't. No one cares if you do or not. The thread shows that your sense of taste is all in your mouth, however.

This is a thread for Cap'n Save a Ho.

Like I said, if you know her, that's one thing. Of course you have to be there for family.

I have mixed thoughts about AC asking for donations.

so i take it you will be giving her a sizeable donation, right?

dude I 200% understand and share your point of view BUT does a kid has to pay because of his parents problems? Can't we prevent this?

Why would I donate money to someone I don't even know that lives half way around the globe?

There are plenty of really poor people here in Brazil that I rather donate money to.

:2 cents:

I'm sorry...think about it...would you donate money to Brad Pitt? Tom Cruise? Any of these cats that you KNOW should be set for life if they took care of business...?

Asia has been a SIGNATURE porn name for YEARS. She's done countless movies and, while porn money isnt hollywood money, there is no real reason she should be broke other than that she didn't take care of business. And her late husband wasnt a slouch either! How the HELL are they broke???

I donated to Ronaldinho, Rivaldo and Ronaldo.

She's only posted a handful of times.

Can anyone here get an actual police report or death certificate?

She always talked about her investments and plan to have 1 million saved before 30; she wanted people to know that she had money and wasn't like other porn girls pissing their cash away.

Did she and Don Lemmon just split up and do not want to admit it publicly?

I remember when Hypatia Lee faked her 'death' in the late 90s.

I think she should do some pregnant porn videos to raise some fast cash.

You can pretty much just look at the screen name, and predict the response here. :2 cents: