50 no's from 50 Ho's

good luck Joel!!!

Christmas is just around the corner, pull the XMAS eve or XMAS day stunt.

Why wouldn't they ? If you ask the waiter to do it ... he will I'm sure...

I wouldn't marry a girl after 1 year specially at your age bro.

Who the fuck said to make it her parents decision? You're not paying very close attention here, are you?

Asking is a way to gleen information that can be extremely useful to an adult who knows how to weigh information and make a decision instead of a reaction. And, as you pointed out, adults WILL make their own decision. But it's good to have max information to base your decision on. You'll understand this as you mature.

My husband did it very originally........
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I was playing basketball my last college game ever and at half time when we were coming out to the court he asked me on half court on his knees in front of everyone. It was awesome! I'll never forget it..ever. We won that game too :thumbsup

Speak from your heart
 

Let me just say, as a woman, who has been proposed to a couple of times, how you do it and where is really important. Sorry.
1. speak from your heart. (she does know to expect this right? you aren't popping the question without having EVER spoken about marriage right? because if you've never talked about it, then she will probably say no. don't use corny lines, don't rip off a movie, don't try a hallmark card, speak what you feel. this is hard but truth and honesty are real turn-ons in this scenario.
2. make sure she is comfortable. does she love the beach? bring a blanket for her to sit on and another for her to wrap herself in if it's chilly. shucks, bring a bottle of champagne, chilling in a wicker cooler for if she says yes.
3. consider her needs. the beach is nice but not if she hates the beach. a resataurant is nice but not if she hates being a public display. what would she want?
4. ask her friends. They can keep their mouths shut if you don't give them enough time to spill the beans and promise she will call them after you ask. Her friends will know if the ring will fit, if she will like it, and how she wants to be proposed to. seriously, I have a small file on all my best girlfriends.
5. Good luck. breathe deep. If you truly love her and want to spend the rest of your life together- then this is the easy part. don't stress it!

1 year of dating and you're getting married? are you seriously fucking smoking crack!? :1orglaugh

wtf is everyones rush to get married anyway?

1 year?

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA

Im actually 19 and thanks for the Advise Danielle :) we have talked and she def says shes rdy, and Sami ive known her for 3 yrs of my life she isnt only my lover but my best friend

Wanta hear about my 3rd x wife? I will skip number 2, cause Elvis with Elf on keyboard, married us in a drunkin vegas night and i do not remember asking

Man you're way too young. I'm way too young.

I'm assuming your girlfriend is around 18-20, yes? Girls that age change, a LOT! What you know now could be completely different in 2 years, and the same is true with you. You're going to change over the next couple years.

When I was 18-19 I thought I was the king shit. Smart, hard working, going places, etc. Then I turned 20. Started looking back at what I did and thought when I was 18-19 and realized how stupid I was. Knowing this, I once again thought I was the king shit, at 20. Then I turned 21. The cycle repeated. I'm 22 now, when I was 20 I was a complete twat. In a year from now I'll say the same thing about my current age. Its amazing how much someone can and will change. I figure by the time I'm 25 or so my blinders will be off.

They say that when you get a tattoo you should draw out the tattoo seven times before you get it. If after seven drawings you still love the image, go ahead and get the tattoo. If after seven drawings you don't care for the image as much, scrap it.

Try this. Think about proposing to your girlfriend every day for the next six months. If after six months you still feel as strongly about her, go for it.

Dude...you're TOO young!!! I married my high-school sweetheart right out of high school, we had a kid then got divorced. We grew in totally opposite directions as we matured (well...I matured -- she stayed about the same and it drove me nutty).

I would never trade my awesome 14-year old son for anything in the world but dude...she got EVERYTHING in the divorce and I am STILL paying child support!

dude you seem too young for that...think first, many times, before doing it!

chill out

first marrage does work for 31% of people

This is true...I was a part of the loser majority.

too many girls to settle for one

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Amen Max!

Here is what I did.

I took her out to a nice place for dinner on the water here in San Diego. I had three pieces of paper with three dates on it and waded all three up.

When the waiter came by to get our order, I put three waded pieces of paper out on the table and asked him to pick one and open it up and tell me the date on it.

When he read the date on the paper, he then asked what is with the date. I responded with that is the date we are going to get married on. That date was 10/04/03.

She was totally clueless.

I proposed 4 weeks after we were dating and we were married 9 months later. we have been married for over 2 years and it just gets better everyday.

We are both in our forties and it is our first marriage. When you know it is right, time means nothing.

Maturity, age & wisdom all mean a helluva lot though...split_joel is 19 years old :2 cents:

Who told you that?

You have a GREAT point there. Marriage was not even a thought for me at 19 or even in my twenties or early 30's for that matter.

probably a woman

You are nuts. Didn't I just read that "I have gone through so manygirlfriends in my life I am sick of it."

You are too young to even make that comment.

Do you have any idea what the statistics are for a successful marriage at your age?

Let's just say that you have a 50-50 chance of success, would you jump out of a plane if you knew going into it that the parachute only had a 50% chance of opening?

I think thats a little different. You're older, have lived SOME of your craziness (haha) and really aren't going to change much more. My dad is 43 and just got married last year, within 8 months of proposing and he proposed within 2 months of dating. That would be crazy for somebody my age, but for somebody a little older its more reasonable... especially if you want to have more kids.

good advice. i do all this everytime i propose. :thumbsup :1orglaugh

i proposed 11 times at the playboy mansion before even knowing their names.

i'm just kidding. in all seriousness, good luck joel, if you are happy thats all that matters. come from the heart and she will let ya know the verdict.
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As he would be subject to arrest for this move, I suggest Pepsi instead.

Well shit. I guess I'll bust out my Rico Suave' way of how I did it. Simple, but effective.


I went to the Florist and bought 3 dozen roses. Then I took them over to the place where we were going to go out for dinner that night, obviously while she wasn't around. I sat down with the owner/manager and said, "alright I want to make this special, so here's my plan. After we have had dinner, I would like you to start going around to each of the women in the resturant and give them these roses. I will excuse myself to use the restroom. At that time I'll go into the kitchen and get the last rose and tie the ring on to it. After all 35 roses are gone, I will take the last rose to her and give it to her and have her stand up and propose."

He agreed and the night went off without a hitch.





And I got laid when we got home.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh At the beach sounds good

on a beach alone? What your going to call her from the beach lol Congrats and just do it from your heart that all that matters.