Question to the guys...Valentines day? - GoFuckYourself.com

Semi-Retired-Dave · 02-09-2006, 12:11 PM

I usually don't buy flowers for the girls I am dating on this day because the rest of the world does it. I also don't like to take them out to dinner on that day because it's the thing to do that day.

Do you think it's wrong?

Isn't it better to send flowers on days they don't except it then to do it on a day that you practically have to?

I usually take my Mom Out to dinner on Valentines Day since we don't have a dad.

Your Thoughts?

Just_Dave · 02-09-2006, 12:12 PM

I think you are right Dave

karlm · 02-09-2006, 12:13 PM

Treat em mean keep em keen

RayBonga · 02-09-2006, 12:14 PM

I hate to go out for dinner on Valentines day because everywhere you go is packed.

I usually try to offer my girl something we can do together, like tickets to some nice show, a trip, etc..

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 02-09-2006, 12:14 PM

Its part of tradition but doing anything in LA on Valantines day is crazy.

No restaraunts available they are packed, no flowers available because they are bought.

May as well rent some porno movies and throw the blanket on the floor in the living room and surprise the girl.

seeric · 02-09-2006, 12:14 PM

i think you're on the right track.

Semi-Retired-Dave · 02-09-2006, 12:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by karlm

Treat em mean keep em keen

I agree, that system seems to be working for me for a long time.

RayBonga · 02-09-2006, 12:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CyberAge-Dave

I usually take my Mom Out to dinner on Valentines Day since we don't have a dad.

Your Thoughts?

You asked for it...

not sure if it's sweet or if it's kinda creepy.

Claire Gosse · 02-09-2006, 12:19 PM

I know you asked the guys this question, but coming from a girl's perspective, I would much rather get flowers or a card for no reason.

Brad and I never do anything for each other on Valentine's Day. We prefer to do special things for each other when it's not expected

Fresh · 02-09-2006, 12:20 PM

i kinda agree. I hate doing things people expect. I think girls would appriciate flowers more on any other day then a day where its a standard to give flowers lol.

why dont you surprise her with somthing off the wall?

Just_Dave · 02-09-2006, 12:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dave Guru

i kinda agree. I hate doing things people expect. I think girls would appriciate flowers more on any other day then a day where its a standard to give flowers lol.

why dont you surprise her with somthing off the wall?

shut up dave

Semi-Retired-Dave · 02-09-2006, 12:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Claire Gosse

I know you asked the guys this question, but coming from a girl's perspective, I would much rather get flowers or a card for no reason.

Brad and I never do anything for each other on Valentine's Day. We prefer to do special things for each other when it's not expected

No Worries, I should have asked the ladies too. My bad.
Thanks, I thought so. I usually use this system but I get told off the day after then I have to explain it to them.

Thank you,

Semi-Retired-Dave · 02-09-2006, 01:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dave Guru

i kinda agree. I hate doing things people expect. I think girls would appriciate flowers more on any other day then a day where its a standard to give flowers lol.

why dont you surprise her with somthing off the wall?

Thanks, too many surprises that's the problem.

Thanks.

tristan_D · 02-09-2006, 04:08 PM

my motto with these kind of things is "it doesn't have to be great, just sincere."
I'm sure if you gave her a surprise that is really from the bottom of your heart, not something your felt obligated to do, she will surely appreciate it.

WiredGuy · 02-09-2006, 04:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Claire Gosse

I know you asked the guys this question, but coming from a girl's perspective, I would much rather get flowers or a card for no reason.

Brad and I never do anything for each other on Valentine's Day. We prefer to do special things for each other when it's not expected

I agree with that mentality, its better to actually leave things to surprise and to do something when its least expected. At least to me...
WG

xNetworx · 02-09-2006, 04:22 PM

The gift that keeps on giving
Not only does it double as exercise equipment, she will also get a tan!
Special bonus: Your lawn will be cut in the process!

Monique Niccole · 02-09-2006, 04:26 PM

I got a dozen roses yesterday for no reason, and it meant a lot more than if it was on V-day. On V-day, I like a nice dinner and a memorable gift.

Peter_ANYwebcam · 02-09-2006, 04:29 PM

I just wish my partner a happy Valentine's day and thats about it.

Semi-Retired-Dave · 02-09-2006, 04:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pimpporn

The gift that keeps on giving
Not only does it double as exercise equipment, she will also get a tan!
Special bonus: Your lawn will be cut in the process!

I like it. Lots of Bonuses in this one.

WME · 02-09-2006, 05:01 PM

Its better to give flowers, chocolates, or eat on a fancy restaurant when it's not Valentines

...coz they cost much cheaper

The Sultan Of Smut · 02-09-2006, 05:25 PM

I think most women would just like some effort on Valentine's day. It doesn't have to be flowers or dinner maybe just a massage in the morning followed by breakfast in bed. Then again I'm perpetually single so I really don't know anything about it... I just started dating a new chick and I ain't gettin' her shit. I'm an asshole like that.

PixeLs · 02-09-2006, 06:11 PM

Some say Valentine's day is a boring day since you always spend it with the original one.

reynold · 02-09-2006, 10:40 PM

you have a point, a very good point. but then it wouldn't hurt if you exert some effort on valentine's day. presents or surprises should not necessarily be big or expensive.

Semi-Retired-Dave · 02-09-2006, 11:26 PM

The only part I feel bad for is, if they have an office job and if every other girl in that office gets something delivered and put on their desk, our girls will feel left out, and then their friends would be like, Damn, I can't believe your boyfriend doesn't care. And all that drama some girls go through.

Decisions Decisions.

WWC-Moe B. · 02-09-2006, 11:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CyberAge-Dave

The only part I feel bad for is, if they have an office job and if every other girl in that office gets something delivered and put on their desk, our girls will feel left out, and then their friends would be like, Damn, I can't believe your boyfriend doesn't care. And all that drama some girls go through.

Decisions Decisions.

Good point Dave... You can't be that careless

it's good to make her feel good in front of others

SleazyDream · 02-09-2006, 11:50 PM

I'M DOING A SNOWMOBILE DAY DURING THE DAY - both of us are going to our parents for dinner.

and yes i'll buy flowers but mainly cause i havn't bought flowers for this one yet

je_rome · 02-10-2006, 01:11 AM

for someone who loves so much, every day is valentine's day. it doesn't really matter. but then, love would dictate that you give her a little something on valentine's day

WWC · 02-10-2006, 01:19 AM

I agree...good man! Fuck them whoes....mom comes first!

Kevin - The PNN · 02-10-2006, 01:20 AM

Arn't there laws about dating your MOM?

reed_4 · 02-10-2006, 01:24 AM

It's ok if you are not celebrating the valentines on it's real date but see to it that you will have your time with your love ones.

02-09-2006, 12:11 PM	#1
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RayBonga too cool for highschool Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: East side, West side, Worldwide! Posts: 12,164	I hate to go out for dinner on Valentines day because everywhere you go is packed. I usually try to offer my girl something we can do together, like tickets to some nice show, a trip, etc..

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tristan_D Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 7,865	my motto with these kind of things is "it doesn't have to be great, just sincere." I'm sure if you gave her a surprise that is really from the bottom of your heart, not something your felt obligated to do, she will surely appreciate it. __________________ Increase your sales. Up to $4 per click.

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Monique Niccole Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: San Francisco Posts: 5,653	I got a dozen roses yesterday for no reason, and it meant a lot more than if it was on V-day. On V-day, I like a nice dinner and a memorable gift.

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02-09-2006, 05:25 PM	#21
The Sultan Of Smut Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Vancouver Posts: 4,325	I think most women would just like some effort on Valentine's day. It doesn't have to be flowers or dinner maybe just a massage in the morning followed by breakfast in bed. Then again I'm perpetually single so I really don't know anything about it... I just started dating a new chick and I ain't gettin' her shit. I'm an asshole like that.

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reynold Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Global Traveler Posts: 51,271	you have a point, a very good point. but then it wouldn't hurt if you exert some effort on valentine's day. presents or surprises should not necessarily be big or expensive.

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Semi-Retired-Dave Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: LA Posts: 11,190	The only part I feel bad for is, if they have an office job and if every other girl in that office gets something delivered and put on their desk, our girls will feel left out, and then their friends would be like, Damn, I can't believe your boyfriend doesn't care. And all that drama some girls go through. Decisions Decisions. __________________ Support a Good Cause

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reed_4 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 9,640	It's ok if you are not celebrating the valentines on it's real date but see to it that you will have your time with your love ones. __________________