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I am no where close to setting down.
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one of ultimate dreams is to settle down, marry and live forever with the woman i love. we'll make a one, big, happy family. i hope to be father to a twin/s someday.
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I have 5 kids from 21 yrs old to 11 months old.
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think it does worth it... u just need to find the perfect person for it! as far as i'm concerned i want to get married and have kids but not just yet...
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doing both changes the dynamics drastically.
since you seem to like your single life (like some of us do and there's nothing wrong with that), then i think you have answered your own question. i think everyone who meets someone of a different level thinks the same way at first. remember, it's lust before love and if you can get past the lust, and deal with the fact that your relationship will level out, then you may have a chance, but..... |
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I completely agree with Michael, to each his own. No one can really pass judgement on how other people decide to live their lives. Jeremy and I talked to michael alot about it in CR and I not only respect him for how he did it but want to go about it the same way. I have alot of friends getting married now in their mid/early twenties, and they're really happy so more power to them, but i personally want to live my life without any regrets at all, especially about getting experience with women. I wanna 'sow my oats', experience everything i can, and then when eventually settle down with a strong, confident beautiful woman who has also experienced everything and isnt ever going to long for anything but me. I met Michael's wife and partied with them both. she's a GREAT girl and i wish them the best! |
I'm 33 now, was married in 95 we had one child in 96 then another in 99 in 2001 was divorced *thank god* I got custody of both my boys, It has been very hard to say the least at raising two kids by myself BUT I WOULD NEVER ever trade it in for anything! I love my kids they are my life/friend they are the reason I breath! I love being single with no bags attached to my ass, I like having no girl friend, I love being alone sort of speak! Women are too much of a pain in the ass, and if I was a women I would think the same about men! I do think at times about what it would be like to have another women in my life, then I wake the fuck up and remember how it was to have a women in my life!!! :mad:
Maybe one day I may change my mind, but till then I am happy with raising my two kids and living for them! Sex is over rated imo and so is marriage! Tom |
O.K. so now I'm wondering if I should do a pre-numpt if I go for it.
I mean I have a allot and she has almost nothing financially. :Oh crap |
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I've been with my guy for 8 years and we're getting married on our tenth anniversary. He already has a teenage daughter who lives with her mom, and we plan to both adopt and have our own children sometime after we marry.
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There seems to be a lot of people in their mid twenties to mid thirties in that situation. People living at home with their parents longer, staying in school longer, while trying to have a social life. Finally out on their own in their mid to late twenties early thirties and wondering what next. We're the exact opposite of the baby boomers. When and if we decide to have kids we'll all be 60 years old. We won't even be around to see them graduate from middle school much less college.
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I'm not quite ready myself either...
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I am 25, have been with my fiance for 5 years and we're getting married this summer. No other feeling is greater to me than knowing that I am happy with a woman I love, and that we will be starting a family in the next few years. :)
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I hate kids. Well, I imagine I hate other peoples kids. Little shitfactories that make noise. I'm getting married next summer though.. but I'm 99,99% sure I'm not having kids anytime soon, for multiple reasons.
a) I don't want to. b) My GF/fiancee has this contraceptive capsule or what the fuck it's called and it's still 'working' for another 2-3 years :) |
I am married with two kids and cent imagine my life without my family
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yea but not with you sorry!
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chaze,
generally every one has a different opinion on that. but for me, its all in the state of mind.. we were destined to find our significant other. marriage has evolve these days, but who doesnt want to love and be loved in return? no matter how tough we are there will always be a sense of need that only a partner can satisfy.but hey, gudluck to finding a good one. kids? its another thing, but the experience of giving life is worth the pain.and no other experience can top that. they even say its the essence of a woman.. but either ways, different folks needs different strokes... ciao! |
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