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06-08-2006 08:36 AM |
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Originally Posted by rants
Sorry no kids for me... Remember what I wrote in the gay thread? Having kids is not for everyone :(
If I HAD to have a kid I would rather have an epidural even if it's more dangerous, or I would schedule an elective c-section (this is possible if you are willing to pay out of pocket) and be put to sleep while they do it.
But the truth is that I really don't want kids at all... I just don't want to dedicate my life to raising someone, I want to dedicate my life to myself, not to another human being. I don't want to have to watch over anyone or take care of anyone all the time. I want to do what I want to do whenever I want to do it.
I work hard for everything I have and I want to enjoy it and spend it on myself and not be stressed out having to raise/take care of someone.
I also just don't like kids... sorry :(
I also don't like ANY pain, even if it's tolerable. I would rather not have it at all if possible.
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That's o'k. i know a person of 35 who do not want kids still and will not want them i bet. Neither her husband. they live for themselves - happy, doing bussiness in i-net.
when i was 15 i thought i will never have a kid becuase it is painy, and i will surely adopt one, because there are so many children without parent, but it turned out that i got pregnant and there was nothing i could do then.
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