I'm seeing a new girl for the first time in 3 years...

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  • Paraskass
    Confirmed User
    • May 2002
    • 5829

    #1

    I'm seeing a new girl for the first time in 3 years...

    it feels good.
    but it feels strange.

    how should I go about getting over the strangeness from not being with the same person anymore?

  • Paraskass
    Confirmed User
    • May 2002
    • 5829

    #2
    she is the exact opposite of my ex.
    it's a weird feeling. she actually cares.

    my ex paid for dinner once in 3 years... this girl has invited me on the first meal we had.
    she unlocks the door for me in the car after I let her in. Ex never did that....

    little things man, so fucking strange.

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    • xXxtreme2005
      Confirmed User
      • Feb 2005
      • 717

      #3
      im in the same boat let me know when you figure it out!


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      • FuqALot
        Confirmed User
        • Dec 2001
        • 3817

        #4
        im with you

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        • Paraskass
          Confirmed User
          • May 2002
          • 5829

          #5
          Originally posted by xXxtreme2005
          im in the same boat let me know when you figure it out!

          you started dating again?
          first time moving on?

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          • GatorB
            The Demon & 12clicks
            • Oct 2001
            • 18208

            #6
            Originally posted by Paraskass
            how should I go about getting over the strangeness from not being with the same person anymore?

            Try fucking. Of course WTF would I know. Maybe I'll can give more insight when I actually meet someone.

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            • Spunky
              I need a beer
              • Jun 2002
              • 133986

              #7
              It's always like that in the begining...wait a month or 2

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              • Machete_
                WINNING!
                • Oct 2002
                • 14579

                #8
                Originally posted by Paraskass
                she is the exact opposite of my ex.
                it's a weird feeling. she actually cares.

                my ex paid for dinner once in 3 years... this girl has invited me on the first meal we had.
                she unlocks the door for me in the car after I let her in. Ex never did that....

                little things man, so fucking strange.
                sound sice ...

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                • Paraskass
                  Confirmed User
                  • May 2002
                  • 5829

                  #9
                  Originally posted by ebus_dk
                  sound sice ...
                  it is.
                  I'm just not used to it.
                  Pretty fucked up having somebody that cares for you when you haven't experienced that before.

                  I was always the sweetest guy with my exs, and never really got it back in return.

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                  • LittleSassy
                    Confirmed User
                    • May 2005
                    • 7402

                    #10
                    dont you think its a good news?

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                    • Paraskass
                      Confirmed User
                      • May 2002
                      • 5829

                      #11
                      Originally posted by LittleSassy
                      dont you think its a good news?
                      it is.

                      But I've been burned, and I feel there is a wall around me opening up...

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                      • taibo
                        Confirmed User
                        • May 2005
                        • 3720

                        #12
                        that sounds great man.. nothing to worry about

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                        • FilthyRob
                          Confirmed User
                          • Feb 2004
                          • 6741

                          #13
                          Congrats, and it won't feel strange for long
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                          • adonthenet
                            Too lazy to set a custom title
                            • Feb 2005
                            • 16753

                            #14
                            same case here..
                            strange in the strat..
                            but new start.. is a good start

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                            • p1mpdogg
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                              • Nov 2002
                              • 16714

                              #15
                              it wont last.. after 2 months things become monotonous
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                              • chase
                                Confirmed User
                                • Jul 2004
                                • 6019

                                #16
                                Just show her you appreciate those small things, and chances are it won't stop.

                                I know what you mean...after 5 years married, I'm in the dating minefield again and it's hard to know what to expect after so long. But just enjoy the newness and put in as much as you get and your chances are better that once the newness wears off you'll have something more substantial beneath it all.
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                                • DavieVegas
                                  Confirmed User
                                  • Jun 2004
                                  • 6117

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by Paraskass
                                  it feels good.
                                  but it feels strange.

                                  how should I go about getting over the strangeness from not being with the same person anymore?

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                                  • mrthumbs
                                    salad tossing sig guy
                                    • Apr 2002
                                    • 11702

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by Paraskass
                                    it is.
                                    I'm just not used to it.
                                    Pretty fucked up having somebody that cares for you when you haven't experienced that before.

                                    I was always the sweetest guy with my exs, and never really got it back in return.

                                    I hear ya bro.. getting that treatment in return is one of the most intimidating things you can experience.. its just not what youre used to.

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                                    • mrthumbs
                                      salad tossing sig guy
                                      • Apr 2002
                                      • 11702

                                      #19
                                      But you know what.. just let it happen. Go with the flow.

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                                      • Trixxxia
                                        Confirmed User
                                        • Aug 2004
                                        • 5600

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by Paraskass
                                        she is the exact opposite of my ex.
                                        it's a weird feeling. she actually cares.

                                        my ex paid for dinner once in 3 years... this girl has invited me on the first meal we had.
                                        she unlocks the door for me in the car after I let her in. Ex never did that....

                                        little things man, so fucking strange.
                                        Paraskass - enjoy it, appreciate it, say thank you and respect it. You tend to take the little things for granted after awhile, so if you'd rather this than be taken advantage of or not considered, then make sure you're equally as nice to her.

                                        Glad to hear you're dating again!

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