Okay..I am here...let me type.

i know - cute eh?

speaking of cowards, why do you threaten to sue people after you challenge them to slap you in public?

cause I can - and when I state publically that I will sue if such happenes I can sue - America - the land of the lawsuit. Nothing personal, I just want to take all your stuff is all if you're stupid enough to do such things - and from your comments you are.

idiot

I met Sarah in Arizona at the PHX Forum with Tofu and she was a pleasure talking too! Great choice of an interview Scott. You have an eye for picking them.

Scott know's all the hotties.I look forward to the replies!

Those are some interesting q's

1. So did you marry him for the inheritance? Is it true you met online?

What inheritance? Seriously. My husband was 45 when he died, had been disabled for over a decade and we live in the 'hood. You can hardly say I married him for money.

Yes, it is true that I met him online. I met him online on October 23, 1995 when I was bored in the campus computer lab. I had only been on campus a month or so and didn't know many people and someone showed me IRC. Being a BBW, I found some BBW channels on undernet and when I went into one the group of people there were doing a 'virtual time-warp' (and yes I know how geeky that sounds). I had been a Rocky Horror fan for years (as some people in Pheonix found out), I asked the rign leader if they were Rocky fans and started chatting. The ring leader was my husband.

We started chatting online and very slowly we became very good friends. By about Febuary we were spending about 12 hours a day online talking to each other nearly non-stop. We knew more about each other before we met in person than most people know after years of marriage. To cut a long story short, we got married on October 26, 1996 - One year and three days after meeting online. It was the best decission I ever made and he was the best thing to ever happen to me.

"i dare anyone to slap me in public and if you do ill sue"

coward.

next.

Thanks for satisfying my curiosity :thumbsup
That's definitely one of the cutest smiles I've ever seen.

(btw, is it just me or are you both like 5' tall?)

I know that nobody wants to really know this but that day was the day I started to feel 'ill'. I felt like my body tempature was atleast double what it should have been and I can remember taking those pics thinking I was about to pass out.

I ended up having surgery last year as a direct result of what started in my body that day. I won't say that I ever look particuarlly good but that day I looked particuarly bad.

:thumbsup

I'm 5ft2 and I think she was taller than me...takes a real short ass to make me feel tall.

looking forward to this, Sarah has been around a while and is a pleasure to know

2. What did you do to commerate rememberance day today? Did you take a moment to reflect on those that gave thier lives for your freedom?

Well, as any good board whore would do I posted about it on gfy about ten minutes before 11am UK time and then while I was listening on the radio to the cermonies (strange listening to silence on the radio) I stopped my posting and thought about things.

I thought about no matter how much I hate the current American gov't and and no matter how uncertain I am about the current war(s) that is no reason for me to disrespect those that died in previous conflicts (or disrespect anyone actually). I thought of my Grandpa that died a couple years ago that used to freak out anytime anything about WW2 came on and ask me to turn it off and I thought about my mom's uncle who was blown up in a tank with her baby picture in his pocket in Korea.

Then I thought about my husband and how pissed off he would be about the war today and how I missed having him here to bitch about politcs.

I thought only using part of the chicken was being nice.

Sleazy and I would have to sumo and frankly nobody wants to see either of us in a diaper.

i wana see sara in a diaper

I thought I was the only one into the tie sucking fetish... :1orglaugh

Sarah rocks!!! :thumbsup

ADG Webmaster

lol..now I know Tofu is going to like that one. Two things he loves..his PSP and a big belly.

3. Why did you move to London from the USA?

I came here to meet my husband and never left (or atleast not for a really long time). I arrived in the UK on June 11, 1996. On that one day I left my country, met my future husband, lost my virginity and moved in. I take life in big steps ;)

I came here on a student work visa and got married six months later and was granted the right to stay. It didn't mater where I was going it was only important that I was going to be with Marc. I am just lucky he lived somewhere nice :)

4. Why the fuck do you spend soo much time on GFY?

So, my boss doesn't have to? j/k. I have always been a fan or message boards (starting with PCBBS) and I posted on GFY for years before I started working for Webinc (as Sjayne). Now that I work for Webinc and Wishing.com it is important to get out there and get to know our customers and affiliates. People are a lot more willing to approach you on a buisness level if they have had a conversation with you on a board or at a show first.

There are times when I have spent too much time on GFY that I feel the need to step away from the keyboard and take a break before I snap and the polite filter stops working but I generally enjoy posting on the board.

5. Why did JJJ fire you?

He didn't fire me. Well, not directly.

I was one of the main reviewers for about four years and then one day - litteraly over night - I was told by Lisa Marie who was handling the reviews that JJJ had decided to no longer use reviewers. It was sudden and it hurt the bank balance to suddenly not have a job. Especially as it was an everyday job including holidays for so many years.

However, it turned out to be good for me in the long run because had that not happened I never would have started to work for Todd here at Webinc and Wishing.com.

It forced me to step out of the shadows and take a risk on myself. Sometimes I can have a low self-image as far as what I am capable of doing so it can take kicking myself in the ass to take the step. Turns out I'm not all that bad.

damn right!
From the 1st time I met Sarah, I immediately filed her under "cool industry people". She has taught mi alot about the biz, through her galleries, service, and AVS sites. Sarah always has a way of brightening mi day when Im down in the dumps, and when I finally got to meet her and her late hubby in person at Internext (R.I.P. Marc), I knew I had a friend for life! This girl continues to be a true inspiration in mi life and business. If it werent for her, I wouldnt have known half the poeple I do. A great smile, sexxy bod, and INTELLIGENCE! Do your goddamn thang girl! :thumbsup :thumbsup

You know part of me is in love with you, right? ;)

...and all of mi is in LoVe with you! :wetkiss

6. Did you have an open marriage? What's it like having sex with someone in a wheelchair?

Somehow I knew this quesiton would pop up.


I am always reluctant to call it an open marriage because in most people's minds that means we were out screwing anything and anyone we wanted. That is far from the truth. I used to say it was more a case of our marriage being slight 'ajar' rather than open.

I am bisexual, my husband was bisexual. Now, he had a lot of sexual experience in his past having been a teenager in London during the punk era and having moved in that world. I, on the other hand, was a virgin when we met but I knew I was bisexual. We had a very healthy communication as far as our sex life was concerned in that we talked about our desires and weren't threatened by them.

So, we had some threeways and then over time it moved to that very ocassionally we would both go out to our seperate playmates that could satisfy parts of desires that the other person couldn't based on gender or kink. My husband was into BDSM and I am not so it would have been horrible of me to deny him the right to ever express that ever in his life after he met me. Just as it would have been horrible for him to deny me the right to ever express my bisexual side.

We knew how much we loved each other and we knew that sex was just sex and that making love really was/is something different. We also know that when the fun was over we would becoming home to each other because that was where we wanted to be and not because we were somehow required to be there.

Through the years I discovered that I have tendencies to have polyamorous feelings from time to time. For me it is the case that I need one 'Primary' in my life where we love each other more than any others but I am capable of loving other people in my life in different ways than that. That was harder to come to terms with than being bisexual and if I am honest, I have not yet fully come to terms with it.

As far as sex in the wheelchair goes: We never actually had sex in the chair..not the least because I don't think it would have stood up to that sort of abuse. In addition to which, Marc could walk. It was just the case that walking any sort of distance was very painful. For most of the time I knew him he was on crutches but for the last few years he pretty much needed the wheelchair or his electric scooter if we went outside of the house.

I did have to take some care as he had very bad non-healing ulcers on his legs that caused him constant pain but extreme pain if they even had a strong wind cross their path. So, I had to be very careful not to come in contact with his ulcers while we had sex but somehow we managed :)

I hate distance sometimes. I could give a great hug right now.

that skinny dude needs some of your flab transplanted to him

That skinny dude is Tofu and we compliment each other. Don't like it? Oh, well.

Wow, can't wait to read the rest of this :)

I was wearing kinda big shoes, but I think we are just the right size :winkwink:

And some of their brains tranplanted to you

Sarah, I love your attitude :thumbsup

Oh, it wasn't meant as a bad thing. Anywhere between ~4'9 and ~5'5 is great for a woman :thumbsup

i owe everything to sarah_webinc
sarah- you rock!

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Great interview ;) First one I've been reading totally in a while