how many of you scumbag divorced fathers fail to pay proper child support?

How about 'NO' !!! ??

do the right thing & get a job....and quit complaining about the sperm donor

I guess the county jail would be about it. they are your children, scumbag. Pay or your kids might end up selling drugs for school supplies.

What an odd outburst out of the blue.

Why dont you call your ex direct. Phones are a wonderful thing!

I guess you are right. even the law is on your side. oh wait, you are the one on the county "wanted" poster for outstanding child support payments due. pay for your actions or forever be a scumbag

Yep, divorced the mother of my children, and I don't pay 'child support'.









Oops, forgot to mention, that I have full custody and SHE doesn't pay child support, and lives a thousand miles away.
It's a 2way street Alot of Fathers pay, alot of Mothers pay, and quite a few of both, don't. So your beef should be with deadbeat parents, not just the men.

Just suck and fuck your ex and take a couple facial shots he will start paying you in no time!

She can't, he didn't pay his child support.

I'm sorry, I didn't mean to do that, I just couldn't resist.


I know this is a serious issue, but I seriously doubt anyone here is going to stand up and say they don't take care of their kids. LOL

You are absolutely right. Plenty of scumbag deadbeat dads out there not helping to support their kids. But there are also plenty of women who have buggered off, with their boss, or their husband's best friend, or some other shitbag idiot, and left their kids with the father. Where's the equity in your post?

Those deadbeat mothers need to pay up too. There may not be as many of them, but they're out there believe me.

ALL deadbeat parents, men or women, need to smarten the fuck up.

Not just men.

I have custody of my kid whos mother paid me child support exactly once, $20 in 2003. Fuck off!

that's great perhaps if you weren't drunk you would have noticed another thread where all the bozo men are complaining for having to pay to support their own children.

it's like buying a car and then deciding the payments aren't fun so you decide to stop only far worse. a human is relying on you and you are busy smoking and snorting their rent money

stop spending your money on crack and you might be able to move your kid to a much better neighborhood

This is priceless: My deadbeat ex was so delinquent that once they (I) found him, they are STILL garnishing his wages. My son died last year but would have been 23 in July. I will be getting these payments for at least the next 5-7 years and I haven't even sued for all the other stuff he owes me for.

I've been on every side of this fence, and there are more than two..I have had to deal with non-payment of child support, I've received it, and I've been with a man whose child's mother has never paid it. Every parent needs to step up, not just the daddies.

I have 6 kids with 6 diferent mothers. I told the mothers that if they have sex with me that I dont take responsibility and such. I had em sign contracts also.

So in my situation I have legal docs that i dont have to pay

7 - did you forget about me already?!!

oops correction make that 7

*LMAO* Drunk? Damn, you dont know me at all. Calling people names and shit when you have NO clue.

I dont read EVERY single thread on this board so thats why I didnt see it. But I do click on the bitter bitch ones!

He doesn't drink. But thank you for your advice. I have been with him for 23 years and I think I have seen him take a drink two times. You should think before making snap judgements about people, you know?

We have 4 kids and you are right, dead beat PARENTS should pay for their children, BUT how many of these people do you think are honestly going to come in here and admit they are deadbeat?

And there are JUST as many if not more dead beat mothers...... I know this because I HAVE one of them, my mother never paid a dime of child support after the divorce. Shit flies in both directions, not just for those with a penis, you know? lol

seems someone might be upset she didnt get her montly check....

Stop spreading your legs and you won't have to worry about paying for kids...

Same here with my mother. When my parents got divorced, I lived with her as did my brother. I moved in with my Dad a year later. Legally there shouldn't have been any support payment - each was supporting a child. But he continued to pay her support, paid for my brother's car, college, clothes, etc. I never got a dime for ANYTHING from her. And she's the one with all the money, lol!!!

If my Dad was a day late with a payment, she'd call ME.

Fun times

Keep on bitchin...Im owed way over $100k in back child support but ill never see it...

I think if you had read the post you are referring to, you would realize that they aren't bitching about paying the child support. They were saying that a lot of times that the money doesn't go to the child. Plus, starting a thread out of the blue and attacking people might not be the best way to get a point across. If I had a child, I would have no problem sending child support payments, but half of those payments should automatically be put into a fund for future education.

Well I can't say my dad is really any better. He was a raging, abusive alcoholic... BUT we never went without a meal, that, if I HAVE to pull good from it, was at last not our worries. Neither of my parents were even anything resembling a decent parent, much less a good one. But my point was.... that people seem to overlook the MOTHERS that are deadbeats, and I'd venture to say there are JUST as many of them.

BUT you know? In almost every case I have seen, the DADs do not bitch, they just care for their kids and do right by them, but the MOTHERs will bitch a blue streak for even a day late, as in your case, Peaches.

Women are some VILE fucking creatures........ LOL

THANK YOU!!!!! MOST of the time the money doesn't go to the child or even for their care, it goes on personal things for the parent. I am SO sure the children benefit from Mom's trip to the salon every other week....... LOL

Or to the neighborhood liquor store or whatever. lol

my dad didnt pay child support till i was 16 yrs old. my mom had to raise me and my sister on her own while having a full time job and going to school to become a school teacher.

Shelly = Lesbian

I dont pay it... of course Im still married to my wife, and we raise our kids together.

2hp

I have no kids so that means no child support.. however I know a few friends that have to pay it out and just about every one of them the women use the money for everything except the kids.

IMO as it was posted in the other thread, if the guy can go to jail for not paying then the wife should have to itemize where the money goes each month.

Most don't mind paying for the kids, they usually get pissed when they are still supporting the ex because she is spending the child support on herself.

You know I have to say that I have heard more stories about women who get their child support and then bitch that it's not enough while the father has the kid too. The kid is half the mothers and half the fathers, women want EQUAL rights these days then take EQUAL responsibility of the child. You want to be a cop, you want to be in the Army, you want to be a fire fighter than you can act like a man and step up to the plate and take half the responsibility of your child. I know there are dead beat Dad's out there, and they SUCK ASS, but lately I have heard way more stories of women being scorned bitches taking the child away from the father because they are pissed and feel they have more right's and then except the father to pay all HER fucking bills, makes me sick. You want to be treated equal than act equal. I have a friend whose bitch of an ex-wife thinks she is entitled to half of his money all because she laid down and spread her legs and got knocked up. FUCK THAT. You are both responsible and you should BOTH pay and raise the kid. Some women IMO are going too far with this shit and it pisses me off. The father has HALF the right to the baby as the mother and too many women feel kids are all theirs, fuck the Dad just give me your wallet.

I do know what you are talking about and the guys out there that don't help support their kids, financially and physically, are ASSHOLES and I completely agree with that. But I think women should be more careful with who they get knocked up by. In today's world there are so many choices out there to prevent pregnancy and too many times I see women use dropping a kid out as an excuse to try and keep a man and then are shocked when he doesn't want her. There is no excuse. You want control over your womb and the right to have an abortion then you should also take the responsibly to swallow a pill to prevent unwanted pregnancy, it's cheaper and healthier than an abortion. Same goes for a man, you don?t want a baby then wear a condom and check out the chick your fucking to see if she is on the pill. I know women can be sneaky and shit and I have a friend right now that I think is going to be in for a big surprise. He doesn?t want kids but his girlfriend does and I know she is a lying bitch so she will get pregnant when she wants to an trick him.

I tell ya, my other friend had to move out of his house that he built, give up his whole life, move into a tiny apartment, he gets his kids less than half the time, and pays for all her bills and she still complains. Why does it always have to be that way? Why can?t the father, who makes all the money, stay in the house and pay the bills and she get visitation rights? I am not talking about dead beat Dad?s I am talking about too many men out there who are stepping up to the plate to get burned because the women pushed the kid out. BULLSHIT! Equal rights, equal actions!

Okay carry on I have my spare bedroom to decorate, wallpaper, curtains, furniture to put together so I won?t be back for a while, I just want to say that I think too many good men in this country get burned because women feel they are more important than men when it comes to children. It takes a family not a village to raise a kid! haha

That's beautiful. Beautiful I say. PERFECT. Love it love it love it.

That's T-shirt material. :D

That too, my friend that had to move out of his house, the bitch had two houses, 6 fucking horses, a boat, three cars and all that shit from his money. She didn't use half the money she got from him for the kids, she wanted it for herself. Then when the kids needed braces he had to pay for it on top of the money he gave her. That is just WRONG! Men get the kids half the time, women get the kids the other half of the time, and you both get jobs. EQUAL RIGHTS!!! I swear it makes me want to puke. In one hand they say I don't want to be like the women of the 50's I want to be treated like a man and have the same rights, but then in the other hand once they push that kid out, they want to play house wife. You want to be treated like a man than act like one and take half the responsibility!

Once again I am not referring to men who are dead beat Dad?s they should be fixed and not able to have kids anymore. I think that is a fair treatment!

You know, I get survivor's benefits from Social Security because my son's father died....and I do have to account for how I spent that money every year. I have a file I save receipts and so forth for everything. It should be the same for child support.

Loryn-

Hmm, personality, brains, and looks to boot. Isn't there anything wrong with you? I have to say, even if you looked like Oprah, you would be one hot Mama(so to speak).

Anyway, good read, don't hear that stuff often anymore.

what about guys that have custody of their kids and their scumbag ex-wifes that don't pay child support

I don't get no child support, nor do i want any child support, I do wish that the father of my child would step up to the plate, and call her, or spend time with her. I believe a bond between a child and father should be worth more than all the money in the world. He does'nt care to speak to his child, nor does he comes to visit her, and yet i'm left with my daughter, who question at night is *why doesn't my daddy love me*

Jailable offense for men maybe, doesnt seem to be for a women

What about scumbag moms, I have custody of all 5 of my kids and in the past 10 years my ex hasnt paid squat, owes me 65k

It gets better

She also has been claiming all 5 of them on her income taxes, they just caught up with her and I will probably be audited since having full custody, I claimed them as well

It gets even better

She also has been collecting welfare and food stamps using the kids ssi numbers for the past 10 years and is still doing it now

Not one goverment agency has done jack shit about it and my ex thinks its funny

On the other hand, my brother in Colorado had his drivers license revoked because he was unemployed for 3 months and fell behind on his support

dittttto

go to oprah this is GFY

If we're talking about 'scumbag' fathers who don't pay I'm curious what happened to the 'fuck slut' mothers who want child support but refuse access (and in the UK at least, access can be a HUGE problem for fathers)?

But then in many cases child support here doesn't go to the child either. The State takes it all to reduce the amount they have to pay out.

I speak from experience when I say it's often a fuck site harder for a paying father who is denied access and for the child that cannot see its father than it is for the money grabbing slut mother and State.

Things are rarely one-sided and certainly aren't here. Long live Fathers For Justice (those in the UK will know who I mean)

Your mother (just as mine) had to be a very strong woman ..

Damn that's sad. Tugs at the ol' heart strings it does.

My dad not only married my mom and took in her 4 kids from her previous marriage, but he also adopted them in full. He was 35 years old at the time, I was born about a year later. Not many men would do that today I'm sure, take responsibility for someone else's kids and raise them as their own.

He was and is a good father and a good example, for me anyway. After reading some of the replies in this thread I'll go count my lucky stars that I grew up with two good parents.

Dayummmm.

I think I just found my next ex-wife

my girlfriend's ex don't pay shit, he doesn't have a job just because of this, he works under the table if ever, but you know fuck the money that is not what we want or expect from him, we expect him to be a father to his kid.

I have a daughter with another girl, and I see my kid alot, always buy her everything she needs and try my best to ship money to the mother whenever she needs something for my daughter, but nothing bugs me more than when I know its not going for my daughter. example. she says Jada needs clothes... so we go and buy her clothes and mail it to her, and my ex gets pissed off that I done that.. "curious to wonder why". than she tells me about all her money issues, car fines, her school etc. like I fucking care about that, I got my own problems to deal with. we are pretty good at dealing with this without the court and custody shit, but there are surely days where we are telling each other to fuck off.

and you know what... I would take my daughter full time in a heartbeat and not expect a penny for having her... I would send my daughter all the money possible if I knew every penny was being used for her.. when she is with me she gets spoiled.

So, your mom and dad divorced, she says he did not pay proper child support, and you were forced to turn tricks?