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seeric · 06-05-2006, 05:43 PM

Is it some freakin clock inside i guy that says "I have to leave my demented mark on future civilizations?", or am I just tired of spendin so much time alone working?

- I don't hang out like a teenager anymore.
- All I care about is music production, making money, and being healthy (for the most part)
- Get tired of kicking it alone at home. (friends are awesome but you can't compare it.)

Just something that has been poking at me for about a month. Maybe its just spring fever.

Am I completely out of my mind to think about letting a woman into my life again?

Would you date someone in adult? Who would be the candidates?

Would you find someone completely out of adult so you don't have too much in common and it backfires?

Love Sex · 06-05-2006, 05:46 PM

why wouldnt you want a women if your life

L-Pink · 06-05-2006, 05:47 PM

Advise:

If it flies, floats, or fucks, it's cheaper to rent it.

.

Just_Dave · 06-05-2006, 05:48 PM

after a while you need to settle down and have a family you can only go out so much and hang out with friends or be alone

NoWhErE · 06-05-2006, 05:49 PM

How old are ya again?

Sometimes the Biological clock ticks harder than usual. A girlfriend or even a wife is always nice, but you've got to be lucky enough to find the girl that will encourage your entrepeneural spirit and not hinder it.

That my friend, is not an easy find!

Another thing u can do is find her a hobby to keep her busy while you work! Thanks again! haha

seeric · 06-05-2006, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Love Sex

why wouldnt you want a women if your life

can't find one that can tolerate me.

i'm super driven and succeeded and taing over stuff is in my blood. i will work and work and work until i'm bored. my schedule is basically work and keep going on lots of projects. just right now today i have a dvd project, a t-shirt project for promos, flyers, email tracking a spammer, catching up on emails from the show, rage numbers, adding galls to the system, putting up the pics (during csi), and adding vod upsells to the members area, mastering my new dj cd, (this one for sale in the blockbuster chain), and about 900 other things on the plate.

however, when i'm done with it, i'm not thrilled at chillin by myself. my friends are cool, but when they come over its about fucking off and video gaming and blah blah blah.

sometimes i need to decompress. i am thinking of going back to a 9-5 online adult work experience, but thats not how you get ahead.

its perplexing.

Waveu6410 · 06-05-2006, 05:55 PM

I find it hard dating rarly becuase I work in the adult industry. For the most part woman are interested in what I do.

If I could date someone on the adult industry (something I would prefer) it would be Brooke Skye. I fell in love with that girl the first time I seen her

seeric · 06-05-2006, 05:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NoWhErE

How old are ya again?

Sometimes the Biological clock ticks harder than usual. A girlfriend or even a wife is always nice, but you've got to be lucky enough to find the girl that will encourage your entrepeneural spirit and not hinder it.

That my friend, is not an easy find!

Another thing u can do is find her a hobby to keep her busy while you work! Thanks again! haha

yes, my dilemna exactly.

i'm 36 on august 5th, 2006 at internext.

Murderous · 06-05-2006, 05:57 PM

As much as it clashes with my character...

No.

You are not going nuts.

I just moved back to my hometown, put a down payment on a house, got a dalmation and 3 lovely cats, planted grass and built a BBQ grill, and get my son every weekend (even more now that schools out) whom I haven't seen since he was 18 months. I love it... I want someone to share it with. I have everything when only months ago I had shit. The only thing missing is a girl.

I normally only date, nothing serious. I have had my heart crushed by both my babys mommas. I am not open to letting a chick into my life, but I think I am ready.

See... before, all my relationships were built around an unstable lifestyle. Now that I grew up and matured, I think I have a solid shot at falling back in love.

And!

If I chose someone out of this industry, the two names that come to mind are...

[drumroll]

Mandy Blake (I LOVE YOU!)
KnockedUpNina (prolly taken)

Tdog · 06-05-2006, 05:59 PM

Get a dog, that should help.

seeric · 06-05-2006, 06:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Murderous

As much as it clashes with my character...

No.

You are not going nuts.

I just moved back to my hometown, put a down payment on a house, got a dalmation and 3 lovely cats, planted grass and built a BBQ grill, and get my son every weekend (even more now that schools out) whom I haven't seen since he was 18 months. I love it... I want someone to share it with. I have everything when only months ago I had shit. The only thing missing is a girl.

I normally only date, nothing serious. I have had my heart crushed by both my babys mommas. I am not open to letting a chick into my life, but I think I am ready.

See... before, all my relationships were built around an unstable lifestyle. Now that I grew up and matured, I think I have a solid shot at falling back in love.

And!

If I chose someone out of this industry, the two names that come to mind are...

[drumroll]

Mandy Blake (I LOVE YOU!)
KnockedUpNina (prolly taken)

nice perspective.

also for tdog, getting a dog is not possible because i travel to much and have a condo. poor dog would go nuts.

seeric · 06-05-2006, 06:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Waveu6410

I find it hard dating rarly becuase I work in the adult industry. For the most part woman are interested in what I do.

If I could date someone on the adult industry (something I would prefer) it would be Brooke Skye. I fell in love with that girl the first time I seen her

yeah, most girls i meet don't mind the porn thing.

wiggitywack · 06-05-2006, 06:28 PM

Airek

simple solution: head back down to Brasil for a few months. Maybe even find a nice lady to bring home :-)

Cyndalie · 06-05-2006, 06:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by A1R3K

yes, my dilemna exactly.

i'm 36 on august 5th, 2006 at internext.

I'm 30 aug 6th at internext...

I know what you mean. I was lucky enough to find my man over 6 years ago when I was already working in adult, and he moved to FL to work for the same company. Now he works in mainstream again, and I'm still firmly planted in adult. The dynamics change. Don't let "working in adult" versus "not working in adult" fool you, it's about the person. Being single has some advantages, you can keep your eyes looking out for the 'right' person. Being tied down to the wrong person, for more than a few months, and make you frustrated over missed opportunities...as they say - timing is everything. You being READY counts first. Welcome and enjoy your time scouting. The right person may already be in front of you, online or off...you just don't know it yet.

Cheers to open minds and open hearts!

Can't wait to celebrate our birthdays! Nice meeting you this past weekend!

MaddCaz · 06-05-2006, 06:34 PM

nope its natural

Spunky · 06-05-2006, 06:39 PM

Everybody goes through it but I still prefer having girlfriends that come and go..don't think I could handle rug rats

Cyndalie · 06-05-2006, 06:42 PM

We don't think we want rugrats either, surely not NOW, but finding the right person and having a fun time making a life together can be satisfying and interesting Being secure in a relationship can have it's own fun-time advantages as well

minusonebit · 06-05-2006, 06:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by L-Pink

Advise:

If it flies, floats, or fucks, it's cheaper to rent it.

.

Thats good advice.

tASSy · 06-05-2006, 06:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by A1R3K

Is it some freakin clock inside i guy that says "I have to leave my demented mark on future civilizations?", or am I just tired of spendin so much time alone working?

- I don't hang out like a teenager anymore.
- All I care about is music production, making money, and being healthy (for the most part)
- Get tired of kicking it alone at home. (friends are awesome but you can't compare it.)

Just something that has been poking at me for about a month. Maybe its just spring fever.

Am I completely out of my mind to think about letting a woman into my life again?

Would you date someone in adult? Who would be the candidates?

Would you find someone completely out of adult so you don't have too much in common and it backfires?

totally normal a1r3k. let's make babies. hit me up in ICQ. ;)

Nicky · 06-05-2006, 06:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by A1R3K

yes, my dilemna exactly.

i'm 36 on august 5th, 2006 at internext.

You are 13 years older than me but your not allowed to settle down before ive been to a show and bought you more drinks than any man can drink

Elli · 06-05-2006, 06:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tASSy

totally normal a1r3k. let's make babies. hit me up in ICQ. ;)

*goggle*

*boggle*

*gasp*

It can't be that easy, can it?

seeric · 06-05-2006, 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Elli

*goggle*

*boggle*

*gasp*

It can't be that easy, can it?

i am in heat.

tassy, wouldn't we have really geeky babies?

cute ones for sure, but cute geeky babies?

jonesy · 06-05-2006, 07:11 PM

stop analizing

do what feels right.

Phoenix · 06-05-2006, 07:13 PM

happens to guys around our age dude

fuck i went and got married and more serious about everything...all started happeing around my 30th

ive heard form other guys as well...it is a biological time clock i think

Wiggles · 06-05-2006, 07:16 PM

i will never settle down, i love working and money too much.

seeric · 06-05-2006, 07:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Phoenix

happens to guys around our age dude

fuck i went and got married and more serious about everything...all started happeing around my 30th

ive heard form other guys as well...it is a biological time clock i think

strange. i can block stuff out pretty good but this is buggin me. me and aimee taked about it too. same stuff.

seeric · 06-06-2006, 06:33 AM

bump for daytime opinions.

Anthony · 06-06-2006, 06:36 AM

A relationship gets in the way of work.

seeric · 06-06-2006, 06:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anthony

A relationship gets in the way of work.

thats exactly whats always happened in the past. dividing and conquering is in my blood. none of em have ever been able to accept that.

klixxxgirl · 06-06-2006, 07:07 AM

no.. you are not crazy.. you feel like there is something missing... you are realizing that money is not everything and that there might be more important things out there (like sharing your life with someone)

adult industry or not is irrelevant. it's about finding a person you "click with"; someone who will support you in your work and dreams (not "get in the way").

good luck, airek! sorry claudia disappeared on you... i know you wanted to share your life with her

hahahahha KIDDING

Sinstar · 06-06-2006, 07:27 AM

Relationships defiantely affect your work, but can be really great if you're feeling that void.

Mr. Romance · 06-06-2006, 07:30 AM

Bro this biz is tough on all of us..I flew over 250k miles last year and went to about 95% of all shows..Its not easy what we do..people think its just all good times...but we get lonely..As you know, I am not traveling much this year to work on SPACash Version 2 and I actually for the first time since 8/2002 have just one girl in my life and its what i needed...

Mr. Romance

Manowar · 06-06-2006, 07:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by L-Pink

Advise:

If it flies, floats, or fucks, it's cheaper to rent it.

.

WebairGerard · 06-06-2006, 07:32 AM

It's all about balance. That's what you need to find in your life. The right partner could help that as well, but it must extend to other parts of your life. Balance work, play, etc.

seeric · 06-06-2006, 07:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by klixxxgirl

no.. you are not crazy.. you feel like there is something missing... you are realizing that money is not everything and that there might be more important things out there (like sharing your life with someone)

adult industry or not is irrelevant. it's about finding a person you "click with"; someone who will support you in your work and dreams (not "get in the way").

good luck, airek! sorry claudia disappeared on you... i know you wanted to share your life with her

hahahahha KIDDING

very funny.

LOL. claudia was my party buddy.

seeric · 06-06-2006, 07:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr. Romance

Bro this biz is tough on all of us..I flew over 250k miles last year and went to about 95% of all shows..Its not easy what we do..people think its just all good times...but we get lonely..As you know, I am not traveling much this year to work on SPACash Version 2 and I actually for the first time since 8/2002 have just one girl in my life and its what i needed...

Mr. Romance

you and roger settling down a little is kinda what set off the thoughts in my head.

i'm happy for both you guys.

you're both mentors to me in lots of ways.

Anthony · 06-06-2006, 07:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by A1R3K

thats exactly whats always happened in the past. dividing and conquering is in my blood. none of em have ever been able to accept that.

It's a catch 22. My current Ex always felt she was 2nd best. But didn't complain with the trips, getting her bills paid, engagement ring, etc. Someone has to pay for that.

Good luck man, I know how you feel.

seeric · 06-06-2006, 04:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anthony

It's a catch 22. My current Ex always felt she was 2nd best. But didn't complain with the trips, getting her bills paid, engagement ring, etc. Someone has to pay for that.

Good luck man, I know how you feel.

my dilemna too.

Barefootsies · 06-06-2006, 04:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by A1R3K

Is it some freakin clock inside i guy that says "I have to leave my demented mark on future civilizations?", or am I just tired of spendin so much time alone working?

- I don't hang out like a teenager anymore.
- All I care about is music production, making money, and being healthy (for the most part)
- Get tired of kicking it alone at home. (friends are awesome but you can't compare it.)

Just something that has been poking at me for about a month. Maybe its just spring fever.

Am I completely out of my mind to think about letting a woman into my life again?

Would you date someone in adult? Who would be the candidates?

Would you find someone completely out of adult so you don't have too much in common and it backfires?

BlingDaddy · 06-06-2006, 04:37 PM

There is a Mrs. Bling Daddy and we party harder than most... just make sure you choose wisely......

BVF · 06-06-2006, 04:40 PM

move to costa rica first like you planned...Then get a local chica

Gina · 06-06-2006, 04:42 PM

My boyfriend and I both work in adult. In fact, we met at work a few years ago when they sat us facing each other here at FlyntDigital. We are both, for the most part, homebodies who don't party and who mostly hang out with our families. We do have some strange dinner table conversations, but you know, if you need to come home and blow off steam about twinks or trannies or implants gone wrong, having someone at home who understands is really nice. We both always try to have non-porn side projects going on, which also helps to maintain our sanity.

zerrlander · 06-06-2006, 04:47 PM

Settling down eh? Hmm ... yeah ... tough call sometimes.

If you have everything you'll ever want in another person, I say go for it! If there is even a pinch of doubt, I say hold off and be honest with yourself.

Life's too short! ya know? Have fun and be true to yourself!

tical · 06-06-2006, 04:48 PM

every man needs a good woman to keep him grounded and its nice to be able to sit back and know someone is there for ya

the tough part is finding someone that understands crazy work schedules... for a regular 9-5'er and people that can leave work at work... they've got it so made... for the 'hungry' individual like myself, its a 24/7 thing

i doubt you'll find a girl that will play the sidelines right off the bat while you do your thing, you'll probably need to invest a little time and transition back into your gig... but finding the right one would definitely be worth it

gonna be a doozy... i'd say just keep doing what you're doing and sooner or later the right one will fall into place

aimeesweet · 06-06-2006, 05:15 PM

Sweets, I think there is definitely the right woman out there for you... I'd love to see you happily attached to a cool chick who wants to give you little dj's!

xoxo

WiredGuy · 06-06-2006, 05:26 PM

You're not alone my friend...
WG

StuartD · 06-06-2006, 05:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WiredGuy

You're not alone my friend...
WG

Indeed... I settled down, got myself an fiancee that I'm marrying in the fall and a baby boy who's as healthy as can be... and I couldn't possibly be happier.

It's not for everyone, but for those who do it... it's WELL worth it. Your life will never be the same. Even if it doesn't work out for what ever reason. You'll find that there will be many aspects about life that you'll look at entirely differently... as if your eyes had been opened.

Settling down doesn't mean you stop living... it means you start living. Just, differently

LadyMischief · 06-06-2006, 05:45 PM

Sweetheart, everyone finally comes to a point in their life when they want to do something more, something else, or just settle down. Make sure you have the right kind of lady, the kind you want to spend your life with and to be the mother of your children, and hope for the best.

As for dating someone in adult... well nobody is goign to understand your business better than someone in the business, and I'm sure you must understand just how difficult it is for non-industry folk to understand our type. Makes for unhappy times when they don't get it.

seeric · 06-06-2006, 06:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LadyMischief

Sweetheart, everyone finally comes to a point in their life when they want to do something more, something else, or just settle down. Make sure you have the right kind of lady, the kind you want to spend your life with and to be the mother of your children, and hope for the best.

As for dating someone in adult... well nobody is goign to understand your business better than someone in the business, and I'm sure you must understand just how difficult it is for non-industry folk to understand our type. Makes for unhappy times when they don't get it.

yeah, i'm kinda double cursed. i'm a dj (for now), and a pornographer.

fuzebox · 06-06-2006, 07:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by A1R3K

yes, my dilemna exactly.

i'm 36 on august 5th, 2006 at internext.

Wow, I had no idea... You don't look it (or act it)

06-05-2006, 05:43 PM	#1
seeric .......... Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: .......... Posts: 41,917	I've been thinking of settling down lately. Am I a nutjob? Is it some freakin clock inside i guy that says "I have to leave my demented mark on future civilizations?", or am I just tired of spendin so much time alone working? - I don't hang out like a teenager anymore. - All I care about is music production, making money, and being healthy (for the most part) - Get tired of kicking it alone at home. (friends are awesome but you can't compare it.) Just something that has been poking at me for about a month. Maybe its just spring fever. Am I completely out of my mind to think about letting a woman into my life again? Would you date someone in adult? Who would be the candidates? Would you find someone completely out of adult so you don't have too much in common and it backfires? Last edited by seeric; 06-05-2006 at 05:45 PM..

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Murderous Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 3,938	As much as it clashes with my character... No. You are not going nuts. I just moved back to my hometown, put a down payment on a house, got a dalmation and 3 lovely cats, planted grass and built a BBQ grill, and get my son every weekend (even more now that schools out) whom I haven't seen since he was 18 months. I love it... I want someone to share it with. I have everything when only months ago I had shit. The only thing missing is a girl. I normally only date, nothing serious. I have had my heart crushed by both my babys mommas. I am not open to letting a chick into my life, but I think I am ready. See... before, all my relationships were built around an unstable lifestyle. Now that I grew up and matured, I think I have a solid shot at falling back in love. And! If I chose someone out of this industry, the two names that come to mind are... [drumroll] Mandy Blake (I LOVE YOU!) KnockedUpNina (prolly taken)

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Tdog Confirmed User Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 2,707	Get a dog, that should help.

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wiggitywack Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 561	Airek simple solution: head back down to Brasil for a few months. Maybe even find a nice lady to bring home :-)

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klixxxgirl Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 309	no.. you are not crazy.. you feel like there is something missing... you are realizing that money is not everything and that there might be more important things out there (like sharing your life with someone) adult industry or not is irrelevant. it's about finding a person you "click with"; someone who will support you in your work and dreams (not "get in the way"). good luck, airek! sorry claudia disappeared on you... i know you wanted to share your life with her hahahahha KIDDING __________________ See you in Curacao! The 6th Annual Island Gathering October 12 - 16, 2006 Check out pics from last year! Kevsh: "Just as I've always said, "once you go Russian, you never go back"

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zerrlander Registered User Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 40	Settling down eh? Hmm ... yeah ... tough call sometimes. If you have everything you'll ever want in another person, I say go for it! If there is even a pinch of doubt, I say hold off and be honest with yourself. Life's too short! ya know? Have fun and be true to yourself! __________________ Zerrlander

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tical Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 6,504	every man needs a good woman to keep him grounded and its nice to be able to sit back and know someone is there for ya the tough part is finding someone that understands crazy work schedules... for a regular 9-5'er and people that can leave work at work... they've got it so made... for the 'hungry' individual like myself, its a 24/7 thing i doubt you'll find a girl that will play the sidelines right off the bat while you do your thing, you'll probably need to invest a little time and transition back into your gig... but finding the right one would definitely be worth it gonna be a doozy... i'd say just keep doing what you're doing and sooner or later the right one will fall into place __________________ 112.020.756

06-06-2006, 05:15 PM	#45
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06-06-2006, 05:26 PM	#46
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06-06-2006, 05:45 PM	#48
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