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Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
Sex and love are two different things in my book. Banging hookers while you are married is one thing, but banging what amounts to a buddie's or a business acquaintance's wife is something entirely different.
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Cmon. Isn't that a little hypocritical????
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Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
However, when you have a monogamous good guy, who is apparently very much in love with his wife (and whose wife does not even do B/G in the industry), how many friggin' brains does it take to know that you shouldn't be macking on her - especially if you are only doing so to score some ass or get her to become a performer on your site?.
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Here is the problem: You have no idea what happened. How do you know he hasn't cheated in the past? You don't, I don't, and nobody else does either, yet several people felt the need to jump in with the name calling and finger pointing with abosutely NO KNOWLEDGE of what actually happened.
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Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
If one in the couple has fallen out of love, the right thing to do is to seek a divorce equitable to both parties, and then to move on with your life. That is not apparently what has happened here.
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Sometimes it is not so easy. Sometimes, people don't have a lot of options. Divorce takes a long time. Where was she supposed to go? What was she supposed to do? Sometimes, people think the grass is greener, check it out, find out that it is not as green as they thought, and decide to stay. Who knows what went on here, nobody except the 3 parties involved.
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Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
Yes, in one sense it is a personal matter, but when it impacts someone so negatively as it has impacted NewBreed, and some can act so glib about it in the face of suffering by at least one of the parties, then it becomes a public matter. Like it or not, and as dysfunctional as we seem at times, we are afterall a community of sorts.
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It became public because newbreed made it public, which he never should have done in the first place, NEVER. We have heard one side of the story. A side which is most likely not 100% accurate, but again, who knows for sure other than the 3 people involved?
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Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
Unless any of you guys honestly don't give a shit who bangs your wife and causes them to leave you, or any of you women don't care if some chick comes onto your husband in an effort to cause them to leave you, then you best rethink your argument.
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Who bangs your wife and causes them to leave you? Is the wife not allowed to make her own decisions or does Tim possess a magic rod filled with "leave your husband" serum?
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Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
I guess I am one of the fortunate few. I've been married to the same woman, my best friend, for 26 years (we've been together for 28 years). Some of you will never experience that, but I assure you that if you pass through all of life's up and downs with one person as I have, you will have truly discovered what love is. That is a bond that can not be broken.
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You are right, you are one of the fortunate few. I am as well, I've been with my wife for 13 1/2 years and feel the same about her as you do about yours. That is our situation and it is not the same happy picture for all. Again, we don't know what went on before, during, or after the parties involved met. Perhaps things werent so happy at home. NOBODY here knows. And BTW, while I certainly hope that it never happens to me, or to you, it is a bond that can be broken. It happens every day.
