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E Guru · 05-03-2006, 11:25 PM

So im super shy around girls I don't know.

I do business just fine, I own a really nice house, I own really nice cars (50k+) but for some reason I still can't talk to girls. I know thats just materiel shit, but girls always seam to be attracted to it. But still, I have trouble talking to girls. Tonight my friend was trying to hook me up with this really hot chick who thought I was cute. Well for some reason I just couldn't talk to her. I don't know why, I just couldn't come to look her in the eyes and say anything to her. So of course she went home and went to bed. Lame shit

cmos · 05-04-2006, 12:05 AM

You suck!

iWeb_Allan · 05-04-2006, 12:15 AM

pity...

Zuss · 05-04-2006, 12:18 AM

I fee your pain. It's the same with me -expensive car -successful business -nice house...;)

BIGTYMER · 05-04-2006, 12:21 AM

You have balls... Act like it!

Enema · 05-04-2006, 01:37 AM

p.s. She didn't go home to bed.

MrKinkade · 05-04-2006, 01:42 AM

Dude I use to be like that then I called geico and saved 15% on my ar insurance now I can talk to any girl

seriously I use to be just walk up and say HI thats all you gotta do if she likes you or not ou can gauge it from a somple Hello.... its not hard to say Hello

if you can't do that I suggest men LOL

xNetworx · 05-04-2006, 01:43 AM

I used to be shy. The key is to remember that they all love the attention! (as long as you aren't a creepy dick about hitting on them)

babsy · 05-04-2006, 02:00 AM

I think the key to doing well with chicks is to stop thinking about any particular girl as "the one" until, well, she actually IS. In the past it's not at all uncommon for me to have had 3 girls on the go all at the same time, and I'm hardly what you'd call good looking. Because of their non-exclusivity, I wasn't in any way concerned whether I'd fuck things up with that one, because there were always others. Once that pressure is off, the world is your oyster.

I would advise dating as many girls at the same time as you can fit in to your schedule. Find them any way you can - the internet, at parties, in personals sections, dating agencies, whatever, who cares how you find them, there's no shame. Eventually, you'll reach a point where you're about to go out on a date that night with some chick you've hit up on an online dating site, but you're still pondering the details of the date the night before with some other chick. You'll realise "hey, I'm not nervous at ALL!", and you'll have won the game.

Oh, and if you're having problem converting these dates in to sex, you haven't applied enough alcohol. Seriously, alcohol has gotten me laid more than clever words, money and looks put together, ten fold. No trick is too low to get that first fuck in. Once you've fucked a girl once, you can nail her as many times as you want.

Barefootsies · 05-04-2006, 02:53 AM

Drink some liquid courage.

Bdiddy · 05-04-2006, 03:43 AM

Smile, look her in the eyes a little (buck up, you can do it), and ask her questions when the conversation lags. Remember what the cliteras says, "Chicks dig guys with confidence"

Wiggles · 05-04-2006, 05:52 AM

i have to test the waters first, i usually stay quiete and listen, learn what they are like, then determine what type of humour will work to make them smile etc, sometimes takes a bit.

Jakke PNG · 05-04-2006, 06:13 AM

I used to be pretty shy, say when I was 15 or so. Now that I'm not 'free', I can just chat with girls and be really relaxed with them since I have no desire to 'pick them up' or showoff or anything..and girls seem to like that.

05-03-2006, 11:25 PM	#1
E Guru Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 658	anyone here shy around girls? wtf! So im super shy around girls I don't know. I do business just fine, I own a really nice house, I own really nice cars (50k+) but for some reason I still can't talk to girls. I know thats just materiel shit, but girls always seam to be attracted to it. But still, I have trouble talking to girls. Tonight my friend was trying to hook me up with this really hot chick who thought I was cute. Well for some reason I just couldn't talk to her. I don't know why, I just couldn't come to look her in the eyes and say anything to her. So of course she went home and went to bed. Lame shit __________________ Guru

05-04-2006, 12:15 AM	#3
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05-04-2006, 01:42 AM	#7
MrKinkade Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 619	Dude I use to be like that then I called geico and saved 15% on my ar insurance now I can talk to any girl seriously I use to be just walk up and say HI thats all you gotta do if she likes you or not ou can gauge it from a somple Hello.... its not hard to say Hello if you can't do that I suggest men LOL __________________ wanna join the best swingers club in Cincinnati go to http://www.club440online.com

05-04-2006, 02:00 AM	#9
babsy Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Cashapartment.com Posts: 282	I think the key to doing well with chicks is to stop thinking about any particular girl as "the one" until, well, she actually IS. In the past it's not at all uncommon for me to have had 3 girls on the go all at the same time, and I'm hardly what you'd call good looking. Because of their non-exclusivity, I wasn't in any way concerned whether I'd fuck things up with that one, because there were always others. Once that pressure is off, the world is your oyster. I would advise dating as many girls at the same time as you can fit in to your schedule. Find them any way you can - the internet, at parties, in personals sections, dating agencies, whatever, who cares how you find them, there's no shame. Eventually, you'll reach a point where you're about to go out on a date that night with some chick you've hit up on an online dating site, but you're still pondering the details of the date the night before with some other chick. You'll realise "hey, I'm not nervous at ALL!", and you'll have won the game. Oh, and if you're having problem converting these dates in to sex, you haven't applied enough alcohol. Seriously, alcohol has gotten me laid more than clever words, money and looks put together, ten fold. No trick is too low to get that first fuck in. Once you've fucked a girl once, you can nail her as many times as you want. __________________ CASH APARTMENT V2 IS HERE! NATS POWERED, 60-70% ON ALL REBILLS, FREE CONTENT, MGPS, FHGS, RETAINING MEMBERS NETWORK! A SIMPLE NO B.S PROGRAM - ICQ 239 806 698

05-04-2006, 12:05 AM	#2
cmos Confirmed User Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 268	You suck!

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BIGTYMER Junior Achiever Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Walled Garden Posts: 17,066	You have balls... Act like it!

05-04-2006, 01:37 AM	#6
Enema Confirmed User Join Date: May 2004 Location: Australia Posts: 599	p.s. She didn't go home to bed.

05-04-2006, 01:43 AM	#8
xNetworx So Fucking What Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Whore Island Posts: 14,445	I used to be shy. The key is to remember that they all love the attention! (as long as you aren't a creepy dick about hitting on them)

05-04-2006, 02:53 AM	#10
Barefootsies Choice is an Illusion Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Land of Obama Posts: 42,635	Drink some liquid courage. __________________ Should You Email Your Members? Link1 \| Link2 \| Link3 Enough Said. "Would you rather live like a king for a year or like a prince forever?"

05-04-2006, 03:43 AM	#11
Bdiddy Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Seattle & Manila Posts: 2,456	Smile, look her in the eyes a little (buck up, you can do it), and ask her questions when the conversation lags. Remember what the cliteras says, "Chicks dig guys with confidence" __________________ "..and which one of you had the prime rib?" - Waiter "frankly, I don't see how that's any of your business!" - Peter Griffin

05-04-2006, 05:52 AM	#12
Wiggles Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 14,423	i have to test the waters first, i usually stay quiete and listen, learn what they are like, then determine what type of humour will work to make them smile etc, sometimes takes a bit. __________________ no sig

05-04-2006, 06:13 AM	#13
Jakke PNG ex-TeenGodFather Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Suomi Finland Perkele Posts: 20,306	I used to be pretty shy, say when I was 15 or so. Now that I'm not 'free', I can just chat with girls and be really relaxed with them since I have no desire to 'pick them up' or showoff or anything..and girls seem to like that. __________________ ..and I'm off.