50...........

guy friends = future fuck buddies

depends on the chic really, i had a gf a few years ago who loved the attention of all the guys but knew how to keep a safe distance - damn she was probably rooting her arse off fucking bitch

You know, it all depends on your game. Guys, if you have a woman that really loves you then you have nothing to worry about. Test it. Let her hang out with her "friends". When she gets home, just go on with your usual routine. If she stays quiet about what she did then you might have something to worry about. Girls usually talk about their night. I say this from experience. My girl has alot of "guy" friends who are doctors, RT, MRI techs, so on and so forth. You know, good jobs and such. Women tend to be more attracted to guys with money. Not in all cases but for the most part. When she goes out with her friends, she comes home and tells me about her night. I trust her which is the most important part. I know I don't have anything to worry about because when you are up on game, everything falls into place. My girl knows that if she cheats on me, I will not give her the satifaction of a reaction. Just get your shit and get the fuck out! Plain and simple. I might be hurt, but who the fuck cares. I will get over it in about 2 hours or so (depending on how long we have been together). Hell, there are more women out there who will respect me. She knows this and won't leave me. Trust is the main thing. I am not saying that I am a player or anything, I just have confidence in myself and I will not give a rats ass about a female who does me wrong. If it's meant to be it will, if not oh well. Just trust your partner and expect the same. Break that trust and it's GO FUCK YOURSELF!!! :pimp

you are wrong there Sly my friend. I am well aware of guys wanting to fuck me.. that is just human nature. The fact is..I will not fuck them and the dick knows it. Just because guys want to fuck us doesnt mean they are going to get their wishes. Its all about the trust.

too much assuming on this fucking board..time to go plan my next camping trip with a shit load of guys.

Fuck no she can't! I can't beleive this is even up for debate.

because they are going to TRY to fuck her.

Dude, it the greatest compliment when you are standing in line at the liquor store and the guy helping her says, "with you wearing that shirt and tits like that, how am I not supposed to ask you for your number?" And that was with me standing right behind her. She flirts like hell at the bar with the bartender and her (my) drinks are sooo much stronger than if I get them. Who cares?! As long as she's coming home with me. It's all about the trust my friend. :thumbsup

I hate to say this, but it all comes down to security! If you're not secure with your relationship, you're not going to be secure with her hanging out with other guys. My wife is much younger than me and I'm not quite sure why but she loves me! Right now she's out in L.A. having sex with porn studs and it doesn't bother me one bit. Why...because I'm confident in my relationship! When it's all over, she wants to come home to me. Ok, so maybe you think she does this for the money - well think again! The money is good, but she wouldn't be doing it if it wasn't fun! What's wrong with having a little fun. Sure, most guys spending any amount of time with her probably have an agenda but if she gives in she probabaly did it because she wanted to but that doesn't mean she doesn't love you. Sex is a wonderful thing my friend, and variety is the spice of life! You wouldn't be in this industry if you weren't attracted to other people and it's completely ok for her to be the same way. The key to a succesful relationship is communication, if she thinks a guy is hot she should be able to tell you, and if you think a girl is hot you should be able to tell her. It may not be easy at first, but give it a try! If it works out you know she's loyal, if it doesn't well...it wasn't meant to be. I've had millionaires running after my girl, but at the end of the day she's always anxious to climb in bed with me, even if it's just to sleep! Get over the idea that you're the only one that can satisfy her and explore some new possibilities :thumbsup

My girl is insanely hot so I don't even trust the gay guys. I won't stop her in most cases though because what kind of insecure punk would be threatened by another guy? If you are fucking her right and treating her just as well then you have nothing to worry about.


Unless the guy friend is someone like me.

Let Me Set The Record Straight!

The More You Don't Give A Shit, The More They Want And Respect You...plain And Simple.

only if I can have girlfriends Legitimately

who I will not think about fucking :winkwink:

All I gotta say is Tom Leykis is right!!

www.blowmeuptom.com

that tom leykis post is words of wisdom

No

Men and Women cannot be just friends

Watch "When Harry Met Sally" with Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal

No. That was simple. Now for my question.. what if the tables are turned and you have this girl calling you a lot trying to hang out with you and she's hot but she has a boyfriend. You don't want to talk to her because you know she doesn't want sex so it would be lame. Well that's my situation. I don't call her back. Any comments, opinions?

You are the first man I have heard that from.
are you gay?
:pimp

So you constantly refer to your man as 'the dick' and go camping with other guys without him. My guess is he couldnt give two shits about you and doesnt care if you are or arent fucking someone, have you ever considered that? I think you already know this and your reaction is to hang out with other guys, no other reason to disrespect someone like that.

I personally have no problems with it if she's upfront and honnest about everything she does with him and doesn't get upset or weird when I ask what they did together then I see no problem.

the way I see it is if she's going to cheat, she'll cheat. If I have a problem with her guy friends or not. I'd rather her do her friend so i coudl catch her and dump her than 10 years down the road having her hate me for not making her happy and refusing to let her hang with her guy friends to begin with.

its totaly possible to be friends with the opposite sex without wanting to fuck them, some of my best friends have been female and indeed still are.

forgot to mention that i dont have a problem with my woman having male friends either

if you trust her you will have a solid relationship as long as she recipocates that trust!

with that nick name and a pink website.....I can understand that :1orglaugh

I don't want to start anything here, it's just not my style, but I have to ask the question, why does a woman need to ask permission of her boyfriend or partner or husband to have a friend of either sex?

If you have a committed relationship that includes mutual respect, and you trust her, why is it an issue at all?

If you don't trust her, you should get a new girl. Good luck.

I don't have any male friends and my boyfriend doesn't have any female friends. I guess we are both anti-social and only like to hang around each other... I know that it's not really healthy, but that's the way it is though right now.

He doesn't have any female friends, he just works, comes home and all his free time is either spent playing cs or with me. As for me, I'm basically in front of the pc all day. Of course sometimes we have to make contact with the opposite sex sometimes on a very "casual" level such as business or college acquantances, but we don't have "close" friends of the opposite sex that we actually talk to on the phone or go out with.

I don't mind it this way tho, because I wouldn't like it if he had any female friends. And he's very jealous himself so i know he would not like it if i had male friends. It's probably not the healthiest, but it is agreeable to both of us right now since we are both jealous people i guess.

Also, before i had a bf, when i was single, I knew all my male friends wanted to get with me anyways. I don't know if we were real friends, or only talking because they were interested in me, but we would always talk about sex a lot. I never had a male "friend" that was purely platonic in real life. On the net yes, but not in real life.

Also, all the guys that befriended me before were only interested in hooking up with me. But i am not sure to classify them as "guys who wanna get with me" or "guys that only became my friends because I was not interested in them".

I never liked or went for any of them so thus they became "friends". But if they didn't think I was hot, I don't think they would want to be my "friend". They probably have more in common with their male friends than with me. With some guys after I started being "cold" towards them they stopped talking me so we weren't friends anymore... But mainly they all want to be friends with me because they want to bang me, I am not stupid...

But as I said before, over the internet, sometimes guys just want to chat about general topics such as my pc, how my sales are doing, what sponsor I am promoting... stuff like that. And I think that is more "true" friendship because they can't see you so it's on a more "real" level.

I think males and females can be much better friends when they CAN'T SEE EACH OTHER. That way you can gauge if you really have things in common. If they see you all they wanna do is "hit it" already.

Also I don't think men and women can be friends in the real world , guys just want to fuck everything, they only want to make friends when they can get pussy or get something out of it.

Most of the times it's just the guys way of getting close to the girl so they can get a chance of hitting it. All my girlfriends that have so called "friends", are friends with guys that want to fuck them. But some are so stupid they don't even know it.

One of my friends is soooo stupid, she says she is "just friends" with this guy, but always tells her loves her big ass and wants to hit it, and even tells her she makes him horny and rubbed his dick against her ass :1orglaugh And tries to hug her... and cop a feel... But then she tells me that they are "just friends". And she'll ask me if she is leading him on if she hugs him in bed and sleeps over "just as friends". :1orglaugh

She is also 28 years old but still doesn't know any better!! But she still thinks that they are "friends".... idiot...

She is not only leading him on but truly deluding herself that they have some kind of friendship...

haha...He is secure my friend.. very secure. He knows he is referred to as "Dick" on here.. he is a dick sometimes and he is my only dick. We have been together for 10 years and will probably be for another 10 unless I die on one of my climbing trips.
so I have to ask you, if you didnt give a fuck about your wife..would you still stay with her?

Fact is my hubby does not like to climb and hike..I do. To do so alone cause your man is insecure is just plain stupid and very dangerous..but you keep sitting behind that computer assuming that all men think like you..simpleton.

Some people live life..some people just sit behind the computer and wish like fuck they had one...I live it.

My man has girlfriends, and you bet your ass they want to fuck him.. he is a sweet peice of meat and can fuck like no man I have ever met...doesnt mean he is going to stick his dick in it.

So much insecurity on this board its amazing....some of you kiddies will grow up some day and live a bit.

Need to show this thread to the Dick..so he can get his laugh for the day.

for you thunderballs..http://bettylove.com/graphx/summitgfy1.jpg

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

bahahahaha :1orglaugh

Trust nobody. It has nothing to do with the boohoo my girlfriend cheated on me. What I'm more concerned about is boohoo my girlfriend I trusted 100% gave me aids. I don't trust any guys that will ask a girl to go somewhere without her b/f or husband. Not only is it disrespectful, they are also dirty and will do shit like trying to get her drunk or worse. I love my life, nobody is going to give me some shit to end it sooner than it's supposed to.

I say yes, but not too much !

yep its a tough one..

Mmmmm tough one. I let my GF do anything she wanted do do with her life, and let her hang out alone with a group of friends of her own, and it worked out fine for like 5 years. Then she was having a "special" male friend where she would hang out along -> bam, I'm single and she's fucking the guy allready. (been only 2 weeks) -> So, no problem on those male guys, but if she starts hanging out alone with one of those, watch out ;)

If you're really concerned just get her one of these http://www.stockroom.com/j126.htm

Yeah, and ??

Life is full of men who are going to try to fuck your girlfriend. If she does so (and you're not okay with it) that's a good indication you don't need to be with her.

If you have to keep her away from guys to keep her from fucking them your relationship has some issues...

i guess what it really comes down to is how do you tell if your girlfriend is trustable? most ppl seem to say if she does, then leave her. well obviously but what about those who want to avoid those kinds of situations all together? i don't want to waste my time with some girl and trust her only to find out i've been fooled.

Princess Cameron used to have guy friends but I put an end to all that nonsense soon after we started dating. If they aren't gay, they have at least thought about fucking her right?

Good move yes.

I'm going to say no, and here is why. I think of all the girls I hang out with as "friends". I have either thought about fucking them, wanted to fuck them, or have fucked them at some time in my life. I'm not as worried about the girl as I am about the guy. Take a fight you may get into, she goes to him, he acts with the "oh y ou can do better", next thing you know, she is banging him.

I dont care if my girl has guy friends. I trust her. Unlike 99.9% of all the women I've dated.

The truth is we know when a man wants us. We just tell you we don't because it saves problems. there is nothing wrong with him wanting us there is a problem if he acts onit. You just have to belive that your girl will do the right thing. I have a lot of guy friends, and I know some of them would sleep with me if they got the chance. But If they ever crossed the line and acted on it our friendship would be over. My man completly trusts me and knows I would never cheat.

Bella-Seaira

but then you become a liar and untrustable. i don't think guys would have as much a problem with it if the girls were just honest to begin with. we're not all as stupid as you migiht think. we know they want to fuck you and we know you are lying when you say they dont.

hamaybe You are Hippy?
your question is a fucking bulshit.
olso Your papa said dont fucking before marriage, but some people like you, they says; fucking all of them normal bla bla bla.
if you are want; i will fuck your muther.
i'm very angry because of you.
fucking gay boy, you are idiot.

if you tell her no, she will want to hang out with them even more OR think that you are controlling... if you let her, then you always wonder what she does with them eventho you "know" she won't, but there's always that thought...

there's no win-win situation, just gatta go with a flow I guess, and see how she acts over time... my old ex-gf had few guy friends but they had no chance with her (complete loosers), so I wasn't worried at all...

My Chick is Hot And I dont let her have guy friends maybe coworkers thats it but no outside contact from work