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Lensman · 05-26-2005, 11:27 PM

We treat all of the Adult.com players as a team. Amp included. Just ask any of the other current or former members of the team, they are not bound by any contracts that limit what they can say. There were even some that were let go for dishonestly (which I never mention) that don't talk shit. But this Amp defies logic. Yes, he has serious emotional ups and downs, it's no secret around here. But I always paid him twice a month, and paid him better than he ever made on his own, with no complaints and was real patient while he did or didn't do his work. And make no mistake, he sent me an email out of the blue one day saying he was burned out and was quitting. I still have a copy of it. He also said he was going to take another job to try to get his head on straight.

So what the fuck did I do to him to get him disclosing real or imagined personal info about me, my homes, pets, cars, relatives, etc. I don't give a rat's ass what anyone here as done or said to you, keep my personal life the fuck out of it.

Not only have you ruined any credibility you have left, but you hurt the reputation of your current employer. Platinum Renaldo doesn't have a job anymore for far less.

AaronM · 05-26-2005, 11:30 PM

Well now....I've been shooting for the last 8 hours straight.

I get back and my ICQ is going off like crazy. Seem that I missed a bunch of the action.

pr0 · 05-26-2005, 11:30 PM

Yea i was blown away, i've always been civil with Amp, made sure he had freelance work at the companies i was employed. Plugged his work & everything else.

Then he just decides to call me an ignorant drug addict out of the blue.

He's cut off.

StuBradley · 05-26-2005, 11:31 PM

this sounds interesting.....

Anthony · 05-26-2005, 11:32 PM

Wow.

How does Aaron get such good placement in these type of threads?

aflex · 05-26-2005, 11:32 PM

yooo drama alert on high tonight

AaronM · 05-26-2005, 11:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lensman

So what the fuck did I do to him to get him disclosing real or imagined personal info about me, my homes, pets, cars, relatives, etc. I don't give a rat's ass what anyone here as done or said to you, keep my personal life the fuck out of it.

Although I am not going to defend AMP's actions on this...Perhaps this question itself is better off not even being asked publicly.

I really don't think that you want the answers posted here.

Steen2 · 05-26-2005, 11:32 PM

Yikes! Not wise... at all.

Holly · 05-26-2005, 11:33 PM

Just one of those nights...

AaronM · 05-26-2005, 11:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anthony

Wow.

How does Aaron get such good placement in these type of threads?

Lucky timing on this one.

Lensman · 05-26-2005, 11:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AaronM

Although I am not going to defend AMP's actions on this...Perhaps this question itself is better off not even being asked publicly.

I really don't think that you want the answers posted here.

You know something I don't???

Yes = SAY IT, I want to hear.

No = Don't make posts like this. My banning tool is all warmed up.

rdunn404 · 05-26-2005, 11:33 PM

Can't we all just get along?

sixxxthsense · 05-26-2005, 11:33 PM

thats sadddddddddddd for amp sadddddddd

Rorschach · 05-26-2005, 11:34 PM

I wouldn't stand for that shit, call the hitman.

galleryseek · 05-26-2005, 11:34 PM

i've never once made a "see sig" post here before, but I think i might this time around.

Holly · 05-26-2005, 11:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lensman

You know something I don't???

Yes = SAY IT, I want to hear.

No = Don't make posts like this. My banning tool is all warmed up.

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showthread.php?t=473016

Steen2 · 05-26-2005, 11:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by galleryseek

i've never once made a "see sig" post here before, but I think i might this time around.

Also not wise.

uno · 05-26-2005, 11:36 PM

WOW.

Just wow.

CDSmith · 05-26-2005, 11:37 PM

Near as I can figure out Amp's stragegy, Pimpdogg and he got into it... pimpdogg said something borderline death threat, and Amp figured he would try and force you (Lens) to enforce your own rules and ban Trey for it.

That's about all I could pick up out of the maelstrom that occured following that. :D

Tala · 05-26-2005, 11:37 PM

Damn. I seem to have missed a great deal while taking my bath and playing Pokemon.

Something tells me that I don't want to know what's going on.

Kevin2 · 05-26-2005, 11:37 PM

Posting personal stuff about your family is completely out of line.
By doing this he has ensured that Lens will never be there for him when he needs it. Not only that but I'm sure many others will turn their back on him as well.

DatingGold · 05-26-2005, 11:37 PM

If you haven't fired him yet you have to. Otherwise it will affect every employee in your companies mindset.

TheJimmy · 05-26-2005, 11:37 PM

all I can say is WOW...

that's straight up w-r-o-n-g

:/

SmokeyTheBear · 05-26-2005, 11:38 PM

It sucks when it happens to you huh . but it does happen on gfy quite often.

Tala · 05-26-2005, 11:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DatingGold

If you haven't fired him yet you have to. Otherwise it will affect every employee in your companies mindset.

I don't think Amp has been over at Adult.com for quite some time now.

Eric · 05-26-2005, 11:39 PM

I am in total shock. I am on vacation for the holiday weekend and can't even log in to a computer where I am at right now. I just got back to my room and had several voicemails about this shit. it took me awhile to get caught up browsing all these threads on my phone.

all I can say is wow. I can not believe that someone especially someone who was treated so well by lens for so long would resort to this type of action.

we all know you are going to know you were in the wrong when you take the time to think about what you said amp. you may want to use some of that thought process in the future before you make posts that anyone who would take a second to step back and think about them would know they were unwise in their actions before they made them.

monkeysnap · 05-26-2005, 11:40 PM

Crazy shit.... I love this place.

Tala · 05-26-2005, 11:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith

Near as I can figure out Amp's stragegy, Pimpdogg and he got into it... pimpdogg said something borderline death threat, and Amp figured he would try and force you (Lens) to enforce your own rules and ban Trey for it.

That's about all I could pick up out of the maelstrom that occured following that. :D

Surely you jest. He started picking shit with Lens because he wanted Trey to be banned?

Jesus, and here I thought an email with a link to the offending thread/post would suffice.

RAM · 05-26-2005, 11:40 PM

You will find the truth here:
http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showthread.php?t=471428

The above link will take you to a post that will set your mind free

OK I had to do it sorry....heheheheheheheh

Lens you have always impressed me with the way you run GFY. Really I remember being in the office and you explaning the whole to band or not band stuff and I was shocked. The amount of supervision that has to go on to run this thing is HUGE

Steve · 05-26-2005, 11:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DatingGold

If you haven't fired him yet you have to. Otherwise it will affect every employee in your companies mindset.

he doesn't work for Lens anymore

AaronM · 05-26-2005, 11:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lensman

You know something I don't???

Yes = SAY IT, I want to hear.

No = Don't make posts like this. My banning tool is all warmed up.

Of course I know something. And I'm not about to post it here.

You and I both know about AMP's issues and how he can see different things at different times.

I've been on the shit end of his stick before myself. Trust me, I know how it is.

If you want my input, we can discuss it offline because there is no way in hell that I am putting anything about this personal beef on GFY.

No disrespect meant.

uno · 05-26-2005, 11:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DatingGold

If you haven't fired him yet you have to. Otherwise it will affect every employee in your companies mindset.

Tell that to Jason & Alex.

Damian_Maxcash · 05-26-2005, 11:42 PM

Im too drunk to comment... so I wont

AaronM · 05-26-2005, 11:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith

Near as I can figure out Amp's stragegy, Pimpdogg and he got into it... pimpdogg said something borderline death threat, and Amp figured he would try and force you (Lens) to enforce your own rules and ban Trey for it.

Well...That's definately part of it.

xclusive · 05-26-2005, 11:43 PM

Very sad if you have a problem with somebody be a man about it and more than likely if you talk to them you can work something out. But to make threats like that is totally out of line and cowardly. Sorry to see you have to go through that Lens especially with a former employee and friend.

Tala · 05-26-2005, 11:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by damian2001

Im too drunk to comment... so I wont

Capital idea.

CDSmith · 05-26-2005, 11:44 PM

Let me put it another way....

Pimptrey baits Amp in a piss match,

Posts "Somebody kill Amp"

Amp goes ballistic, wants Lens (or Eric) to enforce the 'no death threat' rule and ban him

Amp starts posting info about Lens in order to "force" a banning for pimpdogg

Amp get's himself nuked

And trey is off somewhere laughing his ass off while the rest of GFY goes insane with the proverbial drama frenzy.

That's about it in a nutshell.

XPays · 05-26-2005, 11:44 PM

be glad he did not vest any shares

Funky Bastard · 05-26-2005, 11:44 PM

Amp is a fucking moron it would be a dream to work for adult.com or any other top notch company like that then post your boss's personal info on a message board like anybody gives a fuck about your personal info. He's just looking for attention so people will think he's cool or something. All I can say next time you hire somebody know who your dealing with their are alot of snake's in this business. Amp your a fucking moron!

jonesy · 05-26-2005, 11:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith

Amp's stragegy, Pimpdogg and he got into it... pimpdogg said something borderline death threat, and Amp figured he would try and force you (Lens) to enforce your own rules and ban Trey

replace the word strategy with stupidity and you have the answer to amps reasoning.

v4 media · 05-26-2005, 11:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith

Let me put it another way....

Pimptrey baits Amp in a piss match,

Posts "Somebody kill Amp"

Amp goes ballistic, wants Lens (or Eric) to enforce the 'no death threat' rule and ban him

Amp starts posting info about Lens in order to "force" a banning for pimpdogg

Amp get's himself nuked

And trey is off somewhere laughing his ass off while the rest of GFY goes insane with the proverbial drama frenzy.

That's about it in a nutshell.

Nice summary, you ever thought about a career as a news reader?

CDSmith · 05-26-2005, 11:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AaronM

Well...That's definately part of it.

Yep, then there's the 'behind the scenes' crap.

I don't even want to try touching that ball of wax.

baddog · 05-26-2005, 11:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anthony

Wow.

How does Aaron get such good placement in these type of threads?

That was impressive, wasn't it?

CDSmith · 05-26-2005, 11:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by v4 media

Nice summary, you ever thought about a career as a news reader?

You hiring?

AaronM · 05-26-2005, 11:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith

Yep, then there's the 'behind the scenes' crap.

I don't even want to try touching that ball of wax.

EXACTLY!

Lens....You know how to reach me if you want to discuss anything.

I've got nothing else to publicly say on this topic.

Tala · 05-26-2005, 11:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by v4 media

Nice summary, you ever thought about a career as a news reader?

News reader?

Brujah · 05-26-2005, 11:48 PM

Lensman, I think if I understand correctly he felt that the Mods were treating him differently, less favorably by allowing pimpdogg to get away with making death threats and more, while others have been getting banned for the same reason. He did take it too far no doubt.

PornGeneral · 05-26-2005, 11:48 PM

Popcorn! Get your fresh hot popcorn...

Pleasurepays · 05-26-2005, 11:49 PM

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Diagnostic Criteria

A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:

1. has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)
2. is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
3. believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)
4. requires excessive admiration
5. has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations
6. is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends
7. lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others
8. is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her
9. shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes

D-Money · 05-26-2005, 11:50 PM

Will this thread reach 9 pages by noon? Bets are on.

But seriously, I hate hearing and seeing relationships go bad.

I've had my share lately, I know the feeling.

05-26-2005, 11:27 PM	#1
Lensman GFY Chaperone Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Adult.com Posts: 9,846	I've never had an ex-employee attack me personally before. We treat all of the Adult.com players as a team. Amp included. Just ask any of the other current or former members of the team, they are not bound by any contracts that limit what they can say. There were even some that were let go for dishonestly (which I never mention) that don't talk shit. But this Amp defies logic. Yes, he has serious emotional ups and downs, it's no secret around here. But I always paid him twice a month, and paid him better than he ever made on his own, with no complaints and was real patient while he did or didn't do his work. And make no mistake, he sent me an email out of the blue one day saying he was burned out and was quitting. I still have a copy of it. He also said he was going to take another job to try to get his head on straight. So what the fuck did I do to him to get him disclosing real or imagined personal info about me, my homes, pets, cars, relatives, etc. I don't give a rat's ass what anyone here as done or said to you, keep my personal life the fuck out of it. Not only have you ruined any credibility you have left, but you hurt the reputation of your current employer. Platinum Renaldo doesn't have a job anymore for far less.

05-26-2005, 11:30 PM	#3
pr0 rockin tha trailerpark Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Location: ~Coastal~ Posts: 23,088	Yea i was blown away, i've always been civil with Amp, made sure he had freelance work at the companies i was employed. Plugged his work & everything else. Then he just decides to call me an ignorant drug addict out of the blue. He's cut off. __________________ __________ Loadedca$h - get sum! - Revengebucks - mmm rebills! - webair (gotz sErVrz)

05-26-2005, 11:31 PM	#4
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05-26-2005, 11:32 PM	#6
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05-26-2005, 11:32 PM	#8
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05-26-2005, 11:30 PM	#2
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05-26-2005, 11:32 PM	#5
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05-26-2005, 11:33 PM	#9
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05-26-2005, 11:33 PM	#12
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05-26-2005, 11:33 PM	#13
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05-26-2005, 11:34 PM	#14
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05-26-2005, 11:34 PM	#15
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05-26-2005, 11:36 PM	#18
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05-26-2005, 11:37 PM	#19
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05-26-2005, 11:37 PM	#22
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05-26-2005, 11:37 PM	#23
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05-26-2005, 11:38 PM	#24
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05-26-2005, 11:39 PM	#26
Eric Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2000 Location: The Helm! Posts: 8,818	I am in total shock. I am on vacation for the holiday weekend and can't even log in to a computer where I am at right now. I just got back to my room and had several voicemails about this shit. it took me awhile to get caught up browsing all these threads on my phone. all I can say is wow. I can not believe that someone especially someone who was treated so well by lens for so long would resort to this type of action. we all know you are going to know you were in the wrong when you take the time to think about what you said amp. you may want to use some of that thought process in the future before you make posts that anyone who would take a second to step back and think about them would know they were unwise in their actions before they made them. __________________ No One

05-26-2005, 11:40 PM	#27
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05-26-2005, 11:40 PM	#29
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05-26-2005, 11:42 PM	#33
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05-26-2005, 11:43 PM	#35
xclusive Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Buffalo, NY Posts: 35,218	Very sad if you have a problem with somebody be a man about it and more than likely if you talk to them you can work something out. But to make threats like that is totally out of line and cowardly. Sorry to see you have to go through that Lens especially with a former employee and friend. __________________ I support MediumPimpin.com / Shemp's Outlawtgp.com /

05-26-2005, 11:44 PM	#37
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05-26-2005, 11:44 PM	#38
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05-26-2005, 11:44 PM	#39
Funky Bastard So Fucking Banned Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: San Antonio, Texas Posts: 2,544	Amp is a fucking moron it would be a dream to work for adult.com or any other top notch company like that then post your boss's personal info on a message board like anybody gives a fuck about your personal info. He's just looking for attention so people will think he's cool or something. All I can say next time you hire somebody know who your dealing with their are alot of snake's in this business. Amp your a fucking moron!

05-26-2005, 11:48 PM	#47
Brujah Beer Money Baron Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: brujah / gmail Posts: 22,157	Lensman, I think if I understand correctly he felt that the Mods were treating him differently, less favorably by allowing pimpdogg to get away with making death threats and more, while others have been getting banned for the same reason. He did take it too far no doubt. __________________ Free Premium Domain Lists and Tools at Clickmojo.com For Sale: Obscenity.com

05-26-2005, 11:48 PM	#48
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05-26-2005, 11:49 PM	#49
Pleasurepays BANNED - SUPPORTING TUBES Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: I live in a pile of boogers Posts: 11,913	Narcissistic Personality Disorder Diagnostic Criteria A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following: 1. has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements) 2. is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love 3. believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions) 4. requires excessive admiration 5. has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations 6. is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends 7. lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others 8. is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her 9. shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes

05-26-2005, 11:50 PM	#50
D-Money Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Player Del Ray Posts: 9,716	Will this thread reach 9 pages by noon? Bets are on. But seriously, I hate hearing and seeing relationships go bad. I've had my share lately, I know the feeling. __________________ Still Ballin'