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D-Money 11-29-2005 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by King Adam
Sly and Jim

I understand your point. I admit I may have not stated everything the right way .. I'm not a PR guy. I don know that around $1500 or so came directly from the various chat boards ... so thanks to all the boards .. not just GFY or another one, but thanks to them all.

The only reason I started getting defensive is because of all the hate her. Its not that GFY is uncharitable, its that there just are a bunch of GFY posters that are inconsiderate.

Here's the deal. I am very sorry for the mistakes in the way I handled GFY. I'm sorry for coming across like someone that doesn't appreciate the little things. All I tried to do is help someone that needed it. That doesn't make me so bad. I may have handled certain parts of it wrong but I'm not a pro and PR nor do I want to be. Even the best PR people get hammered. So thank you to GFY for helping us reach so many people. Thank you to the people that posted postive remarks and also thank you to the people that tried to point out what I was doing wrong, in a nice way, so that I can understand better what I did wrong.

Fair enough. Not everyone is perfect. At least Adam is apologizing for his bad PR statements. Let this drama die. It's not like he pulled an IBill on everyone, it's a charitable effort he made with a few fucked up statements that is being over blown. Nikki is doing better, she's on her way to a recovery instead of being dead or paralyzed, that's the most important thing. Boards have helped out, every dime is appreciated by Nikki, case closed.

All in favor of letting this King Adam drama die, say Pimp Pimp Hooray!

I just think there's bigger fish out there to fry for way bigger reasons then a few bad comments made in a good effort for a good cause.

So, who's owed money out there from people? Who cock blocked who at the trade show? How big is Juicy's cock? Where's my fan sign?

OK, this mess has been cleaned, go back to regular GFY postings.

I'm gonna start a positive thread in a minute and give away Players Ball passes.

jimthefiend 11-29-2005 04:07 PM

Adam, I may be the only pornagrapher on Earth who prays, but I'll send one up for her nonetheless.

There is nothing more fucked up than youth stolen.

shermo 11-29-2005 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by King Adam
Ok .. you're right. I shouldn't generalize people. There are still a lot of good people here. I guess I don't understand why it matters so much on what board sent what. The people that sent money from GFY know who they are and did it cause they wanted to. And those people will get an email if they haven't already saying thanks. Why does it matter what board it came from. The only reason I got down on GFY was because of all the negative feedback .. feedback I didn't get anywhere else.

Again, I'm sorry for generalizing people and coming across like I don't appreciate people helping Nikki ..... I really do.

We only mention the board relevance because of this statement:

"So to be honest, GFY did much of nothing to help Nikki and only slammed me. I'm glad that so many people have so much time these days to bust my balls over this. Her medical bills are already in the tens of thousands and if you know anything about law suits you know they take forever to settle and even longer to collect on. By then, the medical bills will be huge and start appearing to show on her credit report."

...And the other ones like it. It's not so much of being a PR master as it is having tact and personal restraint. Regardless, I'm not one of the guys on GFY that likes confrontation. I just hope Nikki begins to feel better and that she can rebound from this. Be the best friend to her that you can, and help her keep a smile on her face while she goes through this difficult time.

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE 11-29-2005 04:08 PM

I hear ya D$.

KingAdam looks out for his peeps.
One of the good guys in my book.

tical 11-29-2005 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Doctor Dre
Jeez dude give her a lil more respect, she's the one making you money in the end...

she never made me any money

SplitInfinity 11-29-2005 04:10 PM

Picture placement:

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We won! We Won! Im going to disneyland.

King Adam 11-29-2005 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by shermsshack
We only mention the board relevance because of this statement:

"So to be honest, GFY did much of nothing to help Nikki and only slammed me. I'm glad that so many people have so much time these days to bust my balls over this. Her medical bills are already in the tens of thousands and if you know anything about law suits you know they take forever to settle and even longer to collect on. By then, the medical bills will be huge and start appearing to show on her credit report."

...And the other ones like it. It's not so much of being a PR master as it is having tact and personal restraint. Regardless, I'm not one of the guys on GFY that likes confrontation. I just hope Nikki begins to feel better and that she can rebound from this. Be the best friend to her that you can, and help her keep a smile on her face while she goes through this difficult time.

I agree with you 100%. I didn't look at it the way others would. I shouldn't have said what I said how I said it. As much as I'm unhappy with certain people here, GFY did help ... .whether it was a lot or a little ... it was still help.

I'm sorry for those statements and if I could take them back I would. Sometimes when I get mad, I let my emotions and big mouth run.

enter » 11-29-2005 04:19 PM

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Originally Posted by AlienQ
I hear ya D$.

KingAdam looks out for his peeps.
One of the good guys in my book.


Gotta agree 100%

Adam let his emotions get the best of him but most people would have probably done the same thing if they went through what he's dealt with over the last month.

split_joel 11-29-2005 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by King Adam
Sometimes when I get mad, I let my emotions and big mouth run.

i think we all do

Doctor Dre 11-29-2005 04:37 PM

Drama is over guys ... move on and let this guy live...

Kevsh 11-29-2005 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by King Adam
Nikki is way more important to me than just about anyone here.

And that's the most important thing (besides her health, but that goes without saying)

GFY can get to anybody - and that's on a good day. Keep your priorities in line and forget about the haters and keyboard warriors, the stress and frustration isn't worth it.

Michaelious 11-29-2005 04:41 PM

well thats good to hear dude

TDF 11-29-2005 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Shaddam IV




best thing of this thread

Mr. Jim 11-29-2005 04:45 PM

Adam

Do not discount how many peope are reading this thread. As a word of friendly advice...just say thank you and when Nikki is better and in good health arrange her to post a thank you.

With each response you seemed to get furtherinto a corner.

Learn from it and move on...the more you defend your position the more the disparaging comments paint your picture...

disengage.. imho

SureFire 11-29-2005 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by King Adam
... Thats it. No More GFY.

Now, the important thing is that Nikki keeps getting better. Nikki did get some $20 pay pals here and there and there may be some from GFY, but it mostly came from members of her site and other boards with more serious webmasters. It seems that there are more immature people here at GFY than other webmaster boards. So all you GFY'ers, I won't bother you people anymore .... ...

You are an idiot. Please refund my donation that was not much I believe 25.00 and never mentioned an adult site in the comments. At least a thank would do.

So Nikki falls off a horse, has no insurance and you come here and beg and then still tell us we are shit. Go figure.

Simple math: medical insurance costs less than 500.00 a month per person, one photo shoot pays 300-750 or more. So a half of day of work in a month, Nikki could of had medical insurance and her ex-boyfriend did not have to beg here and look like a fool :upsidedow

X37375787 11-29-2005 05:22 PM

Why did Nikki not have health insurance to begin with? Was that ever settled for the curious?

Funbrunette 11-29-2005 05:24 PM

Can't we just all get along?!? :Oh crap Yeah ok like it's going to happen!

All the best Nikki I hope you bounce back very quick! :winkwink:

dready 11-29-2005 05:26 PM

I hope if I was ever in a situation like Nikki is/was that I'd have a guy like Adam there to help me out.

It's true, GFY is the only place he got slammed. Everywhere else was nothing but help and concern for Nikki. I guess that's GFY though, it's rare to see a thread where some troll doesn't feel the need to come along and piss in it.

And to all those people so concerned about Adam's lack keeping people informed (like you really care), if you had donated you would have also gotten the thank you emails and updates.

To all the haters I say :321GFY

pornguy 11-29-2005 05:31 PM

Having you come and ask for money for her is like driving up in a 100k car, and asking the gas station guy to pay for the gas.

I feel bad for her. But she should have been putting money aside or paying for insurance.

I did not ask you to pay for the delivery of my son, and I wont ask you to pay for my wifes gallbladder surgery.

wallst 11-29-2005 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by adultchica
Free plug for son of sam

http://www.topnotchguy.com coming soon to a gfy board near you haha

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

X37375787 11-29-2005 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by pornguy
Having you come and ask for money for her is like driving up in a 100k car, and asking the gas station guy to pay for the gas.

I feel bad for her. But she should have been putting money aside or paying for insurance.

I did not ask you to pay for the delivery of my son, and I wont ask you to pay for my wifes gallbladder surgery.

So very true.

dready 11-29-2005 05:43 PM

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Originally Posted by pornguy
Having you come and ask for money for her is like driving up in a 100k car, and asking the gas station guy to pay for the gas.

I feel bad for her. But she should have been putting money aside or paying for insurance.

I did not ask you to pay for the delivery of my son, and I wont ask you to pay for my wifes gallbladder surgery.

You can't compare routine procedures and their cost to the emergency expenses Nikki is going to have to pay.

If Adam was here begging money for a $100K car we all tell him to GFY, but he's not, he's asking to help the cost of saving someone's life.

Doctor Dre 11-29-2005 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by tical
she never made me any money

That's your problem. Show some respect to the models that are putting your bread and butter on the table. And if you are a surfer, you don't belong here.

SureFire 11-29-2005 06:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Funbrunette
Can't we just all get along?!? :Oh crap Yeah ok like it's going to happen!

All the best Nikki I hope you bounce back very quick! :winkwink:

I hope she bounces back soon also. Seems like her ex-boyfriend is begging and berating some members here. Really not a wise move and is really sad :Oh crap

OG LennyT 11-29-2005 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by King Adam
other boards with more serious webmasters. It seems that there are more immature people here at GFY than other webmaster boards.


Glad she is doing better and thanks for insulting everyone here Adam... class all the way :2 cents:

Spunky 11-29-2005 07:36 PM

Good to know Nikki is doing better.

tony286 11-29-2005 07:38 PM

Adam needs to read how to win friends and influence people lol

RogerV 11-29-2005 07:51 PM

In Adams Defense he is a real nice guy if you knew him personally you would understand. always happy with a smile...

he might have came off looking greedy or whatever on the board but if you knew him personally you wouldn't be flaming him on the board :2 cents:

He is not the type of person to be unappreciative for some reason it came off that way.. GFY can be very Rough and he was going thru a very hard time.

IF the one you loved was hurt bad you would also be off kilter


Gald she is doing well and gets back to a 100% soon

tony286 11-29-2005 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by RogerV
In Adams Defense he is a real nice guy if you knew him personally you would understand. always happy with a smile...

he might have came off looking greedy or whatever on the board but if you knew him personally you wouldn't be flaming him on the board :2 cents:

He is not the type of person to be unappreciative for some reason it came off that way.. GFY can be very Rough and he was going thru a very hard time.

IF the one you loved was hurt bad you would also be off kilter


Gald she is doing well and gets back to a 100% soon

What love she is his exgirlfriend unless Im mistaken.

Grapesoda 11-29-2005 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by King Adam
Nikki is doing better now. I didn't even want to come back to GFY because of all the heat I got. But I guess I have an obligation to tell everyone whats up.

Well, there were a lot of people that called me an asshole and thought I was a scam artist ... well you are all wrong. I'm sorry for the way I handled it. This chat board was the only one that slammed me and thats why I stopped posting updates here. I continued to post on 2 other adult webmaster chat boards where people showed some love.

Now I get a call that I'm getting slammed on GFY .... and as I said before, I don't like this board anymore so I don't come here. I only came here to give info on her health and to give info to those that wanted to help.

And just so everyone knows, through epassporte and Pay Pal, we got less than $2500 total. And most of that came from other models that are friends of Nikki's and companies like Giga Cash and other programs I have ties with.

So to be honest, GFY did much of nothing to help Nikki and only slammed me. I'm glad that so many people have so much time these days to bust my balls over this. Her medical bills are already in the tens of thousands and if you know anything about law suits you know they take forever to settle and even longer to collect on. By then, the medical bills will be huge and start appearing to show on her credit report.

I really am sorry for the way I came across. The last thing I want to do is piss people off or start shit. I was stressed and worried and I may have posted wrongly on this board. But this board was the only one that gave me negative feedback. There is no reason to discuss this anymore. You can get updates here ... www.getwellnikki.com. Thats it. No More GFY.

Now, the important thing is that Nikki keeps getting better. Nikki did get some $20 pay pals here and there and there may be some from GFY, but it mostly came from members of her site and other boards with more serious webmasters. It seems that there are more immature people here at GFY than other webmaster boards. So all you GFY'ers, I won't bother you people anymore .... especially Franck ... you're kinda an asshole.

so the 'niki update' is fuck GFY? that's interesting

Tala 11-29-2005 07:55 PM

No drama from me. I'm glad to hear that she's doing better.

CDSmith 11-29-2005 08:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by King Adam
Nikki is doing better now. I didn't even want to come back to GFY because of all the heat I got. But I guess I have an obligation to tell everyone whats up.

Well, there were a lot of people that called me an asshole and thought I was a scam artist ... well you are all wrong. I'm sorry for the way I handled it. This chat board was the only one that slammed me and thats why I stopped posting updates here. I continued to post on 2 other adult webmaster chat boards where people showed some love.

Now I get a call that I'm getting slammed on GFY .... and as I said before, I don't like this board anymore so I don't come here. I only came here to give info on her health and to give info to those that wanted to help.

And just so everyone knows, through epassporte and Pay Pal, we got less than $2500 total. And most of that came from other models that are friends of Nikki's and companies like Giga Cash and other programs I have ties with.

So to be honest, GFY did much of nothing to help Nikki and only slammed me. I'm glad that so many people have so much time these days to bust my balls over this. Her medical bills are already in the tens of thousands and if you know anything about law suits you know they take forever to settle and even longer to collect on. By then, the medical bills will be huge and start appearing to show on her credit report.

I really am sorry for the way I came across. The last thing I want to do is piss people off or start shit. I was stressed and worried and I may have posted wrongly on this board. But this board was the only one that gave me negative feedback. There is no reason to discuss this anymore. You can get updates here ... www.getwellnikki.com. Thats it. No More GFY.

Now, the important thing is that Nikki keeps getting better. Nikki did get some $20 pay pals here and there and there may be some from GFY, but it mostly came from members of her site and other boards with more serious webmasters. It seems that there are more immature people here at GFY than other webmaster boards. So all you GFY'ers, I won't bother you people anymore .... especially Franck ... you're kinda an asshole.

Adam

In skimming over your post and having read over the original thread of yours I'm going to take a moment to say a few words to you. First off, as I believe I posted before, I wish Nikki the best of health and a complete recovery.

As to this thing with GFY you seem to be having, to come here and post what you posted without at least being an active member who interacts with this community took guts. In the face of the kind of flack you took one has to maintain a thick skin and a sense of focus --- you tried but really didn't do that did you? No, you let a few people bait you into losing your cool. That was your biggest mistake.

GFY isn't such a bad godawful place you know, and contrary to what you've said there are plenty of serious, even seasoned veteran webmasters here. To post something contraversial here (and yes, threads asking for donation money are nearly always ((but not always)) contraversial here, always have been) you need to force yourself to stay the course and not engage every smartass who takes a shot at what you're trying to accomplish.

It's not right, you making this the biggest adult webmaster forum on the planet out to be "a pack of immature dogs" etc like you seem to be doing. Not right at all. There is plenty of business to be done here, plenty of good peaple to network with and share knowledge with. The key is to not have such a thin skin, to be able to mix it up and hold your own, and not let your cage get rattled so easily.

GFY is different in that way from most other boards, but that doesn't make it a bad or "less serious" place. If there where nothing whatsoever to be gained by coming here I would have been long gone to other boards permanently long ago.

Anyway, if you do come back here from time to time you'll be more than welcome, by me anyway, obviously a few others as well. If not, best of luck to you.

Cheers.

KRL 11-29-2005 08:38 PM

This is one of the best quotes to remember in life and not following it is why so many people, especially in the political arena, end up getting into a deep mess from their own words.


"You don't have to explain what you don't say."

Larry Speakes
White House Press Secretary 1987 (Republican)

RogerV 11-29-2005 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by tony404
What love she is his exgirlfriend unless Im mistaken.


Then he must still be in love :winkwink: I have a hard time being a dick

I only hate one person in this biz and thats not bad after 9 years of it..

Rob 11-29-2005 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by King Adam
So to be honest, GFY did much of nothing to help Nikki and only slammed me. I'm glad that so many people have so much time these days to bust my balls over this. Her medical bills are already in the tens of thousands and if you know anything about law suits you know they take forever to settle and even longer to collect on. By then, the medical bills will be huge and start appearing to show on her credit report.

Who in the fuck does she [you guys] have a fucking lawsuit against? The horse owner? The horse ranch? That is just fucking bullshit!!! It was YOUR fucking fault for not having the proper experience to handle horses and it was YOUR fucking fault for not having the proper restraints! That really pisses me the fuck off that you're going after the horse owner for your own negligence! It's YOU that should be fucking sued! Nikki should take you to the fucking cleaners!

You are truly a fucking scumbag and I really hope you never post on this fucking board ever again. Take your money and get the fuck out of here. I hope Nikki gets better but you can suck a big fat cock!!! :321GFY

Scootermuze 11-29-2005 09:02 PM

It's over now...

but I think if you would have come here and just said that she had been seriously injured with more info to come, you wouldn't have had to even mention money.. I have no doubt that there would have been a number of GFY'ers that would have stepped up and asked if there's a place to send donations to help her..

But.. that's just how I see it...


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