please do, i'm very interested in what you think after the first day or so... :)

just wait till you have to plan a wedding with her, lololol, gooooooood forbid

time to make this a mans thread again

facing what consumes you

Facing what consumes you is the only way to be free.
Released from those poisonous fears.
Resurrected once and for all.
You want me to hold my tongue,
Then why the fuck am I here?
You want me to bottle my rage,
Cause you never had the heart to say what I say.
My life, my body, my pride.
You have no opinion, no right.
I've built myself nothing like you.
My refusal is my way of life.

doubt me, DOUBT ME!,hate me,HATE ME!
You're the inspiration I need 3x

You're all the inspiration that i need.

Facing what consumes you is the only way to be free.
Though I'm still far from perfection.
I stay relevant, I'm still vigilante.
I have so much more to say.
I have so much more to fight for.
I've used your lack of expection.
As my awakening, its my ability to live forever
By my own command.
To be vehement, remain confident.

doubt me,DOUBT ME,hate me,HATE ME
You're the inspiration I need 3x

You're all the inspiration that I need.

Your doubt, it fuels me.
Your hate, it drives me.
The challenge ignites me.
You make me fight harder.

hope you make it this far

Your doubt, it fuels me.
Your hate, it drives me.
The challenge ignites me.
You make me fight harder.

:glugglug

she might be a gold digger

A lot of men make big mistakes by buying, spoiling there girl in the beginning.
Well it's your fault by doing that. Ofcourse she's gonna always want that
style. it's what she knows from you.

That's why it's so important for the first dates for you not to be so generous.
You need to make them feel that it's you that's important not what you do
for them.

I've been laid more times for nothing not spending a penny. If you are all
so nice with taking her to fine places, buying nice things in the beginning
that's what women will expect from you for evre.

I reccomend for you to be yourself in the beginning and make any women
feel that she's not all that by treating her like nothing....This will make
her come after you like no other.

just fom my exper..... :2 cents:

:glugglug

I feel it, but mine is a special situation: she's 3500 miles away finishing up some work so it's expensive even when we're not together ... and don't even talk about how much it costs to go over and see her .... :Oh crap

It's all worth it, though. She's the best.

GF's are very expensive. Dinnner, Movies, flower, "cute gifts", ect ect..... if you find a good one it's worth it, but finding a good one is hard sometimes. I got a good one now, but always seem to take the good ones for granted until they are gone...

http://www.tribuneindia.com/2003/200...ie%20sheen.jpg
:disgust

This I agree with

hahahah..... i though im the only one who experienced that.... but it seems i have a company :321GFY

You pay for that first dinner and from there you get owned! Also, learning to say "No" to woman is much better in the long run.

then you have a bad girlfriend.....

You have three girlfriends? Wow, you must be rich. :winkwink:

Suckers! Why do you guys let chicks get the upper hand on YOUR money?
It's just not right.

Having a girlfriend is not expensive at all. Unless yours is a hooker :pimp

haha, awesome :1orglaugh

my gf isnt expensive at all

no kidding :Oh crap :Oh crap :Oh crap :mad: :mad:

about fucking time you upgraded your 1970's nokia cell phone :thumbsup

next month 12th :thumbsup :Oh crap

ROFLMAO too cute

yes it is, it always empties my wallet

wait till you pop a kid out of her...then the fun really begins. Your wallet will develop permanent deep creases on the fold points.

Women are expensive to have in your life, but, definately worth every penny when you have a good one.

i know what ya mean, man. hopefully, you're girl is worth every penny.

my wallet opens for no one but me these days, and i find myself with a lot more disposable income lately :glugglug

what he said

This is a sad, sad thread.

How insecure and inadequate are you people to "need" to spend money on another to keep them around? Yea, gifts are expensive, but if it takes diamonds and expensive dinners to maintain a relationship, that's pretty fucking pathetic.

It's worse than the "$200 jean" thread I saw the other day. Fuck man. Fucking sad.

I love the sig but how did you find out about my homo erotic monkey fetish?

When I was spanking it to the lingerie section in the Sears catalog as a kid, a breeze suddenly blew the pages to a Curious George doll and I just kept spanking. Until you mentioned it just now, I thought all people had those homo erotic monkey fetishes. *shrug* :upsidedow

Too bloody true...

Her......... "Don't you want the best for our baby?"

Me......... "Not if it costs that much!"

For me, it's not a question of maintaining a relationship or keeping her around. It's a question of spoiling the fuck out of her.

I agree, sometimes its fuckin' cost alot more money then being alone !

Hmmm does she have her own money? Being me is expensive, but I can afford it. I don't expect anyone else to cough up the money for my designer wears, outings, travel etc.,. I prefer someone to keep up but not replace my spending habits with his cash....

Having a gf is expensive? I support my bf 90% He is VERY high maintenance.
.... I pay for all his daily food (he is picky too; will only eat seafood and salmon and vegetarian food, refuses to eat fast food, red meat, pork, etc...), I pay for all the bills in the house (electricity, cable tv and internet) , his oil change and tune-ups for his car, clothes, new lcd monitor for X-mas, vitamins (he is REALLY into vitamins, he takes them like 3x a day)

I also pay when we go to restaurants, and I pay for gas, his and mine!

Well, the thing is that when I met him he was unemployed. But he is looking for a job right now.... I am also teaching him to submit galleries so he can have some cash flow. As long as he can pay for his own damn food I'll be content...

It is only temporary until he can get up and running, but you guys aren't the only ones who have it bad...

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

And I bet he laughs his ass off every day....

No offense...

:error

Yes, but if ANYONE with $500 can have her, her value becomes 0

He couldn't work because he had a breakdown. I don't expect people who don't know me to understand my situation. Sometimes people need help, and it doesn't mean that they are laughing at someone who is giving them a hand. He just had some "issues" but whenever we got in a big fight and broke up and I bought up the money, he sold some of his old turntables and other equipment and paid me back right away and told me to never see him again after that.
So the point is that he paid me back right away when i was angry.

Oviously we got back together after that, but that proves right there that it's not about $.

here is a tip: if you really need to pay that much for a "girlfriend" better start looking for a real one...

This man is rigth on the money... :thumbsup

Yeah, that's straight fucked up.

hahahhaa

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Not as expensive as having an ex-wife

You need self sufficient girls :)

yeah right.. :thumbsup

They all claim to be 'self sufficient' & 'independent' and talk shit about they don't need no man.... but when shit hits the fan.. who do they turn to?