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SykkBoy · 07-25-2005, 01:22 PM

As a newly single man, I'll be slowly re-entering the dating pool, but am wondering if I should seek within the industry or outside.

The fact I'm a family man but work in the adult industry could cause huge headaches and problems for someone not in the industry.

So, those of you with children who've gone through this, were you looking within the industry, outside of it or just poking around to see what would happen?

Jakke PNG · 07-25-2005, 01:23 PM

I'm taken, but I can spend a wild night with you...

SykkBoy · 07-25-2005, 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by TeenGodFather

I'm taken, but I can spend a wild night with you...

sweet
checking into ticket prices on Cheaptickets.com right now...

BradM · 07-25-2005, 01:28 PM

Outside. Why would you want to date a total flake with mental issues? (name one chick in the industry that doesn't fit that description and win a prize)

Steve · 07-25-2005, 01:28 PM

dont limit your options

SykkBoy · 07-25-2005, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

Outside. Why would you want to date a total flake with mental issues? (name one chick in the industry that doesn't fit that description and win a prize)

I'm not talking about talent ;-)

I know there are a lot of hot, single moms at my kids' school, but this is a Mormon 'hood, so chances of them understanding that I keep my business seperate and away from my kids would be a huge hurdle......

Jakke PNG · 07-25-2005, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by SykkBoy2

sweet
checking into ticket prices on Cheaptickets.com right now...

Just have me back by saturday. My girl is having a vacation in turkey with her mom, and I could take on some side action while she's gone. she'll never know.

TurboAngel · 07-25-2005, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by TeenGodFather

I'm taken, but I can spend a wild night with you...

Awwwww......

AshleyBrookes · 07-25-2005, 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

Outside. Why would you want to date a total flake with mental issues? (name one chick in the industry that doesn't fit that description and win a prize)

Ahem...yours truely

What do I win? lol

BigRod · 07-25-2005, 01:32 PM

Dont limit yourself one way or the other...just because they are industry may not neccesarily mean they want to marry in the industry...

Jakke PNG · 07-25-2005, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by AshleyBrookes

Ahem...yours truely

What do I win? lol

A date with Sykkboy?

BradM · 07-25-2005, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by AshleyBrookes

Ahem...yours truely

What do I win? lol

Holy fuck where you been? $10 says this is Mutt and he found your password. Next thing I know I am going to be meeting some hairy man in a park expecting it to be you.

xfalmp · 07-25-2005, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

Outside. Why would you want to date a total flake with mental issues? (name one chick in the industry that doesn't fit that description and win a prize)

European Lee.

What do I win?

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 07-25-2005, 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by SykkBoy2

As a newly single man, I'll be slowly re-entering the dating pool, but am wondering if I should seek within the industry or outside.

The fact I'm a family man but work in the adult industry could cause huge headaches and problems for someone not in the industry.

So, those of you with children who've gone through this, were you looking within the industry, outside of it or just poking around to see what would happen?

Be a whore man...

WTF.

BradM · 07-25-2005, 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by xfalmp

European Lee.

LOLLLLLLL!!!

Rinaldo · 07-25-2005, 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by SykkBoy2

As a newly single man, I'll be slowly re-entering the dating pool, but am wondering if I should seek within the industry or outside.

The fact I'm a family man but work in the adult industry could cause huge headaches and problems for someone not in the industry.

So, those of you with children who've gone through this, were you looking within the industry, outside of it or just poking around to see what would happen?

It's a double edged sword.
I know I slept with someone in the industry and 2 weeks later We were over. He went blabbing to everyone about me and my tight ass hole.

In all seriousness though, it's better to date someone in a similar industry with an casual view on sex and selling it, rather than date someone you'll ultimately be working with. It leads to too many problems

Shok · 07-25-2005, 01:35 PM

Wade in the river

Just don't drink from it

AshleyBrookes · 07-25-2005, 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

Holy fuck where you been? $10 says this is Mutt and he found your password. Next thing I know I am going to be meeting some hairy man in a park expecting it to be you.

Very busy!! Haven't been on GFY in FOREVER so I decided to stop by

No, definitely not Mutt, lol.

Sly · 07-25-2005, 01:38 PM

Dude, stop calling me. Seriously. I'm not raising your kids.

BradM · 07-25-2005, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by AshleyBrookes

Very busy!! Haven't been on GFY in FOREVER so I decided to stop by

No, definitely not Mutt, lol.

No shit n1ggs. I tried calling and everything, I missed our totally random, pointless and useless conversations. None of which have any memorable quotes.

I have some crazy news - lemme know where I can get ahold of you.

bdld · 07-25-2005, 01:39 PM

i wouldnt date any woman with any association with the adult biz.

chase · 07-25-2005, 01:39 PM

i would say in it..i think most chicks out of it would eventually make you choose them or the industry.

i'm a newly single chickie and I know i'd rather date someone who knows wtf i'm talking about, and that understands how it works than someone who turns out to have issues with it.

WiredGuy · 07-25-2005, 01:40 PM

I'd prefer someone with the industry but that's not as easy as it sounds. Especially if you're doing business with the other person's company or indirectly. Even though it may be easier on your life since you work in the industry, its quite complicated because this whole business is connected.
WG

dropped9 · 07-25-2005, 01:41 PM

I dont care what you say. You are NOT allowed to touch my ass anymore.

SykkBoy · 07-25-2005, 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Shok

Wade in the river

Just don't drink from it

shok, when are you going to pimp me out for more photoshoots? it's been too long, man (um, but I'm not fucking grannies anymore ;-) )

RogerV · 07-25-2005, 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by SykkBoy2

As a newly single man, I'll be slowly re-entering the dating pool, but am wondering if I should seek within the industry or outside.

The fact I'm a family man but work in the adult industry could cause huge headaches and problems for someone not in the industry.

So, those of you with children who've gone through this, were you looking within the industry, outside of it or just poking around to see what would happen?

Find a girl who is Bi and it will be less of a headache they don't get as jealous about girls etc.

RogerV · 07-25-2005, 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by AshleyBrookes

Ahem...yours truely

What do I win? lol

Wow can I have a date?

SykkBoy · 07-25-2005, 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by chase

i would say in it..i think most chicks out of it would eventually make you choose them or the industry.

i'm a newly single chickie and I know i'd rather date someone who knows wtf i'm talking about, and that understands how it works than someone who turns out to have issues with it.

yeah, that's kind of my view on it

it would have to be someone who understand that my kids come first, but also that I work an ungodly number of hours between my adult stuff and my side projects

so, um, you're newly single too, eh? hmmmmmm ;-)

maybe there's some $ in this....I just might start a dating/matchmaking site for people in the industry, hehe

SykkBoy · 07-25-2005, 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by RogerV

Find a girl who is Bi and it will be less of a headache they don't get as jealous about girls etc.

good idea
any leads? hahaha

I actually do have a gal I see a little now and then, but would like to broaden my horizons a bit more

SykkBoy · 07-25-2005, 01:47 PM

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Originally Posted by TeenGodFather

A date with Sykkboy?

now, you just really scared her off....

RogerV · 07-25-2005, 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by SykkBoy2

good idea
any leads? hahaha

I actually do have a gal I see a little now and then, but would like to broaden my horizons a bit more

there are 1000's in Tampa

BlackCrayon · 07-25-2005, 01:50 PM

you guys talk like you are in porn movies yourself. no girl i've been with has ever had a problem, aside from one who when i initially told her, she freaked but now she likes to see my sites, and what i've done. i don't think i'd wanna get with someone in the biz, if the relationship goes sour it could cause more problems than someone who isn't. i make porn sites because it makes money, end of story. most open minded women don't have problems with it, find a girl who likes porn.

SykkBoy · 07-25-2005, 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by RogerV

there are 1000's in Tampa

I'm supposed to be going down there for Depraved Dollars shortly....hmmm

AshleyBrookes · 07-25-2005, 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by SykkBoy2

now, you just really scared her off....

Takes a lot more than that to scare me off!

SykkBoy · 07-25-2005, 01:52 PM

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Originally Posted by AshleyBrookes

Takes a lot more than that to scare me off!

wait until you see me naked......

BradM · 07-25-2005, 01:52 PM

Speaking of dating, I have this 17 year old that has been chasing me around for the last month. I think she is trying to beat that indian for most text messages in a month. I'd do her but.... she's 17.

BradM · 07-25-2005, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by SykkBoy2

wait until you see me naked......

Just wait til you see my dick Ay bitch! wait til you see my dick ...

SykkBoy · 07-25-2005, 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

Just wait til you see my dick Ay bitch! wait til you see my dick ...

I'll be sure to bring my reading glasses

Honez · 07-25-2005, 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

Outside. Why would you want to date a total flake with mental issues? (name one chick in the industry that doesn't fit that description and win a prize)

Um, me. At least I think so

Peaches · 07-25-2005, 01:54 PM

So you're FINALLY seeing the value in a middle aged pudgy chick ;)

Oh, and if anyone wants to see him naked, LMK, hehehe ;)

BradM · 07-25-2005, 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Honez

Um, me. At least I think so

True. Okay okay excluding you.

RogerV · 07-25-2005, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by SykkBoy2

I'm supposed to be going down there for Depraved Dollars shortly....hmmm

My info is on PornoPushers call me if your in town.

its like girls gone wild in tampa all the time

Peaches · 07-25-2005, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

Outside. Why would you want to date a total flake with mental issues? (name one chick in the industry that doesn't fit that description and win a prize)

Geeze, thanks from me and all the other 100's of chicks here I thought were normal.

Tala · 07-25-2005, 01:57 PM

My thing is that I generally date outside the adult industry gene pool, but as the heat turns up, I slowly bring them over to the dark side.

SykkBoy · 07-25-2005, 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Peaches

So you're FINALLY seeing the value in a middle aged pudgy chick ;)

Oh, and if anyone wants to see him naked, LMK, hehehe ;)

Peaches, I've been trying to worm my way into your bed since New Orleans ;-)

so, I've always seen the value, hehehe

BradM · 07-25-2005, 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Peaches

Geeze, thanks from me and all the other 100's of chicks here I thought were normal.

Millions of peaches, peaches for me. Millions of peaches, peaches for free.

Phoenix · 07-25-2005, 01:59 PM

try to sleep with as many of the girls as possible..it is sorta like trading cards

RRRED · 07-25-2005, 01:59 PM

My book will be in stores early next year

haha

SykkBoy · 07-25-2005, 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by RogerV

My info is on PornoPushers call me if your in town.

its like girls gone wild in tampa all the time

sounds great to me

SykkBoy · 07-25-2005, 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Phoenix

try to sleep with as many of the girls as possible..it is sorta like trading cards

yeah, sort of working on that too...
I'm not really looking for love....just someone to hang out with at metal shows and the odd convention and the ol' pump and go....

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chase Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Tampa Bay Posts: 6,019	i would say in it..i think most chicks out of it would eventually make you choose them or the industry. i'm a newly single chickie and I know i'd rather date someone who knows wtf i'm talking about, and that understands how it works than someone who turns out to have issues with it. __________________ Need Hosting? Reality Check Network services me purrrfectly!

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BradM Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: 1123,6536,5231 Posts: 3,397	Outside. Why would you want to date a total flake with mental issues? (name one chick in the industry that doesn't fit that description and win a prize)

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WiredGuy Pounding Googlebot Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Canada Posts: 34,482	I'd prefer someone with the industry but that's not as easy as it sounds. Especially if you're doing business with the other person's company or indirectly. Even though it may be easier on your life since you work in the industry, its quite complicated because this whole business is connected. WG __________________ I play with Google.

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dropped9 Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Your moms box Posts: 26,727	I dont care what you say. You are NOT allowed to touch my ass anymore.

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BradM Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: 1123,6536,5231 Posts: 3,397	Speaking of dating, I have this 17 year old that has been chasing me around for the last month. I think she is trying to beat that indian for most text messages in a month. I'd do her but.... she's 17.

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Peaches Old broad Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Away Posts: 13,933	So you're FINALLY seeing the value in a middle aged pudgy chick ;) Oh, and if anyone wants to see him naked, LMK, hehehe ;)

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