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  • seeric
    ..........
    • Aug 2004
    • 41917
    #1

    do you really give a fuck if

    everyone you are friends with likes each other?

    its an obvious fact that lots of people hate each other in this business. well, let me present this to you. if you have the personality where you openly tolerate all forms of idiocy for the greater good of the mission. should you really care, or take sides when people spew their differences in a public forum. and, when they do, do you think it is fair that people expect you to choose a side?
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    • AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE
      best designer on GFY
      • Mar 2003
      • 30307
      #2
      Maybe you should discern what friends are vs. Business associates

      Confusing the two will fuck you everytime.
      Failure to connect the dots and not summarizing in your own head to make a judgement is simply naive.

      You might want to call someone a friend or keep the peace but in your mind the enigma shines bright about what others have done.

      Be ignorant to the facts and you make your own self vulnerable.
      Last edited by AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE; 07-16-2005, 03:09 PM.

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        • Ramos2
          Custom User Title
          • Dec 2004
          • 11927
          #3
          Who's side did they ask you to choose?
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            • seeric
              ..........
              • Aug 2004
              • 41917
              #4
              Originally posted by AlienQ
              Maybe you should discern what friends are vs. Business associates

              Confusing the two will fuck you everytime.
              Failure to connect the dots and not summarizing in your own head to make a judgement is simply naive.

              You might want to call someone a friend or keep the peace but in your mind the enigma shines bright about what others have done.

              Be ignorant to the facts and you make your own self vulnerable.
              p.s. this has nothing to do with aaron m and alien. just a random thought thrown in with my earlier thread on A.D.D. and O.C.D. which i possess both of.

              i am in a less than vulnerable state right now. things are great. and, speaking of aaron m and alien, why the fuck did neither one of you show to the BUMP n' GRIND party in san diego.

              i was sad.

              anyhow, i guarantee you no one in adult will miss the bump n grind in vegas. just fucking wait. more loot than 1000 sailors could spend at a whorehouse in the phillipines is going into this next show.

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                • AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE
                  best designer on GFY
                  • Mar 2003
                  • 30307
                  #5
                  Originally posted by A1R3K
                  p.s. this has nothing to do with aaron m and alien. just a random thought thrown in with my earlier thread on A.D.D. and O.C.D. which i possess both of.

                  i am in a less than vulnerable state right now. things are great. and, speaking of aaron m and alien, why the fuck did neither one of you show to the BUMP n' GRIND party in san diego.

                  i was sad.

                  anyhow, i guarantee you no one in adult will miss the bump n grind in vegas. just fucking wait. more loot than 1000 sailors could spend at a whorehouse in the phillipines is going into this next show.
                  I just wish you the best Airek.
                  I helped ya when ya needed it. I call you a friend. I did it because I know you got a good heart and I also know you have done nothing that is worthy of being judged in a negative way.

                  But since you struck such a curious thread thought i would give you my fair answer.

                  I do not trust people, NO man, no woman entirelly with uncompromised love, and the ones I call friends I do the friend thing first with them, then move to business.

                  I call you a friend Aerik I stepped forward and offered it and this makes good things happen between you and me down the road. Ya not ever let me down.
                  Last edited by AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE; 07-16-2005, 03:21 PM.

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                    • Jace
                      FBOP Class Of 2013
                      • Jan 2004
                      • 35562
                      #6
                      no, i could care less...if two people have a problem with each other, that is their troubles, not mine

                      and if I am hangin with someone, don't make me play the take sides game, or I will just leave both people all together

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                        • AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE
                          best designer on GFY
                          • Mar 2003
                          • 30307
                          #7
                          I am very judgemental and will take sides when I got facts.

                          It saves me alot of trouble down the ways of mis aligning with people or surrounding myself with the wrong elements.

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                            • Sly
                              Let's do some business!
                              • Sep 2004
                              • 31379
                              #8
                              Originally posted by JaceXXX
                              no, i could care less...if two people have a problem with each other, that is their troubles, not mine

                              and if I am hangin with someone, don't make me play the take sides game, or I will just leave both people all together
                              Agreed. I try my best to stay out of other peoples beefs.
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                                • AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE
                                  best designer on GFY
                                  • Mar 2003
                                  • 30307
                                  #9
                                  People talk, and people talk shit in this biz, thats a gurantee.

                                  Get the facts and make your own judgement.

                                  If ya do not ya being ignorant in my opinion and potentially hurting your reputation, and ultimatly making yourself vulnerable.
                                  I am not popular, but I what I am is honest and I surround myself with honest folks. Its paid off big time in not only monetary gain but peace of mind with those I do sit with and deal with.
                                  Last edited by AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE; 07-16-2005, 03:26 PM.

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                                    • datatank
                                      Confirmed User
                                      • Aug 2004
                                      • 5471
                                      #10
                                      Originally posted by A1R3K
                                      more loot than 1000 sailors could spend at a whorehouse in the phillipines is going into this next show.
                                      Arent whores cheap in the phillipines?


                                      more loot than 1000 sailors could spend at a whorehouse in the Nevada might have worked better ;)

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                                        • D-Money
                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                          • Feb 2002
                                          • 9716
                                          #11
                                          I take both sides.






                                          jk


                                          I am my own person, so I do what I feel is right. I'll stay out of their beef, but after I hear both sides I'll make up my mind on whether I want to be as close of a friend or business associate, depending on how bad someones fuck up is.

                                          But I don't believe 100% of what I hear unless it comes from a very close, reliable friend/source. So keep and open mind, don't ever rush to judgement in these scenerios and stay out of their problems if it doesn't concern you.

                                          Then, make both them yo bitches and get their traffic. Take all their joins.
                                          Still Ballin'

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                                            • seeric
                                              ..........
                                              • Aug 2004
                                              • 41917
                                              #12
                                              i just opened a damn can o worms without tryin. i support people who support me. i don't give a shit if they like each other. never have, never will. my heart revolves around art and entertainment and thats where it stays. entertainment and cultural advancement. both alien and aaron have supported me in the past, present and future and i value them both. jace as well. we share a common bond of expression which no one can tread on. i will continue to better teh musical expression and majority by focusing on positive impact and musical presentation to the masses. this thread was originally started about unrelated circumstances behind the scenes that i, of course, have been dragged into inadvertantly, thorugh mutual friends that decided to do business together and couldn't get along.

                                              i will tell everyone this. no one will stand in my way when it comes to bring the level of entertainment that i have lined up for the next 2 years +. A List artists cost mad money, (mad sponorship money, and or, mad program money). i would never let individual harrassments affect a show that thousands of people will see. ultimately, there is a common goal that we are all seeking, and that bond to achieve it is music and socialism. we aim to create those environments, unequivocably, and without consideration to anything going on between parties that may be in attendance at the same time. it is my goal to bring people back together that may not see eye to eye on things through the power of entertainment.

                                              i didn't mean for this to become a part of another thread that was going on at the same time. i do however, mean for it to let people know where i stand, and make it an impression in their mind.

                                              i love everyone. i don't have one enemy in this biz, and i don't intend to ever have any.

                                              you are all great and powerful to me.

                                              bless.

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                                                • seeric
                                                  ..........
                                                  • Aug 2004
                                                  • 41917
                                                  #13
                                                  Originally posted by Ramos
                                                  Who's side did they ask you to choose?
                                                  i am geneva baby!!!!!!

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                                                    • AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
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                                                      • Jul 2004
                                                      • 38323
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                                                        • seeric
                                                          ..........
                                                          • Aug 2004
                                                          • 41917
                                                          #15
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                                                            • seeric
                                                              ..........
                                                              • Aug 2004
                                                              • 41917
                                                              #16
                                                              want to see the juicy/dj airek sex tape?

                                                              we are bidding on at the low 100k level.

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                                                                • 2HousePlague
                                                                  CURATOR
                                                                  • Jul 2004
                                                                  • 14572
                                                                  #17
                                                                  It's a tough line to walk, brother, but I'd say you're walking it. I try to be the same way. It really just comes down to a few simple guidelines.

                                                                  Here's an example: Let's say you and I just met at a show, we like each other, we're kickin' it, all is good. A friend of mine walks into the room, but doesn't see me and you in the corner talking. You look at him, not knowing him to be my friend, and say "That guys an asshole. I hate him."

                                                                  I would say (and this is the tricky part):

                                                                  "Why is that? Joe is a friend of mine. Why don't you tell me what happened?"

                                                                  Consider what you've done:

                                                                  1. You have made your new friend aware that the person he has just insulted is your friend, but you have not over-reacted.

                                                                  2. By telling your new friend that the person he dslikes is a friend of yours BEFORE you ask him what happened, you show that you are honest, and that you don't lead people into scenarios where they are giving up information without having all the facts.

                                                                  3. By asking him "what happened" without jumping to your friend's defense, you show that you are capable of being both loyal and objective.

                                                                  Think how easy, then, after you heard what happened to know what to do, and to keep your integrity intact. At the end of the conversation with my new friend I am going to walk up to my old friend either by myself, if I feel the information I received is credible or best dealt with privately, in which case I would tell him where I heard it, OR, if my new friend has made a mistake or his feelings about my old friend are not based on anything very important, I could walk over to my old friend, with my new friend and help make amends. It's so easy isn't it?

                                                                  The trouble is people are sometimes very basic and very afraid. They think you can't have multiple friends and be true and honest to all, they are jealous and insecure. This is why it's more lilely that people try to build new allegiances based on common hate -- more on that subject >>> X.


                                                                  2HP
                                                                  tada!

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                                                                    • Spunky
                                                                      I need a beer
                                                                      • Jun 2002
                                                                      • 133978
                                                                      #18
                                                                      Not really..I just see it as a overload of testosterone ,machismo..never take it too seriously

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                                                                        • MrIzzz
                                                                          If u touch it, I will cum
                                                                          • Sep 2003
                                                                          • 22923
                                                                          #19
                                                                          Originally posted by spunky
                                                                          Not really..I just see it as a overload of testosterone ,machismo..never take it too seriously

                                                                          spunky likes the overload of testosterone on his chin


                                                                          WHO WANTS TO PLAY GRAB-ASS?

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                                                                            • seeric
                                                                              ..........
                                                                              • Aug 2004
                                                                              • 41917
                                                                              #20
                                                                              ooooooooh on the chin?

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                                                                                • Spunky
                                                                                  I need a beer
                                                                                  • Jun 2002
                                                                                  • 133978
                                                                                  #21
                                                                                  Originally posted by MrIzzz
                                                                                  spunky likes the overload of testosterone on his chin
                                                                                  Stop with your homosexual fantasies

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                                                                                    • seeric
                                                                                      ..........
                                                                                      • Aug 2004
                                                                                      • 41917
                                                                                      #22
                                                                                      my penis is itching..............

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                                                                                        • seeric
                                                                                          ..........
                                                                                          • Aug 2004
                                                                                          • 41917
                                                                                          #23
                                                                                          Originally posted by 2HousePlague
                                                                                          It's a tough line to walk, brother, but I'd say you're walking it. I try to be the same way. It really just comes down to a few simple guidelines.

                                                                                          Here's an example: Let's say you and I just met at a show, we like each other, we're kickin' it, all is good. A friend of mine walks into the room, but doesn't see me and you in the corner talking. You look at him, not knowing him to be my friend, and say "That guys an asshole. I hate him."

                                                                                          I would say (and this is the tricky part):

                                                                                          "Why is that? Joe is a friend of mine. Why don't you tell me what happened?"

                                                                                          Consider what you've done:

                                                                                          1. You have made your new friend aware that the person he has just insulted is your friend, but you have not over-reacted.

                                                                                          2. By telling your new friend that the person he dslikes is a friend of yours BEFORE you ask him what happened, you show that you are honest, and that you don't lead people into scenarios where they are giving up information without having all the facts.

                                                                                          3. By asking him "what happened" without jumping to your friend's defense, you show that you are capable of being both loyal and objective.

                                                                                          Think how easy, then, after you heard what happened to know what to do, and to keep your integrity intact. At the end of the conversation with my new friend I am going to walk up to my old friend either by myself, if I feel the information I received is credible or best dealt with privately, in which case I would tell him where I heard it, OR, if my new friend has made a mistake or his feelings about my old friend are not based on anything very important, I could walk over to my old friend, with my new friend and help make amends. It's so easy isn't it?

                                                                                          The trouble is people are sometimes very basic and very afraid. They think you can't have multiple friends and be true and honest to all, they are jealous and insecure. This is why it's more lilely that people try to build new allegiances based on common hate -- more on that subject >>> X.


                                                                                          2HP
                                                                                          yep, sucks when you love everybody.

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                                                                                            • seeric
                                                                                              ..........
                                                                                              • Aug 2004
                                                                                              • 41917
                                                                                              #24
                                                                                              Originally posted by D-Money
                                                                                              I take both sides.






                                                                                              jk


                                                                                              I am my own person, so I do what I feel is right. I'll stay out of their beef, but after I hear both sides I'll make up my mind on whether I want to be as close of a friend or business associate, depending on how bad someones fuck up is.

                                                                                              But I don't believe 100% of what I hear unless it comes from a very close, reliable friend/source. So keep and open mind, don't ever rush to judgement in these scenerios and stay out of their problems if it doesn't concern you.

                                                                                              Then, make both them yo bitches and get their traffic. Take all their joins.

                                                                                              we almost have to be like that. we are the diplomats and are the ones who try to bring people back together. i love my job, and i know you do too.

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                                                                                                • assmunk
                                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                                  • Jun 2005
                                                                                                  • 1101
                                                                                                  #25
                                                                                                  Originally posted by JaceXXX
                                                                                                  no, i could care less...if two people have a problem with each other, that is their troubles, not mine

                                                                                                  and if I am hangin with someone, don't make me play the take sides game, or I will just leave both people all together
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                                                                                                    • AaronM
                                                                                                      GFY Royality ;)
                                                                                                      • Oct 2001
                                                                                                      • 46917
                                                                                                      #26
                                                                                                      Originally posted by AlienQ
                                                                                                      I am very judgemental and will take sides when I got facts.

                                                                                                      Or self fabricated fiction.

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                                                                                                        • AaronM
                                                                                                          GFY Royality ;)
                                                                                                          • Oct 2001
                                                                                                          • 46917
                                                                                                          #27
                                                                                                          Originally posted by A1R3K
                                                                                                          i am geneva baby!!!!!!

                                                                                                          So you are secretly hiding Nazi gold?

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                                                                                                            • seeric
                                                                                                              ..........
                                                                                                              • Aug 2004
                                                                                                              • 41917
                                                                                                              #28
                                                                                                              Originally posted by AaronM
                                                                                                              So you are secretly hiding Nazi gold?
                                                                                                              damnit. that was real gold? fuck me. i sold that shit for nickles on the dollar.

                                                                                                              jesus. i wish people would tell me earlier about precious metals. grrr grrr grrrr.

                                                                                                              lol

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                                                                                                                • AaronM
                                                                                                                  GFY Royality ;)
                                                                                                                  • Oct 2001
                                                                                                                  • 46917
                                                                                                                  #29
                                                                                                                  Originally posted by A1R3K
                                                                                                                  damnit. that was real gold? fuck me. i sold that shit for nickles on the dollar.

                                                                                                                  jesus. i wish people would tell me earlier about precious metals. grrr grrr grrrr.

                                                                                                                  lol

                                                                                                                  I'm sending this response to every Jew I know.

                                                                                                                  You're a dead man.

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                                                                                                                    • seeric
                                                                                                                      ..........
                                                                                                                      • Aug 2004
                                                                                                                      • 41917
                                                                                                                      #30
                                                                                                                      Originally posted by AaronM
                                                                                                                      I'm sending this response to every Jew I know.

                                                                                                                      You're a dead man.
                                                                                                                      i'm such a bad american indian jew

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                                                                                                                        • AaronM
                                                                                                                          GFY Royality ;)
                                                                                                                          • Oct 2001
                                                                                                                          • 46917
                                                                                                                          #31
                                                                                                                          Originally posted by A1R3K
                                                                                                                          i'm such a bad american indian jew

                                                                                                                          You should write "schmuck" on the side of your nose.

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                                                                                                                            • seeric
                                                                                                                              ..........
                                                                                                                              • Aug 2004
                                                                                                                              • 41917
                                                                                                                              #32
                                                                                                                              Originally posted by AaronM
                                                                                                                              You should write "schmuck" on the side of your nose.

                                                                                                                              i was thinking of getting that tattoo, but i decided to get the technics turntable at the last minute. hurt like hell. i cried like a bitch.


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                                                                                                                                • 2HousePlague
                                                                                                                                  CURATOR
                                                                                                                                  • Jul 2004
                                                                                                                                  • 14572
                                                                                                                                  #33
                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by A1R3K
                                                                                                                                  i'm such a bad american indian jew
                                                                                                                                  Is THAT your deal, bro -- nice -- 2HP sez "nice".../\/\/\/\/\/\^----~~~~--+-->


                                                                                                                                  2HP
                                                                                                                                  tada!

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                                                                                                                                    • seeric
                                                                                                                                      ..........
                                                                                                                                      • Aug 2004
                                                                                                                                      • 41917
                                                                                                                                      #34
                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by 2HousePlague
                                                                                                                                      Is THAT your deal, bro -- nice -- 2HP sez "nice".../\/\/\/\/\/\^----~~~~--+-->


                                                                                                                                      2HP

                                                                                                                                      yes.


                                                                                                                                      i am american indian, hence the name of my music production studio

                                                                                                                                      TOMAHAWK SOUND CREATORS. INC.




                                                                                                                                      i am such a bad american indian jew.


                                                                                                                                      i am still a jew, and i can prove that.

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                                                                                                                                        • Wiggles
                                                                                                                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                                                                                          • May 2004
                                                                                                                                          • 14423
                                                                                                                                          #35
                                                                                                                                          well it makes shit easier, but you can get around it too.
                                                                                                                                          no sig

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                                                                                                                                            • 2HousePlague
                                                                                                                                              CURATOR
                                                                                                                                              • Jul 2004
                                                                                                                                              • 14572
                                                                                                                                              #36
                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by A1R3K
                                                                                                                                              yes.


                                                                                                                                              i am american indian, hence the name of my music production studio

                                                                                                                                              TOMAHAWK SOUND CREATORS. INC.




                                                                                                                                              i am such a bad american indian jew.


                                                                                                                                              i am still a jew, and i can prove that.
                                                                                                                                              )Oh>--I feel ya)<^_`_`_`_`_`/\\|/\|/\|>--o~~E>--c


                                                                                                                                              2HP
                                                                                                                                              tada!

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                                                                                                                                                • jayeff
                                                                                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                                                                                  • May 2001
                                                                                                                                                  • 2944
                                                                                                                                                  #37
                                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by A1R3K
                                                                                                                                                  should you really care, or take sides when people spew their differences in a public forum. and, when they do, do you think it is fair that people expect you to choose a side?
                                                                                                                                                  It is convenient and relatively easy to kid ourselves that if we don't actively take sides, we are not taking sides at all, but that is rarely the case. The only circumstances in which it can really be true is if two people are having an argument in which neither is gaining the upper hand. In most situations, someone is in a dominant position and not taking sides in effect means you are siding with that person.

                                                                                                                                                  I assume that by "people", in this context you mean friends or at least acquaintances who are potentially friends. Of course it isn't "fair", but it's inevitable that such situations will arise and what value do you have as a person, let alone a friend, if you aren't willing to get involved? Come to that, what is a friendship worth if it can only survive providing you don't express your opinions?

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