How do you collect money back from friends? - GoFuckYourself.com

chowda · 11-23-2005, 11:31 AM

yeah, never borrow to them.. thats a good advice but i have lent out some cash to a friend. Its been over a year, and she knows she owes me.. yet she keeps having problems paying me back. Given im not visa international and that my debt wont fuck her credit history.. still i want to receive back some cash

Ive asked to get a post dated check from her and she still hasnt sent it, she's worst then some tenants ive seen!

Proactive, she has turned off any chances for anybody in the future to borrow off me.

If you have been in this situation, how did u get your money back?

wdsguy · 11-23-2005, 11:33 AM

ask her to repay u with sex instead, maybe she won't have that much trouble putting out and atleast u get something back.

Jakke PNG · 11-23-2005, 11:34 AM

Only loan to friends if you can afford to lose it.
I've loaned twice, once I got it back after 4 years of no communication... the other's been 13 years and no word...

So, safe bet to say is.. stop being her friend and forget the money.

Babagirls · 11-23-2005, 11:34 AM

1) shes not a "friend"
2) keep bugging her about it. i dont think theres anything legal you could do since you voluntarily gave her money.
3) if you dont succeed in getting your money back, cut your loses and take it as a lesson learned.

GFX Wiz · 11-23-2005, 11:40 AM

You hit it on the head yourself...

I have NEVER "loaned" anyone money. If a friend was in need I would evaluate if I was willing to give the money away or not. Cuz that's what you're actually doing.

If you ever think you can truly "loan" a friend money, you're not only going to lose the money, you'll likely lose the friend. It changes the entire dynamics of a friendship. In a true friendship, no one should have an "upper hand."

Give it away and make it clear you DO NOT want it back no matter what...otherwise everything will be fucked.

VirtuozzoSimon · 11-23-2005, 12:08 PM

Does she have a credit card? You could ask for her to pay you via Paypal (or any other merchant account you may have) and then she can finance it on her own...

swedguy · 11-23-2005, 12:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wdsguy

ask her to repay u with sex instead, maybe she won't have that much trouble putting out and atleast u get something back.

You took the words straight out of my mouth

JoeMeca · 11-23-2005, 12:39 PM

put a gun to there head!

Maxy · 11-23-2005, 12:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GFX Wiz

You hit it on the head yourself...

I have NEVER "loaned" anyone money. If a friend was in need I would evaluate if I was willing to give the money away or not. Cuz that's what you're actually doing.

If you ever think you can truly "loan" a friend money, you're not only going to lose the money, you'll likely lose the friend. It changes the entire dynamics of a friendship. In a true friendship, no one should have an "upper hand."

Give it away and make it clear you DO NOT want it back no matter what...otherwise everything will be fucked.

The Truth.

Kla wolven · 11-23-2005, 01:01 PM

We have the same situation dude to my former friends

GFX Wiz maybe right. now i dont lend any money to any people i only lend money to my closes friends that is loyal to me.

and sometimes i have a client and have design works for him after i finish the work i let him say that he will pay me, but his not. and i email him but no answer i let him go. I hate those kind of people maybe that is their nature. god bless them

11-23-2005, 11:31 AM	#1
chowda Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Gooch city Posts: 9,527	How do you collect money back from friends? yeah, never borrow to them.. thats a good advice but i have lent out some cash to a friend. Its been over a year, and she knows she owes me.. yet she keeps having problems paying me back. Given im not visa international and that my debt wont fuck her credit history.. still i want to receive back some cash Ive asked to get a post dated check from her and she still hasnt sent it, she's worst then some tenants ive seen! Proactive, she has turned off any chances for anybody in the future to borrow off me. If you have been in this situation, how did u get your money back? __________________ Someone finds you... 2007 PS: Nationalnet is the best host I've ever had. And i tried alot of them.

11-23-2005, 11:34 AM	#3
Jakke PNG ex-TeenGodFather Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Suomi Finland Perkele Posts: 20,306	Only loan to friends if you can afford to lose it. I've loaned twice, once I got it back after 4 years of no communication... the other's been 13 years and no word... So, safe bet to say is.. stop being her friend and forget the money. __________________ ..and I'm off.

11-23-2005, 11:34 AM	#4
Babagirls Text Writer Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 18,812	1) shes not a "friend" 2) keep bugging her about it. i dont think theres anything legal you could do since you voluntarily gave her money. 3) if you dont succeed in getting your money back, cut your loses and take it as a lesson learned. __________________ Need a Text Writer? Blogs\|Reviews\|Descriptions\|Paysites\|TGP's\|Stories ICQ: 397892500

11-23-2005, 11:40 AM	#5
GFX Wiz Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: SW Florida Posts: 916	You hit it on the head yourself... I have NEVER "loaned" anyone money. If a friend was in need I would evaluate if I was willing to give the money away or not. Cuz that's what you're actually doing. If you ever think you can truly "loan" a friend money, you're not only going to lose the money, you'll likely lose the friend. It changes the entire dynamics of a friendship. In a true friendship, no one should have an "upper hand." Give it away and make it clear you DO NOT want it back no matter what...otherwise everything will be fucked. __________________ ICQ: 148.167.599

11-23-2005, 01:01 PM	#10
Kla wolven Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: near somewhere Posts: 457	We have the same situation dude to my former friends GFX Wiz maybe right. now i dont lend any money to any people i only lend money to my closes friends that is loyal to me. and sometimes i have a client and have design works for him after i finish the work i let him say that he will pay me, but his not. and i email him but no answer i let him go. I hate those kind of people maybe that is their nature. god bless them __________________ Need a designer? Contact numbers: ICQ: 326215407 Email: [email protected]

11-23-2005, 11:33 AM	#2
wdsguy Ryde or Die Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: California-Shanghai Posts: 19,568	ask her to repay u with sex instead, maybe she won't have that much trouble putting out and atleast u get something back.

11-23-2005, 12:08 PM	#6
VirtuozzoSimon Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 110	Does she have a credit card? You could ask for her to pay you via Paypal (or any other merchant account you may have) and then she can finance it on her own...

11-23-2005, 12:39 PM	#8
JoeMeca So Fucking Banned Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Juicy's House! Icq: 265529404 Posts: 2,266	put a gun to there head!