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Old 04-02-2007, 07:48 PM   #1
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Attention Sexsearch & Aff & All Dating Sites

PLEASE READ THIS AND ALL RESPONSES BY ME .

I am a webmaster interested in starting up MY OWN date site.
I need advice on this on SOFTWARE to use.
Best marketing techniques.
How to ect. thanks in advance
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Old 04-02-2007, 07:49 PM   #2
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your going to be a competitor to the people your asking advice from!
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Old 04-02-2007, 07:54 PM   #3
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Old 04-02-2007, 07:54 PM   #4
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PLEASE READ THIS AND ALL RESPONSES BY ME .

I am a webmaster interested in starting up MY OWN date site.
I need advice on this on SOFTWARE to use.
Best marketing techniques.
How to ect. thanks in advance
a few of them do site branding, i know iwantu does.
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Old 04-02-2007, 09:13 PM   #5
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Old 04-02-2007, 09:19 PM   #6
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I want u

other then that try ebay
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Old 04-02-2007, 09:20 PM   #7
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a few of them do site branding, i know iwantu does.
thanks for that any Idea on software?
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Old 04-02-2007, 09:22 PM   #8
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LOL
You're trying to compete agaisn't compagnies wich are making hundreads of millions a year and you have no clue how to start ?

get lost
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Old 04-02-2007, 09:23 PM   #9
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your going to be a competitor to the people your asking advice from!
Yes not unlike any other aspect of the business people ask other people for advice in like business and this is where we do business so yes I think its best to ask from those who are already successful.
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Old 04-02-2007, 09:25 PM   #10
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Yes not unlike any other aspect of the business people ask other people for advice in like business and this is where we do business so yes I think its best to ask from those who are already successful.
Suspecting more and more a fake nick at play. NO ONE can be this dumb.... can they??
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Old 04-02-2007, 09:27 PM   #11
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You're trying to compete agaisn't compagnies wich are making hundreads of millions a year and you have no clue how to start ?

get lost
Sorry Im looking for answers from people who run date sites not trolls with 50,000 posts thanks.

I have alot of clues on how to start Im just looking for more knowledge.

And as far as competing....

Im sure my small date site will not affect anything they might be doing enough to call it competing LOL.

So why dont you post somewhere else you winner.
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Old 04-02-2007, 09:28 PM   #12
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http://cgi.ebay.com/Gay-Jewish-Datin...ayphotohosting

i think you should buy this one to start, gay jewish dating site. You'd have more chances to succeed
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Old 04-02-2007, 09:28 PM   #13
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Sorry Im looking for answers from people who run date sites not trolls with 50,000 posts thanks.

I have alot of clues on how to start Im just looking for more knowledge.

And as far as competing....

Im sure my small date site will not affect anything they might be doing enough to call it competing LOL.

So why dont you post somewhere else you winner.
As far as dating sites goes, I'm pushing 1+ million page views on mainstream dating websites and social network sites with thousands of active paying members. Websites wich I own a part in, not an affiliate program.

So why don't you shut the fuck up and get a clue dumbass.
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Old 04-02-2007, 09:29 PM   #14
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best wishes to you

Id suggest learning how to get traffic to a dating site first.
If you don't know how to do that you will never make it, unless of course you have mega millions to throw at a wall. If that is the case get in touch..lol
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Old 04-02-2007, 09:31 PM   #15
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Suspecting more and more a fake nick at play. NO ONE can be this dumb.... can they??
Look man why dont you just quit while your ahead did you upgrade that Black and white yet?
With all that important equipment of yours I figured youd be working.
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Old 04-02-2007, 09:32 PM   #16
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best wishes to you

Id suggest learning how to get traffic to a dating site first.
If you don't know how to do that you will never make it, unless of course you have mega millions to throw at a wall. If that is the case get in touch..lol
I understand about running and getting traffic to a site just not a date site it is a very different aspect isnt it?
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Old 04-02-2007, 09:34 PM   #17
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I understand about running and getting traffic to a site just not a date site it is a very different aspect isnt it?
Totally different aspects. But unless you have millions to plug in to compete, you can have the best site with the best backend and not make a buck... even google's personals failed.

Getting traffic to it is as hard as getting a whole custom dating site setup...
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Old 04-02-2007, 09:35 PM   #18
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As far as dating sites goes, I'm pushing 1+ million page views on mainstream dating websites and social network sites with thousands of active paying members. Websites wich I own a part in, not an affiliate program.

So why don't you shut the fuck up and get a clue dumbass.
ok well if that is the case with you then why dont you post which site they are Id like to learn something so Im not so dumb.

Or are you just like all the other people who are AFRAID to release that info?

At least Lars has the balls to represent!
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Hit me up on icq and I'l show you. The stats are public on a 3rd party counter too. It's mainstream, I'm definitly not posting my stuff on here, I don't want it to be associated with adult.

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Old 04-02-2007, 09:39 PM   #20
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GOOD LUCK my friend, it isn't the software, there is SOOOOOOOO much more involved in it. It isn't cheap. It is horribly expensive to get started, but once you are there a few years later, it pays off, but 1 of every 100 dating sites tank.

Just giving you some REAL advice from someone that has work/ed with 2 large dating sponsors from the start (or close to).
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Old 04-02-2007, 09:39 PM   #21
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Hit me up on icq and I'l show you. The stats are public on a 3rd party counter too. It's mainstream, I'm definitly not posting my stuff on here, I don't want it to be associated with adult.

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ok I will hit you up but its going to have to be at a more attractive hour.

thanks for your help I think.
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Old 04-02-2007, 09:42 PM   #22
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Just hit me up, will take 5 mins of your time... it's all a custom job, and I won't really tell about how we are running things to a future competitor...

But I can show you my sites and you try to figure it out for yourself.

I'm not on icq most of the time nowdays, now is the time
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The only advice I will give you is this: DO NOT BUY A DATING SCRIPT. About all I can do seeing that I work in Adult Dating. I know ya so I am trying to warn you against those things especially one company in paticular. Get one made and then get NATS or whatever software you like to run the admin/payouts/etc.
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Old 04-02-2007, 10:01 PM   #24
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The only advice I will give you is this: DO NOT BUY A DATING SCRIPT. About all I can do seeing that I work in Adult Dating. I know ya so I am trying to warn you against those things especially one company in paticular. Get one made and then get NATS or whatever software you like to run the admin/payouts/etc.
Would you be available for contact on say ICQ?
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Hey I love the muppet show by the way.
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Old 04-02-2007, 10:09 PM   #26
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Checkout the private label we offer you have basic and advanced.

Basic Private Label

- Easy setup for your own domain name
- We allow you to host or we can even host it for you
- Instant FTP access to all external pages/images/css

Advanced Private Label

With addition to the basic you also get:

- To customize all internal pages
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- Simple to use Billing API and optional Command Gateway API
- Easy to integrate in existing affiliate programs


These are some of the features we offer. Hit me up if you have any questions.
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Would you be available for contact on say ICQ?

Sure, icq in sig..... but I'm not giving away any trade secrets/info about the companies I work with or have worked for...just giving advice concerning a company NOT to use for software. (I hate seeing ppl ripped off)

SDC has been good to me, I can't talk about them or give advice on adult dating sites in general, just the scripts not to use and some processor, designers and programmer referrals. (all used and approved!)

In all honestly, you may want to re-think the project and go another way and I could set you up with a partner that has investment dollars, but it's mainstream. I dunno....... just giving you ideas.

I am running to the store but will be back in 20 minutes max, so go ahead and add me.
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The best thing you've got going for your so far is that you don't know you can't.

The private label is way to start.

Why not try? You may find a niche?? Suspect to niche in is the best chance.

Good luck.

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Old 04-03-2007, 01:50 AM   #29
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The best thing you've got going for your so far is that you don't know you can't.

The private label is way to start.

Why not try? You may find a niche?? Suspect to niche in is the best chance.

Good luck.
Thanks for the advice.

Now let me tell you a little bit about me.

When I go to a Carnival I like to play the dart games with the stuffed animals.

Even though most of the games are rigged for failure they allow you to play the game.

First you start out at the bottom with the small ones and if you win you can anti up to the bigger ones until you get what you want.

Well lets just say if you ever go to a Carnival and see a guy lugging all the hugh ass stuffed animals around chances are that its me!
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