Originally Posted by chase
You are a tool. Did you even read what I said before you got your ruffled panties in a bunch?
I do work..for ME. Trying to make me sound lazy won't cut it..people around here will tell ya-I work long and hard. Unlike you, I realize that networking with other people, not begging them for charity, builds my reputation and will help me in any future endeavors. I've learned more from gfy and the people I've met here than I ever would have if I had only bothered to post to beg for help from people who don't even know me. Don't be jealous of my postcount, because I have intelligent, thoughtful posts, and people like to read what I have to say. You too, can be a valued member of the community, if you'd just remove your head from your ass and contribute, and learn and listen.
I don't recall blaming my children on you. But you really look like an ass trying to make me sound like an irresponsible slut. In case you missed it the first time, my oldest child's father DIED. My younger two children's father, (my HUSBAND..generally people who love each other enough to marry do want children together), and I are split up, and he hasn't helped in three months-if he WAS supporting half of our children's expenses, I wouldn't need to sell my house. It's not my fault neither of them are helping; but I am still here filling in the gaps, aren't I? I'm not on welfare, and I'm not begging on GFY. I'm working all night while they sleep, rebulding what I let go when I was ill, so I can take care of them. They are eating, because I bust my ass...no other reason. If you aren't eating, and yet you still have internet, well, guess you made your choice, so don't bitch about having no food.
There are tons of people with less than me, and if you'd bothered to read what I said, you'd see that I said that. I wasn't complaining. I love my kids..wouldn't trade them for anything. And I'm sad about selling my house, but my mom needs me-it's less of me falling back on her than it is a mutually beneficial situation. Some things suck in my life..but some things suck in everyone's life. I'm a big girl; I can take the bad with the good, and I know I have a lot more good and a lot less bad than a lot of other people..
You obviously missed my entire point-which was that there is always someone with less than you, and less options than you. You are a single person, I presume, with no one but yourself to worry about. So stop whining, get up off your ass, be glad you don't have to arrange for childcare, and find a job, or start building your online adult biz, if you even have one. I don't complain about my situation...I picked myself up, and got to work to fix it.
Yes, I made my issues. So did you.....you should have shaved your face. Difference is, I am handling my OWN issues, and in spite of you trying to make me look like I am displacing blame, YOU are the one looking for a handout..not me. :2 cents:
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