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Evil Doer · 09-05-2005, 03:01 AM

I can't. I don't know why..

My father just passed away on the 31st, we had his funeral yesterday

I couldn't cry

and yes, I was very close to him... I did cry alone, just not infront of people.

What about you?

RIP Dad.

Ninja Scripts · 09-05-2005, 03:03 AM

Haven't yet, but there are people that would cause me to cry.

Darkhorse · 09-05-2005, 03:19 AM

Ya I am like that to Evil Doer, I don't know why either just the way I am I suppose. It isn't that I am cold hearted or anything.

I dunno.....

Furious_Female · 09-05-2005, 03:22 AM

Awww I'm sorry to hear about your dad

My dad died when I was 12. All the best to you and yours.

And yes, I can cry at funerals.

Evil Doer · 09-05-2005, 03:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Furious_Female

Awww I'm sorry to hear about your dad

My dad died when I was 12. All the best to you and yours.

And yes, I can cry at funerals.

Thanks Jenn, it must have been extremely hard at 12 with your dad passing away

Th!nk · 09-05-2005, 03:28 AM

yes i do cry most especially when it is someone dear to me...RIP on your Dad.

drama · 09-05-2005, 04:35 AM

I had to put my dog down a year ago and i cried like a motherfucker but before that it was like 10 years of no crying

Sorry to hear about your pops

Wiggles · 09-05-2005, 05:08 AM

i can't either, its not until later that it really kicks in, sorry to hear about your dad.

a1ka1ine · 09-05-2005, 05:11 AM

my condolences, sorry to hear about your dad. i always fear that day, but at previous family funerals i have never cried despite feeling really close

DeadFidel · 09-05-2005, 05:12 AM

Sorry about your Father...When my Father was killed 5 years ago, I cried like a little boy.

Sarah_Jayne · 09-05-2005, 05:13 AM

I didn't cry much at my husband's funeral but that is because I tend to go really quiet when I am upset. Some people deal with things that way. Later on I had a bug out moment but when people weren't watching me.

I didn't cry at my grandfather's funeral until the moment they lowered the casket and then I was out of control.

The Ghost · 09-05-2005, 05:33 AM

Sorry to hear about your father. It really depends who it is. If is someone who meant alot to me, then yeah, I will shed a tear. Especially if someone tells a heart felt amazing story, like the time the guy saved the world by drilling 800 feet into an asteroid and detonating the nuclear bomb in time to save the world.

After all, the whole point of a funeral is to celebrate someones life and there is some sadness knowing they won't be sharing any more of those special moments with you. But if it's for someone I don't know, like a distant relative or friend of a friend, then no.

It all depends.

Evil Doer · 09-05-2005, 06:20 AM

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Originally Posted by sarah_webinc

I didn't cry much at my husband's funeral but that is because I tend to go really quiet when I am upset. Some people deal with things that way. Later on I had a bug out moment but when people weren't watching me.

I didn't cry at my grandfather's funeral until the moment they lowered the casket and then I was out of control.

same way at my uncle's, I got really upset when they actually lowered the casket into the ground. They stopped doing it for that reason

Kicker · 09-05-2005, 06:22 AM

i cry a lot, can't stay calm

Vitasoy · 09-05-2005, 08:16 AM

Sorry to hear about your father... I'm not much of a cryer myself.

tranza · 09-05-2005, 08:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Evil Doer

I can't. I don't know why..

My father just passed away on the 31st, we had his funeral yesterday

I couldn't cry

and yes, I was very close to him... I did cry alone, just not infront of people.

What about you?

RIP Dad.

wow, sorry too hear that, but i got your point...everyone has a way to deal with it

LittleSassy · 09-05-2005, 08:40 AM

i dont cry at funerals too....it'll take me like a couple of days to realize who have passed away and that's when i start to grieve. i do cry but i do it when im alone....

sorry to hear about your father though....

xfalmp · 09-05-2005, 09:15 AM

Yes, I can't stay calm.This year I cried at my best friends funeral.. and I also cried on the dad's boyfriend of my sister (he happens to be a friend of mine too) funeral. I just couldn't keep it seeing how everyone was suffering.

Violetta · 09-05-2005, 09:17 AM

very sorry for your loss!!
I cry sometimes yes....

poppet · 09-05-2005, 09:20 AM

I tend to not cry at the funeral. Sometimes it takes me years to actually break down and grieve. My grandmother, to whom I was exceptionally close (she raised me), died of liver cancer in 1997 and I still have really yet to grieve for her. Matter of fact, I've not really grieved for anyone in a long time.

fris · 09-05-2005, 09:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Evil Doer

I can't. I don't know why..

My father just passed away on the 31st, we had his funeral yesterday

I couldn't cry

and yes, I was very close to him... I did cry alone, just not infront of people.

What about you?

RIP Dad.

i cried at my papas, i was very close to him, and i usally cry everytime i goto visit his grave. he taughty me how to golf, made my own clubs when i was 6. very close. i have only been to i think 3 funerals. the others didnt really bother me.

tranza · 09-05-2005, 09:26 AM

some psychologist would say u would have problems later cause u keep it inside

tranza · 09-05-2005, 09:27 AM

but i think that´s bullshit

digifan · 09-05-2005, 09:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Evil Doer

I can't. I don't know why..

My father just passed away on the 31st, we had his funeral yesterday

I couldn't cry

and yes, I was very close to him... I did cry alone, just not infront of people.

What about you?

RIP Dad.

I'm like you... may your fater R.I.P

Corleone · 09-05-2005, 09:47 AM

Yes.. I cried when my grandfather died

boner 2.0 · 09-05-2005, 09:48 AM

My condolences

Yes I do cry at funerals...

Scott McD · 09-05-2005, 11:15 AM

Sorry about your father.

I've cried at funerals before. It shouldn't matter who is around you...

MandyBlake · 09-05-2005, 11:32 AM

oh i have cried at all the funerals for people related to me.

wildgirl · 09-05-2005, 02:53 PM

ohh sorry to hear about your dad, when my Aunt died I cried a lot we're so closed and even on her burial I really cried a lot, I don't know why maybe she because she's just 33 yo when she die and she's like our eldest sister.

phogirl69 · 09-05-2005, 02:55 PM

Nope, it's weird but for some reason I can't cry at funerals either. But whenever me and my bf get in a massive fight I cry like crazy, but whenever someone dies (even someone in my family) I just cannot cry.

2257-Ben · 09-05-2005, 02:56 PM

Sorry to hear about your loss. Our condolences.

Manny The Freak · 09-05-2005, 03:11 PM

I have been to a few funerals but I only cried at one, my cousins, 7 years ago.

Jarmusch · 09-05-2005, 03:18 PM

I also can't cry in public. I only break down in tears when I'm alone, but quietlyso no one hears me.

Babagirls · 09-05-2005, 03:22 PM

i always excuse myself and go into another room (usually a smokers lounge or something). i try to be the tough one in the family, the one who tells everyone else that it'lls be okay. sometimes i do break down though, im only human.

im so sorry to hear about your father!

Red Ezra · 09-05-2005, 03:42 PM

my condolences - I have cried at funerals - and some I didn't - been thru a lot of death in my life now - it seems that some situations are more difficult and emotional - my friend dimebag was murdered - we were very close - I cried a lot - it was traumatic and such a wrongful death.

pocketkangaroo · 09-05-2005, 03:52 PM

I never could either, sometimes made me feel like a cold-hearted person. I did by myself though. I think it is because I was the oldest son in the family and in some ways I felt I needed to be the rock. I needed to be the guy that took care of everything and let others grieve. I don't think there is anything wrong with it though, we have our own ways of grieving.

09-05-2005, 05:08 PM

sometimes i cry, but one of my aunts died when i was younger and i started laughing out loud when i saw her laying there kind of palish-green..

it was fucked up to say the least!

09-05-2005, 03:01 AM	#1
Evil Doer Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: ICQ: 251-911-362 Posts: 915	Can you cry at funerals? I can't. I don't know why.. My father just passed away on the 31st, we had his funeral yesterday I couldn't cry and yes, I was very close to him... I did cry alone, just not infront of people. What about you? RIP Dad.

09-05-2005, 03:22 AM	#4
Furious_Female Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Upstate, New York Posts: 8,187	Awww I'm sorry to hear about your dad My dad died when I was 12. All the best to you and yours. And yes, I can cry at funerals. __________________ Skype: j3nn.com ICQ 160370494 My current favorite high-converting sponsor: CrakRevenue

09-05-2005, 05:08 AM	#8
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09-05-2005, 03:03 AM	#2
Ninja Scripts Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Retired Posts: 1,032	Haven't yet, but there are people that would cause me to cry.

09-05-2005, 03:19 AM	#3
Darkhorse Horsing Around Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: AU Posts: 5,864	Ya I am like that to Evil Doer, I don't know why either just the way I am I suppose. It isn't that I am cold hearted or anything. I dunno.....

09-05-2005, 03:28 AM	#6
Th!nk Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 6,996	yes i do cry most especially when it is someone dear to me...RIP on your Dad.

09-05-2005, 04:35 AM	#7
drama Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 847	I had to put my dog down a year ago and i cried like a motherfucker but before that it was like 10 years of no crying Sorry to hear about your pops

09-05-2005, 05:11 AM	#9
a1ka1ine Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 3,387	my condolences, sorry to hear about your dad. i always fear that day, but at previous family funerals i have never cried despite feeling really close

09-05-2005, 05:12 AM	#10
DeadFidel Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: This was my wife circa 2002 Posts: 6,760	Sorry about your Father...When my Father was killed 5 years ago, I cried like a little boy.

09-05-2005, 05:13 AM	#11
Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	I didn't cry much at my husband's funeral but that is because I tend to go really quiet when I am upset. Some people deal with things that way. Later on I had a bug out moment but when people weren't watching me. I didn't cry at my grandfather's funeral until the moment they lowered the casket and then I was out of control.

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LittleSassy Confirmed User Join Date: May 2005 Location: behind you Posts: 7,402	i dont cry at funerals too....it'll take me like a couple of days to realize who have passed away and that's when i start to grieve. i do cry but i do it when im alone.... sorry to hear about your father though.... __________________ Proadultoutsourcing.com ~ version 2.0 OFFSHORE SOLUTIONS PROVIDER SINCE 2003 ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE 264-580-554

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xfalmp Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Brazil Posts: 1,474	Yes, I can't stay calm.This year I cried at my best friends funeral.. and I also cried on the dad's boyfriend of my sister (he happens to be a friend of mine too) funeral. I just couldn't keep it seeing how everyone was suffering. __________________ Trust the "WOW" effect.

09-05-2005, 09:17 AM	#19
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poppet Just call me Tala! :) Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: TECHIEMEDIA - the only host you'll ever need! (Did I mention that their techs ROCK?? Ask me about them.) Posts: 1,499	I tend to not cry at the funeral. Sometimes it takes me years to actually break down and grieve. My grandmother, to whom I was exceptionally close (she raised me), died of liver cancer in 1997 and I still have really yet to grieve for her. Matter of fact, I've not really grieved for anyone in a long time. __________________ SIG TOO BIG! Maximum 120x60 button and no more than 3 text lines of DEFAULT SIZE and COLOR. Unless your sig is for a GFY top banner sponsor, you may use a 624x80 instead of a 120x60. Let me repeat... A 120 x 60 button and no more that 3 lines of DEFAULT SIZE AND COLOR text.

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tranza ICQ: 197-556-237 Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: BRASIL !!! Posts: 57,559	some psychologist would say u would have problems later cause u keep it inside __________________ I'm just a newbie.

09-05-2005, 09:27 AM	#23
tranza ICQ: 197-556-237 Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: BRASIL !!! Posts: 57,559	but i think that´s bullshit __________________ I'm just a newbie.

09-05-2005, 09:47 AM	#25
Corleone C.R.E.A.M Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 15,262	Yes.. I cried when my grandfather died

09-05-2005, 09:48 AM	#26
boner 2.0 Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 10,970	My condolences Yes I do cry at funerals... __________________

09-05-2005, 11:15 AM	#27
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09-05-2005, 02:53 PM	#29
wildgirl My Sig was too Big! :( Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 2,554	ohh sorry to hear about your dad, when my Aunt died I cried a lot we're so closed and even on her burial I really cried a lot, I don't know why maybe she because she's just 33 yo when she die and she's like our eldest sister. __________________ My Best Money Maker:

09-05-2005, 02:55 PM	#30
phogirl69 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 3,330	Nope, it's weird but for some reason I can't cry at funerals either. But whenever me and my bf get in a massive fight I cry like crazy, but whenever someone dies (even someone in my family) I just cannot cry.

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09-05-2005, 03:11 PM	#32
Manny The Freak Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Everywhere. Posts: 1,506	I have been to a few funerals but I only cried at one, my cousins, 7 years ago. __________________

09-05-2005, 03:18 PM	#33
Jarmusch Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 12,464	I also can't cry in public. I only break down in tears when I'm alone, but quietlyso no one hears me.

09-05-2005, 03:22 PM	#34
Babagirls Text Writer Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 18,812	i always excuse myself and go into another room (usually a smokers lounge or something). i try to be the tough one in the family, the one who tells everyone else that it'lls be okay. sometimes i do break down though, im only human. im so sorry to hear about your father! __________________ Need a Text Writer? Blogs\|Reviews\|Descriptions\|Paysites\|TGP's\|Stories ICQ: 397892500

09-05-2005, 03:42 PM	#35
Red Ezra redezra.com Industry Role: Join Date: May 2004 Location: Vegas Baby! Posts: 4,680	my condolences - I have cried at funerals - and some I didn't - been thru a lot of death in my life now - it seems that some situations are more difficult and emotional - my friend dimebag was murdered - we were very close - I cried a lot - it was traumatic and such a wrongful death.

09-05-2005, 03:52 PM	#36
pocketkangaroo Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Chicago, IL Posts: 8,452	I never could either, sometimes made me feel like a cold-hearted person. I did by myself though. I think it is because I was the oldest son in the family and in some ways I felt I needed to be the rock. I needed to be the guy that took care of everything and let others grieve. I don't think there is anything wrong with it though, we have our own ways of grieving.

09-05-2005, 05:08 PM	#37
Pimp Dough Guest Posts: n/a	sometimes i cry, but one of my aunts died when i was younger and i started laughing out loud when i saw her laying there kind of palish-green.. it was fucked up to say the least!