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CuriousToyBoy · 05-19-2006, 10:14 PM

Seriously.

The last hours in Toronto were especially good to me, and THAT is certainly saying something after the rest of the shennanigans of pre and during showtime......

TheSpreader · 05-19-2006, 10:17 PM

There's no such thing when it involves a man/woman or man/man or woman/woman. It's just prolonged lust...nothing more.

Love died in the 60's. Now there's just fucking and upgrading after the lease is up.

BoyAlley · 05-19-2006, 10:19 PM

Did you finally meet the man of your dreams?

BoyAlley · 05-19-2006, 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSpreader

Love died in the 60's. Now there's just fucking and upgrading after the lease is up.

You must live one hell of a sad little life.

CuriousToyBoy · 05-19-2006, 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSpreader

There's no such thing when it involves a man/woman or man/man or woman/woman. It's just prolonged lust...nothing more.

Love died in the 60's. Now there's just fucking and upgrading after the lease is up.

I feel sorry for you man, I really do.

In all my years of lust and sex and emotion-detached sexuality I have NEVER lost the "dream".

It must be terrible to be that miserable and bitter in the soul.

TheSpreader · 05-19-2006, 10:22 PM

I'm recently divorced and had my 9 year old son taken so I'm just a tad bit bitter.

Spunky · 05-19-2006, 10:23 PM

When all you do is think about your partner and spend as much time as you can with them...love is a wasted emotion

CuriousToyBoy · 05-19-2006, 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by BoyAlley

Did you finally meet the man of your dreams?

Ha ha

Well, if a he could make me feel the way this she has made me feel, maybe I would turn after all.

Alas, this one is 100% woman, and I do believe the descriptive word of the moment for me is "smitten".

NOT something that happens in a few short hours in my experience - yes I have had first sight experiences and yes I am a firm believer in chemistry but NEVER has that type of situation thrown my centre of balance so.

CuriousToyBoy · 05-19-2006, 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSpreader

I'm recently divorced and had my 9 year old son taken so I'm just a tad bit bitter.

I hear you mate. My thoughts are with you.

CuriousToyBoy · 05-19-2006, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Spunky

When all you do is think about your partner and spend as much time as you can with them...love is a wasted emotion

Why would you call it wasted ?

BoyAlley · 05-19-2006, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy

Alas, this one is 100% woman, and I do believe the descriptive word of the moment for me is "smitten".

Well good for you! I remember when I met my partner, I was "smitten" too. It's how the good things start. We've been together almost 8 years now.

Best of luck to you

tony286 · 05-19-2006, 10:26 PM

it feels different than all the other experiences

Sosa · 05-19-2006, 10:27 PM

it is just a feeling man. And that feeling is fucking great

CuriousToyBoy · 05-19-2006, 10:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Sosa

it is just a feeling man. And that feeling is fucking great

Right on bro

THAT I relate to.

I am sitting here waiting foir my 2nd bag to arrive after leaving Toronto on Wednesday and I can't get shitty - I feel too fucking great.

Spunky · 05-19-2006, 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy

Why would you call it wasted ?

Considering all them she devils eventually just rip off your nuts and stomp on them in the end

WiredGuy · 05-19-2006, 10:34 PM

Love as in with the people/city of Toronto or with someone specific?
WG

CuriousToyBoy · 05-19-2006, 10:39 PM

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Originally Posted by WiredGuy

Love as in with the people/city of Toronto or with someone specific?
WG

I loved Toronto and all you guys Charles ;-)

But mate, my last night in town, someone specific slapped my heart with a baseball bat.

We'll see how the hand plays out - no all in's for me just yet.

Trixxxia · 05-19-2006, 10:49 PM

I wrote up a long beautiful explanation.....but what the heck - you just 'feel' it. It's far stronger than a physical attraction and both your heart & mind keep telling you it's right.

Shocking · 05-19-2006, 10:55 PM

CTB that was really a crazy hell sex night if you're already talking about love

go back there man an conquest love.

WiredGuy · 05-19-2006, 10:55 PM

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Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy

I loved Toronto and all you guys Charles ;-)

But mate, my last night in town, someone specific slapped my heart with a baseball bat.

We'll see how the hand plays out - no all in's for me just yet.

Awwww, that's awesome! Hopefully you being in Australia isn't too much of a problem, but hey, go for it! You only live once, right...
WG

CuriousToyBoy · 05-19-2006, 11:01 PM

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Originally Posted by WiredGuy

Awwww, that's awesome! Hopefully you being in Australia isn't too much of a problem, but hey, go for it! You only live once, right...
WG

I live by the "life is not a practice run" maxim Charles.

If she's good for it, I'm going for it.

Paul Markham · 05-19-2006, 11:08 PM

If you need to ask then you're not in love. It might grow to that but you're not there yet.

When you give up retiring, knowing you will work the rest of your life because you want to share your life with someone special.

When you marry someone knowing you will by youngish when you are permanently separated. But still marry him

That is love.

arial · 05-19-2006, 11:09 PM

If you don't know you're in love then you aren't... nuff said.

FilthyRob · 05-19-2006, 11:21 PM

love hurts

Agent 488 · 05-19-2006, 11:27 PM

i'd trust the woman's explantion

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Originally Posted by TopBucksTrixxxia

I wrote up a long beautiful explanation.....but what the heck - you just 'feel' it. It's far stronger than a physical attraction and both your heart & mind keep telling you it's right.

2HousePlague · 05-19-2006, 11:31 PM

I did find the roses, TY!

2hp

CuriousToyBoy · 05-20-2006, 01:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Shocking

CTB that was really a crazy hell sex night if you're already talking about love

go back there man an conquest love.

Sex was not a part of it.

The cerebral sex was intense, wonderful and ultra-satisfying.

I know what I feel, my question in this post was what others felt.

If the light is green, I will take the road presented.

If the light is red, I may still run it and to hell with the consequences.

CuriousToyBoy · 05-20-2006, 04:01 AM

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Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy

Sex was not a part of it.

The cerebral sex was intense, wonderful and ultra-satisfying.

I know what I feel, my question in this post was what others felt.

If the light is green, I will take the road presented.

If the light is red, I may still run it and to hell with the consequences.

FYI

The light is green.

Life is a wonderful thing.

baddog · 05-20-2006, 04:06 AM

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Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy

I know what I feel, my question in this post was what others felt.

So we are not advising you, just saying what it is to us, yet you criticize what it is to some. That doesn't seem fair.

I can assure you that love for you and love for me are two totally different things. I envy yours, and would not wish mine upon you.

That being said, is she industry? Where did you meet her? When will you be bringing her over for dinner so we can meet her?

baddog · 05-20-2006, 04:08 AM

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Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy

FYI

The light is green.

Life is a wonderful thing.

Congrats and good luck. I hope she can keep up.

CuriousToyBoy · 05-20-2006, 06:31 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog

So we are not advising you, just saying what it is to us, yet you criticize what it is to some. That doesn't seem fair.

I can assure you that love for you and love for me are two totally different things. I envy yours, and would not wish mine upon you.

That being said, is she industry? Where did you meet her? When will you be bringing her over for dinner so we can meet her?

Unfair point #1 because as you say, ALL emotion is a subjective thing, my post was to stimulate thought and conversation.

And how do you know and can be so sure that I would not envy yours and it is mine I would not wish upon others ?

She is not industry and you may meet her sooner than later

And I do not think it is about keeping up as such, it is more about enjoying the ride.

Screaming · 05-20-2006, 06:35 AM

best of luck to you and him/her....what ever lol

Raven · 05-20-2006, 06:35 AM

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Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy

Ha ha

Well, if a he could make me feel the way this she has made me feel, maybe I would turn after all.

Alas, this one is 100% woman, and I do believe the descriptive word of the moment for me is "smitten".

NOT something that happens in a few short hours in my experience - yes I have had first sight experiences and yes I am a firm believer in chemistry but NEVER has that type of situation thrown my centre of balance so.

Love. We use that word to describe so many feelings. Which centre is thrown off...the one between your ears? Because if that's the case you have a chance to go from smitten to the next step.

MaddCaz · 05-20-2006, 06:38 AM

you know when you know

CuriousToyBoy · 05-20-2006, 06:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Raven

Love. We use that word to describe so many feelings. Which centre is thrown off...the one between your ears? Because if that's the case you have a chance to go from smitten to the next step.

Bouncing around inside my skull as we speak sis.

Truly a rarely known but much welcomed feeling.

baddog · 05-20-2006, 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy

And how do you know and can be so sure that I would not envy yours and it is mine I would not wish upon others ?

Because you can feel it for someone other than family. I won't.

Joesho · 05-20-2006, 08:09 AM

congratulations man !

I hope it all works out for you, you are truely one of the best people in the industry as a person.

I consider myself better to have met you and always hope the best for you man.

CyberHustler · 05-20-2006, 08:12 AM

whatever you do, don't get MARRIED!

JohanTheGreat · 05-20-2006, 08:13 AM

When you think that the girl (or guy) you date/fuck is someone you want your parents to meet.......... then

Drake · 05-20-2006, 08:26 AM

I don't know but I think it would be something like this for me:

-you miss them when they're not around not because of what they could be doing for you but you just miss the companionship
-you really enjoy intimacy and sex with the person yet you don't just see them as a sex object or object for physical pleasure
-you feel the person compliments your personality
-you can see yourself having a family/child with this person
-you feel you can trust the person (you can never trust anybody 100%, but you can trust this person more than others).

E$_manager · 05-20-2006, 08:35 AM

if you think of the person 24/7 during 2 weeks - you are in love

E$_manager · 05-20-2006, 08:53 AM

and may e if you are a little net afraid of the person - to call, to seem funney...

Young · 05-20-2006, 08:54 AM

"Love is a verb. Obsession is an adjective often confused with the word Love "- Young

Learn the difference and your relationships will improve 10 fold.

corvette · 05-20-2006, 09:20 AM

good for you my man, thats great to hear =)

I LOVE Little Brown Asses · 05-20-2006, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy

Ha ha

Well, if a he could make me feel the way this she has made me feel, maybe I would turn after all.

Alas, this one is 100% woman, and I do believe the descriptive word of the moment for me is "smitten".

NOT something that happens in a few short hours in my experience - yes I have had first sight experiences and yes I am a firm believer in chemistry but NEVER has that type of situation thrown my centre of balance so.

I feel the same way about the 19 year old I stuck a fist in last night.

Grapesoda · 05-20-2006, 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy

I feel sorry for you man, I really do.

In all my years of lust and sex and emotion-detached sexuality I have NEVER lost the "dream".

It must be terrible to be that miserable and bitter in the soul.

I don't see it like that at all CTB . . I agree, love is nothing personal . . 'love is the willingness to allow others to make their own choices with out insistance that they satisfy you'

personal romance is completly different than love . . woman are chattle . . . among men in socity . . and you know that is very true . . . that laws are set up for that and men judge each other on their chosen 'sex partners'

no one woman is really better than any other one woman on a comparative level . . . the 'love' or your life is strickly a personal choice re-enforced with habit . .

CuriousToyBoy · 05-20-2006, 04:18 PM

Some interesting viewpoints in here.

And some awesome thought promoters.

Thanks guys !!!

;-)

Jade^ · 05-20-2006, 04:28 PM

There is only one happiness in life,
to love and be loved.

- George Sand -

i-Affiliate_com · 05-20-2006, 04:31 PM

You start listening to a lot of ballads

Booty Bucks · 05-20-2006, 04:49 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSpreader

Love died in the 60's. Now there's just fucking and upgrading after the lease is up.

Sounds like a PIMP to me.. I'm feeling this!

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TheSpreader So Fucking Banned Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 501	There's no such thing when it involves a man/woman or man/man or woman/woman. It's just prolonged lust...nothing more. Love died in the 60's. Now there's just fucking and upgrading after the lease is up.

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