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Everytime me & my bf fight he says "men go to war", WTF?

03-22-2005, 03:23 AM

Everytime me and my bf get in an argument and he thinks that I am telling him what to do or if I disagree with him, he will always say that "men go to war" so that's why I should know my place and show him respect and not try to tell him what to do. It is the stupidest argument I have ever heard, because he HIMSELF has never ever BEEN in a war and he has never even joined the army.

But he always says that IF something ever were to happen, it is always the men that have to die (say if we got invaded by another country) so I better know my place that "I am just a bitch" (he means that I am a female) and not try to be a man. Does this make any sense at all to you?

And then he will say stuff that women think they can get away with everything nowadays, they sue men for sexual harassment (which he thinks they are exaggerating), and do all sorts of things "against" men, but it is the men who always have to die in war so " I am a bitch and I should know my place", and not try to tell him what to do.

Does this make sense at all or is he totally out there? I think it is the weirdest outlandish thing I have ever heard, I have never had a guy use an argument like that before, bringing shit like war into our own private arguments. He thinks just because men go to war I should be grateful that I don't have to, and therefore show him more respect and not tell him what to do or argue with him. Even though he has never been in war himself. I think he is retarded and taking credit for something he has never even been through.

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03-22-2005, 03:36 AM

He's right, shut up.
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03-22-2005, 03:49 AM

Tell him men go to war - women fuck thier best friends see how he likes that. lol

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03-22-2005, 03:52 AM

You both have issues. He has severe insecurities, and you bring your personal life to GFY.
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03-22-2005, 03:54 AM

It's better than the argument my wife uses. She just says, "because I said so."
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03-22-2005, 03:55 AM

If men go to war, and he has never been to war, is he really a man?

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03-22-2005, 03:57 AM

Originally posted by BRISK

If men go to war, and he has never been to war, is he really a man?

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03-22-2005, 03:59 AM

Originally posted by BRISK

If men go to war, and he has never been to war, is he really a man?

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03-22-2005, 03:59 AM

Stop whining and dump him already if he's such a pain.

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03-22-2005, 04:00 AM

WTF? Join him to the army and that's it!!

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03-22-2005, 04:03 AM

Originally posted by MrPheer

You both have issues. He has severe insecurities, and you bring your personal life to GFY.

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03-22-2005, 04:06 AM

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He's right, shut up.

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03-22-2005, 04:09 AM

Tell him to go to war so you can fuck other guys that act like men
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03-22-2005, 04:14 AM

Originally posted by TeenGodFather

Stop whining and dump him already if he's such a pain.

Precisely . . . not sure why you stay with the guy . . .are you that insecure?
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03-22-2005, 04:51 AM

didnt she start a similar thread already in the past?

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03-22-2005, 04:55 AM

Originally posted by alexg

didnt she start a similar thread already in the past?

the thread was slightly different. Now I am just asking specifically about this
comment that he made and nothing else. I did mention that he said this before, but i didn't specifically ask if that comment was "normal" or not. Maybe his opinion is valid, but I don't "get it" because I'm not a guy, who knows?

I know I have issues because I post about my personal life here, but I just want
to know if this is normal or not, because I don't know if it is. Apparently some guys on GFY think that it is normal.
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03-22-2005, 04:57 AM

Originally posted by phogirl69

the thread was slightly different. Now I am just asking specifically about this
comment that he made and nothing else. I did mention that he said this before, but i didn't specifically ask if that comment was "normal" or not. Maybe his opinion is valid, but I don't "get it" because I'm not a guy, who knows?

I know I have issues because I post about my personal life here, but I just want
to know if this is normal or not, because I don't know if it is. Apparently some guys on GFY think that it is normal.

Sweety, you really need to buy a clue. Aside from my sarcastic remark, I don't agree with him at all. You need to find yourself a man who can appreciate you for the person that you are. Your boyfriend sounds like a retard.

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03-22-2005, 04:59 AM

I'll say it again. Men are stupid. Get a dog.

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03-22-2005, 05:05 AM

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I'll say it again. Men are stupid. Get a dog.

Some men are dogs.
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03-22-2005, 05:09 AM

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Some men are dogs.

Hey, it's not really even that. There's a lot of great guys in this world. It's just that some girls need separation. They get too bogged down in the "idea" of love. They think a man is going to make everything all better. Girls like these need to step away from the men and get a nice dog.

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03-22-2005, 05:09 AM

The guy is right. You are his bitch now shut up get back in the kitchen!
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03-22-2005, 05:12 AM

Originally posted by titmowse

Hey, it's not really even that. There's a lot of great guys in this world. It's just that some girls need separation. They get too bogged down in the "idea" of love. They think a man is going to make everything all better. Girls like these need to step away from the men and get a nice dog.

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03-22-2005, 05:13 AM

Originally posted by TeenGodFather

Stop whining and dump him already if he's such a pain.

What he said. We're tired of hearing about this little loser boy.

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03-22-2005, 05:13 AM

Originally posted by MrPheer

You both have issues. He has severe insecurities, and you bring your personal life to GFY.

So...dump the idiot and get some friends in the real world that you can talk to. You'll feel better for doing both.

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03-22-2005, 05:18 AM

Originally posted by MrPheer

You both have issues. He has severe insecurities, and you bring your personal life to GFY.

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03-22-2005, 05:22 AM

the man is right, bitch!
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03-22-2005, 05:32 AM

Haven't you posted about 2 similar things here on GFY already? And as far as I know, women go to war too.
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03-22-2005, 05:34 AM

... I forgot to say that it's not normal. At least not in my world.
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03-22-2005, 05:36 AM

Hun you need to get rid of him.
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03-22-2005, 05:37 AM

sign him up to the reserves, and schedule information meetings regarding his upcoming service

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03-22-2005, 05:40 AM

so i have a question for you....
Why the fuck are you with him? lol
he sounds very strange.

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03-22-2005, 05:45 AM

Originally posted by TeenGodFather

Stop whining and dump him already if he's such a pain.

I'll have to agree on this one

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03-22-2005, 05:50 AM

if he starts using lines like that its time to quit... imagine how much worse it can get

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03-22-2005, 06:02 AM

this guy tells you you're a bitch and you should know your place and you're asking about his war comment? good luck with that, guess you'll figure it out when he's beating you and he accidentally kills you.

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03-22-2005, 06:31 AM

Women in the military is a double edged sword. Most of us look at the military as a job or even a profession, and women legally must be allowed a part of that. However, reality and the dirty side of war dictates this is not possible. Society dictates that "men must protect women", and the dirty side of war is that those we fight don't abide by the Geneva Convention. What happens when we go to war with women in combat roles, they get captured, and get knocked up while a POW?

Here's what you do with your b/f..... Make it your soul purpose in life to prove to him that you can do everything he can do - and make twice as much money in the process. Take care of him in every respect - cook for him, clean for him, please him in the bedroom. Then leave him - and rip his heart of his chest when you go.

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03-22-2005, 06:44 AM

Sounds like you haven't read the good wife guide.

I don't endorse a god damn thing......
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03-22-2005, 06:46 AM

What the bf is doing is NOT normal and its time to get a new partner, dog, whatever other than that idiot.
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03-22-2005, 06:55 AM

This guy has major problems and since you know it, and still stay with him, so do you.

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03-22-2005, 07:07 AM

Originally posted by baddog

Precisely . . . not sure why you stay with the guy . . .are you that insecure?

I have to second that.
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03-22-2005, 07:08 AM

Men go to war and take life.

Women give birth and give life.

Since procreation of the species is so important then I would think that having children is the more important aspect of life.

Both of you have a "place" but one is no better than the other in my opinion.

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03-22-2005, 07:18 AM

I would kick him in his balls and show him who the real bitch is.
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03-22-2005, 07:25 AM

Men go to war? What kind of lame ass thing to say is that?

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03-22-2005, 07:26 AM

this is nothing more than a cry for attention imo

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03-22-2005, 07:26 AM

i was three months into my last girlfriend when she started telling me what to do....

i told her to kick rocks
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03-22-2005, 07:28 AM

yep, you're dating a retard.

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03-22-2005, 07:28 AM

lose the zero and come with the heroe

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03-22-2005, 07:29 AM

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He's right, shut up.

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03-22-2005, 07:29 AM

tell him to stop watching far flick movies, it pollutes his mind.. lol
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03-22-2005, 08:12 AM

Originally posted by RocHard

Here's what you do with your b/f..... Make it your soul purpose in life to prove to him that you can do everything he can do - and make twice as much money in the process. Take care of him in every respect - cook for him, clean for him, please him in the bedroom. Then leave him - and rip his heart of his chest when you go.

I already do, I am the one who has been paying for EVERYTHING in the last 7 months, because he has no job. The thing is though that I am not a gold digger, I don't look for men who have "money" because I can take care of myself, and to be honest, I don't mind taking care of a man financially at all.

I was even going to help him get in the biz by starting him out submitting galleries or something like that and helping him to make some $. The only thing that I don't do is cook a lot, because that is my boyfriend's ultimate hobby. He LOVES to cook, and he is extremely picky about what he buys because he is a health nut, he always buys the most expensive organic ingredients that are 4x the regular price and he is so health conscious that he won't even freeze food, he has to buy fresh food everyday.

So one day I just told him to just buy regular food and buy a lot of stuff at one time so he doesn't make trips all the time because it is inconvenient. And then he said I am disrespectful and trying to change him, because food has always been important to him, and that I don't respect him, and that I am cheap even though to him I make decent money. So it escalated where he got real pissed and started throwing stuff around and saying i don't respect him because men go to war, and that i am trying to be a man because I always try and tell him what to do.

But the thing is that it's MY money he is using so I don't think it's SO bad that give him suggestions. If he doesn't like it, we can talk about it civilly, I don't really care THAT much about money, it's just that he has a VERY bad temper and started throwing stuff around and yelling, over something so trivial.

As for talking about my probs with people in real life, I have lots of people to talk to, I just don't want them to know by biz though, or know the things that we fight about it or how bad his temper can be because it is so private. It is weird but I feel better telling people who don't know me at all, because I feel they are less biased and I don't want people in real life to know my business.

But even though I pay for everything 95% of the time, he still gets upset just because I gave him a small suggestion of how to spend my money. He thinks that it is "our" money since we agree to be with each other long term, but I don't feel that it is so unreasonable. He made it seem like I "fucked him over" even though I have been basically supporting and feeding him and doing everything for him, even trying to get him in the biz and teach him everything I know!

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03-22-2005, 08:13 AM

Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday

I would kick him in his balls and show him who the real bitch is.

Listen to this women. She knows a few things about keeping men in line.

Also, remind your boyfriend that there are also female soldiers who go to war.

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