Who understands female minds? Post ya advice. Thx - GoFuckYourself.com

sickbeatz · 06-28-2005, 02:12 AM

This girl I work with. She's pretty good looking. Anyways, last week we've been planning on hooking up Friday night and she was really stoked. However when friday came around I got super drunk and something else came up which I thought would be a better way to waste away my day off. I'm not saying that it wasn't, but I forgot to call her and tell her wtf I was doing (I was too drunk). Anyways, today I get back to work and she's still excited to see me whenever I show my face -- but not as much so as the week before. She's still excited to see me and all that when I'm around but she seems kinda dissapointed. What can I do to fix this? She's hot.

sickbeatz · 06-28-2005, 02:14 AM

Oh, I told her I was sleeping. -- Well, I did end up sleeping at the end of the night, so I wasn't really lying -- LOL

bhutocracy · 06-28-2005, 02:17 AM

rohypnol + baseball bat
tell her she had a great time but your cock is just too big.

sickbeatz · 06-28-2005, 02:17 AM

I think I'm gonna goto a Ja Rule / Fat Joe / Sisqo / K-OS / Kardinal Official / Bubba Sparxx concert with her on Friday.. And I dont wanna miss that on the real!

Mako · 06-28-2005, 02:30 AM

To quote Lenny:

"Does this rag smell like chloroform to you too??"

FrankWhite · 06-28-2005, 02:32 AM

if you like her and want to chill with her, take her out for a diner or whatever.

sickbeatz · 06-28-2005, 02:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doomed

if you like her and want to chill with her, take her out for a diner or whatever.

Fuck,

You're the man. I've been too consumed by alcohol to even consider this.

I should take her some where fancy, huh?

steak or lobster? what do you think?

theFeTiShLaDy · 06-28-2005, 02:38 AM

dinner and some bar hopping would be nice to get her attention back.

SmutGiant · 06-28-2005, 02:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sickbeatz

Fuck,

You're the man. I've been too consumed by alcohol to even consider this.

I should take her some where fancy, huh?

steak or lobster? what do you think?

That might be coming on a little too strong... don't set the bar too high right away... well unless you just want a gold digging cock-holster lol.

alias · 06-28-2005, 02:38 AM

You suck at lying, apologize for your pathetic attempt and see if she is still d0wn. Then at least cancel the next time no phantom shit.

tical · 06-28-2005, 02:39 AM

get a burger

and remind her "you can get cheese on that, its your world girl"

sickbeatz · 06-28-2005, 02:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by alias

You suck at lying, apologize for your pathetic attempt and see if she is still d0wn. Then at least cancel the next time no phantom shit.

Well, she knows I did go out Thursday night. Because she always offer to drive me home -- and on Thursday I got her to drop me off at a buddies before going to the liqour store.. She couldn't come cuz she works Friday morning.

pornkitten · 06-28-2005, 02:43 AM

tell her that you are really upset that you couldnt see her so she knows that you care and then have a better excuse then that

sickbeatz · 06-28-2005, 02:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SmutGiant

That might be coming on a little too strong... don't set the bar too high right away... well unless you just want a gold digging cock-holster lol.

I think you're right. I'll just have a good time w/ her at the rap concert this weekend -- show her a good time.. Maybe take her out for drinks after work every couple nights before getting at something like that

sickbeatz · 06-28-2005, 02:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pornkitten

tell her that you are really upset that you couldnt see her so she knows that you care and then have a better excuse then that

i probably already said that

xenigo · 06-28-2005, 02:54 AM

How old are you, 16? You'll learn the ways of women's minds when you hit about 26 or so. I've just learned. No amount of study will explain what you're looking to know.

Women are strange creatures that defy logic. The younger ones especially so.

sickbeatz · 06-28-2005, 03:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xenigo

How old are you, 16? You'll learn the ways of women's minds when you hit about 26 or so. I've just learned. No amount of study will explain what you're looking to know.

Women are strange creatures that defy logic. The younger ones especially so.

i'm - 21, 22 in august. i've been in a few serious relationships. they never worked out. either cuz i ended up living with the girl or i was always too focused on something else.

i'm not ready to be a pussy-whipped yuppie just yet. i like my freedom.

baddog · 06-28-2005, 03:31 AM

Do not, I repeat, do not enter a relationship of any sort with a co-worker. You are doing nothing but asking for trouble.

What are you going to do when the magic wears off? When you guys have your big fight, and now you are forced to see her 5 days a week, 8 hours a day?

What do you do when she decides to be a bitch and accuse you of sexual harassment? Do not think, "this will never happen to me." You are just fooling yourself.

I can think of a dozen cliches, including, don't shit where you eat, that might apply here, but suffice it to say, I am speaking from experience.

Like I have been telling my kids for 20+ years, learn from your mistakes, and whenever possible, learn from the mistakes of others. I also tell them, don't trust whitey, but that is a different story for a different day. The point is, you do not want to date a girl you work with. It is not worth the trouble.

So, you can either listen to me, and thank me later, or ignore my words of wisdom and come back at a later date and say, "you were right, I should have listened to you."

Also, please ignore xenigo's comments. If he thinks he has figured out the mind of a woman just because he turned 26, he is only fooling himself.

Also ignore the comments of any woman telling you to try and recover from the smartest thing you did yet (ie: not going on the date), they do not have your best interest in mind, and misery loves company.

baddog · 06-28-2005, 03:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pornkitten

tell her that you are really upset that you couldnt see her so she knows that you care and then have a better excuse then that

Only a chick would say that

baddog · 06-28-2005, 03:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by theFeTiShLaDy

dinner and some bar hopping would be nice to get her attention back.

Obvious chick response . . . I can spot them without even looking at the names associated with them,

baddog · 06-28-2005, 03:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sickbeatz

I should take her some where fancy, huh?

steak or lobster? what do you think?

Have you seen her naked? Then why would you spend that kind of money on her? Denny's and IHOP are there for a reason.

baddog · 06-28-2005, 03:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SmutGiant

That might be coming on a little too strong... don't set the bar too high right away... well unless you just want a gold digging cock-holster lol.

Setting it way too high.

baddog · 06-28-2005, 03:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sickbeatz

i'm - 21, 22 in august. i've been in a few serious relationships. they never worked out. either cuz i ended up living with the girl or i was always too focused on something else.

i'm not ready to be a pussy-whipped yuppie just yet. i like my freedom.

Too late, you already are.

Why live with a chick unless you are getting married? and don't think about marriage until you are 25+ Marriage wil only hold you down.

bhutocracy · 06-28-2005, 03:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog

Too late, you already are.

Why live with a chick unless you are getting married? and don't think about marriage until you are 25+ Marriage wil only hold you down.

Thats a load of shit. But so is this thread... no one's this clueless.. coming to gfy with this shit is like going to Sleazy's house for a lettuce sandwich.

baddog · 06-28-2005, 04:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bhutocracy

Thats a load of shit. But so is this thread... no one's this clueless.. coming to gfy with this shit is like going to Sleazy's house for a lettuce sandwich.

What exactly is "a load of shit?" That there is no reason to live with a chick if you are not going to marry her? Or that you should wait until you are 25 to get married?

Harmon · 06-28-2005, 04:22 AM

This guy sickbeatz is a fucking tool. He is 16-17 TOPS... the fucking sheep around here amaze me...

chase · 06-28-2005, 08:47 AM

Why not just move on. Obviously you aren't that interested if getting crunked was more important and something better came up, so why fuck with someone you have to work with when you are probably just gonna kick yourself for it later.

bhutocracy · 06-28-2005, 08:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog

What exactly is "a load of shit?" That there is no reason to live with a chick if you are not going to marry her? Or that you should wait until you are 25 to get married?

Both. Although the second does have somewhat more merit.

baddog · 06-28-2005, 10:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bhutocracy

Both. Although the second does have somewhat more merit.

Why would you live with someone you are not going to marry? What would be the point? That makes zero sense.

How are you going to be single, if you have some chick at home that you are in a relationship with?

Having a roommate is one thing, but it doesn't appear that is the situation.

06-28-2005, 02:12 AM	#1
sickbeatz The Hustler Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 4,993	Who understands female minds? Post ya advice. Thx This girl I work with. She's pretty good looking. Anyways, last week we've been planning on hooking up Friday night and she was really stoked. However when friday came around I got super drunk and something else came up which I thought would be a better way to waste away my day off. I'm not saying that it wasn't, but I forgot to call her and tell her wtf I was doing (I was too drunk). Anyways, today I get back to work and she's still excited to see me whenever I show my face -- but not as much so as the week before. She's still excited to see me and all that when I'm around but she seems kinda dissapointed. What can I do to fix this? She's hot. __________________ GalleryFeeder.com

06-28-2005, 02:14 AM	#2
sickbeatz The Hustler Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 4,993	Oh, I told her I was sleeping. -- Well, I did end up sleeping at the end of the night, so I wasn't really lying -- LOL __________________ GalleryFeeder.com

06-28-2005, 02:17 AM	#4
sickbeatz The Hustler Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 4,993	I think I'm gonna goto a Ja Rule / Fat Joe / Sisqo / K-OS / Kardinal Official / Bubba Sparxx concert with her on Friday.. And I dont wanna miss that on the real! __________________ GalleryFeeder.com

06-28-2005, 02:30 AM	#5
Mako Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: The OC baby! Posts: 1,986	To quote Lenny: "Does this rag smell like chloroform to you too??" __________________

06-28-2005, 02:38 AM	#8
theFeTiShLaDy Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 2,615	dinner and some bar hopping would be nice to get her attention back. __________________ I'm a freelance babe!

06-28-2005, 02:17 AM	#3
bhutocracy Not making A Comeback Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 10,218	rohypnol + baseball bat tell her she had a great time but your cock is just too big.

06-28-2005, 02:32 AM	#6
FrankWhite Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: nyc Posts: 3,540	if you like her and want to chill with her, take her out for a diner or whatever.

06-28-2005, 02:38 AM	#10
alias aliasx Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 19,010	You suck at lying, apologize for your pathetic attempt and see if she is still d0wn. Then at least cancel the next time no phantom shit. __________________ https://porncorporation.com

06-28-2005, 02:39 AM	#11
tical Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 6,504	get a burger and remind her "you can get cheese on that, its your world girl" __________________ 112.020.756

06-28-2005, 02:43 AM	#13
pornkitten Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,412	tell her that you are really upset that you couldnt see her so she knows that you care and then have a better excuse then that __________________ too lazy to find advertising for this sig space

06-28-2005, 02:54 AM	#16
xenigo Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Oakland, CA Posts: 8,067	How old are you, 16? You'll learn the ways of women's minds when you hit about 26 or so. I've just learned. No amount of study will explain what you're looking to know. Women are strange creatures that defy logic. The younger ones especially so.

06-28-2005, 03:31 AM	#18
baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,089	Do not, I repeat, do not enter a relationship of any sort with a co-worker. You are doing nothing but asking for trouble. What are you going to do when the magic wears off? When you guys have your big fight, and now you are forced to see her 5 days a week, 8 hours a day? What do you do when she decides to be a bitch and accuse you of sexual harassment? Do not think, "this will never happen to me." You are just fooling yourself. I can think of a dozen cliches, including, don't shit where you eat, that might apply here, but suffice it to say, I am speaking from experience. Like I have been telling my kids for 20+ years, learn from your mistakes, and whenever possible, learn from the mistakes of others. I also tell them, don't trust whitey, but that is a different story for a different day. The point is, you do not want to date a girl you work with. It is not worth the trouble. So, you can either listen to me, and thank me later, or ignore my words of wisdom and come back at a later date and say, "you were right, I should have listened to you." Also, please ignore xenigo's comments. If he thinks he has figured out the mind of a woman just because he turned 26, he is only fooling himself. Also ignore the comments of any woman telling you to try and recover from the smartest thing you did yet (ie: not going on the date), they do not have your best interest in mind, and misery loves company.

06-28-2005, 04:22 AM	#26
Harmon ( ͡ʘ╭͜ʖ╮͡ʘ) Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 20,010	This guy sickbeatz is a fucking tool. He is 16-17 TOPS... the fucking sheep around here amaze me... __________________ [email protected]

06-28-2005, 08:47 AM	#27
chase Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Tampa Bay Posts: 6,019	Why not just move on. Obviously you aren't that interested if getting crunked was more important and something better came up, so why fuck with someone you have to work with when you are probably just gonna kick yourself for it later. __________________ Need Hosting? Reality Check Network services me purrrfectly!