Awesome news bro

Congrats to that mate ;)

That's a big life change Rob. Was wondering where you went.

glad it's working out for ya!

i would be so pissed at her mother
she took away the greatest time you could have had with your daughter

good luck to you! i hope you're happy now! :winkwink:

Congrats dude. I wish my dad was like that :)

congrats on that

congrats
i guess you should hand out cigars or something
it's nice that you jumped in with both feet
with no questions about loving and accepting her

congratz :)

You where lucky, you didnt have to stay around in the early years when kids are nothing but pain.

Any suggestions how I can skip the first 10 years? ;)

congrats:thumbsup :thumbsup

Just wait till the mother hits you up for 13 years of child support.

$500/month
$6000/year

You now owe $78,000 in back child support... i hope you have deep pockets

his financial advisor said he can spend 600 a day without problems

Plus the girl can play on the free ps2 that she won in Rob's contest. :)

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

I love it when all the haters come out to play.

Just a heads up...nothing you say, post, or do will affect me in a negative way. I am in heaven right now and there is not one single thing that will affect that. Hate as much as you want; we all understand that it is in your nature to hate so I choose to forgive you.

I am a good person and have never wronged a single person on this board. I will leave it at that, I have to call my daughter to tell her to have a WONDERFUL Day and just to remind her that I'm here for her and that I love her very much! :thumbsup

For everyone else, thank you for your kind remarks!

no hate at all Rob

enjoy the gift of being a dad you got.

i just said what you made a thread about once

I wish you 360 + 5 days of hapiness.

Amazing story Rob. Sounds like you've taken a healthy outlook and approach to the situation...Enjoy every moment!

Oh, I know Gangbangjoe...we've always been cool. That thread did get me into a little hot water so I will also take full ownership of the flak I'm receiving over it. My above response wasn't directed at you.

Plus, my math was wrong. Turns out I can only spend $6 a day. :winkwink:

I feel sorry for your daughter, when she grew up she probably asked her mother "mom, who is my dad?".................. Cause she saw other kids play with their dads etc etc etc...

moms answer
"my daughter, you have to understand i was such a slut when i was in college, so i dont know who your father is, but i will call theese 50 ppl that i think can be the one..... they all have to do a test just to make sure.."

A woman who doesnt know who the father is for her child is a idiot and slut, stay away.

you are 50% german right?

do you speak a bit of german?

My father was "Amercianized" and my grand parents passed away before I was born on both sides of my family. I do not have a big family as far as bloodline is concerned.

I have no relatives in Germany other than my aunt but she has not spoken to my father for as long as I can remember so I don't consider her family. I can speak some German but nothing that would get me by for a single day if I ever visit.

My bloodline consist of My mother, father, 2 brothers, my daughter, and a niece and nephew.

Congrats man, cool to see you are welcoming the big change in your life. Good luck!:thumbsup

lucky you that you have a daughter but it's a pity that you've missed so many sweet moments from her birth till you first meeting with her

Stupid ass comment.

There's and asshole in every thread...you must be it

I agree. Every thread has to have at least one asshole.

nice congrats :) cool background mix too

Good luck.. get ready for an asswhooping though when she finds out you're posting pics to a porn board :P

It's all good.

say happy birthday when it will be for me...

congrats :)

Damn dude. You look just like Samuel L Jackson.


:)

Cute kid, and sorry to hear that you did not know about her this long.

Nothing will change your life like being a parent. You'll see everything differently; You'll go get something to eat and suddenly start noticing what the kids are wearing and you'll be stunned. It will affect every decision you make from here on out.

As for the mother, however, she's commited fraud and taken away from you something you can never ever get back - the first thirteen years of your daughter's life. Once the new situation settles in and the difficulties set in, you'll suddenly discover that you've been robbed of the most precious thing.

And the funny part is the mother has you by the balls because you now owe thirteen years of child support. (One girl I dated years ago had a nine year old daughter and the father didn't know he was a father until he suddenly got nailed with nine years of support.)

Good luck man.

I've been waiting for that call for a long time. Every time somebody asks me if I have kids, I always answer "Not that I know of" because it feels so much more honest than, "No".

The mother waited long enough to tell you. You've missed out on alot.

It's a good thing to that you know now, but I would be so mad that I wasn't told 13 years ago.

... but I guess getting mad/upset wouldn't do any good at this point so ...

Congrats to both of you! Sounds like you are already on your way to being a great dad. :)

cute daughter dude...

Congrats!!!! Advance happy fathers day!!!
Enjoy your first year celebration of Dads Day!!!! :thumbsup

this part just doen't make any sence to me at all. Is this really possible?

Anyway, congrats:)
From what I've read in this thread it looks like you're happy and doing a great job :thumbsup

Im so happy for you it must be the most incredible feeling to realise you have a child. Congratulations xxx

I just got the cutest email from her, that made my day!!! :thumbsup

Beautiful story... Take a lot of care of her. She is the most precious treasure that you`ll ever have.... CONGRATS!!:thumbsup

Too bad her dad is a scammer and a liar! :Oh crap

wow...you must be in heaven right now. Well, Advanced Happy Fathers Day to you and great story!

yes it is possible... but it doesnt mean it will happen

Did the Mom tell you why she picked now to find you? The child wanted to meet you?


I think it's awesome she's in your life. Enjoy it!

are you going to "buy here" an xbox for christmas then never talk to her again?

wow congrats man, that is crazy news, link to pics doesn't work though.