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fatal attraction · 03-07-2005, 11:28 PM

I had my old boyfriend from 9th grade call me today. Really strange!!!! He found me through classmates.com. After high school he got in a car accident and was in a coma, dreamt I was there and my phone number. As soon as he came out of the coma he called me. We dated(long distance) for awhile and he asked me to marry him, I said no. It's been at least 4 or 5 years since I've talked to him, now he wants me to meet him in Chicago for a weekend. I don't really know how I feel about it, it totally caught me by surprise! Do you ever get that feeling....what if?? I was a really rebelous teenager, and both our families wanted us to get married. So, there was no way in hell! LOL! It's had me thinking of old memories all day. Has anyone had anything like this come up before????? I'd love to hear some stories, advice! Thanks!

Sosa · 03-07-2005, 11:29 PM

that would be weird to get a call like that I think.

You decide what you want to do?

reynold · 03-07-2005, 11:30 PM

Nice story. Do you still love him?

Furious_Female · 03-07-2005, 11:34 PM

I don't have any interesting stories like this but sometimes you have to wonder if everything happens for a reason and the universe has a plan of its own. Go with your gut instinct... if you overanalyze you will drive yourself crazy.

LittleMack · 03-07-2005, 11:36 PM

Yo Lori, the girls I dated in Highschool I have no desire to ever talk to again, shit I was a punk back in the day.

Shoehorn! · 03-07-2005, 11:36 PM

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Originally Posted by fatal attraction

I had my old boyfriend from 9th grade call me today. Really strange!!!! He found me through classmates.com. After high school he got in a car accident and was in a coma, dreamt I was there and my phone number. As soon as he came out of the coma he called me. We dated(long distance) for awhile and he asked me to marry him, I said no. It's been at least 4 or 5 years since I've talked to him, now he wants me to meet him in Chicago for a weekend. I don't really know how I feel about it, it totally caught me by surprise! Do you ever get that feeling....what if?? I was a really rebelous teenager, and both our families wanted us to get married. So, there was no way in hell! LOL! It's had me thinking of old memories all day. Has anyone had anything like this come up before????? I'd love to hear some stories, advice! Thanks!

Interesting. Might as well meet up with him, might be good.

fatal attraction · 03-07-2005, 11:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Furious_Female

I don't have any interesting stories like this but sometimes you have to wonder if everything happens for a reason and the universe has a plan of its own. Go with your gut instinct... if you overanalyze you will drive yourself crazy.

My thoughts too! But, it's been so many years, since we've dated or even seen each other, it's kinda crazy!

fatal attraction · 03-07-2005, 11:40 PM

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Originally Posted by LittleMack

Yo Lori, the girls I dated in Highschool I have no desire to ever talk to again, shit I was a punk back in the day.

hahahahaha! I was a bitch back then! Told him I wouldn't marry him if he was the last man on earth!

Furious_Female · 03-07-2005, 11:46 PM

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Originally Posted by fatal attraction

My thoughts too! But, it's been so many years, since we've dated or even seen each other, it's kinda crazy!

Crazy is good! Keeps things interesting!

The Adult Broker · 03-07-2005, 11:49 PM

did he offer to fly you to chicago? if not, u can still go, don't have expectation. don't feel obligated, just go hook up and hang out. doesn't have to be heavy. but then again I don't know whole story.

and yes, I flew to chicago to meet 'the man' from long ago...it could have worked out, if I wanted to move back to chicago....and have another kid, which I didn't want either, so there u go....but it was fun, had a good time, and moved on with life.

mistress69 · 03-07-2005, 11:55 PM

theres a plan for all of us, things are not that random

fatal attraction · 03-07-2005, 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by mistress69

theres a plan for all of us, things are not that random

What does that mean exactly????

Zerof8 · 03-08-2005, 12:04 AM

well...my nick is zerofate so I obviously dont believe in fate. I have thought about all about the "what ifs" before though and they are interesting day dreams to have but no one can tell what could have been so its best not to spend too much time on it. Have you seen the butterflyeffect? its a good movie and it is kind of along the same lines.

fatal attraction · 03-08-2005, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Zerof8

well...my nick is zerofate so I obviously dont believe in fate. I have thought about all about the "what ifs" before though and they are interesting day dreams to have but no one can tell what could have been so its best not to spend too much time on it. Have you seen the butterflyeffect? its a good movie and it is kind of along the same lines.

I haven't seen it, but I'll be sure to rent it. I'm sorry, but you sound a little bitter or something??? I'm not a big believer in fate either, but when he remembered my number when he was in a coma...um, well, what else would you call it? And then after all these years him tracking me down again? I can't help but to think it's fate. Maybe I'm crazy! Not sure what to make of it actually

03-07-2005, 11:28 PM	#1
fatal attraction Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: where ever he is! Posts: 6,522	Do you ever wonder....what if??? I had my old boyfriend from 9th grade call me today. Really strange!!!! He found me through classmates.com. After high school he got in a car accident and was in a coma, dreamt I was there and my phone number. As soon as he came out of the coma he called me. We dated(long distance) for awhile and he asked me to marry him, I said no. It's been at least 4 or 5 years since I've talked to him, now he wants me to meet him in Chicago for a weekend. I don't really know how I feel about it, it totally caught me by surprise! Do you ever get that feeling....what if?? I was a really rebelous teenager, and both our families wanted us to get married. So, there was no way in hell! LOL! It's had me thinking of old memories all day. Has anyone had anything like this come up before????? I'd love to hear some stories, advice! Thanks!

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03-07-2005, 11:29 PM	#2
Sosa In Tushy Land Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Nebraska Posts: 40,149	that would be weird to get a call like that I think. You decide what you want to do?

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