I totally agreed with ya :thumbsup :winkwink:

just say "Say hello to my little Friend" :P

let me say this before baddog does: "chick" :1orglaugh

i've been a shy dude too... or maybe still am

Why? He is obviously young. Too young to even begin worrying about "something more."

It is all about the pussy at this point in a young man's life.

Thank you.

that is a somewhat flawed mentality.

if you find yourself a keeper, you KEEP HER. (i just made that up, i'm good).

you don't go from girl to girl like a whore simply for the sake of doing so, simply for the sake of your age. of course the encounters where you really feel you've met someone worth while and worth not letting go are rare, but when it happens you don't use your age as an excuse to brush them off.

believe it or not, there have been many people who met at a young age and died together old and happy. and of course there are many people who end up getting divorced - but the point is is that your age shouldn't have ANY baring on anything in your life - regardless of whether or not you or people you know regretted not being a fuck-everything-in-sight type of person earlier on.

yeah, it's true that he could still "keep her" even with an initial intention of having sex with her - but i personally feel that you should always try to at least get to know the person first for awhile before you act so typical and fuck like animals on a first date. i guess that doesn't work for most people though since so many are on such a one track mind. i don't like the whole one night stand deal, it really shows you the girls character and how really slutty she is, makes ya think how many others before you? i have too much pride to let some slut fuck me on a first date. "pussy is pussy", you can find it anywhere if ya look, makes the whole situation more intriguing seeking out a girl who you can relate with first and get to know.

Before I respond, I must know . . . are you a chick or a guy?

As far as your assertion that many people meet young and die together old and happy, that shows the flaw in your logic.

That was then, this is now. Back then we did not have a 50% divorce rate either.

Ahhh. To be young and horny again.

Suck it up. Be yourself. Don't wear too much of your heart on your sleeve. Talk sloooow. Look her in the eye when you talk. Listen! Give her time to ask you questions. Don't worry about about getting her number. Just have fun.

And in passing when you part... say you liked talking to her and if she would like to do it again.

By the fourth date you'll be going balls deep anal as she yells out your name!

typical response from a dirty scruffy old porn webmaster.

you can't use the excuse that "this is a new era, a new society, times have changed" to act out differently, or to avoid commitment. as a whole, humans have not changed, we still have the same genetics as we did thousands of years ago. the only difference from 80 years ago and today, is that society makes it easier and acceptable for people to run around like whores.

but i can assure you, most women who "participate" in one night stands have a fucking low self esteem - and what they really want is just one guy who will make them happy. i'd rather not contribute to it... i know i know, how foreign, a GFYer who actually has a sense of morale. (and please, GFY chicks don't respond to this paragraph particularly, you are the few exceptions to this rule)

i don't expect you to understand anything i say, or to agree with it. probably 99% of the people here won't agree with me, but those are my opinions and they've held me over quite well.

50....,...

haha word :thumbsup

and nope i aint looking for a dead serious relationship, just a chick on the side is cool for now... a friend of mine got such a serious relationship with this chick and i dont understand it, hes i think 23 and talks about kids and shit. But hey to each his own.

Dear dumbass:

Are you saving your virginity for your wedding night? If not, fuck you and the horse you rode in on. You don't know shit. How many people do you know personally that met young, and died together old and happy that are in your age group?

Oh, that is right, can't happen, so you don't know shit.

Times are different, people were saving themselves back in your grandparent's day. They don't (for the most part) these days. People live out of wedlock, divorce is at 50%, totally unheard of back in the day.

I know what you mean man. Be a man and phone her right now !

Dude you have this connection to the girl but its not a real connection between you are her. Its mental masturbation. You are acting like you are in love with her yet you dont know her, you dont know what she is like. Thats why you cant talk to her cause you have this made up connection to her and she doesnt have it with you and its fucking with your mind. Be aware of it because the next time you talk to her and you come off like that you are going to creep her out. Just chill out and be cool.

go ahead man talk to the girl and just be yourself. goodluck.

a la Hitch