Do you guys get married because...

**xclusive** · 03-31-2005, 11:05 AM

I was ready and My wife was the person I knew I wanted to spend forever with

**sickkittens** · 03-31-2005, 11:05 AM

I can't see myself being married.

**shermo** · 03-31-2005, 11:07 AM

She's my best friend (other than my childhood best friend), she makes me laugh, I'm attracted to her and we'd do anything for each other. When you have that combo, you know it's the right one.

**dropped9** · 03-31-2005, 11:09 AM

You just kinda know it really. Before I got married I was with my wife for 11 years.. We are 1 unit.

**shuki** · 03-31-2005, 11:09 AM

For me I am looking for a best friend that I can stay attracted to.

**mal** · 03-31-2005, 11:20 AM

i'm never getting married

**axelcat** · 03-31-2005, 11:23 AM

Its all about starting a family

**the boy** · 03-31-2005, 11:48 AM

Originally posted by shermsshack

She's my best friend (other than my childhood best friend), she makes me laugh, I'm attracted to her and we'd do anything for each other. When you have that combo, you know it's the right one.

wow.. sounds like you do.. have the right one

**BradShaw** · 03-31-2005, 11:50 AM

Take your time, no rush. A real good woman is hard to find.

Many, well most women get very lazy once they get a ring. Look around, how many happy married friends do you have?

**BradShaw** · 03-31-2005, 11:50 AM

Out of all the people I know married, I would say only 2-3 of them are really happy. The others are just buying time.

**psili** · 03-31-2005, 11:57 AM

Figured I'm sick of the dating scene and can't even imagin trying to put up with another girl's bullshit to realize that she sucks and I'll have to start all over again the next day.

Found a girl whose insanity I can put up with and she can put up with mine, so I said "fuck it" and popped the question. And that the happiness of being with her far outweighs any issues we may have, helps as well.

**Semi-Retired-Dave** · 03-31-2005, 12:05 PM

Originally posted by BradShaw

Take your time, no rush. A real good woman is hard to find.

Many, well most women get very lazy once they get a ring. Look around, how many happy married friends do you have?

That's why I am still single. I don't think I have any friends that are still married. Strange.

**RRRED** · 03-31-2005, 12:06 PM

There would be way more divorce if it were cheaper.

**Semi-Retired-Dave** · 03-31-2005, 12:17 PM

Originally posted by RRRED

There would be way more divorce if it were cheaper.

Good one.

That is also why they say...

Do you know why divorces are so expensive.
Because they are worth it.

**Martin** · 03-31-2005, 12:30 PM

The girl I want to marry is dating my best friend.lol She's sexy as hell, funny, fun to be around, we get along, she's a cool chick.. Wish I could find oner like her that isn't living with my best buddy...

**Semi-Retired-Dave** · 03-31-2005, 01:11 PM

Originally posted by Martin

The girl I want to marry is dating my best friend.lol She's sexy as hell, funny, fun to be around, we get along, she's a cool chick.. Wish I could find oner like her that isn't living with my best buddy...

Let me grab some popcorn. This could get interesting.

1. Does she know you like her?
2. Did you date her in the Past?
3 Does your best friend know you feel this way towards her?

-=D

**Herb Kornfield** · 03-31-2005, 01:16 PM

I met my wife and instantly knew this was the woman I wanted to grow old with and provide for.

6 years in and I still love every second of her being in my life. I love her more than anything else and would do anything to take care of her.

**imafuckingaussie** · 03-31-2005, 01:16 PM

Well, I guess it depends on lots of things Dave. I knew my wife for 7 years or something, so it was well past the time, lucky she stayed along that long without getting married. If you live with the person and love them etc for a long period of time (or short), you just do it because it feels right and also the family do have an impact, part of the reason is for the immediate family etc. prenup for you though dude, lol

**Screaming** · 03-31-2005, 01:18 PM

nothing heh dont know that marriage is for me but i am in a steady realtionship that i have been in for 6 years now

**Martin** · 03-31-2005, 02:04 PM

Originally posted by CyberAge-Dave

Let me grab some popcorn. This could get interesting.

1. Does she know you like her?
2. Did you date her in the Past?
3 Does your best friend know you feel this way towards her?

-=D

Yes she knows how I feel about her. We have talked about it.
Never dated her. She's been with the same guy since high school.
No my boy doesn't know. How can you tell you best friend something like that.

**loverboy** · 03-31-2005, 02:23 PM

im not getting young any longer, time to have a real life.. that's marriage for me

**Stacey_JoinRightNow** · 03-31-2005, 04:03 PM

he's my BF for 3 months...then i just felt one day that i need to settle down with HIM & have a baby, then we planned it out & eventually i got pregnant. then we get married & live together....so far so good, im enjoying my baby so much...

**Chio The Pirate** · 03-31-2005, 04:06 PM

YARGH! True love for me. Just took a while to realize it be true.

**Eservices2k3** · 03-31-2005, 04:11 PM

Originally posted by Martin

The girl I want to marry is dating my best friend.lol She's sexy as hell, funny, fun to be around, we get along, she's a cool chick.. Wish I could find oner like her that isn't living with my best buddy...

Here's a piece of advice that I hope you will not forget:

No matter how "sexy", "funny", and "fun to be around" a woman may seem, someone, somewhere, is sick of her shit.

**kowntafit** · 03-31-2005, 04:16 PM

yes i believe there is still such a thing as true love

**Jace** · 03-31-2005, 04:22 PM

my wife and I are inseperable...best friends...

that is how you know, you can look at your partner, know you love them and would do anything for them....and consider them your best friend

**Robx** · 03-31-2005, 04:26 PM

My wife simply didn't give me a choice

**sheldonjuan** · 03-31-2005, 04:32 PM

Originally posted by CyberAge-Dave

or because you think she would make a good wife and good mother for your kids.

Is there such thing as true love anymore?

What makes you hit the trigger and say, fuck it. I am ready?

for me its when you can honestly say to yourself, "I'll never cheat on her!".
if you can say that its time to take the big step!

**crockett** · 03-31-2005, 04:35 PM

I think it's when you get tired of doing your own dishes and laundry..

**swedguy** · 03-31-2005, 04:59 PM

Originally posted by CyberAge-Dave

Is there such thing as true love anymore?

Most definitely and I let her slip away. Biggest mistake of my life

**Spunky** · 03-31-2005, 07:41 PM

I just remember what my dad used to say that made me against it....Half

**UniversalPass Pete** · 03-31-2005, 10:47 PM

Beacause we are idiots!

**Semi-Retired-Dave** · 04-01-2005, 12:00 PM

Originally posted by Martin

Yes she knows how I feel about her. We have talked about it.
Never dated her. She's been with the same guy since high school.
No my boy doesn't know. How can you tell you best friend something like that.

That's deep. You don't think she told your friend about it?
Do you think its wrong to your friend?
Will you ever tell him?

**Semi-Retired-Dave** · 04-01-2005, 12:00 PM

Originally posted by UniversalPass Pete

Beacause we are idiots!

oh oh, bad experience buddy?

**beergood** · 04-01-2005, 12:27 PM

I'll probably get married when I get tired of cooking my own food or washing my own clothes. Also when my dog dies I'll need someone else to kick the shit out of. Wife sounds like a good target.

**tranza** · 04-01-2005, 12:36 PM

I used to think I was living with the love of my life: http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showthread.php?t=451067

But wtf do I know? I'm only 22.

**Holly** · 04-01-2005, 12:36 PM

I think I was on crack when I got married. I can't really remember... it's all a blur.

**Semi-Retired-Dave** · 04-01-2005, 12:37 PM

Originally posted by sheldonjuan

for me its when you can honestly say to yourself, "I'll never cheat on her!".
if you can say that its time to take the big step!

I can't stay single the rest of my life, I would never say that. Look at the biz we are in. That's a tough one.

**Semi-Retired-Dave** · 04-01-2005, 12:39 PM

It so sad reading some of your post but yet, they are so true.
What to do, what to do.

**Froey Twe** · 04-01-2005, 12:41 PM

Originally posted by Holly

I think I was on crack when I got married. I can't really remember... it's all a blur.

LOL

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