How did you guys get your girlfriend/wife to stop bitching about working with porn? - GoFuckYourself.com

StickyGreen · 03-01-2006, 11:24 PM

My girlfriend has known all about my sites and shit for like 4 years now and is usually cool with it. But every once in awhile she decides to throw a little fit saying all the typical bullshit about how she doesn't want me looking at other girls and blah blah blah. I don't hear her complaining when I take her out to dinner and buy her shit for valentine's day etc etc. So I'm sure some of you guys here have been through the same shit and I just wanna ask you for some advice on how to stop her whining and complaining for good... ?

the Shemp · 03-01-2006, 11:26 PM

buy her a BMW

StickyGreen · 03-01-2006, 11:26 PM

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Originally Posted by the Shemp

buy her a BMW

lol! that's funny. she's my GIRLFRIEND, not wife...

newbreed · 03-01-2006, 11:26 PM

I gave mine her own site, that worked for a while...lol

StickyGreen · 03-01-2006, 11:27 PM

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Originally Posted by newbreed

I gave mine her own site, that worked for a while...lol

That sounds like a good idea, but I doubt she could even figure out how to login to the ftp...lol...

jacked · 03-01-2006, 11:28 PM

show her a couple checks

StickyGreen · 03-01-2006, 11:30 PM

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Originally Posted by jacked

show her a couple checks

she still bitches...

says all kinds of dumb shit like "get a real job instead of sitting in front of your computer" "what about those women? you're using them, do you even care about them?" blah blah blah she doesn't even know what she's talking about lol...

BusterBunny · 03-01-2006, 11:30 PM

newbreed · 03-01-2006, 11:30 PM

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Originally Posted by StickyGreen

That sounds like a good idea, but I doubt she could even figure out how to login to the ftp...lol...

Oh you would be surprised. Once they get a little exposure and a loyal member base that buys them shit all the time, suddenly she'll be out of your ass for a while. She'll become an HTML Queen instead of a drama queen.

Nismo · 03-01-2006, 11:35 PM

Tell her she is a hypocrite for taking the things you buy her with the money you make in porn. If she keeps complaining, tell her to get fucked and leave. Plenty of women like a guy with money, no matter where it comes from.

reynold · 03-02-2006, 02:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Nismo

Tell her she is a hypocrite for taking the things you buy her with the money you make in porn. If she keeps complaining, tell her to get fucked and leave. Plenty of women like a guy with money, no matter where it comes from.

i agree... she must love my job because that's a great part of who i am

I LOVE Little Brown Asses · 03-02-2006, 03:45 AM

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Originally Posted by StickyGreen

she still bitches...

says all kinds of dumb shit like "get a real job instead of sitting in front of your computer" "what about those women? you're using them, do you even care about them?" blah blah blah she doesn't even know what she's talking about lol...

It's the classic case of women wanting to change who you are. She can date who you are or she can whine about who she wants you to be. Not both. If she's got issues about what you do, tell her to put up or shut up.

You know what's funny, I hear this shit from my MOM. Not my g/f.

gotekix · 03-02-2006, 03:53 AM

dump her and find a woman that enjoys what you do and supports you.

blazin · 03-02-2006, 03:57 AM

Tell her "Like it or Lump It!"

....if she's not happy then tell her to leave.

com · 03-02-2006, 04:15 AM

I fired her

everestcash · 03-02-2006, 04:22 AM

that's a dilemma, just tell her all this $hit you buy comes from that, i guess that's all you need to tell. if that doesn't work, good bye baby, or stop bitching

reynold · 03-02-2006, 05:22 AM

its the other way around in the case of Bill and Hilary

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Absolutt · 03-02-2006, 05:25 AM

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Originally Posted by StickyGreen

she still bitches...

says all kinds of dumb shit like "get a real job instead of sitting in front of your computer" "what about those women? you're using them, do you even care about them?" blah blah blah she doesn't even know what she's talking about lol...

Describe to her that an office job is exactly that - sitting in front of a computer.
Tell her that yes, you care about those women, about as much as you care about the paper your checks are written on.
Tell her that you are helping to provide those women with a livelihood which is paying for their children's clothes and food - and in fact, you are doing a very noble thing.

xclusive · 03-02-2006, 05:30 AM

Just tell her to either support you or stay out of your business. My wife has supported me %100 since day 1. Good luck and hope you can work it out.

CheneyRumsfeld · 03-02-2006, 05:31 AM

a swift backhand to the chops usually fixes that.
baring that, just point to the door and say, "it swings both ways"
she'll get the hint.

Hardlinks · 03-02-2006, 05:46 AM

You just need to start making a living off it, if you sit in front of it 18hrs a day and work, its all meaningless without some bank.

Everybody i met whose wife had a problem with this business wasnt making money. And they just see you as sitting in front of a PC being a lazy fuck, and if your not earning, how wrong is she.

No disrespect, i dont know what you make. Thats just usually the reason they bitch about it. Show me 5 digits a month hitting a bank account and i'll show you a happy wife.

Jakke PNG · 03-02-2006, 05:47 AM

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Originally Posted by com

I fired her

I hired mine. lol.

selena · 03-02-2006, 05:50 AM

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Originally Posted by StickyGreen

lol! that's funny. she's my GIRLFRIEND, not wife...

Precisely. Which is why she has no business opening her mouth about how you support yourself.

Not sure that a wife does, but I know a girlfriend doesn't.

Tell her to get over it already.

And if she doesn't, curb her.

2HousePlague · 03-02-2006, 05:50 AM

She's the boss.

com · 03-02-2006, 05:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Hardlinks

You just need to start making a living off it, if you sit in front of it 18hrs a day and work, its all meaningless without some bank.

Everybody i met whose wife had a problem with this business wasnt making money. And they just see you as sitting in front of a PC being a lazy fuck, and if your not earning, how wrong is she.

No disrespect, i dont know what you make. Thats just usually the reason they bitch about it. Show me 5 digits a month hitting a bank account and i'll show you a happy wife.

show me a woman happy with a million dollar bankroll and I'll show you someone sitting on the curb. At the risk of sounding old school I dare say it's not about money; if she doesnt approve of my line of work; well no offense if she's worth it I'll change my line of work; but otherwise... on the flipside who the hell am I to ask a hooker to become a house wife? Unless you deceived her and didnt tell her what you did for a living; she shouldn't be upset.

Hardlinks · 03-02-2006, 05:54 AM

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Originally Posted by com

show me a woman happy with a million dollar bankroll and I'll show you someone sitting on the curb. At the risk of sounding old school I dare say it's not about money; if she doesnt approve of my line of work; well no offense if she's worth it I'll change my line of work; but otherwise... on the flipside who the hell am I to ask a hooker to become a house wife? Unless you deceived her and didnt tell her what you did for a living; she shouldn't be upset.

My point isnt about the woman being happy with money, its about her being unhappy because there isnt any, there is a big diferance, curb or not.

com · 03-02-2006, 06:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Hardlinks

My point isnt about the woman being happy with money, its about her being unhappy because there isnt any, there is a big diferance, curb or not.

very true and Im not about to bash you for it! however if she knew you were in business for yourself no matter the industry she should know you may not always be on top of the world. If she knew from the beginning what industry you were in and started to complain once the well ran a bit dry; I'm sorry but you don't see me complaining when my girlfriend is broke... I pick up the slack. Point being; take me or leave me; but don't bitch when things get tight if they ever do... it's very unbecoming.

mikaels · 03-02-2006, 06:06 AM

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Originally Posted by xclusive

Just tell her to either support you or stay out of your business. My wife has supported me %100 since day 1. Good luck and hope you can work it out.

Agreed, and never go into a dicussion about it. Worked for me with several GF's. I work with porn and it's just a job. Accept it or leave.....Silence....
You can kill any dicussion with those 4 words.

BlackCrayon · 03-02-2006, 06:07 AM

ah, seems like she only has a problem with it when she wants something to bitch about. like how women will always find something you did in the past to bring up whenever they want to justify being pissy.

reed_4 · 03-02-2006, 06:27 AM

You just have to give your gf quality time if you are together so that she won't be complaining about your job. Give her what she wants and always be there if she needs you.

MrIzzz · 03-02-2006, 06:35 AM

a woman will never be happy 100% with what you do. you will either not make enough money doing what you do, or you will be spending too much time doing it instead of being with her. therefore the only solution is to take control and give her some tough love and tell her to get used to it. if she sticks around then shes a keeper

Quagmire · 03-02-2006, 07:02 AM

Its very simple. You tell her STFU and keep working at it. Unless you're plowing these chicks behind her back she has nothing to complain about.

My wife doesn't give a shit what I do as long as it isn't illegal and the bills keep getting paid.

aico · 03-02-2006, 07:03 AM

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Originally Posted by StickyGreen

lol! that's funny. she's my GIRLFRIEND, not wife...

You must not live in LA.

bobby666 · 03-02-2006, 07:29 AM

i also made her an own site :-)

ShaneRyale · 03-02-2006, 07:41 AM

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Originally Posted by newbreed

I gave mine her own site, that worked for a while...lol

LOL, brutal!

BTW, thanks for the info the other day. Looks like it is working out well!

Phoenix · 03-02-2006, 07:48 AM

buy her some luis vutton

blazin · 03-02-2006, 08:16 AM

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Originally Posted by MrIzzz

a woman will never be happy 100% with what you do. you will either not make enough money doing what you do, or you will be spending too much time doing it instead of being with her. therefore the only solution is to take control and give her some tough love and tell her to get used to it. if she sticks around then shes a keeper

So fucking true

ared · 03-02-2006, 08:18 AM

Give her my daily porn at night works just fine to shut her up for a day

gangbangjoe · 03-02-2006, 08:19 AM

deepthroat her

More Booze · 03-02-2006, 08:21 AM

Rape her atleast once a day and tell her it's for her own good.

G-Rotica · 03-02-2006, 08:30 AM

Hell my wife creates galleries and submits them. She helps out any way she can. She realizes when all is said and done, all that matters is the bank. We got things we want, things we want to do. Need money to do them.

xcitecash · 03-02-2006, 08:33 AM

Swap her for a wife that likes life in front of camera..

I did

Marshal · 03-02-2006, 10:55 AM

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Originally Posted by StickyGreen

she still bitches...

says all kinds of dumb shit like "get a real job instead of sitting in front of your computer" "what about those women? you're using them, do you even care about them?" blah blah blah she doesn't even know what she's talking about lol...

it is the final time to warn here again, and if she keeps saying that - dump her! and no doubts about that!

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