Females do you feel offended when somone calls you a MILF

[bigdog]

For the girls on the board if someone reffers to you as a MILF, do you feel offended at all?

[Tam]

Well, I used to be my own content and I can tell you from experience, that no, it never offended me at all. I am not 18, I AM a mom, and it was much better than being called Mature at the time. Being in my early to mid 30s at the time, Mature was a little on the offensive side, but MILF wasn't ever offensive to me at all. I would MUCH prefer to be called a MILF at that age than mature.

I don't know how anyone could get offended at that term, to be honest with you. I mean, isn't it better than being called an old lady and being made to feel like you have one foot in the grave? LOL

[BlackWitch]

well, I'm no mother so they can't call me that

[JenUncut]

Hell No doesnt bother me at all

Hugs,
Jen

[Funbrunette]

No it always makes me laugh!

[The Duck]

This thread is useless without video.

[MrKinkade]

or pics of the girls that are milfs
MrKinkade loves milfs you know what they say about a woman with a baby.... she puts out :D

[iWeb_Kristin]

Hell no why should i be offended?

[oceania]

my son's friend said that too me and my son punched him in the face
kind of like it at my age

[Cyndalie]

Is a MILF any woman over 25? 30? Whether they have kids or not? I haven't been able to nail down a solid definition the term is thrown around so loosely, so am I offended if someone calls me a Milf? Backhanded compliments never really bothered me all too much...

[candyflip]

Originally Posted by Cyndalie

Is a MILF any woman over 25? 30? Whether they have kids or not? I haven't been able to nail down a solid definition the term is thrown around so loosely, so am I offended if someone calls me a Milf? Backhanded compliments never really bothered me all too much...

MILF means Mother I'd Like to Fuck...so being a mom sorta has something to do with it.

[Wiggles]

my wife got offended when i called her that.

[iWeb_Kristin]

Hell no why should i be offended?

[OG LennyT]

I think Vanilla DeVille mentioned something about fitting in the milf niche....whoah man if there ever was a milf....

[GatorB]

Originally Posted by candyflip

MILF means Mother I'd Like to Fuck...so being a mom sorta has something to do with it.

I'm not getting into this but it is when someone says MILF you think of an OLDER woman. Sorry a 18 year old mom is NOT a MILF. You think to literally. If I said I was so hungry I could eat a horse, no I could not actually eat a horse. Fact is how does someone tell from PICS that a chick is a mom or not? They can't, so what criteria do they go by? AGE.

Here's a test. If you showed someone pictures of 42 year old, but childless Sandra Bullock and 24 year old Britney Spears who has a baby and another in the oven and this person didn't know who either one was and you asked them to tell you who was the MILF which one would they say?

[candyflip]

Originally Posted by GatorB

I'm not getting into this but it is when someone says MILF you think of an OLDER woman. Sorry a 18 year old mom is NOT a MILF. You think to literally. If I said I was so hungry I could eat a horse, no I could not actually eat a horse. Fact is how does someone tell from PICS that a chick is a mom or not? They can't, so what criteria do they go by? AGE.

Here's a test. If you showed someone pictures of 42 year old, but childless Sandra Bullock and 24 year old Britney Spears who has a baby and another in the oven and this person didn't know who either one was and you asked them to tell you who was the MILF which one would they say?

Then you obviously don't understand the term or niche. The people that actually have a "milf fetish" get off on the fact that the women is actually a mom. Doesn't matter if she's 18 or 50. There's something about a woman who's had kids that these men love and crave. Sorry, there are also people who can spot a mom a mile away. I've gotten pretty good at it myself.

[Tam]

Originally Posted by Wiggles

my wife got offended when i called her that.

You know? Honestly I don't know why anyone with a baby would be offended. Here is why:

MOST all women I have talked to, all of my friends and otherwise just "Mom's" in general, have this issue with "Now that I have had a baby, no one is going to want to look at me, much less sleep with me" and I think this is one of those things that the term MILF stands as more of a compliment than anything. I know I have 4 kids, and I am not 18 anymore, my body did all sorts of fucked up shit... grew in places I didn't want it to grow, went south when I wanted it to go north, and so on.... so the thought that I could or would still turn someone on after having had my body do a number on me, I would consider this a compliment, as would most anyone I know.

You can't know what goes thru a woman's head when she has a baby. She loses her body, herself and sex appeal, or so it is in her head, in most cases. And while she might not fuck anyone else, it is a little of a turn on to know that she still has what it takes to turn a guy on.

Or at least this is in my experiences anyway. So I take this as a compliment, honestly.

Just for the record, I am no longer content, and I turn 42 this year.... So I CAN say these things. LOL

[GatorB]

Originally Posted by candyflip

Then you obviously don't understand the term or niche. The people that actually have a "milf fetish" get off on the fact that the women is actually a mom. Doesn't matter if she's 18 or 50. There's something about a woman who's had kids that these men love and crave. Sorry, there are also people who can spot a mom a mile away. I've gotten pretty good at it myself.

I understand it just fine. I can guarantee you 100% if you tell someone to go to your MILF site and you show 18 year old "moms" you won't make many sales. Surfers are expect women over 30. Being 37 myself I think I know a thing or 2 about MILFs.

[bigdog]

Originally Posted by candyflip

Then you obviously don't understand the term or niche. The people that actually have a "milf fetish" get off on the fact that the women is actually a mom. Doesn't matter if she's 18 or 50. There's something about a woman who's had kids that these men love and crave. Sorry, there are also people who can spot a mom a mile away. I've gotten pretty good at it myself.

Most of my friends who use the term milf are usually talking about a older woman who looks attractive to them. Doesn't matter if she has kids or not

[Tam]

Originally Posted by candyflip

Then you obviously don't understand the term or niche. The people that actually have a "milf fetish" get off on the fact that the women is actually a mom. Doesn't matter if she's 18 or 50. There's something about a woman who's had kids that these men love and crave. Sorry, there are also people who can spot a mom a mile away. I've gotten pretty good at it myself.

EXACTLY... almost all men I have talked to, and I talk to a lot of them in my business, both surfers and to webmasters, and if they have this Fetish, they can easily spot a Mom, and it isn't rocket science.

Same goes with any fetish.... if you are "into" something, you know it inside and out and are rarely wrong about it. And if you are selling this niche, or any niche, KNOW it, because your surfers damn well do and they will happily point out to you that you don't know what you are doing. lol

[GatorB]

Originally Posted by bigdog

Most of my friends who use the term milf are usually talking about a older woman who looks attractive to them. Doesn't matter if she has kids or not

They're just potential customers with credit cards WTF do they know?

[Tam]

Originally Posted by GatorB

I understand it just fine. I can guarantee you 100% if you tell someone to go to your MILF site and you show 18 year old "moms" you won't make many sales. Surfers are expect women over 30. Being 37 myself I think I know a thing or 2 about MILFs.

Generally speaking, I agree with you too, most of the ones who are after MILFs don't go for the 18ish types, no matter what tag you put them into, they want anything from 25 or so and up. But they can spot a mom a mile away, and MOST all of them are into the "older" moms. It is a hand in hand thing from my experiences with this. 18 year old Moms don't tend to turn them on, but the ones that are over ... I'd venture to say 25 or so, they like. In most cases they want them over 30, but they WILL jerk off to one a little younger if she looks the part of a MILF.

[GatorB]

Originally Posted by Tam

EXACTLY... almost all men I have talked to, and I talk to a lot of them in my business, both surfers and to webmasters, and if they have this Fetish, they can easily spot a Mom, and it isn't rocket science.

Same goes with any fetish.... if you are "into" something, you know it inside and out and are rarely wrong about it. And if you are selling this niche, or any niche, KNOW it, because your surfers damn well do and they will happily point out to you that you don't know what you are doing. lol

whatever. So a 13 year old teen mom can be a MILF? Careful how you answer that one. If not then that blows your theory.

Look at the topic of this thread

"Females do you feel offended when somone calls you a MILF"

Now why would anyone be offended by being called a MOM? Hmmmmm so what would be the offending part since ANY age can be a MILF? Gee can't answer that one can you?

[rants]

Yes, because I've been told I can still pass for under 18, everyone says I look 10 yrs younger than I am, so the day someone calls me an milf (looking remotely anything like a "mom) I know it will be the day that I have aged and no longer look fresh. Seriously, I'm 28 and can pass for under 18.

Its true that 18 yr olds can be moms too, but too me the term mom sounds more mature. I like to think of myself as carefree and having no responsiblities.

I also never ever would want kids, I don't even like to be around them, so I don't like the term "mom" applied to me. Dont want anything to do with crying kids....

[Tam]

Originally Posted by GatorB

whatever. So a 13 year old teen mom can be a MILF? Careful how you answer that one. If not then that blows your theory.

Look at the topic of this thread

"Females do you feel offended when somone calls you a MILF"

Now why would anyone be offended by being called a MOM? Hmmmmm so what would be the offending part since ANY age can be a MILF? Gee can't answer that one can you?

Please read my followup where I agreed with you on this part of it before you scream at me?

I AM 42, and when I was content, I was in my early to mid 30s and I was always being asked how old I was and that I didn't look a day over 25, blah blah blah... they liked me because I was "experienced" I was "real" and I wasn't some teenybopper. Had I been content when I was a 19 yr old Mom, I don't think I would have been met with the same enthusiasm as I was when I was alittle over 30 doing it. So generally speaking, I DO think you are right, they aren't into 18ish types.... age DOES play a factor in the MILF thing, but I don't think for a minute that they will just take any old 30 yr old and think of her as a MILF.

[Tam]

And rants just shows what I am saying. MILF does on some level imply a more mature side of a woman, and so on.

But MY point is, to me it is somewhere in the middle of teenie/younger types and mature. Mature implies to me and the ones I deal with as 40ish and up..... somewhere between old and young. It isn't over the hill, but not a teenie either. So I honestly think this is when the term came into play, when 30 was being pushed into a mature side and people didn't see 30ish types as mature..... but they weren't teens either. So where would they fall? MILFs.

BUT by the same token, not ALL 30ish types would be put into a MILF category, look at some of these hot BABE models that look in their early 20s, I highly doubt they could be put into a MILF category successfully. The ones with the perky tits, and so on.... they just aren't MILFs, not all of them.

A MOM has a certain look about her.... a more natural look, not a babe, not an old lady and not a teen.... she is a natural looking, MOM looking type.