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justsexxx · 10-07-2005, 02:22 PM

Dating a girl from the industry, what are your thoughts?

Or for the ladies, dating a guy in the industry, what are your thoughts?

Andre

StickyGreen · 10-07-2005, 02:23 PM

all bad...

Doctor Dre · 10-07-2005, 02:24 PM

In most cases, not a good idea ... there are always some exception thought

Kevsh · 10-07-2005, 02:25 PM

Refer to your nick

justsexxx · 10-07-2005, 02:25 PM

Not nescesarry a sex actress, but in general as well. Like a female program owner, sales rep, ceo etc

S P A N N O W · 10-07-2005, 02:26 PM

Complete and utter train wreck drama - don't do it under any circumstances! Other than that, enjoy!

poisson · 10-07-2005, 02:26 PM

The only way it could work is that you make love to her with cloths on for the first 3-4 times.

Havalina · 10-07-2005, 02:28 PM

What does she do in the industry?

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 10-07-2005, 02:33 PM

It works so long as ya do not come into the relationship with the convictions you were raised with.

You love Jesus? Fuck no it wont work.
You insecure about yourself? Do not try it.
You got a problem with girls? Frrget about it.

If ya clear on those 3 or sure that ya do not have those sort of problems...

It can work.

poisson · 10-07-2005, 02:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlienQ

It works so long as ya do not come into the relationship with the convictions you were raised with.

You love Jesus? Fuck no it wont work.
You insecure about yourself? Do not try it.
You got a problem with girls? Frrget about it.

If ya clear on those 3 or sure that ya do not have those sort of problems...

It can work.

I'm filling soooo alone right now.

BiggleJones · 10-07-2005, 02:36 PM

theyre all fuckin crazy.

RuthB · 10-07-2005, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by BiggleJones

theyre all fuckin crazy.

adult webmasters or women?

pubenemy · 10-07-2005, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by WEGRuth

adult webmasters or women?

Both....

Hansm · 10-07-2005, 02:49 PM

Justsexxx, im dutch too you know.

Take a good example on my, 3 1/2 years later we dediced to get a child and im getting married...

IT CANT BE BETTER!!!

gideongallery · 10-07-2005, 02:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlienQ

It works so long as ya do not come into the relationship with the convictions you were raised with.

You love Jesus? Fuck no it wont work.
You insecure about yourself? Do not try it.
You got a problem with girls? Frrget about it.

If ya clear on those 3 or sure that ya do not have those sort of problems...

It can work.

you do realize that jesus hung out with whores and tax collectors don't you. It the religious right that has perverted his message.

Kassidy · 10-07-2005, 03:02 PM

I would say that it depends on your respective careers in the industry and how much your business duties cross the lines into normal relationship boundaries. If you're both tgp or program owners I can see there being a competitive conflict. If one is a performer/content and the other isn't, I can see there being jealousy issues. If both people can overcome those issues, no problem.

justsexxx · 10-07-2005, 03:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hansm

Justsexxx, im dutch too you know.

Take a good example on my, 3 1/2 years later we dediced to get a child and im getting married...

IT CANT BE BETTER!!!

With a girl who works in the same industry?

And congrats btw!

Andre

suzyspanko · 10-07-2005, 03:04 PM

I would keep bussines and pleasure seperate, plain and simple. You don't need an enemy in the industry if things don't work out.

Violetta · 10-07-2005, 03:06 PM

If it was a beautiful and nice girl, nothing would have stopped me!

justsexxx · 10-07-2005, 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Rockatansky

If it was a beautiful and nice girl, nothing would have stopped me!

Yeah she is....

justsexxx · 10-07-2005, 03:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suzyspanko

I would keep bussines and pleasure seperate, plain and simple. You don't need an enemy in the industry if things don't work out.

I'm not saying we will work for the same company...

Just in the same biz...

RRRED · 10-07-2005, 03:13 PM

I've done both. Dating IN the industry is beneficial in so many ways because the other person understands what you do, and knows you're not just rudely "playing" on the computer all day. You can say things like, sure yeah we'll have sex. I'll be right there after I get this dude the galleries I promised him. And it's respected... haha

Seriously though, people do it all the time and sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. Within the same office is a BIG BAD no no. American saying, "Don't shit where you eat" So no Diz, Rojo, or Soul Rebel.... haha... And being in any position where some other person controls your income is also bad bad bad. As long as you respect each others individuality and space and have support and respect for what they do, I see nothing wrong with it.

You can't have jealousy issues, try to dictate who in the biz the other person can or cannot have contact with, and you can't break into the computer and redirect all their sites if you get in an arguement.

You're very mature, level headed, smart, and socially refreshing so you should have no problems with something like this.

People either connect or they don't.

Pornopat · 10-07-2005, 03:15 PM

:food-smil

justsexxx · 10-07-2005, 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by RRRED

You're very mature, level headed, smart, and socially refreshing

I agree, also with the other statements

Serious, I have had gf's "outside" the biz, and they had no idea what I did all day on that pc. And slowly it started to bother me, even after explaining it 845894 times.

Also, when they saw the pics from the parties, they thought I had sex with every girl there

And no, you should not dictate what todo, and what not. But that is just in this biz. That is bad in any relation, in or outside the biz...

So sounds like we have the same opinion on this

RRRED · 10-07-2005, 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Pornopat

:food-smil

Hahahaha

Hi Pat whassup?

ajrocks · 10-07-2005, 03:34 PM

don't shit where you eat

justsexxx · 10-07-2005, 03:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ajrocks

don't shit where you eat

You might wanna make your sig clickable...

bdld · 10-07-2005, 03:48 PM

get yourself a respectable lady instead of some porn freak.

justsexxx · 10-07-2005, 03:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bdld

get yourself a respectable lady instead of some porn freak.

Are you saying ladies in the industry are freaks?

Carol@Pixipay · 10-07-2005, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by bdld

get yourself a respectable lady instead of some porn freak.

Excuse me in advance; you're a fucking Idiot

gruvr777 · 10-07-2005, 03:59 PM

Just do whatever your conscious says. Your chances are probably the same whether she is in the industry or not. 50/50. If Vegas gave those odds on everything you'd think it was pretty decent odds right? If she is a performer though, you might want to make sure that you are sexually comfortable, and emotionally secure with that though. Best of luck whatever you do.

poorwebmaster · 10-07-2005, 04:04 PM

Hit It everyday

s9ann0 · 10-07-2005, 04:04 PM

erm there are only about 5 girls in internet porn that aren't models and wouldn't trust models cos I'm too ugly for them to wanna fuck for real :o)

Pleasurepays · 10-07-2005, 04:11 PM

if she shoots b/g porn movies, i would never date her. we all have personal and emotional boundaries for a reason... those that don't should be avoided as potential mates. basically, the harder the content, the more of a emotional disaster the person typically is.

just my opinion.

EroticySteve · 10-07-2005, 04:16 PM

Wear a condom.

RRRED · 10-07-2005, 04:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EroticySteve

Wear a condom.

or a 12 pack

justsexxx · 10-07-2005, 04:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RRRED

or a 12 pack

What do you mean

AshleyBrookes · 10-07-2005, 04:24 PM

IMO, you can't just group everyone in the industry together. I've met some really cool, down to earth people but I've also met some real whack jobs. It just depends on the person.

Carol@Pixipay · 10-07-2005, 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by spanno

erm there are only about 5 girls in internet porn that aren't models and wouldn't trust models cos I'm too ugly for them to wanna fuck for real :o)

wow it's misconception day! And here I thought I had nothing to celebrate.....

Tat2Jr · 10-07-2005, 04:32 PM

If they do porn, make sure their asshole isn't already blown out (takes a few weeks).... that is unless you like changing dipars in a couple years!

naitirps · 10-07-2005, 04:33 PM

if you get married and she divorces you, she'll take 50% of your traffic or more!

Halcyon · 10-07-2005, 04:50 PM

Dating within?

Crazy talk, I tell ya!

detoxed · 10-07-2005, 04:51 PM

well the rules would have to be....

1. 18-25
2. no content
3. smart
4. hot

that narrows it down to just a few, and 0 in my state

so I will stay outside

cayne · 10-07-2005, 05:17 PM

that's ok, as long as she didn't any double-anal shots :>

myjah · 10-07-2005, 05:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ajrocks

don't shit where you eat

Oh no. Now what are we gonna do?

Theo · 10-07-2005, 05:28 PM

get busy living or get busy dying

Nylz · 10-07-2005, 05:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by detoxed

well the rules would have to be....

1. 18-25
2. no content
3. smart
4. hot

that narrows it down to just a few, and 0 in my state

so I will stay outside

Well I know one!

but...

SilentKnight · 10-07-2005, 05:37 PM

I married my business partner after meetin' her online through a mutual acquaintance's BDSM BBS.

That was a decade ago. We're still together.

So I say go for it.

SilentKnight

P.S. She's also the main model for KastleArchives.com

onlymovies · 10-07-2005, 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by naitirps

if you get married and she divorces you, she'll take 50% of your traffic or more!

haha..............

s9ann0 · 10-07-2005, 05:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CarolW

wow it's misconception day! And here I thought I had nothing to celebrate.....

ok 6 girls including you... do you want to date me ? :o)

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Kassidy Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Vancouverish... ICQ# 111432084 Posts: 1,219	I would say that it depends on your respective careers in the industry and how much your business duties cross the lines into normal relationship boundaries. If you're both tgp or program owners I can see there being a competitive conflict. If one is a performer/content and the other isn't, I can see there being jealousy issues. If both people can overcome those issues, no problem. __________________ The ORIGINAL micro niche program- All Original and exclusive content. Paying 60% recurring through CCBill, FHG, free content & gallery templates Well researched niches with on-target content. SUBSTANCE SELLS!

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RRRED Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: WA Posts: 6,754	I've done both. Dating IN the industry is beneficial in so many ways because the other person understands what you do, and knows you're not just rudely "playing" on the computer all day. You can say things like, sure yeah we'll have sex. I'll be right there after I get this dude the galleries I promised him. And it's respected... haha Seriously though, people do it all the time and sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. Within the same office is a BIG BAD no no. American saying, "Don't shit where you eat" So no Diz, Rojo, or Soul Rebel.... haha... And being in any position where some other person controls your income is also bad bad bad. As long as you respect each others individuality and space and have support and respect for what they do, I see nothing wrong with it. You can't have jealousy issues, try to dictate who in the biz the other person can or cannot have contact with, and you can't break into the computer and redirect all their sites if you get in an arguement. You're very mature, level headed, smart, and socially refreshing so you should have no problems with something like this. People either connect or they don't.

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bdld $100,000 Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 11,452	get yourself a respectable lady instead of some porn freak.

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gruvr777 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 306	Just do whatever your conscious says. Your chances are probably the same whether she is in the industry or not. 50/50. If Vegas gave those odds on everything you'd think it was pretty decent odds right? If she is a performer though, you might want to make sure that you are sexually comfortable, and emotionally secure with that though. Best of luck whatever you do.

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s9ann0 Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Boston Posts: 4,873	erm there are only about 5 girls in internet porn that aren't models and wouldn't trust models cos I'm too ugly for them to wanna fuck for real :o)

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Pleasurepays BANNED - SUPPORTING TUBES Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: I live in a pile of boogers Posts: 11,913	if she shoots b/g porn movies, i would never date her. we all have personal and emotional boundaries for a reason... those that don't should be avoided as potential mates. basically, the harder the content, the more of a emotional disaster the person typically is. just my opinion.

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10-07-2005, 04:51 PM	#43
detoxed vip member Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 17,798	well the rules would have to be.... 1. 18-25 2. no content 3. smart 4. hot that narrows it down to just a few, and 0 in my state so I will stay outside

10-07-2005, 05:17 PM	#44
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10-07-2005, 05:28 PM	#46
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10-07-2005, 05:37 PM	#48
SilentKnight Megan Fox's fluffer Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: shooting pool in Elysium Posts: 24,818	I married my business partner after meetin' her online through a mutual acquaintance's BDSM BBS. That was a decade ago. We're still together. So I say go for it. SilentKnight P.S. She's also the main model for KastleArchives.com