| CDSmith |
11-29-2005 08:22 PM |
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Originally Posted by King Adam
Nikki is doing better now. I didn't even want to come back to GFY because of all the heat I got. But I guess I have an obligation to tell everyone whats up.
Well, there were a lot of people that called me an asshole and thought I was a scam artist ... well you are all wrong. I'm sorry for the way I handled it. This chat board was the only one that slammed me and thats why I stopped posting updates here. I continued to post on 2 other adult webmaster chat boards where people showed some love.
Now I get a call that I'm getting slammed on GFY .... and as I said before, I don't like this board anymore so I don't come here. I only came here to give info on her health and to give info to those that wanted to help.
And just so everyone knows, through epassporte and Pay Pal, we got less than $2500 total. And most of that came from other models that are friends of Nikki's and companies like Giga Cash and other programs I have ties with.
So to be honest, GFY did much of nothing to help Nikki and only slammed me. I'm glad that so many people have so much time these days to bust my balls over this. Her medical bills are already in the tens of thousands and if you know anything about law suits you know they take forever to settle and even longer to collect on. By then, the medical bills will be huge and start appearing to show on her credit report.
I really am sorry for the way I came across. The last thing I want to do is piss people off or start shit. I was stressed and worried and I may have posted wrongly on this board. But this board was the only one that gave me negative feedback. There is no reason to discuss this anymore. You can get updates here ... www.getwellnikki.com. Thats it. No More GFY.
Now, the important thing is that Nikki keeps getting better. Nikki did get some $20 pay pals here and there and there may be some from GFY, but it mostly came from members of her site and other boards with more serious webmasters. It seems that there are more immature people here at GFY than other webmaster boards. So all you GFY'ers, I won't bother you people anymore .... especially Franck ... you're kinda an asshole.
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Adam
In skimming over your post and having read over the original thread of yours I'm going to take a moment to say a few words to you. First off, as I believe I posted before, I wish Nikki the best of health and a complete recovery.
As to this thing with GFY you seem to be having, to come here and post what you posted without at least being an active member who interacts with this community took guts. In the face of the kind of flack you took one has to maintain a thick skin and a sense of focus --- you tried but really didn't do that did you? No, you let a few people bait you into losing your cool. That was your biggest mistake.
GFY isn't such a bad godawful place you know, and contrary to what you've said there are plenty of serious, even seasoned veteran webmasters here. To post something contraversial here (and yes, threads asking for donation money are nearly always ((but not always)) contraversial here, always have been) you need to force yourself to stay the course and not engage every smartass who takes a shot at what you're trying to accomplish.
It's not right, you making this the biggest adult webmaster forum on the planet out to be "a pack of immature dogs" etc like you seem to be doing. Not right at all. There is plenty of business to be done here, plenty of good peaple to network with and share knowledge with. The key is to not have such a thin skin, to be able to mix it up and hold your own, and not let your cage get rattled so easily.
GFY is different in that way from most other boards, but that doesn't make it a bad or "less serious" place. If there where nothing whatsoever to be gained by coming here I would have been long gone to other boards permanently long ago.
Anyway, if you do come back here from time to time you'll be more than welcome, by me anyway, obviously a few others as well. If not, best of luck to you.
Cheers. |
