| SleazyDream |
06-07-2006 06:17 PM |
ok, here are my skills.
the majority of women I end up fucking are from lavalife or myspace these days. What can i say - i'm a lazy guy. it's too fucking easy. seriously - it' is sooo fucking easy to get laid though them. Lavalife you chat on the phone - find out what you can - meet them for coffee at a neutral safe location and one out of 3 I end up boinking that night. 1 out of three is ugly and I pass and the other one of three requires 2-3 dates - if they're nice and hot I do it and boink them on date 2-3 - if there's something i don't like i pass.
now pick up wise raw in a bar or elsewhere - i believe it's all about first contact.
My thoughts are - you need to have eye contact first - a glance. there are no accidents - if you catch her looking at you - dno't look away - stare her down - if she looks down - go for it - if she looks up - forget her. one is a matting sign of submission - the other is blowing you off.
now no matter how hot someone is - everyone has things about them that they are insecure about. never think anyone is out of your league. hot girls hear that they are hot all the time - i like to be different so my opening line is looking for something about her - article of jewlry or clothing - shoes - etc - something that she thinks is special and the other dorks won't pick up on. - then I do like roger - try and break em down. pick something off their cloths - even if i palm it - like lint or fix their hair or something to show they arn't perfect. then loose interest. When i come back i look for opening signals. basically it's touch. I talk to them - show interest, and not just intellicually - but make it clear i'm attracted physically but i wait for them to touch me while showing interest. there are no accidents - REMEMBER THIS - if when flirting a woman touches you it's 70% closed. she just told you she wants you and maked her territory. it might only be a little brush up against you - a touch of her hand on you, but a touch - physical contact, means you're in. if after flirting for 20-30 mins and she makes no attempt at touch - i move on. - if touched i make it easier to touch me again and touch her - more and more till a kiss happens then it's roll with it and close the deal.
I find myself when i dont' fall back on money - travel adventures, cool friends, or physical attractiveness and rely on raw game I do much better.
i'm no genious - but those are my skills - what little there are of them. they've worked a lot - i do not bad for a fat guy.
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