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If a friend of yours was very depressed...

05-30-2005, 08:29 PM

and you knew that you were the person that could really cheer her up, she has really gone out her way to let you know that you really made her feel good

would you go over and cheer her up, even though she said she is depressed and doesn't want to see anyone?
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05-30-2005, 08:30 PM

Yes, I would go anyway.

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05-30-2005, 08:30 PM

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05-30-2005, 08:32 PM

I would take her something to eat to cheer her up. Nothing like a good dingaling dinner to bring her back from the blues.
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05-30-2005, 08:33 PM

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05-30-2005, 08:33 PM

She said she dont want to see you? Then i wont go, ofcorse not. I mean, she said no, so...

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05-30-2005, 08:35 PM

I would go in a heart beat. I can't stand it when girls are upset...it's one of my weaknesses. Bring her a watermelon slurpy from 7/11, they always make girls feel better!
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05-30-2005, 08:36 PM

will u be getting some pussy out of the deal?

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05-30-2005, 08:38 PM

Originally posted by JaceXXX

and you knew that you were the person that could really cheer her up, she has really gone out her way to let you know that you really made her feel good

would you go over and cheer her up, even though she said she is depressed and doesn't want to see anyone?

yeah id go there and bring some E just incase

DOSE HER UP!!!!!!!
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05-30-2005, 08:40 PM

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will u be getting some pussy out of the deal?

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it would be my wife and I going over there, so no
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05-30-2005, 08:40 PM

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05-30-2005, 08:40 PM

Originally posted by sixxxthsense

yeah id go there and bring some E just incase

DOSE HER UP!!!!!!!

well, that is the thing...she already has plenty of that around
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05-30-2005, 08:41 PM

Jut hit it from behind. That will make her fell all right! fo shizzle!

j/k but if some one say not to go, i really wont go - she must have some reason to say it. Maybe she wasnts some alone time or some shit.

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05-30-2005, 08:45 PM

Originally posted by xlogger

Jut hit it from behind. That will make her fell all right! fo shizzle!

j/k but if some one say not to go, i really wont go - she must have some reason to say it. Maybe she wasnts some alone time or some shit.

last time she did this, my wife went over there and cheered her up....she even said later that she was glad my wife went over, cause it made her feel good about life
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05-30-2005, 08:51 PM

Yes I would. I've had it done to me, I've done it to my friends and I wouldn't think twice if I'd have to do it again.

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05-30-2005, 08:54 PM

Ok, she is going to be depressed again and again and again. You or your wife is not going to be there every single time. I say leave her alone and let her get over this herself. Dont treat her like a patent. She is an adult, let her deal with her own problem. You helped her out once, i think that is enough.

Trust me, i know this kind from highschool. They need to get over it themself. The more you help her the more she feels like she has a disease.

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05-30-2005, 08:57 PM

Originally posted by JaceXXX

last time she did this, my wife went over there and cheered her up....she even said later that she was glad my wife went over, cause it made her feel good about life

dude, i learned a long time ago not 2 try to "save" people. let her do her thing & work her own problems out. if she decides to kill herself (that's obviously what u r worried about) then so be it... stop wasting your time & emotions on people like that.

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05-30-2005, 08:59 PM

show her your penis, will give her a good laugh
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05-30-2005, 09:01 PM

I mean if she wants to kill herself wtf can you do? Let he kill her self then. You cannot watch her 24/7. The best you can do is get her some help from a professional. Depration is not rare at all, 1 out of 5 people will get it or have it in this country. And most get over it in 3 years or less. And dont load her up on fucking drugs eather and make her a zombie, thats temporary and wont help her in the long run.

But you can always ask me to hit it from behind HARD and she will be all happy again in NO TIME!

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05-30-2005, 09:15 PM

hell ya! thats what friends are for. and being a friend, you should know how she is gonna react when you show up...will she happy? pissed? pissed off at first then happy?
at least go over there & try. what have you got to lose, ya know?!

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05-30-2005, 09:16 PM

Hey, if its anything. I can suck her tites for ya'

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05-30-2005, 09:24 PM

you know what though

this girl has been there for us through thick and thin....no matter what

so, we are going over there
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05-30-2005, 09:30 PM

Originally posted by JaceXXX

you know what though

this girl has been there for us through thick and thin....no matter what

so, we are going over there

you will learn the hard way

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05-30-2005, 09:39 PM

misery loves company....go fuck her.

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05-30-2005, 10:56 PM

she needs some comfort sex!! b a good friend
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05-30-2005, 11:01 PM

take her out and DO something - people contact makes people feel better in depression.

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05-30-2005, 11:38 PM

cheer her up

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05-31-2005, 12:11 AM

Originally posted by JaceXXX

well, that is the thing...she already has plenty of that around

Maybe the depression is the first clue that E isn't the best thing for her? I've known some people that get really depressed after doing it... i've never had that problem, but it affects everyone differently.
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05-31-2005, 12:14 AM

Originally posted by SleazyDream

take her out and DO something - people contact makes people feel better in depression.

I totally agree. It will distract her for at least a little while from what she is depressed about. It won't take away the depression but it will show her that she has great friends and that is worth a lot.

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05-31-2005, 12:45 AM

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05-31-2005, 01:13 AM

I'll still have my try...
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05-31-2005, 01:16 AM

It depends.

If this person isn't typically depressed and is just going through a rough patch or only periodically needs to have friends help draw her 'out of her shell', then there's no harm done and you're being a good friend.

But if she's milking it, or growing dependant on you for her 'salvation', stay away. You're just being an enabler in a cycle of self-destructive behaviour which'll end up the worse for everyone involved.

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05-31-2005, 01:20 AM

Originally posted by SleazyDream

take her out and DO something - people contact makes people feel better in depression.

When I'm feeling depressed the last thing I want is a bunch of people (especially those who aren't close friends) up in my face.

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05-31-2005, 01:45 AM

Originally posted by rickholio

If this person isn't typically depressed and is just going through a rough patch or only periodically needs to have friends help draw her 'out of her shell', then there's no harm done and you're being a good friend.

But if she's milking it, or growing dependant on you for her 'salvation', stay away. You're just being an enabler in a cycle of self-destructive behaviour which'll end up the worse for everyone involved.

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05-31-2005, 01:57 AM

reach out..and then reach out again.

When I had my major depression a couple years ago it took my husband multiple times of 'reaching out' for me to grab hold.
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05-31-2005, 01:59 AM

Originally posted by mardigras

When I'm feeling depressed the last thing I want is a bunch of people (especially those who aren't close friends) up in my face.

well, that is true too..there is a fine line between making it known you are there if she needs you and not letting her have space to deal with issues in her head.

Whatever you do. If she is really depressed don't ever tell her to 'snap out of it', etc.
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05-31-2005, 02:05 AM

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reach out..and then reach out again.

When I had my major depression a couple years ago it took my husband multiple times of 'reaching out' for me to grab hold.

dude... that's your HUSBAND. totally different than a "friend". you can't counsel a TRULY depressed person w/out some professional training... then u get emotionally involved they end up doing the SAME thing they would've done if you DIDN'T get involved then BOOM u feel responsible. fuck that.. stay out of it

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05-31-2005, 02:23 AM

Originally posted by opflix

dude... that's your HUSBAND. totally different than a "friend". you can't counsel a TRULY depressed person w/out some professional training... then u get emotionally involved they end up doing the SAME thing they would've done if you DIDN'T get involved then BOOM u feel responsible. fuck that.. stay out of it

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Counsel and just making it known you are there if they need you are different things.
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05-31-2005, 02:42 AM

Originally posted by JaceXXX

you know what though

this girl has been there for us through thick and thin....no matter what

so, we are going over there

yep, do it

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05-31-2005, 02:45 AM

If someone told me they didnt want to see anyone, if that person was the kind of person who always knew exactly what they wanted in life then I would have to respect that and I would leave em alone. Truth is that depression is often something that only the victim can get themselves out of.

but if it was a friend who is kinda flakey, and unsure then i might pop over and see if i cant try and suggest solutions to the problem....

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05-31-2005, 03:16 AM

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Counsel and just making it known you are there if they need you are different things.

this can be done over the phone & if she wants u, she will make her way over to you. outside of that, its her decision & her life. these are adults here, not children... no normal adult needs babysitting.

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05-31-2005, 03:19 AM

Originally posted by practiceTITOISM

Bring her a watermelon slurpy from 7/11, they always make girls feel better!

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05-31-2005, 03:21 AM

I don't care much for weak minded people.

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05-31-2005, 03:22 AM

Originally posted by chadglni

I don't care much for weak minded people.

So someone who is depressed is weak minded?

What do you mean?
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05-31-2005, 03:23 AM

Originally posted by chadglni

I don't care much for weak minded people.

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05-31-2005, 03:25 AM

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So someone who is depressed is weak minded?

What do you mean?

Not everyone that is depressed is weak minded, only most of them. I don't think there is a person on earth that doesn't go through some form of depression at one point or another. Some of them drag themselves up and take care of business regardless, while others curl up on the couch and cry to Dr. Phil all day.

If I went to her house the first thing I would do is toss the E in the toilet. Since that would probably just "depress" them more I'd be better off at home.

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05-31-2005, 03:34 AM

just to update everyone...we went over, and she was really glad we did

my wife took over some clothes and they had a little fashion moment, and everything is cool...and she thanked us for butting in, it really cheered her up
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05-31-2005, 03:36 AM

Originally posted by JaceXXX

just to update everyone...we went over, and she was really glad we did

my wife took over some clothes and they had a little fashion moment, and everything is cool...and she thanked us for butting in, it really cheered her up

Now throw out her drugs which are compounding (or created) the problem and you'll only have to do that so many times.

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05-31-2005, 03:37 AM

Originally posted by JaceXXX

just to update everyone...we went over, and she was really glad we did

my wife took over some clothes and they had a little fashion moment, and everything is cool...and she thanked us for butting in, it really cheered her up

You're a good friend that says a lot for you and your wife glad it worked out.

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