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  • chaze
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    • Aug 2002
    • 9774

    #1

    So who wants to get married and have kids?

    Been thinking about this latly since I turned 30.

    Is it really worth throwing away your freedom and crazy single life for?
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  • sickkittens
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    • Jul 2002
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    #2
    My advice is that if you're debating on whether to "throw your single life away" you shouldn't.

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    • jimthefiend
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      • Oct 2003
      • 18889

      #3
      Yes. I have a 7 year old girl, and she's the most important thing in my life.

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      • BT
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        #4
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        • phogirl69
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          • Jul 2001
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          #5
          I want to get married but I don't ever want kids. I don't want to give birth, I don't think I can endure it and I'm afraid of a c-section. I am one of those wussies that would probably chose an elective c-section (like Britney and Posh Spice did) with me totally put asleep (I'd rather get cut than have to push it out), but even that doesn't seem too appealing.

          I also really don't like kids too much, I'd rather be "free".

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          • The Demon
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            • Apr 2003
            • 7336

            #6
            Chaze, if you're 30 and are still considering putting the wild crazy single and obviously low class and insignificant life, over a family, then you have some serious problems.
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            • OneHungLo
              So Fucking Banned
              • May 2001
              • 40906

              #7
              Originally posted by The Demon
              Chaze, if you're 30 and are still considering putting the wild crazy single and obviously low class and insignificant life, over a family, then you have some serious problems.
              This is what miserable married married folk say to single people w/out kids lol

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              • BellaSeaira
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                • Jun 2005
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                #8
                Well I have to agree with sickkittens if you have to question weather or not it is worth it you haven't found the right person.
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                • stickyfingerz
                  Doin fine
                  • Oct 2005
                  • 24984

                  #9
                  Turning 33 in 2 days. Married two kids big ass mortgage suv, whole nine yards. Love it. Wouldnt change it for anything. Did the single thing for 26 or 27 years. Its only fun for awhile. Then it starts to just feel empty, and there is a void that no amount of pussy or dope, or money, or alcohol can fill.

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                  • chaze
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                    • Aug 2002
                    • 9774

                    #10
                    Originally posted by The Demon
                    Chaze, if you're 30 and are still considering putting the wild crazy single and obviously low class and insignificant life, over a family, then you have some serious problems.
                    Ouch, cmon everyone is different.. there is no reason to bitter about that. I have a done allot of significant things to help others besides having children and getting married.
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                    • The Demon
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                      • Apr 2003
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                      #11
                      Yea but that's the problem with most of the douchebags in the adult industry. They think living the single life is the shit, and they do it til they're 40, or hell even later. I highly doubt they enjoy it for that long, unless they're ignorant. But if you want to live a meaningless life like most people in the adult industry, to each his own.
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                      • WiredGuy
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                        • Aug 2002
                        • 34512

                        #12
                        I wouldn't mind settling down, its not like my single life is all that great
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                        • polish_aristocrat
                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                          • Jul 2002
                          • 40377

                          #13
                          Originally posted by chaze
                          So who wants to get married and have kids?
                          hm... everyone?
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                          • Sosa
                            In Tushy Land
                            • Oct 2002
                            • 40149

                            #14
                            Well I'm getting married in June, within a few years I'm sure we will have a kid since that is what we have talked about.

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                            • Ycaza
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                              • Feb 2005
                              • 4290

                              #15
                              well i am 42 and really driving towards that whole ethos. tried it earlier and it didn't take, but i am all kinds of ready now.
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                              • Spunky
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                                • Jun 2002
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                                #16
                                It's not in the cards for me..Girlfriends only

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                                • KRL
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                                  • Oct 2002
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                                  #17
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                                  • Rochard
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                                    • Dec 2001
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                                    #18
                                    I'm 37, married for 12 years, and have a 5 year old. Nothing has provided me with more fun or entertainment. It's a blast.
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                                    • KRL
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                                      • Oct 2002
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                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by RocHard
                                      I'm 37, married for 12 years, and have a 5 year old. Nothing has provided me with more fun or entertainment. It's a blast.
                                      5 is still the fun stage. When they hit their teens though and start the stage where they want to spend more time having fun with their friends instead of you its a whole new emotional experience to deal with and accept.
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                                      • Ivana Fukalot
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                                        • Mar 2006
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                                        #20
                                        I want to get married and have kids in few years . now i am still not ready to change my life this way .

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                                        • jscott
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                                          • Feb 2001
                                          • 25412

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by chaze
                                          Is it really worth throwing away your freedom and crazy single life for?
                                          HELL NO!!!!
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                                          • sperbonzo
                                            I'd rather be on my boat.
                                            • May 2003
                                            • 9750

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by The Demon
                                            Yea but that's the problem with most of the douchebags in the adult industry. They think living the single life is the shit, and they do it til they're 40, or hell even later. I highly doubt they enjoy it for that long, unless they're ignorant. But if you want to live a meaningless life like most people in the adult industry, to each his own.
                                            I'm getting married in June, and I'm 42, I will turn 43 in May. I've never been married before, and what the hell is wrong with that? Everyone is different. I'm absolutely ready and eager to start a family, I"m with the most amazing women ever, I"m looking forward to spending the rest of my life with her, and we plan to have kids right away.

                                            I've known plenty of guys that got married in their 20s and then 20 years later they are wondering if they missed something. They find themselves in a bar wondering "What would it be like to be with a girl like that?". I KNOW what it would be like. I haven't missed anything, I've been around the block so many times that I know every crack in the sidewalk, and now I'm completely and utterly ready, in every aspect of my life, to be a devoted husband and father.

                                            It's silly to be so judgemental of other people's lives or the schedules by which they live them. Just because people don't live their lives exactly the way YOU do does not make them "meaningless"
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                                            • seeric
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                                              • Aug 2004
                                              • 41917

                                              #23
                                              rock out! i don't think theres a woman on earth that can put up with me. ROFL

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                                              • Antonio
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                                                • Oct 2001
                                                • 14136

                                                #24
                                                I want to have kids, I don't want to get married

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                                                • The Demon
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                                                  • Apr 2003
                                                  • 7336

                                                  #25
                                                  I wasn't critisizing marriage or telling you what point in your life you have to get married. I was critisizing the losers in the adult industry who think the single and crazy life is a meaningful one..
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                                                  • dooglas
                                                    So Fucking Banned
                                                    • Jan 2004
                                                    • 2068

                                                    #26
                                                    I'd love to be married with kids. Hard as hell to find a good girl to marry though!

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                                                    • quiet
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                                                      • Sep 2001
                                                      • 25115

                                                      #27
                                                      i'm definitely interested in getting married. kids? never. in general i can't stand them.
                                                      we'll miss you our friend. RIP

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                                                      • The Demon
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                                                        • Apr 2003
                                                        • 7336

                                                        #28
                                                        At least some of you have your heads in the right place..
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                                                        • bigdog
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                                                          • Jul 2001
                                                          • 6964

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by WiredGuy
                                                          I wouldn't mind settling down, its not like my single life is all that great
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                                                          • Violetta
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                                                            • Jul 2004
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                                                            #30
                                                            it is my plan yes, but i am "only" 25, so it will have to wait a year or two (or four) lol
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                                                            • baddog
                                                              So Fucking Banned
                                                              • Apr 2001
                                                              • 107089

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by The Demon
                                                              Chaze, if you're 30 and are still considering putting the wild crazy single and obviously low class and insignificant life, over a family, then you have some serious problems.

                                                              Misery loves company

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                                                              • reynold
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                                                                • Oct 2002
                                                                • 51271

                                                                #32
                                                                I don't mind getting married at 50, and I don't even mind not getting married at all. I guess I am not the marrying type. But there is something about siring a son that excites me

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                                                                • PixeLs
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                                                                  • Jul 2005
                                                                  • 11922

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by chaze
                                                                  Been thinking about this latly since I turned 30.

                                                                  Is it really worth throwing away your freedom and crazy single life for?

                                                                  Me, but not so soon.


                                                                  I wanna have at least to kids. I must have a boy and a girl.

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                                                                  • Slick
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                                                                    • Feb 2001
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    I'm 31 years old, I've been with my wife for a little over 15 years now, married for 5 and a half of those. We have 3 children, 4, 8, and 13. I've only fucked 2 women in my life, my wife and my girlfriend of 3 years before her.

                                                                    I know that I didn't have any chances to play the field, but I wouldn't want it any other way. I love having a family. I can go out to the bar with the guys and not have to worry about trying to pick someone up, I get to come home to my beautiful wife.

                                                                    The nice thing is that we've stoped at 3 children, so when the last one turns 18, I'll be 45 years old and will be able to enjoy my middle aged years and the grand children.

                                                                    It's kinda funny because I have a couple of friends that would love to have a family of their own, one is 24 and one is 32, but things just never click for them.

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                                                                    • Slick
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                                                                      • Feb 2001
                                                                      • 7338

                                                                      #35
                                                                      I guess that it all depends on your situation. If you're with a woman that you feel that you love and want to spend the rest of your life with, by all means marry her, but definately don't rush into things and also try to live with her for a while before you propose because some people can date fine, but once they live together, they can't get along. I had a cousin that got married before moving in together because it was "morally right", but it ended up being a nightmare.

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                                                                      • WiredGuy
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                                                                        • Aug 2002
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by bigdog
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                                                                        • Lykos
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                                                                          • Apr 2003
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                                                                          #37
                                                                          Definitly worth

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                                                                          • chaze
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            I have a to admit this girl is amazing, I didn't want a girlfriend a week ago and know I'm thinking about family life. Crazy
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                                                                              • reynold
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                                                                                • Oct 2002
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                I have had relationships which were so great, until the moment I got asked about marriage. Marriage ruins everything for me

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                                                                                • nick1980
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                                                                                  • Jul 2005
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by chaze
                                                                                  Been thinking about this latly since I turned 30.

                                                                                  Is it really worth throwing away your freedom and crazy single life for?
                                                                                  I've been thinking of that lately coz Im not getting any younger. Me and my girlfriend are actually planning to get married next year. We want to have two kids, a boy and a girl.

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                                                                                  • reed_4
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                                                                                    • Jul 2005
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                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by chaze
                                                                                    I have a to admit this girl is amazing, I didn't want a girlfriend a week ago and know I'm thinking about family life. Crazy
                                                                                    Go for it man, It seems that you have found the one. best wishes!

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                                                                                    • Vitasoy
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                                                                                      • Oct 2003
                                                                                      • 58202

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      I am no where close to setting down.


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                                                                                      • je_rome
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                                                                                        • Jul 2005
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                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        one of ultimate dreams is to settle down, marry and live forever with the woman i love. we'll make a one, big, happy family. i hope to be father to a twin/s someday.
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                                                                                        • cool1
                                                                                          sex is good
                                                                                          • Sep 2001
                                                                                          • 24939

                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          I have 5 kids from 21 yrs old to 11 months old.
                                                                                          Been married 3 times since 84
                                                                                          Having kids is great , but the being married part sucked.

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                                                                                          • Teodora
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                                                                                            • Feb 2006
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                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            think it does worth it... u just need to find the perfect person for it! as far as i'm concerned i want to get married and have kids but not just yet...

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                                                                                            • Cassie
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                                                                                              • Mar 2003
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              doing both changes the dynamics drastically.

                                                                                              since you seem to like your single life (like some of us do and there's nothing wrong with that), then i think you have answered your own question.

                                                                                              i think everyone who meets someone of a different level thinks the same way at first. remember, it's lust before love and if you can get past the lust, and deal with the fact that your relationship will level out, then you may have a chance, but.....
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                                                                                              • Gentle_Ben
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                                                                                                • Nov 2005
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                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Originally posted by sperbonzo
                                                                                                I'm getting married in June, and I'm 42, I will turn 43 in May. I've never been married before, and what the hell is wrong with that? Everyone is different. I'm absolutely ready and eager to start a family, I"m with the most amazing women ever, I"m looking forward to spending the rest of my life with her, and we plan to have kids right away.

                                                                                                I've known plenty of guys that got married in their 20s and then 20 years later they are wondering if they missed something. They find themselves in a bar wondering "What would it be like to be with a girl like that?". I KNOW what it would be like. I haven't missed anything, I've been around the block so many times that I know every crack in the sidewalk, and now I'm completely and utterly ready, in every aspect of my life, to be a devoted husband and father.

                                                                                                It's silly to be so judgemental of other people's lives or the schedules by which they live them. Just because people don't live their lives exactly the way YOU do does not make them "meaningless"


                                                                                                I completely agree with Michael, to each his own. No one can really pass judgement on how other people decide to live their lives. Jeremy and I talked to michael alot about it in CR and I not only respect him for how he did it but want to go about it the same way. I have alot of friends getting married now in their mid/early twenties, and they're really happy so more power to them, but i personally want to live my life without any regrets at all, especially about getting experience with women. I wanna 'sow my oats', experience everything i can, and then when eventually settle down with a strong, confident beautiful woman who has also experienced everything and isnt ever going to long for anything but me.

                                                                                                I met Michael's wife and partied with them both. she's a GREAT girl and i wish them the best!
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                                                                                                • Va2k
                                                                                                  I’m still alive barley.
                                                                                                  • Oct 2001
                                                                                                  • 10060

                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  I'm 33 now, was married in 95 we had one child in 96 then another in 99 in 2001 was divorced *thank god* I got custody of both my boys, It has been very hard to say the least at raising two kids by myself BUT I WOULD NEVER ever trade it in for anything! I love my kids they are my life/friend they are the reason I breath! I love being single with no bags attached to my ass, I like having no girl friend, I love being alone sort of speak! Women are too much of a pain in the ass, and if I was a women I would think the same about men! I do think at times about what it would be like to have another women in my life, then I wake the fuck up and remember how it was to have a women in my life!!!


                                                                                                  Maybe one day I may change my mind, but till then I am happy with raising my two kids and living for them! Sex is over rated imo and so is marriage!
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                                                                                                  • chaze
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                                                                                                    • Aug 2002
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                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    O.K. so now I'm wondering if I should do a pre-numpt if I go for it.

                                                                                                    I mean I have a allot and she has almost nothing financially.
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