I dont know if anyone is totally honest.. but I know it goes a long way in having a good relationship. I think I just lucked out. My dick is a big asshole sometimes as i can be too..but we are pretty fucking honest with one another.

Everyone - you, her - has only one life and we all must seek our happiness. If she wants to fuck someone, who are you to say no?

What you DO have control over is how you're gonna react to it. If I catch my woman with another man, she's history. Plain and simple. You might make a different choice.

But I agree with one thing said here. There's no need of being a chump. If you see her going out with a "guy friend" and you think she's fucking him, keep your eyes open. She'll reveal herself soon enough.

She can have whoever she wants as a friend. She can do whatever she wants too. I do give my input but it just that input. I'd never say you can't have so and so as a friend. If you cannot trust her then move on as your lack of ability to trust her will cause any relationship to fail. Also, If she is undeserving of trust why are you still going out with her?

Let her have her friends guys or girls! This will help you in the long run with your relationship. I guess I would say it's different if she is going out of her way to make new guy friends or if she is only hanging out with guys. I know myself I would be upset if my guy said you can't hang out with any of your male friends. If she loves you she isn't going to cross that line with them. I would suggest getting to know the guys she is good friends with also. Melissa

ive been with my man for 6 yrs now.

the first 4 yrs, HELL NO i couldnt have guy friends (although i did have one guy friend that was like a brother to me & he was friends with both of us so it was cool), and he couldnt have female friends either.

BUT, we talked alot of shit over, we trust each other, we ARE human so we're gonna flirt from time to time, but the trust is there on both parts.

if i wanna go out for the night, locally or 2 hours away, i just tell him. he trusts me, rightfully so, not to do anything. do i flirt? oh god ya! he knows i do, im a big flirt by nature. does he know that i dance with other guys at clubs sometimes? nope. he doesnt need to know. i can take care of myself if a situation comes up (a dude grabbing my ass, tryin to kiss me, etc). all he needs to know is that im coming home to him, as faithful as i was when i left the house. period.

he goes and 'plays cards with the boys' every once and while. is he there playing cards for the 12 hours hes gone? probably not. do i care if hes a strip club with the boys throwin some bucks at girlies in thongs? nope. hell, i've gone with him a few times ;)

if you dont give each other space & breathing room in a relationship, you're going to end up killing each other. if you cant trust each other, theres deeper issues that you two need to deal with. i refuse to give up all of my life & fun just because im in a relationship. fuck that. im 24 with no kids and not married. let me live!

I find it extremely entertaining how the girls in this thread don't want to face the fact that every one of their guy friends would fuck them sideways if the opportunity presented itself.

I agree with Baba though. I think that for a relationship to really work, each person needs to have their "own life". Every good marriage I know of is exactly like that. Both the man and woman do their own thing every now and then. Its healthy.

Besides, if you can't trust your guy/girl, what's the point of having a relationship?

as longas she dosent call the ops

It's not possible to have a girl and a guy as only friends. Some one wants more.

why not? I have alot of guy friends and it will always depend on your limitations of course.. self respect... (ok sometimes I get carried away..ooops!)

What fucking girlfriend in her right mind would tell her boyfriend "well since ya put it that way, yea I could imagine myself giving bobby head"

none? is your girlfriend blonde?

50...........

guy friends = future fuck buddies

depends on the chic really, i had a gf a few years ago who loved the attention of all the guys but knew how to keep a safe distance - damn she was probably rooting her arse off fucking bitch

You know, it all depends on your game. Guys, if you have a woman that really loves you then you have nothing to worry about. Test it. Let her hang out with her "friends". When she gets home, just go on with your usual routine. If she stays quiet about what she did then you might have something to worry about. Girls usually talk about their night. I say this from experience. My girl has alot of "guy" friends who are doctors, RT, MRI techs, so on and so forth. You know, good jobs and such. Women tend to be more attracted to guys with money. Not in all cases but for the most part. When she goes out with her friends, she comes home and tells me about her night. I trust her which is the most important part. I know I don't have anything to worry about because when you are up on game, everything falls into place. My girl knows that if she cheats on me, I will not give her the satifaction of a reaction. Just get your shit and get the fuck out! Plain and simple. I might be hurt, but who the fuck cares. I will get over it in about 2 hours or so (depending on how long we have been together). Hell, there are more women out there who will respect me. She knows this and won't leave me. Trust is the main thing. I am not saying that I am a player or anything, I just have confidence in myself and I will not give a rats ass about a female who does me wrong. If it's meant to be it will, if not oh well. Just trust your partner and expect the same. Break that trust and it's GO FUCK YOURSELF!!! :pimp

you are wrong there Sly my friend. I am well aware of guys wanting to fuck me.. that is just human nature. The fact is..I will not fuck them and the dick knows it. Just because guys want to fuck us doesnt mean they are going to get their wishes. Its all about the trust.

too much assuming on this fucking board..time to go plan my next camping trip with a shit load of guys.

Fuck no she can't! I can't beleive this is even up for debate.

because they are going to TRY to fuck her.

Dude, it the greatest compliment when you are standing in line at the liquor store and the guy helping her says, "with you wearing that shirt and tits like that, how am I not supposed to ask you for your number?" And that was with me standing right behind her. She flirts like hell at the bar with the bartender and her (my) drinks are sooo much stronger than if I get them. Who cares?! As long as she's coming home with me. It's all about the trust my friend. :thumbsup

I hate to say this, but it all comes down to security! If you're not secure with your relationship, you're not going to be secure with her hanging out with other guys. My wife is much younger than me and I'm not quite sure why but she loves me! Right now she's out in L.A. having sex with porn studs and it doesn't bother me one bit. Why...because I'm confident in my relationship! When it's all over, she wants to come home to me. Ok, so maybe you think she does this for the money - well think again! The money is good, but she wouldn't be doing it if it wasn't fun! What's wrong with having a little fun. Sure, most guys spending any amount of time with her probably have an agenda but if she gives in she probabaly did it because she wanted to but that doesn't mean she doesn't love you. Sex is a wonderful thing my friend, and variety is the spice of life! You wouldn't be in this industry if you weren't attracted to other people and it's completely ok for her to be the same way. The key to a succesful relationship is communication, if she thinks a guy is hot she should be able to tell you, and if you think a girl is hot you should be able to tell her. It may not be easy at first, but give it a try! If it works out you know she's loyal, if it doesn't well...it wasn't meant to be. I've had millionaires running after my girl, but at the end of the day she's always anxious to climb in bed with me, even if it's just to sleep! Get over the idea that you're the only one that can satisfy her and explore some new possibilities :thumbsup

My girl is insanely hot so I don't even trust the gay guys. I won't stop her in most cases though because what kind of insecure punk would be threatened by another guy? If you are fucking her right and treating her just as well then you have nothing to worry about.


Unless the guy friend is someone like me.

Let Me Set The Record Straight!

The More You Don't Give A Shit, The More They Want And Respect You...plain And Simple.

only if I can have girlfriends Legitimately

who I will not think about fucking :winkwink:

All I gotta say is Tom Leykis is right!!

www.blowmeuptom.com

that tom leykis post is words of wisdom

No

Men and Women cannot be just friends

Watch "When Harry Met Sally" with Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal

No. That was simple. Now for my question.. what if the tables are turned and you have this girl calling you a lot trying to hang out with you and she's hot but she has a boyfriend. You don't want to talk to her because you know she doesn't want sex so it would be lame. Well that's my situation. I don't call her back. Any comments, opinions?

You are the first man I have heard that from.
are you gay?
:pimp

So you constantly refer to your man as 'the dick' and go camping with other guys without him. My guess is he couldnt give two shits about you and doesnt care if you are or arent fucking someone, have you ever considered that? I think you already know this and your reaction is to hang out with other guys, no other reason to disrespect someone like that.

I personally have no problems with it if she's upfront and honnest about everything she does with him and doesn't get upset or weird when I ask what they did together then I see no problem.

the way I see it is if she's going to cheat, she'll cheat. If I have a problem with her guy friends or not. I'd rather her do her friend so i coudl catch her and dump her than 10 years down the road having her hate me for not making her happy and refusing to let her hang with her guy friends to begin with.

its totaly possible to be friends with the opposite sex without wanting to fuck them, some of my best friends have been female and indeed still are.

forgot to mention that i dont have a problem with my woman having male friends either

if you trust her you will have a solid relationship as long as she recipocates that trust!

with that nick name and a pink website.....I can understand that :1orglaugh

I don't want to start anything here, it's just not my style, but I have to ask the question, why does a woman need to ask permission of her boyfriend or partner or husband to have a friend of either sex?

If you have a committed relationship that includes mutual respect, and you trust her, why is it an issue at all?

If you don't trust her, you should get a new girl. Good luck.

I don't have any male friends and my boyfriend doesn't have any female friends. I guess we are both anti-social and only like to hang around each other... I know that it's not really healthy, but that's the way it is though right now.

He doesn't have any female friends, he just works, comes home and all his free time is either spent playing cs or with me. As for me, I'm basically in front of the pc all day. Of course sometimes we have to make contact with the opposite sex sometimes on a very "casual" level such as business or college acquantances, but we don't have "close" friends of the opposite sex that we actually talk to on the phone or go out with.

I don't mind it this way tho, because I wouldn't like it if he had any female friends. And he's very jealous himself so i know he would not like it if i had male friends. It's probably not the healthiest, but it is agreeable to both of us right now since we are both jealous people i guess.

Also, before i had a bf, when i was single, I knew all my male friends wanted to get with me anyways. I don't know if we were real friends, or only talking because they were interested in me, but we would always talk about sex a lot. I never had a male "friend" that was purely platonic in real life. On the net yes, but not in real life.

Also, all the guys that befriended me before were only interested in hooking up with me. But i am not sure to classify them as "guys who wanna get with me" or "guys that only became my friends because I was not interested in them".

I never liked or went for any of them so thus they became "friends". But if they didn't think I was hot, I don't think they would want to be my "friend". They probably have more in common with their male friends than with me. With some guys after I started being "cold" towards them they stopped talking me so we weren't friends anymore... But mainly they all want to be friends with me because they want to bang me, I am not stupid...

But as I said before, over the internet, sometimes guys just want to chat about general topics such as my pc, how my sales are doing, what sponsor I am promoting... stuff like that. And I think that is more "true" friendship because they can't see you so it's on a more "real" level.

I think males and females can be much better friends when they CAN'T SEE EACH OTHER. That way you can gauge if you really have things in common. If they see you all they wanna do is "hit it" already.

Also I don't think men and women can be friends in the real world , guys just want to fuck everything, they only want to make friends when they can get pussy or get something out of it.

Most of the times it's just the guys way of getting close to the girl so they can get a chance of hitting it. All my girlfriends that have so called "friends", are friends with guys that want to fuck them. But some are so stupid they don't even know it.

One of my friends is soooo stupid, she says she is "just friends" with this guy, but always tells her loves her big ass and wants to hit it, and even tells her she makes him horny and rubbed his dick against her ass :1orglaugh And tries to hug her... and cop a feel... But then she tells me that they are "just friends". And she'll ask me if she is leading him on if she hugs him in bed and sleeps over "just as friends". :1orglaugh

She is also 28 years old but still doesn't know any better!! But she still thinks that they are "friends".... idiot...

She is not only leading him on but truly deluding herself that they have some kind of friendship...

haha...He is secure my friend.. very secure. He knows he is referred to as "Dick" on here.. he is a dick sometimes and he is my only dick. We have been together for 10 years and will probably be for another 10 unless I die on one of my climbing trips.
so I have to ask you, if you didnt give a fuck about your wife..would you still stay with her?

Fact is my hubby does not like to climb and hike..I do. To do so alone cause your man is insecure is just plain stupid and very dangerous..but you keep sitting behind that computer assuming that all men think like you..simpleton.

Some people live life..some people just sit behind the computer and wish like fuck they had one...I live it.

My man has girlfriends, and you bet your ass they want to fuck him.. he is a sweet peice of meat and can fuck like no man I have ever met...doesnt mean he is going to stick his dick in it.

So much insecurity on this board its amazing....some of you kiddies will grow up some day and live a bit.

Need to show this thread to the Dick..so he can get his laugh for the day.

for you thunderballs..http://bettylove.com/graphx/summitgfy1.jpg

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

bahahahaha :1orglaugh