Did you give him cash or a check with the word "loan" in the memo section? If it's the latter, file against him in Small Claims Court.

wait a sec...
when harmon last attacked me he posted pics of his house and said i couldnt afford his poolboy

why would he need money

sucks big time

Ive done the same though $1000 to a girl I know who obviously is still there but paid me like not even $200. I knew but she said no way Im gonna pay. Oh well. It sucks.

Not to be an ass...but...


It sounds like its time for a new profession :thumbsup

If he only lives a few miles away, why don't you contact the police department and file a report. I am not sure what all they could do but at least have it on record. Maybe the police could go over and talk to him and see if he is at his residence to work it out.

I cant believe people would scam someone for 400 bucks and then dissapear.

That sucks hon :( I hope you get your money back ... but dont count on it ... people can be so shitty sometimes ... ugh. The beautiful thing about phoenix .. there is always next year!

tASSy - Missed you in Phoenix! :)

twinkley

indeed........sorry to hear that:(

Chase you sound like a very nice person. Hope this gets resolved and if not lessoned learned... Good luck.

OMG I'm so sorry to read what happened to you. *hugs* Hit me up on icq if you need an ear.

50..........

Ha, you get no sympathy from me. If you can't afford 400 bucks you have bigger problems and one is your money management skills.

I don't get why you got mad at us who said you should go to his house I mean I sure didn't say go over there and rob/beat/or anything. I surly would try to get the $$ back. Oh welll.



:(

Well, not sure how much good it will do, but I sent him a link to this thread with a little message. Hope it helps

Hey chase, sorry to hear about this. Some people really suck.

Give me a shout on icq, I have something that may interest you.
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that sucks

Did he go to Phoenix?

Chase....

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I'm so sorry this happened you to Chase. You are one of the nicest girls i've ever met & you certainly don't deserve this. I've learned from the same mistakes in the past, lost "so-called friends" over money not paid back & also found out "friends" secret lives & addiction problems (never rule that out).

That's why I never lend people money now. Giving a gift is different but I would not put myself in the position of someone owing me monetary funds back. It creates way too much tension, even amounst the closest of friends.
Rule #1, never let people know you have $$

anyways, hope you see you in miami again this year!! hit me up on ICQ if you ever need 2 talk!

I'm sorry to hear about this Chase, but worse is the reaction from some of the GFY folks. You got ripped off trying to do a nice thing & you're the one being slammed here? :(

Totally sucks, Hope that you find a way to get your money back.

Dude... basically..no offence, but...

maybe its time to reconsider getting a day job.

i wish phoenix only cost me $400

Chase,

That sucks. You did a nice thing and you are out of $$s.

Hopefully, he will read this post and pay you back plus more to make up for his mistake on 'whatever' his excuse will be. :upsidedow

Sorry to hear that

What kind of person lives in a "nice" gated community with a "nice" house and "nice" cars yet needs to borrow $400? I don't mean to sound like a prick, but really, $400 is peanuts. Its nothing. If somebody owns all of the above and needs to borrow $400 from somebody they don't really know, they need to get their priorities in check. Bank holding a check? Yeh, RIGHT.

chase I know you already realize your mistake and I don't want to kick you while you're down, but you really need to think about stuff like this before "helping" somebody out. Don't let others take advantage of you. As already mentioned in this thread, NEVER lend money you aren't willing to lose. And certainly don't lend money to a non-loved one without getting a return on it.

You know where he lives. You have enough information to take action. Call the police, ask their advice. People place liens on properties for situations like this, and from what I understand they really aren't that hard to get instituted, but obviously I'm no lawyer or expert. Get your money back.

Hun, I'm really sorry that this happened to you. I've missed you and have been wondering where you've been. Please get in touch with Lenny when you get the chance. :wetkiss

So sorry to hear that happen :(

Thanks for the support; I do appreciate you guys vouching for me, and even the lectures. *grin*

A few things I wanted to address individually:

TurboAngel-I'm so sorry if it seemed like I was mad, honey; I didn't mean to cop an attitude at all. I was just trying to explain my reasoning for not taking that particular action. I apologize.

BadDog-Thanks for doing that. I've tried reaching him multiple times but have been unsuccessful. Perhaps someone else can get a response better than I can.

Lenny2 and MsLenny2-I will be in touch today, and I've missed you guys, too. :)

I truly hope it's just a mistake, and if I can get my money back, there would be no hard feelings...no friendship, either, but that was his choice, not mine.

If he is reading this....
I don't know what the reason for all of this is, and it really doesn't matter. You took advantage of someone in a far less secure situation than you. That's pretty shitty, dude. Just pay me back, and make it right. My epass ID is angelmarie.

Police have no authority over civil matters, they'd just tell her to go to small claims court.

...Which would accomplish little or nothing, a "loan" of that nature is almost impossible to prove, she'd be eaten to death in legal fees, and most jurisdictions won't even issue a warrant of attachment if the judgement is not over $500.

You're not going to get a lien over 400 bucks.

And all the cars that drive past would lean out of their windows and shout: "Yea... Saw that on GFY..."

no shit haha

That sucks.. I hate to be screwed over. got any big male friends that might wanna have a little talk with him once he leaves his house???

Thanks hun, sorry for the miscommuncation and I really do hope you get the $$ back.

Yeah - that's me - PS - BAD DOG - you never sent me SHIT for a link

Im a deadbeat... yup - that's me... the fucks that answered this thread with their so-called "KNOWLEDGE" have not a shred of a clue what my circumstances were, nor will you ever.

FUCK OFF

Not going to win anyone over with that attitude, seems like you didn't give a damn about Chase's circumstances. No matter how bad things get, you can still pick up the phone and let someone know why you haven't paid them back.

lol - again, for those retarded individuals TUNING IN... take off your helmets and let the eardumes BREEATHE....

I have spoken to her - I have been in touch with her - just GFY'ing back in... didn't know this existed.

im not even going to get involved on this one........ like i have a fucking right too.

Yes, but why did it take you over two months to get in touch with her?

None of your fucking business, idiot. Good enough answer for you pumpkin? She knows my story - eat a dick.:2 cents: