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Originally Posted by loverboy
i'ved been with this girl for 6 years and i can say id be happy living
the rest of my life with her. she completes me :(
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Geeze do i really type that bad? :1orglaugh
Well yeah, when you are sure youre both ready, go for it.
If you are not ready to make many sacrifices then I suggest you wait. One example would be, if you or your spouse is insistent in being able to go out with friends more often than staying at home with you, it will not work. You have to be 100 percent committed to each other or it will not last.
Yesterday I said not to rush into marriage because of financial reasons. Today after thinking about it, I can say you do not need money if you BOTH are truely in love. My wife and I.....well me mostly, were almost completely broke when we got married. Things got a lot worse within 5 years and we were looking at 8 credit cards maxed to the limit with no way to pay them. To this day it has always been a struggle to stay ahead. Sure we cant buy a new car or new house, but so what, as long as we have each other, theres nothing we cant handle.
Now some tips from the experts!
Solid Advice on Marriage from Kids
"Marriage is when you get to keep your girl and don't have to give her back to her parents." -Eric, Age 6
"When somebody's been dating for a while, the boy might propose to the girl. He says to her, "I'll take you for a whole life, or at least until we have kids and get divorced, but you got to do one particular thing for me." Then she says, "Yes," but she's wondering what the thing is and whether it's naughty or not. She can't wait to find out. -Anita, Age 9
How Does a Person Decide Whom to Marry??
"You flip a nickel, and heads means you stay with him and tails means you try the next one." -Kelly, Age 9
"My mother says to look for a man who is kind....That's what I'll do....I'll find somebody who's kinda tall and handsome." -Carolyn, Age 8
How to Make Love Endure:
"Tell your wife that she looks pretty even if she looks like a truck." -Ricky, age 10
You can find more of these helpful kid tips here.
Helpful tips from kids